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50 Ways to Lead Your Luvr
For the new Dommes out there who just don’t know where to start, or have trouble thinking of ways to project dominance, here are some fairly tame ideas you can use to get things going, and have him submit to you. As the Domme, you set the pace, so take your time and keep it fun.
Start out with a few that you like and see how he responds to them. When you feel comfortable proceeding, add others and come up with your own ideas. If you really enjoy any of them and want them to continue, make it into a rule.
1. Order him to massage your feet with foot lotion, anytime you please.
2. You decide when it’s time for him to get a haircut. He never gets one without your permission.
3. Whenever going out together, you decide who drives.
4. Sneak up to him randomly and slip a blindfold, or a hood on him. It stays on until you remove it.
5. As your sub, he should be pleasing to the eye. Any clothing he wears must be approved by you. Make him give to charity anything that you don’t approve of or cut them up into dust rags.
6. Protect him from any critisism from others. As his domme, only you are allowed to critisize him.
7. Randomly order him to stay in his pyjamas for the entire day. Everybody likes to stay in their pyjamas all day once in a while when nothing’s going on but it’s a little different if your are forbidden to get dressed. Make him your pyjama boy for a day.
8. Teach him that you value his input when making decisions, but final decisions are yours to make, alone.
9. He is to greet you at the door everytime you come home to him. Anything you purchased, he will fetch from the vehicle. You only carry your purse into the house, or make him carry it in as well.
10. Make it a habit to grab a handfull of his hair and gently tug it whenever you kiss him.
11. Teach him to always communicate with you in a submissive manner. He never interrupts you whenever you speak. However, you may interrupt him anytime you please, and he must be quiet instantly and listen whenever you do. Never allow him to use sarcasm, ever. He follows all conversation and never tries to change the subject. He never raises his voice at you for any reason. Keep a ballgag handy to punish any improper communication.
12. Have him go down on you, anytime, anywhere you please.
13. Create a no standing rule for urination in your home. If at any time you decide that a toilet isn’t clean enough for your standards, he must scrub it immediately, anytime day or night.
14. Whenever he enters your vehicle, he needs your permission to exit it. He doesn’t ask. If you leave the vehicle he just sits and waits unless you tell him “come along dear’ or something similar.
15. Randomly order him to get naked immediately, and he will need your permission to get dressed again.
16. Are there any words that annoy you? Tell him to never use that word, ever again. Make him keep a list of them and anytime you hear him say a word you don’t like, make him add it to the list. You can make him choose another word to replace it, or you can insist he uses a specific word.
17. Only you may initiate mouth kissing. If he wants to kiss you, make him kiss your hand, or foot. You decide if it leads to mouth kissing.
18. As his Domme, you deserve to have his complete undivided attention, so make him keep his eyes on you whenever you speak. If he looks away, stop what you are saying, grab his chin and turn his face back towards yourself and say “EYES ON ME WHEN I’M SPEAKING” in a firm but gentle voice, and pick up the discussion where you left off.
If you ever feel he hasn’t been listening properly, make him repeat back to you what was said, and if he gets it wrong, make him stand with his nose in the corner to punish him. If he won’t give you his undivided attention, you shouldn’t give him any attention. This will teach him to respect you, as a proper sub never only half listens to his Domme.
19. Have him sit at your feet often. If he wants to sit beside you on the sofa, he should ask your permission. You decide if he sits beside you or at your feet.
20. When you want to do something dominant to him but can’t think of anything, just grab a chain and two padlocks and chain him to something, give him a passionate kiss, and walk away without saying a word. Ignore him (unless he is in distress) while you do whatever you want. He will feel very owned and controlled.
21. Expect him to come to you immediately when called. He shouldn’t run, but he should show a sense of urgency when approaching you. Only accept excuses if he was doing something time sensitive, for example, if he was making supper, and the food would be overcooked if he came to you immediately.
22. Use his hand as a leash in public. When you hold his hand to lead him around, he isn’t allowed to let go of your hand. If you lead him up to an object and put his hand on it, he is parked in place and isn’t allowed to let go of that object until you come back, grab his hand, and lead him away. Leading him around by the hand in public is a very subtle way to display your dominance without anybody realizing it.
23. Teach him to ask permission to be excused and explain why anytime he wants to leave your presence. Occasionally refuse permission.
