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I learned from my mother how to love

the living, to have plenty of vases on hand

in case you have to rush to the hospital

with peonies cut from the lawn, black ants

still stuck to the buds. I learned to save jars

large enough to hold fruit salad for a whole

grieving household, to cube home-canned pears and peaches, to slice through maroon grape skins, and flick out the sexual seeds with a knife point.

I learned to attend viewings even if I didn’t know the deceased, to press the moist hands of the living, to look in their eyes and offer sympathy, as though I understood loss even then.

I learned that whatever we say means nothing, what anyone will remember is that we came. I learned to believe I had the power to ease awful pains materially like an angel.

Like a doctor, I learned to create from another’s suffering my own usefulness, and once you know how to do this, you can never refuse.

To every house you enter, you must offer healing: a chocolate cake you baked yourself, the blessing of your voice, your chaste touch.

Yes, you can bet your last penny by sharing your every experience.......🤐🤐🤐

11 Best habits in the night everyone should follow:

● Make a list of things you would want to get done the next day.

● Turn your mobile data off, switch it on silent mode, and keep your mobile phone at a fair distance from your bed.

● Always brush your teeth and follow a skincare routine before going to bed.

● Have your final meal at least two hours before going to bed.

● Avoid using any screens at least 30 minutes before sleep.

● Consider meditating in a dark room if you have insomnia.

● Hit your bed at roundabout the exact time each day.

● Go for a post-dinner walk.

● Read a book.

● When you hit your head on the pillow, it's time to sleep.

● Don't fall into the trap of your thoughts. otherwise, you'll end up staring at the ceiling for hours.

I will answer any question you ask

I will answer any question you ask