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When the boys kneel, it's not for a ring; it's a bow to our reign."
In this era, the narrative has shifted dramatically. We women are no longer just the beautiful faces expected to marry into success. We are the new face of success, adorned with far more Ph.D.s, MBAs, JDs, and MDs. The boys? They're the ones now dreaming of marrying up, hoping to be chosen by a woman like us who embodies beauty, intellect, and leadership.
When a man takes a knee these days, it's more than a proposal; it's an act of reverence to our achievements. We're not just his partner; we're his superior in education and career, the one with the degrees, the accolades, and taking center stage.
In this new world, we lead, and the boys follow, not out of obligation but out of admiration and respect.
Husbands are becoming the housekeepers for there wives, doing the womens laundry, cooking and cleaning.
When Mistress’ friends come over, we get used for entertainment 👸 👸🏻👸🏽 Look at how they laugh!
Five steps to sparking obedience with a shock collar
I’m a lover of domestication of males. I love routine household chores because the man doesn’t have to think about the task too much. It’s better when men don’t think too much. They should just live in the moment, being of service to their queen.
62% of Dominant Women say Housework is their favourite task to delegate - here’s why its a power move in FLR
Conundrum of a male slave
What's the term for it, "cognitive dissonance"?
When I'm in captivity, I get intensely excited when I'm near my owner. I have an overpowering urge to please her. Maybe it's a vain hope that she will let me out, or maybe the frustration at not being able to please myself is manifesting into action.
Yes, that's exactly what the cage is supposed to do, of course. But the more agitation results in greater attentiveness and more begging to please my owner orally. She has less and less incentive to let me out. I snap to attention when she talks, come quickly when ordered, and do every casual chore she cares for.
I can't back off and pretend I'm not interested, or disobey a single thing she says, though I've halfheartedly tried. It's a real pickle.
FLR doesn't have to be about dressing up. A simple power play interaction where the Goddess asserts her authority and the male is cowed into submission is a great reminder to both of them that a woman is in charge and the man is the one to obey.
Strength, structure, and accountability—building trust and respect starts with clear communication. Domestic discipline isn’t just about control; it’s about connection and growth as a couple.
Every woman is a GODDESS.
Every man should consider himself lucky to worship HER.
Give & Take & Take & Take
Equal relationships are about give and take. You give a little, you take a little, and you get along. But being with a submissive male is quite different. You see, being submissive means he gets his pleasure from giving only and is quite happy getting very little or nothing in return.
It took me a little while to realize that to give him what he needs and desires, I had to learn to become a taker and to even deny him some things.
To be the woman of his dreams, and fulfill his fantasies, I had to learn to become selfish. I needed to become his superior, make him serve my needs, and to take control of him. He needed and wanted to be pussy whipped by me.
It’s a hard concept to try to understand and for most people it makes no sense. But it is his kink to be used, abused and neglected and I try to do this in a loving and caring way.
That’s why I tend to concentrate on physical control and away from the sadistic abuse you find in most pornography these days. That stuff is brutal and I want no part of it and he doesn’t either.
I think that is why I shied away from dominating him before thinking I would have to do all the beating and torture. All of that stuff is hyped up in the pornography and isn’t necessary at all to be dominant.
Why Would a Submissive Want to Become a Service Sub?
For some submissives, pleasure isn’t all about whips, chains, and dungeons. Instead, it’s found in more subtle acts of service, like preparing a delicious meal, folding laundry just right, or fetching the perfect cup of coffee for their dominant. A service submissive gets off on making their dominant’s life easier, knowing that they are appreciated for their hard work, dedication, and attention to detail.
Imagine the sense of fulfillment when you know that your dominant relies on you to keep their day-to-day life running smoothly. For a working sub, this is where the real satisfaction lies. And let’s be real—who wouldn’t want to feel useful, needed, and oh-so-rewarded by their dominant’s gratitude (and maybe a little extra “reward” at the end of the day)?
How is Pleasure Derived from These Actions?
In a BDSM dynamic, pleasure doesn’t always come from direct physical acts. For a working sub, pleasure is more mental and emotional—it’s about being useful, serving, and anticipating the dominant’s needs. The satisfaction of completing tasks and knowing that you’ve improved your dominant’s day gives a rush that can be just as intense as any scene in the dungeon.
When the dominant appreciates their service, even with something as simple as a “Good job” or “You’ve pleased me,” the working sub feels fulfilled. It’s like a gold star on a homework assignment, but with much sexier undertones.
Don't be presumptuous
We're halfway through locktober and if you're anything like me the desperation and distraction is really taking hold. I see a lot of content that fantasises about this being a time of constant teasing. The reality might be coming home from work, cooking dinner, doing the dishes, giving your Goddess a massage, then busying yourself for an hour or two before bed.
This is where it gets difficult. You aren't entitled to any kind of sexual gratification. Yeah, you want to be horny and easily controlled. But it's Her decision whether to reward you or not, and part of your training should be learning not to be more bratty than She desires.
To be the best submissive you can be, you have to get over the urges to chase your own satisfaction. You get plenty of chances to give in to them when She initiates and wants to use your desperation to manipulate you. That's the time to melt into a horny mess.