How To Avoid Drama In Your Life. (School/Work/Family)

How to avoid drama in your life. (School/Work/Family)

Hate to say this but i don't really think some people can just live their life without poking into other's business and causing unnecessary turmoil so, here's a guide to avoid all types of unnecessary drama in your life.

A full communication circle.

Communication is the main cause for most fights so, here's the thing. When there is something that needs to be done, inform all necessary people about it in advance. Here's a mistake most do, they just tell one person and ask them to put forward the message to the others but tell them directly. Literally, it is the safest option for you, like no one can blame you that you didn't tell them. No one can hold it against you. So tell them directly. And from time to time get repeated reminders so they remember.

Don't involve yourself in unnecessary talks

This is serious. If you are sitting and your friends are complaining about someone, you just listen to them. Don't add on to the things and hype up them. If you know that person isn't like that, defend them subtly. Involving in gossip is the worst. When someone says something about another person or even you then just reply with "I don't really care, they are/ I am free to do whatever they/I want." Or "I don't have the energy for this." Or "It's really none of my business/concern".

If you demand respect, you need to give respect.

Be nice to everyone, I am serious about this. Even if you're not friendly with the person or you don't like them, just be nice. It won't hurt you or them. Even if they do something to hurt you, just let it go with a "Meh it's fine but i would appreciate it if you won't do it again". This may even work people up a bit, handle yourself with care. Make it seem that their presence doesn't actually threaten you.

Calm composure.

Keep yourself calm and composed whenever you're faced with a difficult situation, do not react immediately, take a breath. I usually just frown but more than that, I won't react to anything. It takes some practice but eventually, this is useful. The reason for you to maintain a calm composure is because if the person who hurt you is looking for a dramatic reaction, don't give them the satisfaction.

Better articulation

Especially if it's important instructions! When someone accuses you of something, don't immediately raise your voice, think for a moment, let them wait and then reply with what had actually happened in your point of view.

Apologize. Even if it isn't your fault.

Sometimes, people are just shitty and they won't understand even if you explain it a hundred or a million times. In those case, just say the magic two letter word -> "I'm sorry" or "I apologise". Your worth doesn't come down just because you apologised, on the other hand, you just became a better person than the other one.

It's simply not your damn business.

When someone directly tells you about their life etc etc. You lend a compassionate ear to them. If it's a story going around the whole place, it's simply not your business. And you can say this directly to the person passing the gossip, if they argue then that means you now actualy are aware of another gossip machine.

Don't EVER share your opinions on important matters with a person higher than you! Especially not in front of other people!

I'm damn serious, you don't know who will have it against you so, be careful around who you're saying things to. Other important matters include opinions about the specific person, politics, nationality, culture etc etc. Be sensitive.

Break the chain

When you hear something bad is going around and it reaches you, keep it to your damn self. Don't go adding the fuel to the fire like the rest!

Do not assume!

Don't assume about a situation or a person. Clarify. Always clarify. You may not know what the other person was going through, you don't know everything. Just don't think something, clarify it. No body is going to get mad at you for clarifying.

Make excuses.

When you hear someone talking bad about someone else. Defend them. Make excuses. I don't mean lie to them, I mean saying things like, "It's alright. You don't know what they were going through." Or "Maybe something happened that you don't know about." Personally, I always use the second one because I feel like, sometimes, people aren't bad guys. Situations make them act like that. Povs differ. So be mindful.

Don't raise your voice. Improve your argument.

If there is an argument. Do the classic Harvey Specter thing. You improve arguments with a neutral tone. Don't sound mocking or cocky, sound like you're just explaining to them. This won't escalate the scenario. (The quote was actually given by Desmond Tutu)

Hope this helps! :)

