A terrible habit i've picked up on is complementing advice.
I love advice, and when its good and relevant and in a format I can understand well, I genuinely appreciate and encourage it.
So in response, i'll be like, "that's a good one" or "ooh i wouldn't have thought of that", etc. and idk where the line when it starts to sound more condescending than grateful is???
It doesn't help that i have this tone of voice that i have been told multiple times sounds 'permanently sarcastic', which is a whole other can of worms...
I guess accepting advice this is just one of those skills i have to put conscious effort into improving whenever the opportunity arises, until one day it'll just become part of my good communication repertoire! Excited for that :)
jon looking for connections between the statements vs elias choosing which spooky little gossip to drop on georgie's doorstep
so basically Vox sang a song welcoming Alastor back? Like nobody cared/knew that he had returned Except for Vox who broadcasted the announcement which is like the equivalent of throwing a welcome parade.
This is why I keep a notebook beside my bed. The issue is that then that idea remains in the notebook until I accidentally re-discover it weeks later. And by then I’m just ‘not feeling it anymore’. One time I actually gave in, sat up and wrote all night. It was glorious.
And then... by the time I wake up... I've FORGOTTEN ALL OF IT.
Achievement unlocked: become someone’s arch nemesis
Mark the date as October 2024
did you know that you shouldn’t yell at your kids if they did something wrong accidentally/ because of things outside their control? Revolutionary
not ignoring you not replying to you but a secret third thing
in one of my old WIPs:
‘This is about me being aromantic NOT dramatic, in case you forgot your own sexuality’
my younger self was such a sassy bloke lmao
(younger me is me from a few months ago)
(she/her) Generic loves writing but does an engineering degree gal.
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