24. Be physically forceful. Grab him by the throat and force him against the wall in a passionate kiss. Grab a handful of hair and pull him to where you want him. Grab his earlobe and drag him down to a kneeling position at your feet. Come up with your own ways to physically dominate him..
25. With the exception of gas, food, and gifts for you, any buying or selling will require your approval.
26. One of a submissive males greatest traits is the ability to wait patiently. Teach him by making him wait for you in various circumstances. Also teach him that keeping you waiting without a very good reason is unacceptable and punishable.
27. Write your signature on his shoulder blade or buttocks with an indelible marker. The more you train him, the more he becomes your work of art, so sign him like a painting.
28. Whether as a punishment or randomly, make him get down on the floor and give you 20 pushups.
29. Randomly lock his wrists behind his back while he is relaxing around the house. Tell him that his hands are tools to serve you, and if he isn’t using them for that purpose, they should be put away. Padded leather ones are best, especially if you plan to keep him in them for a while. Fistmitts make a great alternative and are more comfortable.
30. Teach him to do specific things(eg. housework), exactly the way you want it done, so that you can command him to do it anytime in the future. Your way is always the correct way, even if it’s not the most efficient way.
31. Whenever you plan to purchase something, have him research the best brands for price, reliability, quality, and features, giving you a list of the best top 5 to purchase. Have him give a short presentation while kneeling before you on what he’s learned.
32. Bend him over your lap and spank him whenever you like. You don’t have to hurt him. Just the act of being put over your lap will humble him, and make you feel powerful.
33. Teach him a command, or hand gesture, or both to silence him instantly. Teach him another one that lets him speak again.
34. Never allow him to eat his favorite treat (eg. chocolate) unless it comes directly from your hand. Tell him if he wants it bad enough, he may beg for it and you’ll give it to him, most times.
35. Random buttplugging. Whenever he is at home you can randomly approach him with a prelubed buttplug, and he has to bend over immediately to accept it. He’s not allowed to remove it himself.
36. Forbid him to ever say “I” or “me” when referring to himself while speaking to you in private.
37. Randomly, gently slap his face once in a while just to remind him who’s in charge. A gentle backhand is all that’s needed. It shouldn’t hurt, just humble him. Have him kiss the hand that slaps him to display his submission.
38. Make him ask permission before having an orgasm.
39. Make him ask permission before leaving home. If you aren’t home when he wants to leave, he must text you for permission. If you live apart, this applies to leaving his home as well as yours.
40. Maintenance Tickling. They say laughter is the best medicine, so medicate him with a tickle session occasionally. Tie him in place so that he is totally helpless and under your complete control. Start tickling. Your task is to keep him smiling, laughing or giggling for at least half an hour. Give him breaks between short tickling sessions, but he has to keep a smile on his face.
41. Paint his toenails. You can make him do it himself, but I guarantee it will have more of an impact on him if you grab his feet, remove his socks, and paint them yourself. After you’re done, tell him how pretty his toes are now and tell him you like the new look you have picked for him and if he removes it, he will be sorry. Make him walk around the house barefoot and show them off to you.
By doing this, you are asserting the right to control his body. It will give you a feeling of power everytime you see his painted toes, because you made it happen, and make it continue to happen. He in turn will feel submissive, because he knows you are in control of his body, moreso than him.
42. Instant Puppy. Pick a command word and a counter command word for this. Whenever you say the command word, he has to go silent immediately and get down on his hands and knees. Until you say the counter command word, he has to remain silent and keep one hand touching the floor or the ground at all times.
43. If he sleeps in your bed, he has to be chained to it. Ankle chain to the bedframe is best.
44. Control his alcohol intake. Every drink containing alcohol he consumes will have consequences. For instance, a half hour of cornertime or bent over your lap and 5 swats on the butt per drink consumed.
45. Step on his head with one foot pressing it to the floor while forcing the toes of your other foot into his mouth.
46. Lock something on his body that he can’t remove himself. It can be a collar, wristcuffs, an anklet, or just wrap a chain around his waist and padlock it there. I bought 2 ‘ring of steel’ types cuffs off of the internet and like to lock both of them on one of his wrists. The sound and feel of them rattling together as he does things around home are a constant reminder that someone else has more control over his body than he does.
47. If he doesn’t eat enough vegetables, make him eat one meal a week containing only cut up vegetables, from a bowl on the floor, without using his hands.
