full offense but men earned their so-called loneliness epidemic.
call me a misandrist. i don't care. i used to give the libfem ''patriarchy hurts men too'' spiel and how that somehow excuses them for their social ineptitude. but i'm done. men absolutely brought this onto themselves. every conversation about it is just men soiling their pants over the unfairness over it all and not-so subtly implying that it's yet another issue for women to fix. because hell forbid men get a grip on the concept of self-critique and personal growth without women's emotional labour to guide them.
a factor in men's loneliness is their refusal to actually form meaningful connections with anyone, including each other. wail ''nobody cares about men'' until you're blue in the face, but truthfully, men don't even care about men.
a man will dismiss women's friendships with each other as petty, fake and silly but in the same breath he'll admit that he doesn't even know his bros. not their favourite colours, political views or worst fears. not even their surnames or birthdays. men even seem to take pride in this, like it's some quirky and hilarious male trait that women couldn't possibly understand.
if there's no meaningful discussion, no confiding and comforting and if you don't even know each other, you don't have a friendship, you have an acquaintance. and a circle of acquaintances around you is never going to fill your emotional cup.
so men, if you're lonely, make friends with each other. compliment each other. or don't, remain lonely for all i care. just leave women out of the mess you created and refuse to clean up.
we dont need male allies. womyn make of the population, and men have NEVER liked feminism thats not because of "misandrists", its because they dont want to give up their power and dont see womyn as equal.
coddling men and letting them put their problems into feminism wont make them allies, itll just dissolve feminism till its a movement for everyone instead of our own.
men would NEVER defend you on this like you defend them, especially as a feminist!
the idea that men should be included in feminism is actually insane. why would womyn include their oppressors in a movement for their liberation?? if men didn't exist, we wouldn't need feminism!
as a fellow teenage radfem don't let the creeps get to you, they are the weird ones for harassing a kid as a grown adult <3
thank youu <3
hi omg i just wanted to say its so awesome to see another teenage radfem! it feels like there isn’t really a lot of us, much love <3
HII theres definitely a scarcity of us here yeah 😭 <3
This is why I don’t give a fuck when people say it’s mean for me to want all those with a Y chromosome to do forced military service and die in war. Because now they’re wasting all our resources to go on the internet and say pedophilic shit like this.
The social coercion women face to date people they’re not attracted to is fucking insane. I remember distinctly thinking “well, I can just force myself to be attracted to him…”
Films, books, etc, all show the trope of beautiful woman and unattractive man. There is still the myth that an unattractive man will treat you better than an attractive one (more women are waking up to this, but still). Even now the left thinks that activism happens between the legs of women.
Don’t date people you’re not attracted to. Don’t feel guilty for not giving them the time of day. No means no.
this is actually insane to say lmfao men get the benefit of the doubt like 100% of the time
If you're going to give a woman the benefit of the doubt for something you'd condemn a guy for, then you need to reflect on why that is
there are countries that ban girls from getting an education so i really don't give a fuck if some boys have a hard time at school because they don't want to behave and do their work
my friends defending the men they date
He could be sweet if you completely erased his entire personality and exchanged it for a different one