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π‘Œπ‘œπ‘’ 𝑔𝑒𝑑 π‘“π‘œπ‘’π‘Ÿ π‘žπ‘’π‘Žπ‘Ÿπ‘‘π‘’π‘Ÿπ‘  π‘Ž π‘¦π‘’π‘Žπ‘Ÿ. π‘‡β„Žπ‘Žπ‘‘ π‘šπ‘’π‘Žπ‘›π‘  π‘¦π‘œπ‘’ β„Žπ‘Žπ‘£π‘’ π‘›π‘œ 𝑒π‘₯𝑐𝑒𝑠𝑒 π‘›π‘œπ‘‘ π‘‘π‘œ π‘–π‘šπ‘π‘Ÿπ‘œπ‘£π‘’ π‘Žπ‘‘ π‘™π‘’π‘Žπ‘ π‘‘ π‘‘π‘€π‘œ π‘Žπ‘Ÿπ‘’π‘Žπ‘  π‘’π‘£π‘’π‘Ÿπ‘¦ π‘‘β„Žπ‘Ÿπ‘’π‘’ π‘šπ‘œπ‘›π‘‘β„Žπ‘ . 𝐼𝑓 π‘¦π‘œπ‘’ π‘π‘Žπ‘›'𝑑 π‘π‘œπ‘šπ‘šπ‘–π‘‘ π‘‘π‘œ π‘‘β„Žπ‘Žπ‘‘, π‘‘π‘œπ‘›'𝑑 π‘π‘œπ‘šπ‘π‘™π‘Žπ‘–π‘› π‘Žπ‘π‘œπ‘’π‘‘ 𝑏𝑒𝑖𝑛𝑔 π‘ π‘‘π‘’π‘π‘˜.

𝐴𝑃𝑅𝐼𝐿-π‘€π΄π‘Œ-π½π‘ˆπ‘πΈ

𝐺𝐸𝑇 π‘†πΈπ‘…πΌπ‘‚π‘ˆπ‘† 𝑂𝑅 π‘†π‘‡π΄π‘Œ 𝑇𝐻𝐸 𝑆𝐴𝑀𝐸

✰ πΆβ„Žπ‘œπ‘œπ‘ π‘’ 2 π‘Žπ‘Ÿπ‘’π‘Žπ‘  π‘œπ‘“ π‘¦π‘œπ‘’π‘Ÿ 𝑙𝑖𝑓𝑒 π‘‘β„Žπ‘Žπ‘‘ 𝑛𝑒𝑒𝑑 π‘€π‘œπ‘Ÿπ‘˜ (𝑦𝑒𝑠, π‘Žπ‘π‘‘π‘’π‘Žπ‘™π‘™π‘¦ π‘β„Žπ‘œπ‘œπ‘ π‘’).

✰ 𝑆𝑒𝑑 3 π‘π‘™π‘’π‘Žπ‘Ÿ π‘Žπ‘π‘‘π‘–π‘œπ‘› 𝑠𝑑𝑒𝑝𝑠 π‘“π‘œπ‘Ÿ π‘’π‘Žπ‘β„Ž. π‘π‘œ π‘£π‘Žπ‘”π‘’π‘’ "𝐼'𝑙𝑙 π‘‡π‘Ÿπ‘¦" π‘›π‘œπ‘›π‘ π‘’π‘›π‘ π‘’.

✰ π‘‡π‘Ÿπ‘Žπ‘π‘˜ π‘¦π‘œπ‘’π‘Ÿ π‘π‘Ÿπ‘œπ‘”π‘Ÿπ‘’π‘ π‘  (π‘Ž β„Žπ‘Žπ‘π‘–π‘‘ π‘‘π‘Ÿπ‘Žπ‘π‘˜π‘’π‘Ÿ π‘œπ‘Ÿ π‘—π‘œπ‘’π‘Ÿπ‘›π‘Žπ‘™ π‘€π‘œπ‘Ÿπ‘˜π‘  𝑏𝑒𝑠𝑑!)

✰ π‘†β„Žπ‘œπ‘€ 𝑒𝑝 π‘’π‘£π‘’π‘Ÿπ‘¦ π‘‘π‘Žπ‘¦. π‘π‘œπ‘‘ 𝑗𝑒𝑠𝑑 π‘€β„Žπ‘’π‘› π‘¦π‘œπ‘’ 𝑓𝑒𝑒𝑙 π‘šπ‘œπ‘‘π‘–π‘£π‘Žπ‘‘π‘’π‘‘.

✰ π‘…π‘’π‘€π‘Žπ‘Ÿπ‘‘ π‘¦π‘œπ‘’π‘Ÿπ‘ π‘’π‘™π‘“- 𝐡𝑒𝑑 π‘œπ‘›π‘™π‘¦ 𝑖𝑓 π‘¦π‘œπ‘’ 𝐸𝐴𝑅𝑁 𝑖𝑑