48. Have him suckle your breasts anytime and for as long as you wish. It feels great, and is a lovely way to bond with him.
49. Electronic leash. Use tracking software on his phone so that you know exactly where he is at all times. To ensure his phone is with him all the time, Set your own phone up to send scheduled texts that he must answer within 10 minutes.
50. Occasionally when you leave home by yourself, chain his ankles so that the whole time you are gone, he can only take slow, small steps. It will make him feel your control even when you aren’t home with him.
Privilege
I think a lot of submissives forget just what a privilege it is to be able to serve her, and how special it is.
First of all, submissives must let go of their own fantasies to truly enjoy the benefits of what submission really is. It must become about serving her, her pleasure, her needs, her desires, her fantasies, and her way of doing things. It's all about becoming hers.
The fact that she chooses you, keeps you in a chastity cage, and allows you to serve her, is a huge privilege that very few others ever get the opportunity of doing so. Once you have Mistress, she is to be cherished! You are being granted access to her, not just her body, but on an emotional level as well.
The D/s dynamic isn't just about sex. It's about the entire lifestyle, and connection you create with each other. That's something special. The fact that she likes you enough to want to dominant you, and make you hers, is a huge privilege.
She doesn't have to grant you access to her body, whether that be, with your mouth, or your penis. Any access to her is a privilege. She doesn't share herself with anyone else that way. You're her rock, she comes home to you, and you pleasure all of her sexual needs. She holds you responsible for all that, what a privilege!
When she gives you this privilege, she is no longer afraid to hold back. She can be upfront about all of her desires, and she will tell you exactly what she expects of you. She gets to use you as her personal sex slave, and you get to be there for all of it. You get to be there to help her learn and grow, and this helps you grow deeper into submission to her.
Allowing you to taste all parts of her body, to worship her, her scent alone is a privilege. To see her completely relaxed while giving a massage, and falls asleep because you did such a good job, this is a privilege. She expects you to be there to serve because of this privilege. You are hers.
Belonging to her is the biggest privilege you can have. It was never about getting off, or making her do things to cater to your fantasies, or topping from the bottom. Don't undermine her, don't insult the privilege she's giving you by allowing you to serve her.
Understand the privilege she is giving you. Understand your place at her feet. Even her feet are a privilege. You see? Access to her body is a privilege, not a right. So honor that privilege by serving her the way she wants to be served, and becoming the obedient boy she deserves. She chose you!
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Everyday Ways males can serve Women
So let’s say you are a male who is not in a relationship, or you are in relationship but spend some portion of your day away from your Goddess. Remember that all Women are Goddesses and should be treated as such! Here are a few suggestions on how you can serve your Superiors:
If you are on line and there is a Woman behind you, let Her go before you.
If you are going out to pick up something for lunch ask your coworker what She wants don’t accept Her money.
Find out how your Female coworkers like Their morning coffee/tea and bring Them drinks every morning. In fact find out what They like for breakfast and bring Them breakfast.
Leave Waitresses a 30% tip or $10 whichever is greater.
Only go to Female professionals: doctors, dentists, attorneys, ophthalmologists, tax accountants, financial advisors, etc.
Shop at Women owned stores, restaurants and farm stands.
When you are at a gas station and a Woman pulls up behind you, tell Her you just got a promotion at work and you want to treat Her to a full tank of gas. Only buy premium gasoline and pump it for Her so She doesn’t have to get out of the car.
Elderly Women are nothing less than Goddesses with wisdom and They need to be served as well. Help an elderly Goddess cross an intersection, carry Her bags home, if at a supermarket push Her cart to Her car and load Her groceries. It goes without saying if you live near an elderly Goddess check in on Her to see if needs anything daily.
At work many positions of power are still held by males but thankfully that’s changing! If you are one of those males support Women anyway you can. Promote a Female employee, during bonus times reward your Female employees and hire Women only.
You are out to dinner and you see a table of Women. Call Their server over and tell him/Her to bill your credit card. The server can’t tell the Women until They ask for the check and the server can’t tell the Women it was you. Tip the server according to rule 4. This can also be Women with children.
Volunteer at a Women’s shelter. Donate money as well.
Vote for Female candidates, officials and judges. Volunteer for Female candidates and financial support Female campaigns.
If you are stockholder vote against male members of the board and vote Female members of the board. Enter proposals for greater representation of Female employees at all levels and that the company source goods from Female owned small businesses.
