OP is a self-admitted TERF, smashing that subscribe button per usual
the greatest minds of our generation are posting on r/meth if anyone cares
umm please dont @ me in stuff about sex im 13? and dont call me queer lol
made me think of some of you <3
TIL men who like getting to know the womyn they have sex with are actually also super oppressed and endangered and definitely not just straight men who want to be special.
if you think otherwise, youre a fascist bigot and a DANGER TO QUEER PEOPLE!
my coworker told me hes "straight but maybe demisexual" and i explained that a man who is only sexually attracted to women he personally knows is still, by all definitions, heterosexual and he seemed a little disappointed by the news
100% i think if porn advertisements werent a thing porn addiction in teens would be less of a problem. thats how alot of teen boys are introduced to it.
It’s my business when men are forcing their girlfriends into anal sex. It’s my business when women are getting surgeries on their labia and breasts so they can look like model’s in playboy, its my business because young girls are being forced to act out porn scenes with their first boyfriends in case their boyfriends leave them or stop thinking that they’re hot, it’s my business when men are so gorged on porn they think a woman who doesn’t send nude pictures is weird, its my business when men are taking up-skirt photos and groping women, it’s my business when women are being forced to have sex without condoms so that it will feel better ‘for men’, because there are no condoms in porn scenes, its my business when women are lying and faking their orgasms because porn has taught men that sex is about THEIR pleasure, and that sex is just endlessly pumping their dick into a woman over and over again, it’s my business when I can’t look up anything on the internet without coming across advertisements for porn, its my business when I can’t look up any information on my sexual orientation without being overrun by porn even with the safe search on. Its my business, its my business, its my fucking business.
saying becoming genderfluid was when you stopped trying to force yourself into conventional womyn standards is odd to be common within 'progressive' communities because those traditional beauty standards arent actually based on any fact. you shouldnt base your womynhood on if you like makeup or dresses or long hair because they are all stereotypes.
i dont believe most womyn actually like being 'feminine'. heels are uncomfortable, makeup is time consuming and difficult, dresses/skirts require you to sit awkwardly in order to not flash people, etc..
saying you arent a womyn because you dont conform to harmful stereotypes is just affirming them in a different way.
being a gnc womyn is powerful. you dont have to not identify as a womyn to not conform to toxic beauty standards.
bitch is a slur & i dont think you know what minority means? why would trans identified males be the smallest minority ever that doesnt even help your point LMAO
+ real womyn are killed just for existing, have their bodies constantly in others conversations, and are generally targeted. id really research femicide. its a really important issue that isnt getting nearly enough coverage atm, especially cases outside the west
I would like to send all @cuttingcherub fans a large "no u"
no, literally!! they genuinely piss me off so bad because they’re over here playing the victim “bitch is a slur 🥺” “trans people don’t understand what being targeted is like 😣” while theyre literally sending threats and insults to any trans person they see and anyone defending the trans community. like babe, you’re not the victim.. you’re the abuser.. and to say that trans women don’t know what being targeted is like while they’re one of the smallest, if not THE smallest minority ever, who have been killed for just existing, have their bodies constantly in others conversations, and are targeted everyday, is genuinely just the most self centered take ever. these terfs pretend to be feminists when in reality they’re just a group with internalized misogyny and a hatred for women who are doing better than them…
the moment a man uses the word bitch to insult a womyn i loose ALL respect for him.
if society actually took womyns oppression seriously, bitch would be considered a slur. its been used to degrade womyn for literally hundreds of years now. it existed for over 4 centuries as a way to degrade and silence womyn but 20 years ago its reclaimed and suddenly everyone can use it?
western men forget that womyn were ever oppressed, even though it wasnt long ago that womyn everywhere were slaves to men.
full offense but men earned their so-called loneliness epidemic.
call me a misandrist. i don't care. i used to give the libfem ''patriarchy hurts men too'' spiel and how that somehow excuses them for their social ineptitude. but i'm done. men absolutely brought this onto themselves. every conversation about it is just men soiling their pants over the unfairness over it all and not-so subtly implying that it's yet another issue for women to fix. because hell forbid men get a grip on the concept of self-critique and personal growth without women's emotional labour to guide them.
a factor in men's loneliness is their refusal to actually form meaningful connections with anyone, including each other. wail ''nobody cares about men'' until you're blue in the face, but truthfully, men don't even care about men.
a man will dismiss women's friendships with each other as petty, fake and silly but in the same breath he'll admit that he doesn't even know his bros. not their favourite colours, political views or worst fears. not even their surnames or birthdays. men even seem to take pride in this, like it's some quirky and hilarious male trait that women couldn't possibly understand.
if there's no meaningful discussion, no confiding and comforting and if you don't even know each other, you don't have a friendship, you have an acquaintance. and a circle of acquaintances around you is never going to fill your emotional cup.
so men, if you're lonely, make friends with each other. compliment each other. or don't, remain lonely for all i care. just leave women out of the mess you created and refuse to clean up.