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MOST ATTITUDES THAT DESTROY MARRIAGES YOU NEED TO STOP.

1. Laziness kills Marriage

2. Lack of Apology (Not being able to say I am sorry when faulty) kills Marriage

3. Lack of trust kills marriage

4. Lack of mutual respect kills marriage

5. Unforgiveness, Bitterness, Hatred, Malice, and Anger Kill Marriage

6. Unnecessary Arguments kills marriage

7. Keeping Secrets from Your Partner kills marriage

8. Every form of infidelity kills marriage (financial, emotional, psychological, material, etc)

9. Poor Communication kills marriage

10. Lies easily kills marriage, be sincere to Your Partner in every aspect.

11. Relating more with your parents or family members than Your Partner kills marriage

12. Lack of inadequate or unenjoyable sex kills marriage.

13. Nagging kills marriage

14. Too much talk and careless talk kills marriage

15. Spending less or little time with Your Partner kills marriage

16. Being too independent minded kills marriage

17. LOVE for party, money, impulse buying and spending or partying, financial indiscipline, kill marriage

18. Exposing the inadequacies of Your Partner to Your parents or Siblings kills marriage

19. Not being steadfast/fervent in the spirit, not praying together, kills not only marriage but your life

20. Spurning correction and reprimand kills marriage.

21. Always wearing a sad face and being Moody kills marriage.

22. Uncontrolled or hot Temperament, Anger kills marriage.

23. Not understanding Your role and position , not taking responsibility in marriage as instituted by GOD kills marriage.

24. Not being sensitive to the spiritual, emotional, financial, and physical needs of your partner kills marriage

25. When anything threatens the position/security of a wife, her reaction(s) will be detrimental to her marriage.

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12 dark mode lesson that life showed you:

1. 1% people own half of the world's wealth.

2. Most men love to think about sexual fantasies.

3. Plenty of people like extra-marital affairs.

4. Men are more likely to cheat than women. But as women become more financially independent, they are beginning to act more like men with respect to infidelity.

5. At one stage of life, you will be alone, your parents, spouse, children, no one will be with you.

6. Our time is limited in the world. One day we will be no more. Our good memories, mother's love, children's smile, will be lost.

7. Abundance of money, power, and fame makes people alone and enhances loneliness.

8. Cigarettes, Heroin, and Cocaine are harmful for our health. People still love to take it.

9. Smoking tobacco is good for the economy; smoking helps the government. On the other hand, tobacco is the second major cause of death in the world.

10. Stressful relationships in student life and professional life can ruin a successful career.

11. Nobody cares unless you are beautiful, rich, popular, or dead.

12. Most social media based celebrities are the greatest losers in real life.

Wisdom from a wise man......

1. Never date your friend's spouse, for you expose yourself to death;

2. Before you close the door to sleep, check if you haven't forgotten something outside;

3. If your friend earns a living, be happy, and the doors will also open your turn;

4. Do not speak too much before your elders, but listen more;

5. If you find a wise father or a wise mother, honour them as parents;

6. If your friend gets married, be glad because your turn will come;

7. If someone wants you to help them, don't hesitate if you have the opportunity to, because you never know about the future;

8. Do not criticize the poor, for they can become rich tomorrow;

9. Don't crave a rich man when he drives by carriage, for you don't know the source of his income;

10. Respect your prayers. It is a good sign that shows your appreciation to your creator, the good Lord.

11. Be thankful for the slightest benefits someone has done for you if you want to go far in life.

12. Don't marry a spouse who disrespects you because disrespect is the sign of many betrayals.

"FACTS YOU SHOULD KNOW ABOUT YOUR MAN’S SEX LIFE:"

Most of the time, you complain that your husband’s demand for sex is too frequent. You feel his crave for sex is similar to his need for food and you can’t help but wonder if sex is the only thing he thinks about. Men and women in the areas of sex are wired differently. With these variations in mind, all you need to do is to know how men see sex and understand how to relate with your own man.

Sex is one thing husbands would ask more of. Almost all husbands wish their wives can step up their sexual abilities and give them more at “bed time”. Your husband’s case is not different. Ask him and you will be surprised he is likely to be among the 92% of men who say they want more of sex.

💢 Sex of yesterday is for yesterday. While you are still enjoying the fulfillment of yesterday’s sex, your “lover boy” is already thinking of how to get another one. Remember, every man has a sex drive that is stronger than the average woman.