Compliment Women daily with meaningful thoughts like: “I love your smile.” “Blue is a terrific color for you.” “I love your hair.” “You have the most beautiful eyes.”
Treat Women with respect. Always say things Yes Ma’am or No Ma’am until She tells you to call her something else. Stand when a Woman arrives or leaves a table, hold doors open, etc. always say Thank You and Please.
Go to a Nail Salon and tell the manager you want to pay for the nail treatments of the next 5 customers. The manager cannot tell the Women until They are finished and the manager cannot give you credit. Tip the nail salon workers very generously. you can also offer to randomly pay for a strangers hairstyle at a beauty salon.
The list is a start. Don’t feel limited to only these ideas. The point is Women are Goddesses and should be treated as such until we all live in a true Gynarchy.
Ladies, once you see the benefits of keeping your man from masturbating using enforced chastity, be sure to tell you girlfriends!
9 ingredients for taming your slave, results guaranteed…
1. CHASTITY
Lock its genitals in order to restrict access. Make sure it is chaste most of the time, free only in your presence from time to time. This way, its body parts become your property and it is unable to play with itself, which ALL men do.
2. INSPECTIONS
This might seem like unnecessary play only but it is not. It send a strong impulse to its mind about who is in charge and has unlimited freedom. Do it on regular basis.
3. ROUTINES
Routines are very important, any kind of routine. To begin with, decide upon a daily routine with which it will show its respect and humility to you. Make sure there will be no skipping on routines.
4. DISCIPLINE
This is a complete must, done on daily basis. Discipline is the most essential ingredient. It doesn’t need to “deserve it”, it is simply necessary. Find the time and the will every day.
5. TEASE, EDGING, DENIAL
Having and keeping its balls full will ensure its full attention towards you. It will make it beg and it will make it soft on its mind. Have you tried it for hours? No? Try it. Bigger balls equals more obedience and willingness to do anything for you.
6. RUINED ORGASMS
Your slave needs to cum and it will do anything to cum. You will allow it to cum on occasion but you will also slowly take away its right to have that pleasure. Ruin iits orgasms often and make it thank you. In time you could easily have it pleasure-less and without actual orgasms, up to you. Remember, an orgasm is not a right, it is a health necessity. It is not a reward either. Yours are important and only orgasms that should be cherished.
7. HUMILIATION
As bad as this might sound, subtle ways of humiliation are extremely effective. It needs it, it wants it. Do it. Find ways, decide up on them and act upon them. Humiliation makes it more humble. Then humiliate some more, subtly.
8. USE IT, MAKE IT FEEL USED
slaves like being treated like objects or toys. So that’s just what you need to do, use it for your pleasure and needs and then simply discard it. It’s a play, nothing more but it works just fine. Make sure you train yourself for such acts properly, in order not to appear silly.
9. EMASCULATION & PEGGING
Chastising your slave is the begging of emasculation. Pegging is another great way to emasculate. Make it your bitch, bring out its feminine side. Bringing out its feminine side works beautifully in favor of emasculation. Emasculation kills the ego every man has. Ego is an absolute enemy.
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Another man in chastity!
It’s funny what can make boys of a particular nature go very light-headed, isn’t it.
Of course they are at all time😂
Buy Shock Collar (Bracelet) for his Balls - FLR (female led relationship) 😈👰
Review #1 - from Alicia I still love this shock-collar for Husband training. I have truly seen a positive attitude change in him. We all have times our significant other irritates us, but most Women don’t know how to stop it. Example, I was reading my book, and my Husband kept pestering me. I just looked up and turned on the Zapper. Then I told him to vacuum the upstairs, and not interrupt me until I summoned him.
Once I finished reading I gave him an extra good zap to summon him to get me a glass of white wine. Now if you had known my man years ago, you would not believe how responsive he is to my needs and desires.
Review #2 - from Christine After purchasing this we made a rule that my husband would put the zapper around his scrotum just above his balls any time I ask him. It’s also is great on date night. Now when I need the pool scrubbed, I just ask him to put on the zapper. Once it is on, he works hard without any complaints. Then I might get him too clean the stairs. Once he is finished I get him to give me a shoulder and neck massage. I make him wear it 24x7. Even when he is in office. Believe it or not, its an amazing training device for husbands.
Review #3 - from Jenny We recently started using a remote shock puppy collar on my husband’s balls to ensure obedience. This particular model has six shock levels plus a vibrating signal. It’s amazing how effective it has been.
