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Interview: Improving his behaviour with chastity and spanking

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Chastity and Spanking - Interview with a reader

Improving his behaviour with chastity and spanking, thank you for one of our readers for sharing the real life story of behaviour

"(182) While we are Florida, my sub, Butler has only been allowed one release every Saturday after his discipline session. I think that is customary in the S&M world for a slave to release after his whipping should he be allowed to do so................. Last Saturday, just to keep things interesting I made him release BEFORE I whipped him. Later, after his discipline, he begged me not to do it that way again. He said my crop hurt twice as much. I understood. Before an orgasm, a male has so many powerful endorphins surging through his body that the crop doesn't hurt nearly so badly. However, after an orgasm, a male is weak and defenseless..................... The more he begged the more interested I became in using the crop on him after his release. He pleaded with me to pity him. My body responded to his piteous requests in the usual manner- by soaking my panti................... Yeah, I'm like that. Be careful about the kind of woman for whom you dream. She might appear.........Get my movie made!" Ms Lane

Why Would a Submissive Want to Become a Service Sub?

For some submissives, pleasure isn’t all about whips, chains, and dungeons. Instead, it’s found in more subtle acts of service, like preparing a delicious meal, folding laundry just right, or fetching the perfect cup of coffee for their dominant. A service submissive gets off on making their dominant’s life easier, knowing that they are appreciated for their hard work, dedication, and attention to detail.

Imagine the sense of fulfillment when you know that your dominant relies on you to keep their day-to-day life running smoothly. For a working sub, this is where the real satisfaction lies. And let’s be real—who wouldn’t want to feel useful, needed, and oh-so-rewarded by their dominant’s gratitude (and maybe a little extra “reward” at the end of the day)?

How is Pleasure Derived from These Actions?

In a BDSM dynamic, pleasure doesn’t always come from direct physical acts. For a working sub, pleasure is more mental and emotional—it’s about being useful, serving, and anticipating the dominant’s needs. The satisfaction of completing tasks and knowing that you’ve improved your dominant’s day gives a rush that can be just as intense as any scene in the dungeon.

When the dominant appreciates their service, even with something as simple as a “Good job” or “You’ve pleased me,” the working sub feels fulfilled. It’s like a gold star on a homework assignment, but with much sexier undertones.

Just wish to see how much of a support this statement can get.