💢 A man’s sex drive is one of his strongest drives. You need to know that only a few things matter to a man than his sex life and the sex drive is stronger than any other “drive” in his body. This is the reason nothing really matters to most men whenever they want sex.

💢 Every man wants his wife to be romantic and involved in bed. No man will love to have a “bedroom failure” as a wife. No matter how religious they are, they want romantic, exciting and tantalizing wives.

💢 He needs routine sexual gratification the same way his wife needs routine acts of love, care and kindness. Just as you want him to be kind to you; he also wants you to be available in bed at least 2 or 3 times a week. Crises arise when the wife wants the act of kindness before sex and the man wants sexual gratification before an act of kindness. My word for you wife is; break the cycle. Give him s3x, and see if he won’t show you more love and care.

💢Virtually every man experiences arousal, attraction and temptation seven times a day. Let him fall into your hands, not into the hands of a strange woman. Help him manage his sexuality.

💢Men are moved by what they see. Let your husband be attracted to you. Never allow his secretary to take your position; dress nicely. If you are alone in the house put on skimpy dresses, sexy underwears; let him be moved towards you. Dress up in front of him. Make it “The-more-you-look-the-more-you-see” affair. Dress slowly to the extent that he will notice you. You are in your palace, “you own your husband.

💢Wants the wife to be actively involved in sex. Almost 90% of men said they will be more motivated if their wives can get involved in the bedroom. They said unanimously that they hate “dry and drab” women in their bedrooms.

Your man wants you to be involved during foreplay and love making. He wants you to roll your body, turn, raise your laps, roll your buttocks, hold him, put your breast in his mouth, moan, talk, gibber and show that you are really enjoying him. Make him feel like a real man.

*💢Men are more aroused when their wives seduce them* _Most men enjoy sexual invitations._ Surprise your man by inviting him; become the “seducer” and see how happy he will be. *Don’t be ashamed to flirt with your husband; be his mistress, his concubine.*

*💢More than 70% of men want sex at least 2 or 3 times a week, while more than 60% of women want sex 2 or 3 times a month. This is where wisdom comes in for you as a woman. If you must keep your man, protect your home and send strange women far from your husband, then you must learn how to improve your bedroom performance.* _Be among the 40 % of women who are enjoying better relationships with the husband._

Hotwife Lifestyle - Understanding Our Man’s Hotwife Fantasy and How to Use That to Our Advantage

The fantasy of having a “Hotwife” is growing, in fact, research shows it is growing at a higher rate than a good majority of the other lifestyle alternatives, including the old staple of “swinging” and the modern “open relationship”.  Why is it that a fantasy that revolves around only one part of a relationship – the woman – going out and finding pleasure from another man more intriguing to an increasing number of men than going out and “getting some” for himself?  

Basic psychology tells us that men are highly competitive creatures.  They have a drive to compete with other males of the species for the best mate – this isn’t so much different than what happens in the animal kingdom.  Most men have an innate drive to compete with other men when it comes to the “best mate” or the “most attractive woman”.  With this being said, one of the reservations of most women who find out about their husband or partner’s Hotwife fantasy is that he is somehow “weaker” than the rest because he wants to give up his position as your only partner.  Is this really true, though?  Could the truth lie somewhere within today’s man’s loss of natural competition in everyday life, and a desire to maintain a level of competition after marriage or “monogamy”?  Is this weakness, or rather the ultimate confidence?  

Cuckholding aside, because this aspect of the fantasy requires a bit more in terms of a “woman led” relationship, and a bit more from the man in terms of a desire for mental sadomasochism, a good majority of men enjoy the idea that they have been able to “capture” the best mate and even when she’s out having amazing physical and emotional experiences with men who may have qualities that actually supersede their own – a better body, a larger cock, youth, more prowess in bed – their woman actually WANTS to come back to them at the end of the night.  While most Hotwife-Husbands do get some level of turn-on from the jealousy and the possibility that their Hotwife may actually be enjoying their dates more than they enjoy being “at home”, the overwhelming desire is the competition and the “win” in terms of having a wife who chooses them again and again even after being allowed to go out and have other men.  

As Hotwives, we may be the focus of the fantasy, but there is that deeper and more psychological desire of a man who, even after committing to one woman, is able to compete with other males sexually.  This is why the desire for “reclaiming” a Hotwife after a date is so strong – it’s actually been scientifically proven that men who are able to reclaim a partner after she has been with someone else have an increase in testosterone levels, which means stronger desire, more powerful erections, longer lasting erections, and an overall stronger sex drive.  So, what does this mean for us as Hotwives?

