That Is Sweet. I Don't Have Any Sort Of Hope That I'll Ever Make It Big Enough To Join The MCU, But If

the universe hates to see us winning, and by winning i mean being in each others lives. how long do you plan to be in london? i'm going to be in the UK here soon for an extended period of time. coming to spend some time with a special friend, so if you happen to be in town we have so much to catch up on. maybe even toss in a little gossip.

I miss you so much it’s actually rude at this point. Honestly, you’re right. It has been way too long and I hate that our lives have turned into a game of schedule Tetris. I just wrapped in London and I’ve got a glorious little window of freedom before my next project kicks off, so yes to dinner. Yes to catching up. Yes to all of it.

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ALYCIA DEBNAM-CAREY Hair styled by Brad Mullins ahead of the Netflix Now Streaming event on February 6th 2025

i'll be honest with you i hate the whole influencer culture. a lot of them deserve their platform, but some of them just irk me. it might be an unpopular opinion, but it's mine nonetheless. you can tell the ones in the crowd did not have parents who introduced them to the classics, and if they did then they should be ashamed for not paying tribute to one of the greatest living legends. imagine coming out on live stage, playing your entire soul to that crowd, and they give you a mid reaction at best? i couldn't relate. i would have been sat— front and center. you may not be freddie, and no one could ever be as legendary, but you are phenomenal, and i think you have such potential to be the greatest of your generation. i didn't go. i'll be honest i've never been to one. i'd love to go, but definitely not to coachella. i love more of the less sought out festivals. those are always the most fun.

i know coachella is known as the influencer olympics but i was so bummed that people don't realize what a gift sir brian is. a guitar virtuoso, an astrophysicist and one of the most legendary names rock history. plus, he's recovering from a medical event and he still played like that?? geez, he deserves his flowers so much. oh gosh, that's so kind of you to say. i had this crazy idea of wanting to play the song and trust me, i had so many people tell me i was a headcase for it but i think it paid off. i know i'm not freddie, there's literally no one that can ever match that man but i still had the best time showing respect to a band that i grew up listening to. did you go the coachella this year? are you usually a festival goer?

i do hope to have kids someday. i never gave it much thought until recently, but the more i witness my friends starting and expanding their families, it really has me thinking about that for myself. i do hope that i don't birth little terrors, but i suppose if i do have little chuckies, i'll love them just the same. it's the nature of this business, unfortunately, but it's also the most exciting part? it helps me not remain complacent, and i always fight for the next job. thank you! if you and oliver are up to it when it premieres, i would love for you both to be there. i want all of my favorite people in attendance for the big moment. i think that is a very natural way to feel, but sometimes the best things happen to us when we least expect it. he might still be young and a family may not have been on his radar at the moment, but i'm a firm believer that when you find the right person none of that matters. the way he talks about you, you are definitely his person. you already know that i'm going to be there! i'm trying my best to win title of the best auntie, so i gotta start while the little bean is still in the womb. you are right. i guess i just want to find someone so i can grow old with them. i don't want half of my life to be over before i find it. that's fair— but i'm gonna keep an eye out for that diamond ring instagram post.

i really did. they're spectacular kids. i lucked out but i highly doubt that your little ones, if you choose to have any, will be monsters! they will definitely test your patience, i'll promise you that one. but i can't see them being awful. i bet it was! that's a lot of pressure to have on anyone, not knowing when their next job is going to show up if at all. but i am so happy that you have something to do and look forward to! it's definitely going to be a fantastic time for you, i'm sure! i am looking forward to seeing it as soon as it comes out! i did, it was wonderful! you really did shine so bright in that role. so i just want you to know that all of your hard work paid off. i know that, i knew in the back of my mind that he wouldn't head for the hills but i didn't want him to feel like he absolutely had to stay if he didn't want to. he's still young and there is plenty of time for him to have a whole life and a family down the road, all of this was very quick and i didn't want him to feel like he was losing a huge portion of his life. but i am extremely happy that he's going to stick around and we're both excited to find out what our little slice of bread is going to be next month! i really do hope that you'll come to the gender reveal party! i know Oliver would just be so upset if you didn't. i won't say that i've been burned but i really just wasn't looking to get back into the dating world after my divorce and so it took me a bit longer to get back out there. i'm glad that i did though. you're still young yourself, i know i talk about this like we all aren't around the same age but there is always time. one of my friend's grandmothers remarried at like sixty. so there is always time to find your true love. i won't jump to weddings just yet. how about we get this little piece of toast out of me first and then we'll jump into that one.

i couldn't even imagine trying to do anything like that with 3G. i'd throw my hands up and forget about it at that rate. at least you are trying to make your voice known. most artists, at least from where i stand, don't really seem too vocal about their fans being literally robbed with ticket prices. or maybe it's happening behind closed doors, who knows. i just know it's not fair to the artist or the fans that they are pocketing money off of someone else's lively hood. that is exciting! i should be home around that time for the holidays, so i can make it a whole debnam-carey family affair. i know my brother and my father would love to go. my mum isn't big on crowds, but she does love your music so maybe i could convince her as well. he does a lot of blues music mostly? he is very old school with the type of music he plays. my brother on the other hand is in a pop group called cosmic spice, and it sort of gives off the fun, 80's pop music vibe.

God, I don't envy people who have 3G and are trying to make Ticketmaster happen, that's for sure. I'm doing my best to make my voice heard but with everything else going on, sometimes things just get delegated to someone else and... yeah, that's my explanation, at least. I'll send you over the dates! We just announced we'll be in Aus in December, actually, I cannot wait. It's going to be hot as hell but that's what the ice baths afterward are for. What kind of music does your dad perform? I have all of the questions about fellow musicians, be ready.

oh, it was definitely a waste of time. that's what happens when you follow a boy around only to have him ghost you right after. but it's his loss, not mine. i just think you are putting a lot of pressure on my shoulders here, but i guess if i've been deemed the bills good luck charm then i should proudly own that title. i'll do you one better, i'll actually go to a game this year. just send me the game dates and i'll try and attend as many of them as i can.

Come on, I bet it wasn't a waste of time. Where did you go? Listen, it's because I know you're going to help us win. It wasn't a fluke! It's going to happen again, trust me. We didn't really lose any games once you started to pay attention to the games last season, so if I tell you when they are will you pay attention to them this upcoming season too?

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i think so. i think that's when it starts to feel real for most people, unless mama feels the active kicks all the time. how far along is she? how much time do you have to prepare? oh, they are very lucky. i'm gonna be sending so many care packages.

that is probably really true. i think when i hear that heart beat it will start to feel more and more real. how lucky are we to have auntie alycia spoiling our newest little nugget? very lucky so lucky

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