Pretty Like A Transgender 🏳️⚧️
Being alive is such a privilege. You get to see things like this
IF THE ROUTINE NO LONGER SERVES, YOU MUST ALTER THE PATTERN, WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR?? YOUR LIFE STARTS WITH YOU
The idea that a man can only treat a woman right so long as that's his "dream woman" or the "woman for him" while treating his previous placeholders poorly is a horrible and detrimental lie. This lie that so often gets perpetuated online is particularly harmful because it places the blame for the man's actions on the woman he's with, rather than tackling the toxic and immature character of the man.
A man doesn't treat you right not because you aren't his "dream girl", but because his moral and ethical grounds are rotten. You deserve so much better than that and the true colors these toxic men are able to hide with the women they claim to really like eventually come to the surface in the long term.
life becomes so beautiful when you start cooking rice in liquids other than water
Can't stand how people need me to like what they clearly love. like babe if you like it i love it, why would i rain on your parade.
Watching Mad Men. Men throughout time do not change. Especially men in power. Lessons to be learned if you can stomach the violent misogyny
dolce & gabbana fw rtw 1995
What I want is who I am. and the discomfort of becoming is necessary.
May every single blog that touts self improvement but posts mean shit about never making progress never know peace.
So many of yall will couch it in “i post it for me”. Quite literally learn to shut the fuck up.
Pondering the self this afternoon
Beauty is ritual
Beauty is bait
Beauty is a skill
Is that sprinkle sprinkle woman an ex sw?
No Clue. I just know the advice she gives is only useful when you are tricking/whoring.
Shera7 is giving sex work advice. DO NOT sprinkle sprinkle your way into financial abuse
I am always inches away from starting a FSSW-only discord group. Always.
I miss the true whores 🥲
Beauty can only exist by exclusion much like whiteness. The more horizontal (more groups) beauty gets the more hyper specific beauty becomes because to include everyone would be negating the very point of beauty as a construct. If there are no ugly features/traits there are no beautiful ones.
There's something so fascinating about the way female beauty and what makes a woman beautiful are discussed in older books. Reading works like Ars Amatoria and studying fashion history helped 17 year old me realize that beauty and the pursuit of it doesn't have to be shallow, and you - both as a witness of it and as its owner - are the one who decides how much depht it has
5/16/2022
Eid Mubarak to all you lovely humans celebrating. May your days be filled with all the love and happiness that you deserve ☾☀︎︎❣︎
unstoppable force (wanting to be the kindest version of myself) vs immovable object (all the anger and hatred I have inside myself)
Some people naturally submit to people of a particular cadence or demeanor and I find that so unattractive I cant take submisiveness serious.. if someone acts pathetic thats exactly how I'm going to percieve them and I dont get having a fetish for that even though I'm a dominant personality type you'd think I want to lead situations and stuff but I dont. Especially when forced into it bc nobody else has a confident bone in their body.. like I didnt even consent to all this responsibility but no one else is going to do it so. I just prefer bouncing off a fellow dominant person. Only narcs/sociopaths seek out & want to be around submissive personalities
Every-time the right to choose is used as proof feminism won an angel looses its wings.
I can't believe that in the year of our lord 2023 there's still people that think any choice made by a woman is necessarily feminist because that woman had the possibility to make it😭. I feel like if you sat in silence for 5 minutes and used a crumb of immagination you'd be immediately able to see that there are countless scenarios where that's absolutely not the case.
This is quite literally what i meant when i said men wouldn’t know what beauty is if it bit them.
The outline of desirable traits that guides their attraction lacks enough specificity to allow them to experience individual beauty (beauty is in details imo).
A lot of problems would be resolved if men raised - or moreso, personalized - their standards. All these "she has to have <4 bodies" and "she has to be ✨️submissive and feminine✨️" are shallow (and useless) ways to fix the root problem, which is that men don't know what they like and pick their partners based on other men's standards, settling for women they barely like and making everyone involved miserable in the process.
Instead of spending your time riding podcaster dick, trying to gauge what makes a woman objectively better than the next, you could... dare I suggest... sit with yourself for a moment, do some introspection (*gasp*) and find out what specific things make YOU like a woman and put her in a different category than the rest.
Yeah, you don't want a whore, you don't want a old hag over the ancient age of 26, you don't want a fatty, you don't want her to wear the pants, you don't want her to be loud, wah-wah, but a woman *not* being all of those things isn't automatically going to make her right for you.
We are not even going to get into how so many of these standards are more about what makes you feel insecure and not about what you are attracted to or endeared by. Into how there's actually plenty of men attracted to old women, fat women, promiscuous women, or dominant women who will chase down a cute thin blonde and, granted they manage to cuff her, spend their married life cheating on her.
Most men are going to spend the first half of their life looking for those "ideal" qualities and nothing else, end up settling for the closest thing they can get to what they are taught is the ideal woman (which often is just the first poor soul they managed to snatch off the streets once they noticed they are starting to bald - they love to talk about how we can't all marry rich men, yet they think there's an attractive under 21 virgin with a pleasant personality for all of them), and changing that poor woman's life for the worst.