He Enjoys the Jealousy, Go with It

As women we’ve learned that inducing some jealousy can actually be a good thing when it comes to dating – before we’ve found our “person”.  We use our female prowess to keep the men who we are seeing guessing…why?  Because they seem more interested in us when it seems as though we may not be 100% there.  So, if this works in the dating world, why wouldn’t it work once we’re married? In contrast, women typically don’t respond as well, or in the same way to jealousy – we tend to worry, question, and sometimes shut down if we feel that he might be “just not that into us”.  Naturally, because of our own feelings on the matter, we tend to avoid making our men jealous once we’ve committed to them, because we, ourselves don’t want to feel as though we’re in constant competition with other, more attractive, sexier, younger, etc., women.  Why would we do something to the man that we love that we, ourselves, would hate?

For men, though, and especially those with Hotwife fantasies, jealousy is a big component and tool for us to keep our men hot and bothered.  Sometimes just the mere mention of being flirted with by that cute guy at our favorite restaurant, or our interest in the sexy personal trainer at the gym is enough to send our men into a sexual frenzy.  It doesn’t take a lot to feed the fantasy.  It’s not ALL about dates and recounting how well we got worked over in the bedroom (and how much we loved it), though that is the ultimate turn on for our men, it’s also about the little things – the mention of our interest in someone else, the sexy messages that we send to potential lovers or Bulls, the “tease” of how much we loved what our last Bull did for us and how much we’re looking forward to doing it again.  Remember, this ignites the “competition” element of things, which is natural for men.

The More You Enjoy it, the More He Enjoys it

You may be thinking, “But I’m doing it for him, I’m not doing it for myself” (a common theme by A LOT of Hotwives), but in reality, our men WANT us to enjoy our encounters. They want to hear about what this “other guy” did for or to is that sent us over the edge, and yes, they want to hear what we liked better about the “other guy”.  I know it seems crazy, because we don’t want to imagine our men, even if we did allow them to be with other women, thinking that their “others” were better, sexier, hotter or had something that we don’t.  That’s because we don’t have that “competition drive” like our men do.

Let’s face it, despite what our men tell us – “It’s all about your pleasure” or “I don’t get anything out of it unless you’re enjoying it, because I love you so much” – this isn’t some ultimate “unselfish” thing our men are doing for us.  These things come out of their mouths, but what they are really saying is “I want to know that you came three times while he was fucking you, and you STILL want to come home to me”.  It’s their kink, and we have to understand it.  

So, if you’ve actually taken the step into the world of Hotwifing, you’re going to have to learn how to properly tease your man into believing that, just maybe, your Bull was better than him in some ways.  Whenever you think “But I’m only doing it for him”, follow that us with “I’m doing it for him and he WANTS to know that I absolutely enjoyed it”.  Find some aspect of your encounter that was mind-blowing, and recount, in great detail exactly what it was that sent you over the edge.  This may require a little bit of embellishment, and that’s OKAY…trust me…embellishment is your friend in this situation.  Tell your man about your Bull’s amazing cock, how good if felt, how good he tasted, how fantastic he was at oral sex, etc.  These are the things that will ramp up that competition streak in your man and make him want to reclaim you with increased vigor and desire.  

The More You Want Someone Else, The More Your Man Wants You

Again, you’re playing on the competition and the teasing aspect of things here…  The more that you act as if you WANT to be a Hotwife, the more that your husband or partner is going to WANT you.  His desire for you is going to skyrocket, his sexual desire for you is going to make it so that he’s ready to chew his own leg off to get you back in bed.  I have experienced this firsthand many times…if I am completely honest about an “encounter” and admit to “D” that my Bull was lacking in some way, or I didn’t quite “get there”, he isn’t nearly as turned on as when I tell him about how amazing things were.  I don’t like or believe in lying, but I do advocate for being selective and stretching the truth…maybe your lover wasn’t the best at giving oral sex, but maybe he was an amazing kisser, so a good answer would be “he was amazing with his mouth” and leave the rest up for interpretation.  