𝑇𝑖𝑝: π‘‡π‘Ÿπ‘Žπ‘π‘˜ π‘‘β„Žπ‘’ π‘‘π‘–π‘šπ‘’π‘  π‘¦π‘œπ‘’ π‘Žπ‘™π‘šπ‘œπ‘ π‘‘ π‘”π‘Žπ‘£π‘’ 𝑒𝑝, π‘Ž 𝑣𝑖𝑠𝑖𝑏𝑙𝑒 π‘β„Žπ‘Žπ‘Ÿπ‘‘ 𝑖𝑠 𝑏𝑒𝑠𝑑. π‘‡β„Žπ‘–π‘  𝑖𝑠 𝑗𝑒𝑠𝑑 π‘Ž π‘Ÿπ‘’π‘šπ‘–π‘›π‘‘π‘’π‘Ÿ π‘‘β„Žπ‘Žπ‘‘ π‘¦π‘œπ‘’ π‘Žπ‘Ÿπ‘’ π‘‘π‘œπ‘–π‘›π‘” π‘”π‘Ÿπ‘’π‘Žπ‘‘ π‘Žπ‘›π‘‘ 𝑖𝑑 π‘šπ‘œπ‘‘π‘–π‘£π‘Žπ‘‘π‘’π‘  π‘¦π‘œπ‘’ π‘‘π‘œ π‘˜π‘’π‘’π‘ π‘”π‘œπ‘–π‘›π‘”!

π»π‘‚π‘Š 𝑇𝑂 πΊπΏπ‘‚π‘Š π‘ˆπ‘ƒ- 2𝑁𝐷 π‘„π‘ˆπ΄π‘…π‘‡πΈπ‘…

𝐢𝐻𝑂𝑂𝑆𝐸 π‘Œπ‘‚π‘ˆπ‘… 𝐴𝑅𝐸𝐴𝑆 𝑂𝐹 𝐼𝑀𝑃𝑅𝑂𝑉𝐸𝑀𝐸𝑁𝑇

π»π‘’π‘Ÿπ‘’ π‘Žπ‘Ÿπ‘’ π‘ π‘œπ‘šπ‘’ π‘–π‘‘π‘’π‘Žπ‘  π‘‘π‘œ β„Žπ‘’π‘™π‘ π‘¦π‘œπ‘’ 𝑑𝑒𝑐𝑖𝑑𝑒:

πΆπ‘Žπ‘Ÿπ‘’π‘’π‘Ÿ πΊπ‘œπ‘Žπ‘™π‘  - 𝐿𝑒𝑣𝑒𝑙 π‘ˆπ‘ π‘ƒπ‘Ÿπ‘œπ‘“π‘’π‘ π‘ π‘–π‘œπ‘›π‘Žπ‘™π‘™π‘¦

π‘π‘’π‘”π‘œπ‘‘π‘–π‘Žπ‘‘π‘’ π‘Ž π‘Ÿπ‘Žπ‘–π‘ π‘’ π‘œπ‘Ÿ π‘π‘Ÿπ‘œπ‘šπ‘œπ‘‘π‘–π‘œπ‘› - 𝑆𝑒𝑑 𝑒𝑝 π‘Ž π‘šπ‘’π‘’π‘‘π‘–π‘›π‘” π‘€π‘–π‘‘β„Ž π‘¦π‘œπ‘’π‘Ÿ π‘π‘œπ‘ π‘ .

π‘ˆπ‘π‘”π‘Ÿπ‘Žπ‘‘π‘’ π‘¦π‘œπ‘’π‘Ÿ π‘ π‘˜π‘–π‘™π‘™π‘  - π‘‡π‘Žπ‘˜π‘’ π‘Žπ‘› π‘œπ‘›π‘™π‘–π‘›π‘’ π‘π‘œπ‘’π‘Ÿπ‘ π‘’ π‘œπ‘Ÿ π‘Žπ‘‘π‘‘π‘’π‘›π‘‘ π‘Ž π‘€π‘œπ‘Ÿπ‘˜π‘ β„Žπ‘œπ‘.

π½π‘œπ‘ π‘ π‘’π‘Žπ‘Ÿπ‘β„Ž - 𝐼𝑓 π‘¦π‘œπ‘’'π‘Ÿπ‘Ÿ π‘’π‘›β„Žπ‘Žπ‘π‘π‘¦, 𝑒π‘₯π‘π‘™π‘œπ‘Ÿπ‘’ 𝑛𝑒𝑀 π‘œπ‘π‘π‘œπ‘Ÿπ‘‘π‘’π‘›π‘–π‘‘π‘–π‘’π‘ .

