Kink Isnt Sexual And Dude Isnt Gendered And Aces Can Desire Sex And Cishet Men Are Queer And Lesbians

Your post about reading is so true and I’m thankful you made that post. Yeah I literally think an illiterate woman somewhere in a shitty country that fights for womens rights/education and fights with all her might to not get married and doesn’t care about femininity is better than tunglr radfems that say they read theory and talk about dick a little extra when a post triggers them

Yup girl. You don't need theory to fight for your rights. Clearly theory doesn't automatically mean you're gonna come to the right conclusions

I believe the myth that anger turns you into the people/person that abused you was created to keep women placated and in a position where we are never fully able to take ownership of their own rage because, according to that myth, that makes you just as bad as your abusers. Please be a hater and angry till the day you die. WHAT THEY DID WAS NEVER OKAY AND IT NEVER WILL BE.

anyway… if anyone is looking to improve their reading & writing skills, i highly recommend this article by celine nguyen, which analyses the opening paragraphs of good essays to understand how and why they work. focuses on nonfiction but could apply generally i think

we live in this weird culture where most people are so obsessed with airing every single trauma and mental health issue they have to the point that if you’re private about certain things people assume you have no issues or struggle lmao like ok

I just can't get behind this mindset that adult women, some of whom are ultra-rich and educated, are victims of their own choices - such as walking around naked in public, or choosing to do some other degrading thing they weren't forced into (and were paid very well to do, hence why they did it.) Women are not pieces of hay floating helplessly hither and thither by whatever new "breeze" of influence comes upon them. Sometimes a woman making a bad choice is just a woman making a bad choice without any coersion, and she knows exactly what she's doing and why.

I don't care if you want to refrain from judging them for their decisions, but you should seriously question why you think they're not capable of consciously choosing them, or why you think those decisions can't be criticized for the standard they're upholding for other women. Because if you think women have no real agency, then feminism is pointless and you may as well let the men (the people you DO think can make decisions and who you hold responsible for them) do your thinking for you.

Numbers don’t lie. But humans using numbers lie all the time.

I always think it’s very interesting that Aileen Wuornos is consistently said to be one of the most notorious serial killers in history, despite the fact that if she was male, her victim count and murder method would barely be considered notable nevermind one of the worst.

She killed 7 Johns by shooting them in the head, yet she gets put on lists with men who raped, tortured, and killed 30+ people.

lack of accountability is our biggest issue these days. we don't move past the guilt, we don't ground ourselves in our free will, we don't let ourselves be moved. we just feel guilty, suppress it, numb it, talk ourselves out of it. and continue in the same old ways we deep down know are wrong. but you are not a victim of your guilt, your guilt is merely a sign.

what gets me about the radfems on here with boyfriends/husbands/children is they had to deliberately let everyone know that. they could've easily just not mentioned it and we wouldn't have been none the wiser but nope. they couldn't help themselves and had to not make a personal blog but specifically post on their radfem blog about how they don't even remotely practice what they preach. yet do think they're so much smarter and more aware than all the normie women with male partners and kids. they don't just date and marry men- they make a point of thinking they're superior than women who dont.

Right? But these women have been pushed into het relationships their whole life and have had them rewarded and encouraged, so when some women do NOT do that, they're taken aback. Like when a kid goes to school and realizes that the world doesn't revolve around them like at home.

glad to be a eugenicist. glad to not pretend that humans aren't animals. glad to not think humans are in any way special. glad to not deny reality to self-soothe and/or shame opposition.