Since we started our FLR, we had a rule that if I called him or gave him an order he must drop whatever he is doing and come to me or do what I told him to do. This used to work according to his mood, and while I of course had the right to punish him, I didn’t do it regularly because I’m lazy. Now I call him using the vibrating feature and he knows that if he doesn’t come immediately (or if he doesn’t obey an order immediately) his nuts will get zapped. He is so responsive and so fast now! When we go out I always make him wear the fully recharged zapper and he behaves like a gentleman, since he knows that I keep the remote with me at all times and that I’m not afraid to use (frankly, I like to use it – hahaha!).
My sweet husband never argues with me anymore and shows proper respect at all times. Even when the zapper is not on, he knows that he will be wearing it before he goes to bed every night. That is a ritual we have since we got the device. Every night he asks me if I am happy with his behavior for the day. If I’m not, I give him shocks of varying intensity and duration depending on the infractions. I love to see the look on his face when he asks the question, especially on those days when he knows he’s been a bad boy, which are now becoming rare. I recommend this gadget to all dominant wives. You will never let any misbehavior go unpunished and he will become a new man, one you will like a lot!
Review #4 - from Me I instructed My husband to buy one of these Remote Shock Puppy for Me several months ago. Once this shock trainer arrived, I looked it over and ordered him to attach it to a locking bondage belt that I secured around his balls. I immediately started experimenting with the shock settings on this wicked little device. It has 16 levels of shock intensity. I discovered that level 3 or 4 are good to get his immediate attention or to summon him to My presence. I use levels 5 to 7 as for punishment for minor infractions, while higher levels are reserved for more severe discipline. Usually anything above level 8 is sufficient to drop him to his knees. I don’t think I have inflicted anything higher than level 11 on him which makes him beg for mercy! I keep My slave in his “shock trainer belt” nearly all the time (except when bathing and so forth).
I really enjoy that I am able to discipline (shock) him when we are out in public like at a restaurant, shopping mall, and so forth. I usually shock him whenever I see is his attention wander from me, or he dares to glace a little too long at another woman.
Queens & Ladies, take My advice and buy one of these shock trainers for your slave/husband. Using this shock trainer combined with the male chastity device of your choice will keep him under your complete control and help make living with him a real pleasure for you 24x7..!
Shock Collar (Bracelet) for his Balls. 😈
I instructed My slave/husband to buy one of these Remote Shock Puppy for Me several months ago. Once this shock trainer arrived, I looked it over and ordered him to attach it to a locking bondage belt that I secured around his waist. I immediately started experimenting with the shock settings on this wicked little device. My slave’s waist is that it is easily concealable under his clothes and he can wear it anywhere we go (except if we’re flying somewhere of course).
I really enjoy that I am able to discipline (shock) him when we are out in public like at a restaurant, shopping mall, and so forth. I usually shock him whenever I see is his attention wander from me, or he dares to glace a little too long at another woman. Sometimes I just give him a shock when we are out and about for My own amusement because I like to see him squirm! Of course this shock trainer is absolutely great to use on My slave around the house. This shock trainer has a fairly good range and I love the fact that I can use it to summon him or administer punishment to him remotely and at various level of intensity wherever My slave is around the house, or in the yard, with just a simple touch of a button! (Isn’t technology wonderful?)
Since I have been using this shock trainer on him for several months now, I have seen a huge improvement in his obedience, politeness and attentiveness towards me. Some of my girlfriends have noticed all the positive improvements in My husband’s behavior. I few weeks ago decided to let two of my girlfriends in on My little “secret” and told them about the shock trainer. I gave them the remote control so they could try using the shock trainer on My husband and see for themselves how much fun it is (for the one in charge). They loved it!
One of My favorite uses for this shock trainer is when I allow My slave the privilege of licking My sweet pussy or having sex with Me. I like to give him a shock combined with a command like “faster”, “slower”, “deeper”, “harder”, etc. He responds incredibly well to this sort of training and this way I can control his actions so he provides Me with the exact sexual simulation and experience that I want when I want it. Using this approach with the shock trainer, I have also been able train my slave not to cum inside me until I (sometimes but not always) give him permission to do so. He would rather hold back his cum with all his will rather than risk receiving a merciless torture session including high intensity shocks for squirting his cum without My permission.