𝐸π‘₯π‘π‘Žπ‘›π‘‘ π‘¦π‘œπ‘’π‘Ÿ π‘›π‘’π‘‘π‘€π‘œπ‘Ÿπ‘˜ - πΆπ‘œπ‘›π‘›π‘’π‘π‘‘ π‘€π‘–π‘‘β„Ž π‘šπ‘’π‘›π‘‘π‘œπ‘Ÿπ‘  π‘œπ‘Ÿ π‘–π‘›π‘‘π‘’π‘ π‘‘π‘Ÿπ‘¦ π‘π‘Ÿπ‘œπ‘“π‘’π‘ π‘ π‘–π‘œπ‘›π‘Žπ‘™π‘ .

𝑆𝑒𝑑 π‘€π‘œπ‘Ÿπ‘˜-𝑙𝑖𝑓𝑒 π‘π‘œπ‘’π‘›π‘‘π‘Žπ‘Ÿπ‘–π‘’π‘  - π‘ƒπ‘Ÿπ‘œπ‘‘π‘’π‘π‘‘ π‘¦π‘œπ‘’π‘Ÿ π‘šπ‘’π‘›π‘‘π‘Žπ‘™ β„Žπ‘’π‘Žπ‘™π‘‘β„Ž.

πΉπ‘–π‘›π‘Žπ‘›π‘π‘’π‘  - π‘†π‘’π‘π‘’π‘Ÿπ‘’ π‘‡β„Žπ‘’ π΅π‘Žπ‘”

𝑅𝑒𝑣𝑖𝑒𝑀 π‘™π‘Žπ‘ π‘‘ π‘šπ‘œπ‘›π‘‘β„Ž'𝑠 𝑒π‘₯𝑝𝑒𝑛𝑠𝑒𝑠 - πΎπ‘›π‘œπ‘€ π‘€β„Žπ‘’π‘Ÿπ‘’ π‘¦π‘œπ‘’π‘Ÿ π‘šπ‘œπ‘›π‘’π‘¦ 𝑖𝑠 π‘”π‘œπ‘–π‘›π‘”.

πΆπ‘Ÿπ‘’π‘Žπ‘‘π‘’ π‘Ž π‘Ÿπ‘’π‘Žπ‘™π‘–π‘ π‘‘π‘–π‘ 𝑏𝑒𝑑𝑔𝑒𝑑 - π‘†π‘‘π‘–π‘π‘˜ π‘‘π‘œ π‘Ž π‘π‘™π‘Žπ‘› π‘‘β„Žπ‘Žπ‘‘ π‘€π‘œπ‘Ÿπ‘˜π‘  π‘“π‘œπ‘Ÿ π‘¦π‘œπ‘’.

π‘ˆπ‘ π‘’ π‘ π‘’π‘π‘Žπ‘Ÿπ‘Žπ‘‘π‘’ π‘π‘Žπ‘Ÿπ‘‘π‘ /π‘Žπ‘π‘π‘œπ‘’π‘›π‘‘π‘  π‘‘π‘œ π‘šπ‘Žπ‘›π‘Žπ‘”π‘’ 𝑠𝑝𝑒𝑛𝑑𝑖𝑛𝑔.

𝐡𝑖𝑙𝑙𝑠 - π‘œπ‘›π‘™π‘¦ π‘π‘Žπ‘Ÿπ‘‘.

𝐡𝑒𝑑𝑔𝑒𝑑𝑒𝑑 𝑠𝑝𝑒𝑛𝑑𝑖𝑛𝑔 π‘π‘Žπ‘Ÿπ‘‘.

π‘†π‘Žπ‘£π‘–π‘›π‘”π‘  π‘Žπ‘π‘π‘œπ‘’π‘›π‘‘.

π‘†π‘‘π‘Žπ‘Ÿπ‘‘ π‘†π‘Žπ‘£π‘–π‘›π‘”! - 𝐸𝑣𝑒𝑛 π‘ π‘šπ‘Žπ‘™π‘™ π‘Žπ‘šπ‘œπ‘’π‘›π‘‘π‘  π‘šπ‘Žπ‘‘π‘‘π‘’π‘Ÿ.

πΆπ‘Žπ‘›π‘π‘’π‘™ π‘’π‘›π‘›π‘’π‘π‘’π‘ π‘ π‘Žπ‘Ÿπ‘¦ π‘ π‘’π‘π‘ π‘π‘Ÿπ‘–π‘π‘‘π‘–π‘œπ‘›π‘  - 𝐢𝑒𝑑 π‘œπ‘’π‘‘ π‘€β„Žπ‘Žπ‘‘ π‘¦π‘œπ‘’ π‘‘π‘œπ‘›'𝑑 𝑒𝑠𝑒.