We’re women.  We are strong and capable and we are smart.  And the truth is, this is a GAME we are playing for and with our husbands/partners, so we need to get our heads into the game. Furthermore, this is an intellectual game, and we need to use our intellects to get to where we want to be.  Where do we want to be?  We want to have a husband/partner who is absolutely drooling over us, believes we are the ultimate sexual goddess, and in is jealous enough to realize that in order to “compete” they will need to step up their own game in order to “keep” us satisfied – be that with amazing sex, extra romance, other rewards, or all of the above.  

Happy Hotwifing!

-S

20 things to never do in life ?

1. Never neglect your health.

2. Never get married for sex.

3. Never quit your dreams.

4. Never spend more than you earn.

5. Never ignore your parents.

6. Never be pessimistic.

7. Never forget who helped you in tough times.

8. Never please people.

9. Never put work over family.

10. Never let anyone control your life.

11. Never spend a day without a to-do list.

12. Never repeat a mistake.

13. Never discuss your secrets with anyone.

14. Never spend money spontaneously.

15. Never hesitate to ask.

16. Never text anyone back to back.

17. Never idealize celebrities.

18. Never remain friends with your Ex.

19. Never have high-interest debt.

20. NEVER GIVE UP.

Do Married Women Enjoy Gangbang?

I am writing exactly what my wife is narrating - “ If you never had a group experience, you have missed out on the biggest fun in your life. I have never experienced double penetration, however, I have handled as many as 4 people at the same time at most(but not all the time, I generally have 3). I had once tried double penetration but that causes a lot of pain and ultimately reduces the enjoyment of the activity. I file both my holes filled one after the other. I highly recommend the usage of a good lube for your ass as it will be sore no matter what you do. I ensure that there is a minimum of 14 days of gap between the two activity. That means if I have group sex today, I will have another one at least after 14 days. Also, I change the routine of sex, which means, once group, next cuckold, next swapping, next threesome then back to group. Obviously, the sequence cannot be maintained all the time, but I sure the same activity is not repeated again and again consecutively. The only thing I can repeat is group sex. I am really fond of it and I prefer leaving my husband out of it. Since I like people unloading in my pussy, I take extra precautions to make sure that I don't give my husband a surprise. Overall I enjoy all of it.”

The above has been completely narrated by my wife and people who know me on this platform knows my wife quite well and what she is upto.

I died a lot to live a little with you.

Yaghma Golroei

happy lesbian visibility week

The old man accepted the invitation and went to that woman's house for food.

On the way, when people saw the old man with that woman, a man came to them and said, "How can you be with this woman?"

The old man told that he was going to this woman's house for a meal on her invitation, after knowing this the man said that you should not go to this woman's house, you will get a bad reputation.

Because this woman is characterless.

Despite this, the elders did not stop, within some time this news spread like wildfire. Suddenly the village head came running and requested the old man not to go to that woman's place.

Seeing the dispute, the old man asked everyone to remain calm, then smilingly held one of the chief's hands tightly in his own and said, "Can you clap now?"

The chief said, how can one clap with one hand?

On this the old man smiled and said that if one cannot clap with one hand then how can a single woman be characterless unless a man forces her to become characterless.

A characterless man is responsible for making a woman characterless.

What an irony it is that in this so-called male-dominated society, due to pride, this man considers a woman only as an object of his consumption for his false pride and forgets that he himself is responsible for the woman whom he is calling characterless.

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you have a way with words

that sweep me off my feet

even the way you say my name

sounds exquisite

- dee (your voice is music to my ears)

I need you like Earth need the Sun. Without you, there would be no life. You warm me like no other. For me, you are my star, the one who keeps me alive and going. Thank you for existing.

Intimacy is not just about sex. It's having heart-to-hearts, staying up all night talking, sharing childhood memories, thoughts, fears, dreams & hopes for the future. It's uncontrollable laughter, direct eye contact and feeling each other without touching - it's exchanging energy

