Alycia: I've Been The Worst Not Checking In, But I Wanted To See How You And The Family Were Doing? I

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ALYCIA DEBNAM-CAREY Hair styled by Brad Mullins ahead of the Netflix Now Streaming event on February 6th 2025

those people don't matter. the only person that matters is you, and you've always treated me like i was the most important thing to you, and that means more to me than you will ever know. you made it very difficult not to fall in love with you, and let me tell you i tried not to. i was afraid i'd get hurt again, and i deprived myself of years of happiness because of that fear. i don't want that fear to define my future or my happiness anymore. i just know that i want you. if you will have me. that future that you see for yourself? i see it too. a beautiful gothic wedding, a couple of blonde haired, blue eyed babies that look just like you. it's very achievable, and i'm so willing to give you that life.

Yeah? I'm happy to hear that I've always made you feel like a queen when you're with me, darling, because that's how you should always feel. Plus, you know how much it pisses me off when I think about all the people that have treated you poorly or haven't treated you like you deserved to be treated. And you should never be made to feel like a last option, you know that, love. Well, I don't think the rest of the world would be ready if I showed up wearing nothing at all, darling, so we'll keep that for your eyes only. You're the best hype woman, there's no doubt about that, and you always make me feel more sure of myself. You love my ears? Though I approve of you thinking they're nibble-worthy, of course. I'd say the same for me, but I've not been lying to myself. I've known what I've felt for you, I just haven't felt like I could tell you because it would ruin things. And that's what I told myself, that I'd rather have you in whatever way I could than not have you at all, so I'd just shut up and take whatever you were willing to give. I just didn't think you saw me as anything more than your friend Jamie, who made you feel better sometimes, you know? But it makes me happy hearing I'm the person you always come to when you're happy or you get good news, and very happy I'm who you come to for comfort. You've been my person for years now, darling, that's something I've known and honestly accepted a while ago. I do the same thing when it comes to my future, and I'll admit I've been thinking about my future and settling down a lot, and you're who I see that with. Until now I just told myself it was an unachievable dream.

alycia: sometimes you have to take some time apart before you come back and drop the best album of all time. you all did great as solo artist, but you work so well as a group. i'm excited to hear what you have in the works once it's ready. i am so excited to be part of the monster verse. i grew up watching those films with my dad, so to be cast in one of the films is so surreal. plus i get to work with kaitlyn dever and sam neill? legendary.

luke: it's kind of crazy to think that all 4 of us now have solo projects out. i'm hoping having that outlet will make this our best album yet. as soon as we have something ready to drop, you'll be one of the first to know. godzilla?? damn, look at you go. haven't seen those films since the one where bryan cranston was eaten. or maybe that was king kong? i can't remember. either way -- congrats!

debnamcarey: you tell my husband that i love him. @.oliverstark

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alycia: i am a terrible friend. it took me 84 years to finally watch the boys, but oh my god you are so hot as a super hero? can i even put you into the category of a superhero? anti-hero? either way, you are hot. i'm proud of you. keep killin' it. @jeackls

exactly! maybe the little terror gene will skip my kids and go straight to my brothers kids. it's what he deserves for being a pain in my ass for so long. i can understand that. i feel like modeling is much harder to get work, especially after a certain point because the standards that have been set for us, especially women, they feel like a woman can't still be sexy once she turns thirty. that's why i'm so thankful the little bit of modeling i do is for work related photoshoots. i don't think i could cut it in that side of the business long term. that is understandable. hopefully you both can make it, and if not i will carry you both with me in spirit. oh definitely, i think at this point they come as a packaged deal. i've heard that i have a whole heap of people i have to battle for that spot, but i'm fully prepared to duke it out. regardless if you sound like your mum, it's sound advice. i actually have been letting life just happen, and i think it finally threw me a bone— a whole bag of them actually. i think that's a fair deal. i love the way you look at it though. it is just a piece of paper, and it has no real substance to the love that you have for your partner.

that is absolutely right! they will be your little terrors and nobody else could call them little terrors but you because you had to birth them and raise them. haha but i seriously couldn't see you having anything close to a nightmare of a child. you're far too sweet for that. oh most definitely! i feel like it keeps you on your toes. i had a similar situation with modeling. especially after i stepped back from Victoria's Secret. i haven't really had a loss for work but there was a brief period where i wasn't sure of where it was going to come from, especially after i had Elijah. i hide my bumps pretty well but it does get pretty hard to do some of these shoots when you're six to eight months pregnant and about to pop. oh most definitely! if we can, we definitely will be there. i'm sure he'll make the time regardless. i just have to be in NYC a good nine point nine tenths of the time because i've got the boys and i can't just up and move out to Los Angeles. he has been the greatest discovery of 2025 yet. well, him and this little one. but i can kind of lump those two together, right? makes sense? i wouldn't have one without the other. you and Lucy are definitely going to be rivaling at that one. she's already trying to make arrangements to camp out at my place in NYC and feel all up on the little slice. i completely understand you there. but i definitely recommend just going with the flow of things and letting it happen when it happens. don't let time get in your way of doing the things that make you happy just on your own while you are still young. good lord i'm talking like my mother now. i'll make you a deal. how about we all focus on the slice for now and once they're born we can then start obsessing over the engagement ring. i hope he doesn't think that is going to be necessary before i have this little one. because there is absolutely no rush in that from me. i'd be just fine if we never got married. it's just a piece of paper at this point. it doesn't really prove how much love two people have for each other. that can't be shown on paper.

is that why you go so long without talking to me? you get some sick, twisted satisfaction from being missed? such a sick man, teller. and here i was about to invite you out for a debnam-carey home cooked meal. you only have yourself to blame for missing out on that.

damn, i should've reached out to you a lot sooner. i love being missed, gives me little butterflies in my tummy. hated you? pfft, even you can't believe that. i'm just a forgetful dude, and it's my cross to bear. your parents house is in australia and i'm imagining it includes free homecooked meals, so i'd say that's pretty damn jealousy-inducing. i'm actually off this week but i'm working for my drink company instead. i'm in basel for eurovision and doing my best to sell booze here. very hard life, totally suffering.

alycia: i know that's right. sometimes it's best to walk away for a little while so you all could get the space you needed. its never easy when you have that many opinions going around at once. i have worked with her. i just recently worked with her actually.

luke: exactly. it's good to explore different sounds without the input of three other people. healthy for the band too. can't wait to see what they do with your character in this verse. you've worked with kaitlyn before, haven't you? swear i've seen something that starred you both.

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your energy — it's this beautiful mix of elegance and quiet fire. you walk into a room and people feel you before they even see you. there's something so magnetic about the way you carry yourself—graceful, but with an edge. your talent — watching you act is like watching someone breathe—it's so natural, but so powerful. you bring so much soul and nuance to every character, it’s unreal. you don’t just play roles, you become them, and it’s honestly mesmerizing to watch. your softness — you have this calm, warm presence that makes people feel safe just being around you. it’s in your smile, your laugh, the way you listen like you actually care. you’re one of those rare people who feels like a deep breath after a long day. also, side note: your accent? dangerous. please don’t talk to me unless you’re prepared for me to melt into the floor.