The role of humility in a FLR
Commanding Attention: Techniques to dominate your husband
Objectification: treating your man like an object to increase his obedience
10 daily rituals to drive submission in a FLR
https://femaleled.info/10-sensual-rituals-to-reinforce-submission-in-a-flr/
A magazine on how to train a husband.
It is really such a great race.
Be Strict!
Dominance works best when she is strict about it. Being strict gives her a commanding presence. He can feel her attitude just by looking at her. When she is strict, everything she does is noticed by him, because everything she does matters. Her body language matters, her words matter, her attitude matters. Because he knows that she will enforce her rules if he doesn't pay attention.
Being strict does not necessarily mean, being mean. She can be lovingly strict, and still have no mercy. The most wonderful thing in a FLR is that she never has to settle for less than she wants from him. this doesn't just apply to being sexual. It applies to domestic chores, errands, and the way he worships her. She gets to direct him on every level, and be strict about it.
Body worship for example, can be done with her rules in place. He can only worship certain areas at a time. Perhaps she says feet only for a bit, then maybe it's massage only, hands only, tongue only.... She decides every aspect of the worship that takes place, and for how long.
Domestic chores, are to be done to her standards. He must meet her expectations. The house should be as clean as she expects it to be. No half assing it, no sweeping things under the rug. She will check. As long as she is strict, he will strive to meet her expectations, or face the consequences.
The consequences can take many shapes and forms. They can be having to re-do chores, or being assigned more chores. It doesn't have to be painful involving a pain or a whip, but that is also an option she can opt for, if she feels the need, and wants that type of training in her FLR. She can also be strict about his pleasure. She can take it away as she sees fit. Not allow him access to her pussy.
One of the worst punishments for a submissive, is being denied access to her body. Not even allowed to see her naked. A couple of days of that, and he will be very sorry. He craves her, and being allowed access to her is something he will always strive for. So when she is strict, he knows the stakes, he knows what she may do, and it's just not worth it.
Her attitude really sets the tone here. A no non-sense approach that says, you will submit to me, the way I want you to submit to me, or you will face severe consquences until you do. He will quickly start conforming to her rules and obeying her without any more hesitations. Her attitude, and strictness in this manner will arouse him, but also bring him deeper into obedience.
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Femdom and the Alpha in the Man.
I have news for you. You’ve been lied to. Femdom is not what all the hateful jaded women and self-loathing sissies out there try to make it out to be.
Female Domination, at least to me, is about a culture of Strong and Wise Women taking the lead and asserting their power in personal relationships and in society.
It is about women taking charge of their men in and out of the bedroom to get what they want and to train men to submit to female guidance at large. It is about teaching and leading a man to be a better person. It is about focusing his mind on giving rather than receiving. And it is about making him into a stronger man. There is absolutely no contradiction in a hyper-masculine Alpha Male completely submitting to a DOMINANT WOMAN.
It is NOT about humiliating and belittling men, treating them as worthless and acting as if they are inferior creatures made to lick the dirt off womens’ feet. This is just online idiocy. Perhaps you are simply a beta-type guy, but if you think this means wearing diapers or emasculating yourself every second of the day or begging a woman to treat you like shit, you need to wake up and get some help. Sure, everyone has their odd fetishes, but in real life, any woman who wants to be with a man just to treat him like scum is simply angry, pathetic, mental and low-rent. It is in no way a healthy form of kinky masochism. It is just sad. And always a fleeting waste of time and life. A submissive male should seek out a Dominant Female in order to make himself better, not worse.
Femdom is about a Woman asserting her power over a man because she wants to be in control. She believes she was born to be in charge and she believes she has earned the right to be in charge. She believes her guidance is superior because she knows intuitively that her inner strength and her inner wisdom is superior to that of a man’s. Sexually, it is about the eroticizing of power and the transformation of personal identity. She fucks. He gets fucked. Even if this means her wanting him to fuck her rough and hard, she is ultimately deciding how things go.
For me personally, a relentless degree of strictness is paramount to how I dominate. It is paramount in what I expect from my man and my boys. Stern rules and sound spankings are how I make my Femdom a factual reality. I believe in female authority as the core of my family and share that belief with every woman in my personal sphere not because I want a world of weaker men but because I want a world of stronger men who are ultimately guided by the wisdom and strength of even stronger Women, day-in-and-day-out, in this generation and in all succeeding generations.
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