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Burden Carried by Female Athletes in the Spotlight after Kenyan Runner's death

Burden Carried by Female Athletes in the Spotlight after Kenyan Runner's death 🏃🏿‍♀️

The passing of Kenyan star runner Agnes Tirop has brought to the surface issues revolving around the pressure that female athletes, especially those from Kenya, are constantly under. It is a sad reality that this is what it takes to enjoy success in a patriarchal society. Agnes Tirop, a two-time world championship bronze medalist, was found dead at her home in Iten, western Kenya at a tragically…

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*What are some of the signs that you are falling in love with someone*

1. If you're falling in love with someone, you might find yourself feeling physically attracted to them and wanting to be close to them.

2. When you're falling in love, you might find that you miss the other person when they're not around. You feel lonely when they're not there.

3. When you're falling in love, you might find that you're constantly thinking about the person and wondering what they're doing, how they're feeling, and when you'll see them again.

4. Falling in love often involves a strong emotional connection to the other person. You may feel a sense of deep caring and compassion for them.

5. When you're falling in love, you probably enjoy spending time with the person and love his/her company.

6. When you're falling in love, you may feel a strong desire to make the other person happy and to do things that will bring a smile to their face.

7. You’re comfortable with making little sacrifices for them.

8. When you're falling in love, you might want to spend as much time with the other person as possible.

9. When you're falling in love, you might find that you want to do things to make the other person happy. You might go out of your way to do things that make them feel loved and appreciated.

10. When they’re sad, you’re genuinely sad too.

*Take Note:*

It's important to note that everyone experiences love differently, and these signs may vary from person to person.

How do I give in to my husband's wife sharing fantasy?

My husband wanted to share me with his best friend. I was very much against it on moral grounds. He was nice enough and treated me well when he was over at our house. He had flirted with me a few times but always restrained and subtle, more like pleasant flattery about my hair or how I was dressed than anything sexual. My husband asked me once if I thought I would hate having sex with his friend. I told that I most likely wouldn’t hate it actually doing it but I would hate how I felt about myself for doing it.

I’m not a religious girl but I am spiritual and having sex outside my marriage didn’t sit well with me spiritually. He told me several times that I had his permission to cheat and therefore it wouldn’t be cheating, perhaps that’s true, but for me it would still feel like cheating. Sometime after that, he asked me if there was anything I wanted to do that I hadn’t been doing where his friend could accompany me.

I knew he was trying to find something that I’d find acceptable to go somewhere or do something that would have me spending time with his friend in hopes it would lead to something. I really did miss cultural activities like art museums, theater, symphony concerts, it was really a long list. He’d never refused to got with me but over the 8 years of our marriage, his lack of interest and enthusiasm meant I went less often with him. I did do those kinds of things by myself or with a girlfriend but gradually went less and less often.

So I told him that yes, if his friend wanted to go to an art museum with me, I would go. His friend wasn’t all that knowledgeable about art but he was curious and most importantly, he listened to me. He was genuinely attentive to my thoughts and feelings. That’s how it began and we did things like that more often and before too long, we were dating. What I mean my dating is that he took me places, we talked and laughed and I let him kiss me.

After a few dates where he kissed me, I found myself getting sexually aroused when we kissed and at some point I came to the realization that I wanted him to seduce me. I wanted to get myself into a compromising situation and just let things proceed gently but inevitably into letting him take complete advantage of me. I didn’t want to have to take responsibility for actually making a decision to allow him to have sex with me.

He must have known what it would take. He took me to an opera performance out of town. The only part of it I really planned was I bought a new nightgown, tastefully but alluring. That’s how I gave in to my husband’s wife sharing fantasy. One small step at a time. I feel something like that might work for you, assuming it’s something you really want to do.

I realized I'll always be in love with you because it was never about looks or what you could give me. I fell in love with your soul, so your mistakes never changed the depth of my love for you. I love you.

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HOW TO TURN ON WOMEN

1. Display confidence in yourself and your actions.

2. Pay attention to what she says and show interest in her thoughts.

3. Compliment her focusing on both physical and personal attributes.

4. Communicate openly and honestly.

5. Make her laugh with your sense of humor.

6. Surprise her with romantic gestures.

7. Take the lead in initiating physical intimacy, and show your manly desire.

8. Always be aware of her boundaries.

9. Be empathetic towards her feelings and experiences.

10. Use gentle touches to convey your attraction.

11. Maintain Personal Hygiene.

12. Dress in a way that makes you feel confident and attractive.

13. Share and explore new experiences together.

The Ten Commandments Of Sucking Cock

There are a variety of opinions on this subject, but I wanted a definitive list of must-haves after years of personal experience and discussions with Men about what they like and want.

1. Lose your ego. In this moment, you are a cocksucker; embrace it. You will choke, spit up, and be covered in throat slime. The Man you’re servicing may treat you roughly, even rudely. Accept it. You’re a cocksucker with only one function: pleasing him. Do it without pride.

2. Tease him. Men love teasing and edging at the start of a blowjob. Their balls tighten and the juice within begins to churn in the anticipation of what is to come. Lick the head, especially the underside. Flick it with your tongue. Gently stroke the shaft with your hand every so often. Smile.

3. Eye contact. As you take his cock into your mouth, look up at him. A guy loves fucking holes, but eye contact makes you more submissive TO HIM and tells him that he is your Master.

4. No teeth. Obviously there will be some Men who like teeth running along the shaft of the cock, but that’s rare. Avoid it as much as possible. One trick is to extend your tongue out of your mouth slightly, providing protection from the lower teeth (and also opening the throat) as the cock slides in and out of your mouth.

5. Deepthroat. Not everyone manages to master deepthroating, but this is a skill that can be learned through training. Get a dildo and train your gag reflex. Push yourself. You can improve. Men want deepthroat, and you’re their cocksucker of the moment. Learn it.

6. Don’t forget the balls. A Man’s balls are the most sensitive part of his body. Why would a cocksucker neglect such an opportunity to please a Man or heighten his pleasure? Cradle them in your hand while sucking. Roll them around gently. Occasionally take your mouth off his cock and swirl your tongue over them. One added advantage of this is the more direct exposure to his testosterone-laced musk that concentrates around his balls, which will send you deeper into subspace.

7. No blueballing. Once you start to suck his cock, you’re in it until he squirts his last drop of cum. No complaining about aching jaws or a lack of interest. You’re a cocksucker (remember the first commandment) and you’re expected to do your job TO COMPLETION.

8. Moan and dirty talk. Moaning while sucking cock serves two functions: (a) it tells the Man how much you love the size and taste of it, and (b) the vibrations of your moans rising up from your throat stimulate his cock. You can occasionally tell him how much you love sucking his cock, but don’t overdo it! SHOW HIM you love it with your smiles and enthusiasm!

9. The Man does what he wants. It doesn’t matter what he wants to do, roll with it. He’s the Man and you’re his cocksucker. If he wants to throat-fuck you, fine. If he wants to slap his cock on your face or tongue, don’t object. This especially goes for his cumshot. If he wants to cum on your face, let him. If he wants to cum in your mouth ...

10. You must swallow. Nothing upsets a Man more than seeing a cocksucker spit out his cum. It is an ugly and disrespectful rejection of his virility and Manhood. If you don’t like the taste, swallow it anyway. You will survive. Remember, you’re sucking this Man’s cock in order to please him, and his cumshot is your reward for a job well done. Swallow it with pride!