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Sugar Tips: Casual Touch

Hi Lovelies, So here’s todays wisdom about how to better engage with your SD. So I am personally not sexual with my SDs - especially not right away - so I compiled a list of my tips that are ABSOLUTE must-dos to keep your SD interested. Even if you are sexual with your SDs, incorporating these will help advance your relationship with him:

1.  Go For The First Meet Hug

The first time you meet a POT, go for a hug. So this feels quite unnatural for me, so kudos if you would do this anyways. *Red Flag if he immediately becomes sexual/gropey during the hug.* This is better than a handshake and shows that you at least have interest in being near/around him. 

2. Casual Shoulder Brush

When you walk past your SD, either on your way to the ladies room, or past him on the couch, brush his shoulders with your hands. Stroke from one side to the other as you pass, lingering your fingers right before you let go. It’ll drive him crazy as it indicates you’re “holding onto him, even as you leave.”

3. Reunite With Your Hands

Again, when you return to your SD, you can do the shoulder brush again on your way back. But what I specifically do, is I reach out to squeeze his hand when I return. Or if I’m sitting next to him at a show/concert, I’ll rub my hand/shoulder against his upper arm. It’s a quick “hello again!” gesture that SDs typically love. 

4. Hold His Hand

Holding his hand is a simple intimate thing you can do with him. Even if you’re discreet, you can just do it in private (car, under table, etc). It’s a simple level of intimacy that is reassuring to him - a type of support he likely isn’t getting from anyone else. Idk, SDs just really like holding hands in my experience ☺️

5. Let Him Touch Your Leg

Whether you’re next to him in the car or holding hands under the table at a bar, I sometimes bring his hands to my thigh. It’s really comforting (and sexy!) to the SD because it’s a pretty intimate gesture. If they go for the thigh hold on their own (and you deem it appropriate!) I sometimes put my hand on top of theirs and squeeze it in a way that reassures “I like their hand on my thigh” (lol I don’t tho 😜🙄😝)

6. Casually Lightly Brush His Skin

So this is overall generic, but men are driven CRAZY by slight and casual touching. Crazy in a good way 😘 I’ll brush my hand past theirs if we are sharing popcorn at a movie. I’ll slightly brush past them with my arm if we are in a tightly cramped hallway and I need to get through. I will casually brush my foot against his leg under the table at a date. I’m telling you, casual contact is intoxicating for men ESPECIALLY SDs. 

Like I said, casual touching that’s not sexual is really enticing for men. Whether or not you get sexual with your SD, it’s a way to convey you like them enough to not mind being touched - think about it, you wouldn’t do that with a stranger, right? It also gives them a different type of intimate connection that they probably definitely don’t receive anywhere else.

Happy Sugaring,

SSL

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How to have a conversation about a topic you’re not interested in or don’t know anything about:

Listen to what the other person has to say about the topic.

Ask a question about what they said. Asking them to clarify or explain something you don’t understand is great, but any question will do. All else fails, ask them to explain what they like about some part of the topic.

Listen to their responses and go back to step 2.

Do this until 5-15 minutes has passed, then change the subject to a topic of your interest, unless you are actually interested in learning more on this subject, in which case, go on for as long as you like.

Sometimes, they will say something like “I’m sorry to blather on about [topic].” This is an attempt at a conversational dismount. You can either say “no, it was fascinating, thanks” and then bring up your own topic, or you can say “no, it’s fascinating, please keep going” if you want to keep hearing about their topic. Note the tense difference (past -> moving on, present -> keep going).

I just thought I’d write a script for this, because someone who can’t / won’t do this came up in a Captain Awkward column, and listening about topics you have no interest in is a really useful skill to have and not often explicitly taught, particularly to boys and men.

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