If She Thinks That, At The End Of The Day, There'll Be A Friendly Dick To Pick Her And Call Her Special.

I have no idea why people forgot about Catholicism's collective cover-up of CSA within the church and how nothing was done about it. I have no idea why people think Catholicism is anything other than the institution that sat comfortably by when fascism emerged in Italy.

Those most addicted to this physicality obsessed reality are panicking. They know that this world can only operate the way it does, a hedonistic free for all, when there’s a nonstop production of new bodies. Ask these people why they really love life, and the answer has nothing to do with family. It’s just a stand in to get their personal needs met, and release built up emotional tension. Otherwise, children would be revered. We all know that isn’t true, AT ALL.

Anti-child is what the vast majority of families are. They mistakenly believe hoarding bodies is what makes a family just as holding another person captive is “true love.” Once again, how are children typically treated by their parents, and communities? Why has every woman had uncomfortable encounters while underage, if there’s allegedly so many family oriented people around? I don’t know a single family who has actually excommunicated an abuser, and the community usually steps in to offer more support for the predator.

Freedom to do what you want, is code for no longer contributing to the world’s selfish schemes. It upsets the masses because humans are each other’s favorite resource, and more people are waking up to this fact. They need new vulnerable and moldable people to extract from. Look how agitated they’ve become because consumption at an excessive rate is no longer as accessible. They don’t really hate corporations, only the fact that they’re pricing their products too high. Just like their frustration that more people, especially women, are placing a higher value on themselves.

I adore children, and believe they can be raised in an actual loving environment. That will never be true for the family system, which is an extension of the heterosexual “relationship” dynamic, built upon submission and domination. Those most eager to have children can’t wait to begin projecting gendered expectations, and continuing cycles. Fresh out of the womb and they’re slapping gigantic bows onto their daughter’s heads, and claiming their sons are “ladies men.” Throw in the dysfunction at home due to mom and dad’s maladjusted marriage, and you end up with the average citizen. No self esteem to speak up, preoccupied with physicality, and eager to ravage others.

Remember that “I think everyone should have the freedom and autonomy to make decisions regarding their own personal life” will never mean “all decisions and outcomes are equally good”.

Conversely, the statement “some decisions are better than others” does not imply the statement “decisions should be compelled.”

Freedom of choice liberalism has turned into a lazy ambivalence about how the choices we make either positively negatively impact ourselves and the people around us.

A critique of someone’s choices has been too often mistaken as an attack on their right to make that choice. For example, if I say that the glorification of tradwifery on TikTok will lead to bad outcomes for young girls, the statement “tradwives should not be allowed to post on TikTok” is nowhere near implied. If I say that wearing makeup encourages compliance by other women and perpetuates a patriarchal erasure of the image of women, I am not saying that I have any desire to make makeup illegal.

Those are certainly statements that feminists could make, but only assume that’s what someone means if they actually say it.

Opposing choice feminism does not an authoritarian make.

(of course this doesn’t apply to choices which directly aid or perpetrate sexual or physical violence)

Based

Been seeing some ignorant ass takes that assume that bp/sep women have done nothing for women.

I was a crisis line worker for a rape shelter. My job was to find and secure shelter spaces for homeless women, to coordinate appointments for women entering rehabilitation centers, to fundraise, to research legal records for violent male offenders, and to offer peer support and counselling over the phone for women - often for victims of male sexual abuse.

There was an incident where a lesbian woman contacted us seeking help, because she needed a place to stay temporarily, and the shelter was extremely hesitant to help her and gave her a difficult time because she wasn't directly a victim of male violence. Even though they had the means to help her.

~50% of the shelter's volunteers at that time were lesbians.

The woman who came to us was shocked and felt mishandled. I was disappointed as well and I had been advocating for her. She lost faith in the organization, which she had trusted because of its reputation. And I said, this is not sitting right with me. So I quit.

do not give me a love confession note man i will straight up roll that shit into a joint. i am not kidding. fuck your feelings for me i am smoking that shit

Types of women/red flags to avoid in friendships.

Women who always complain about everything

Women who seek to embarass you in front of others.

Women who dont acknowledge you in front of others.

Women who often -subtly- put you down.

Women who constantly tell you when other people say something bad about you

Yes-gyns. Women who always blindly agree with everything you say.

Women who always make excuses

MaIe-crazy women.

Women who dont respect boundaries.

If you're thinking of someone as you're reading all of this or the moment you saw "friendship red flags" - it's a sign to start moving on from them especially if they're draining you more than fulfilling you.

Will update this with link to longer post later.

Dealing With Executive Dysfunction - A Masterpost

The “getting it done in an unconventional way” method.

The “it’s not cheating to do it the easy way” method.

The “fuck what you’re supposed to do” method.

The “get stuff done while you wait” method.

The “you don’t have to do everything at once” method.

The “it doesn’t have to be permanent to be helpful” method.

The “break the task into smaller steps” method.

The “treat yourself like a pet” method.

The “it doesn’t have to be all or nothing” method.

The “put on a persona” method.

The “act like you’re filming a tutorial” method.

The “you don’t have to do it perfectly” method.

The “wait for a trigger” method.

The “do it for your future self” method.

The “might as well” method.

The “when self discipline doesn’t cut it” method.

The “taking care of yourself to take care of your pet” method.

The “make it easy” method.

The “junebugging” method.

The “just show up” method.

The “accept when you need help” method.

The “make it into a game” method.

The “everything worth doing is worth doing poorly” method.

The “trick yourself” method.

The “break it into even smaller steps” method.

The “let go of should” method.

The “your body is an animal you have to take care of” method.

The “fork theory” method.

The “effectivity over aesthetics” method.

I hate breeders!

some of y'all are strong, brave and invincible feminist women until a woman on tumblr.com implies that separatism is a good idea and that women should try to stop dating men for feminism and safety reasons, then there's no strength or bravery left it's literally too much to handle and you're all crying and shaking in your boots. grow a fucking spine