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How do I give in to my husband's wife sharing fantasy?

My husband wanted to share me with his best friend. I was very much against it on moral grounds. He was nice enough and treated me well when he was over at our house. He had flirted with me a few times but always restrained and subtle, more like pleasant flattery about my hair or how I was dressed than anything sexual. My husband asked me once if I thought I would hate having sex with his friend. I told that I most likely wouldn’t hate it actually doing it but I would hate how I felt about myself for doing it.

I’m not a religious girl but I am spiritual and having sex outside my marriage didn’t sit well with me spiritually. He told me several times that I had his permission to cheat and therefore it wouldn’t be cheating, perhaps that’s true, but for me it would still feel like cheating. Sometime after that, he asked me if there was anything I wanted to do that I hadn’t been doing where his friend could accompany me.

I knew he was trying to find something that I’d find acceptable to go somewhere or do something that would have me spending time with his friend in hopes it would lead to something. I really did miss cultural activities like art museums, theater, symphony concerts, it was really a long list. He’d never refused to got with me but over the 8 years of our marriage, his lack of interest and enthusiasm meant I went less often with him. I did do those kinds of things by myself or with a girlfriend but gradually went less and less often.

So I told him that yes, if his friend wanted to go to an art museum with me, I would go. His friend wasn’t all that knowledgeable about art but he was curious and most importantly, he listened to me. He was genuinely attentive to my thoughts and feelings. That’s how it began and we did things like that more often and before too long, we were dating. What I mean my dating is that he took me places, we talked and laughed and I let him kiss me.

After a few dates where he kissed me, I found myself getting sexually aroused when we kissed and at some point I came to the realization that I wanted him to seduce me. I wanted to get myself into a compromising situation and just let things proceed gently but inevitably into letting him take complete advantage of me. I didn’t want to have to take responsibility for actually making a decision to allow him to have sex with me.

He must have known what it would take. He took me to an opera performance out of town. The only part of it I really planned was I bought a new nightgown, tastefully but alluring. That’s how I gave in to my husband’s wife sharing fantasy. One small step at a time. I feel something like that might work for you, assuming it’s something you really want to do.

You Attract Who You Are!

● Getting Rid of the Idea: 'Good Men Are Hard to Find'

● Good men are not hard to find; they just know what they want. They look for more than just looks. If you want their attention, show who you really are instead of just how you look.

● Good men see these things but aren't impressed by:

○ Showy outfits

○ Flirty poses

○ Over-the-top social media posts

Instead, they appreciate:

☆ Your personality

☆ Your smarts

☆ Your beliefs

● To get a good man’s attention, be more about who you are than how you look. Be smart, not just pretty.

● Remember, true beauty comes from inside!

The Meaning of Existence

by Les Murray

Everything except language knows the meaning of existence. Trees, planets, rivers, time know nothing else. They express it moment by moment as the universe.

Even this fool of a body lives it in part, and would have full dignity within it but for the ignorant freedom of my talking mind.

My Own Shadow Has Started to Deceive Me In Broad Daylight.

*The Part of Your Body You Wash First In A Bath Shows A Lot About Your Personality*

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If you are a morally upright and decent human being, then you would consider hygiene to be a very important aspect of your daily routine. And that might mean you taking a bath every morning as you get ready to face the day that’s in front of you. You might even have a solid routine already locked down with regard to your bathing habits.

However, you have to know that the way in which you take a bath can say a lot about your personality. The way that one person might take a bath isn’t necessarily going to be the same as how other people do it.

You might not really have noticed, but typically, when you take a bath, you’re going to go straight to a specific body part. And on a subconscious level, the body part that you choose to wash first can say a lot about what kind of personality you have.

And if you’re curious as to what kind of implications your bathing habits can have on your personality, then just continue to read on until the end of this article. Check which personality traits and characteristics come with what body part you choose to wash first.

1. *Face*

If you are the type of person who proceeds to wash your face right away when you take a bath, then this is what that says about you. You are someone who likes to tend to your 5 basic senses – taste, smell, touch, sight, and hearing. It means that you care a lot about how other people see you and how you are perceived by those around you.

That’s why you want to make sure that you are always taking care of your face. You know that this is the first thing people see when they look at you. You often find yourself feeling anxious about thinking of how other people perceive you.

2. *Arms, Legs & Feet*

When you go straight for the limbs when you take a bath, then it’s likely that you are a very humble, simple, and down-to-earth human being. Your limbs are symbols of your strength and resilience. But it also shows that you are very grounded and you don’t get lost in the flash of it all.

You are very vocal, and you always like to express yourself freely – whether it be through physical gestures or verbal declarations. You are an animated soul, and your energy is seemingly boundless.

3. *Private Organs*

It’s very interesting when you wash your private parts first because it’s not really what most people would think of when they picture you in the shower. You are someone who has a very shy and reserved personality. In fact, you might be so shy to the point that you might even have a few self-esteem issues.

You are someone who has a difficult time standing up for yourself. But you are also someone who is very capable of making the people around you feel comfortable with your company.

4. *Chest*

It’s all about confidence for you when you find yourself gravitating towards your chest immediately when you step into the shower. It’s likely that you are very much comfortable in your own skin whenever you start scrubbing your chest when you are taking a bath. You are someone who likes to be very straightforward about your thoughts and opinions. You also have a very pragmatic personality.

You are very independent, and people are often inspired by your self-sufficient personality. You are a go-getter who always works hard for what you want.

5. *Hair*

If you are someone who immediately washes your hair the moment you step into the shower, then you are definitely someone who is obsessed with order, structure, and discipline. You take a top-to-bottom approach in bathing. And you carry that kind of structure with you into your daily life as well.

You are also very practical. You have a very strong opinion on things, and you firmly believe that your mind is one of your greatest assets. You do a lot to take care of your brain. And you are never one who is shy about sharing an opinion with other people.

6. *Shoulders and Neck*

You are probably one of the most hardworking people you are ever going to know in your life. The reason you go to your neck and shoulders first is that these are often the most stressful parts of your body. You are stressed because you always find yourself hustling and working hard.

You are also incredibly competitive, and you always like to be staying ahead of the pack. You always want to have a leg-up on the competition.

7. *Back*

You are someone who watches your back… "literally. You find it very hard to be trusting of other people. You don’t typically like to let other people into your life so quickly or so easily. This is probably because of the traumatic experience of betrayal that you have had in the past.