15 Habits of Couples that last

1. They show affection both inside and outside the bedroom, nurturing their bond throughout the day.

2. They maintain trust and respect by refraining from gossiping about each other.

3. Starting and ending each day with hugs and kisses creates a strong foundation of love and connection.

4. Heading to bed together signifies unity and ensures quality time together.

5. Small gestures of kindness and thoughtfulness demonstrate their ongoing commitment to each other.

6. They cheer for each other's successes and share in the joy of accomplishments.

7. Together, they face challenges and stand united against outside influences.

8. Regular check-ins allow them to stay attuned to each other's needs and emotions.

9. Date nights are prioritized and cherished as sacred moments to nurture their relationship.

10. During disagreements, their focus is on finding common ground rather than winning arguments.

11. They share all aspects of their lives, fostering intimacy and deep connection.

12. Open and honest communication is valued, ensuring clarity and understanding in their relationship.

13. Active listening precedes thoughtful responses, fostering empathy and mutual understanding.

14. Rather than assigning blame, they focus on finding solutions and moving forward together.

15. Daily acts of sacrifice demonstrate their commitment to each other's happiness and well-being

As long as I see you, touch you, smell you, kiss you, My day automatically gets 10 times better Your presence is like a ray of sunshine Warming my heart and soul with love

Every smile from your lips Brightens the darkest corners of my mind Every word spoken by you Feels like a melody soothing my soul

I feel complete when I'm with you Like two puzzle pieces fitting perfectly together Your essence lingers in the air around me A sweet fragrance that intoxicates my senses

And when our lips meet in a tender kiss It's like fireworks exploding in the sky An electrifying spark that ignites passion within me Turning ordinary moments into extraordinary memories

You are my sunshine on a rainy day My anchor in a stormy sea of life With you by my side, I am invincible As long as I have you, my day automatically gets 10 times better.

As long as I see you, touch you, smell you, kiss you,

My day automatically gets 10 times better

Your presence is like a ray of sunshine

Warming my heart and soul with love

Every smile from your lips

Brightens the darkest corners of my mind

Every word spoken by you

Feels like a melody soothing my soulI feel complete when I'm with you

Like two puzzle pieces fitting perfectly together

Your essence lingers in the air around me

A sweet fragrance that intoxicates my senses

And when our lips meet in a tender kiss

It's like fireworks exploding in the sky

An electrifying spark that ignites passion within me

Turning ordinary moments into extraordinary memories

You are my sunshine on a rainy day

My anchor in a stormy sea of life

With you by my side, I am invincible

As long as I have you, my day automatically gets 10 times better.

not to be weird or anything but we could be kissing and dancing together to slow music in my dimly lit kitchen at 1:00am if you even care

Another letter you'll never get

I'm still here wondering if you think about me. Perhaps when you see a quote or listen to a song that I showed you. Or maybe you see something and think, "I'd love to tell her about this". I don't know if I'll ever be able to stop wondering about you. You are so deep in my thoughts, in my heart I think it's impossible to remove you from these places.

wolkenleere

HOW TO TURN ON WOMEN

1. Display confidence in yourself and your actions.

2. Pay attention to what she says and show interest in her thoughts.

3. Compliment her focusing on both physical and personal attributes.

4. Communicate openly and honestly.

5. Make her laugh with your sense of humor.

6. Surprise her with romantic gestures.

7. Take the lead in initiating physical intimacy, and show your manly desire.

8. Always be aware of her boundaries.

9. Be empathetic towards her feelings and experiences.

10. Use gentle touches to convey your attraction.

11. Maintain Personal Hygiene.

12. Dress in a way that makes you feel confident and attractive.

13. Share and explore new experiences together.

Just because you are having a discrete affair with your girl (lesbian), it doesn't mean that you use my name to save you neck.

You can not be trusted, and KARMA will pay you a visit.

My Own Shadow Has Started to Deceive Me In Broad Daylight.

Happy International Woman's Day

13 Powerful Secrets on How to Turn On Women every man MUST know.

1. Display confidence in yourself and your actions.

2. Pay attention to what she says and show interest in her thoughts.

3. Compliment her focusing on both physical and personal attributes.

4. Communicate openly and honestly.

5. Make her laugh with your sense of humor.

6. Surprise her with romantic gestures.

7. Take the lead in initiating physical intimacy, and show your manly desire.

8. Always be aware of her boundaries.

9. Be empathetic towards her feelings and experiences.

10. Use gentle touches to convey your attraction.

11. Maintain Personal Hygiene.

12. Dress in a way that makes you feel confident and attractive.

13. Share and explore new experiences together.

Another Super Duper Song.... music is awesome

“God gives every bird its food, but he does not throw it into its nest.”

— J. G. Holland

The Meaning of Existence

by Les Murray

Everything except language knows the meaning of existence. Trees, planets, rivers, time know nothing else. They express it moment by moment as the universe.

Even this fool of a body lives it in part, and would have full dignity within it but for the ignorant freedom of my talking mind.