π‘ƒπ‘Žπ‘¦ 𝑏𝑖𝑙𝑙𝑠 π‘œπ‘› π‘‘π‘–π‘šπ‘’ - π΄π‘£π‘œπ‘–π‘‘ π‘™π‘Žπ‘‘π‘’ 𝑓𝑒𝑒𝑠.

πΆπ‘œπ‘œπ‘˜ π‘Žπ‘‘ β„Žπ‘œπ‘šπ‘’ - π‘†π‘Žπ‘£π‘’ π‘šπ‘œπ‘›π‘’π‘¦ π‘Žπ‘›π‘‘ π‘’π‘Žπ‘‘ β„Žπ‘’π‘Žπ‘™π‘‘β„Žπ‘–π‘’π‘Ÿ.

𝑃𝑅𝐴𝐢𝑇𝐼𝐢𝐸 𝐺𝑂𝐴𝐿 𝑆𝐸𝑇𝑇𝐼𝑁𝐺 - 𝑇𝐻𝐸 𝑅𝐼𝐺𝐻𝑇 π‘Šπ΄π‘Œ

𝑆𝑒𝑑𝑑𝑖𝑛𝑔 π‘”π‘œπ‘Žπ‘™π‘  π‘π‘Žπ‘› 𝑓𝑒𝑒𝑙 π‘œπ‘£π‘’π‘Ÿπ‘€β„Žπ‘’π‘™π‘šπ‘–π‘›π‘”, 𝑏𝑒𝑑 π‘ π‘–π‘šπ‘π‘™π‘–π‘π‘–π‘‘π‘¦ 𝑖𝑠 π‘˜π‘’π‘¦.

✰ π‘ƒπ‘–π‘π‘˜ 𝑗𝑒𝑠𝑑 2 π‘“π‘œπ‘π‘’π‘  π‘Žπ‘Ÿπ‘’π‘Žπ‘  π‘‘β„Žπ‘–π‘  π‘žπ‘’π‘Žπ‘Ÿπ‘‘π‘’π‘Ÿ - π‘‘π‘œπ‘›'𝑑 π‘œπ‘£π‘’π‘Ÿπ‘™π‘œπ‘Žπ‘‘ π‘¦π‘œπ‘’π‘Ÿπ‘ π‘’π‘™π‘“.

✰ π΅π‘Ÿπ‘’π‘Žπ‘˜ 𝑖𝑑 π‘‘π‘œπ‘€π‘› - πΆβ„Žπ‘œπ‘œπ‘ π‘’ 2 π‘ π‘šπ‘Žπ‘™π‘™ 𝑠𝑑𝑒𝑝𝑠 π‘π‘’π‘Ÿ π‘šπ‘œπ‘›π‘‘β„Ž

✰ π‘ˆπ‘ π‘’ π‘Ž π‘π‘™π‘Žπ‘›π‘›π‘’π‘Ÿ π‘œπ‘Ÿ π‘—π‘œπ‘’π‘Ÿπ‘›π‘Žπ‘™ π‘‘π‘œ π‘‘π‘Ÿπ‘Žπ‘π‘˜ π‘π‘Ÿπ‘œπ‘”π‘Ÿπ‘’π‘ π‘ .

✰ πΆβ„Žπ‘’π‘π‘˜ π‘œπ‘“π‘“ π‘Žπ‘π‘π‘œπ‘šπ‘π‘™π‘–π‘ β„Žπ‘šπ‘’π‘›π‘‘ - πΆπ‘’π‘™π‘’π‘π‘Ÿπ‘Žπ‘‘π‘’ π‘ π‘šπ‘Žπ‘™π‘™ 𝑀𝑖𝑛𝑠.

✰ π‘…π‘’π‘€π‘Žπ‘Ÿπ‘‘ π‘¦π‘œπ‘’π‘Ÿπ‘ π‘’π‘™π‘“ π‘’π‘£π‘’π‘Ÿπ‘¦ π‘‘π‘–π‘šπ‘’ π‘¦π‘œπ‘’ π‘‘π‘œπ‘›'𝑑 π‘žπ‘’π‘–π‘‘!

π»π‘‚π‘Š 𝑇𝑂 πΊπΏπ‘‚π‘Š π‘ˆπ‘ƒ- 2𝑁𝐷 π‘„π‘ˆπ΄π‘…π‘‡πΈπ‘…

π‘…πΈπ‘Šπ΄π‘…π· π‘Œπ‘‚π‘ˆπ‘…π‘†πΈπΏπΉ π΅πΈπΆπ΄π‘ˆπ‘†πΈ π‘Œπ‘‚π‘ˆ 𝐷𝐸𝑆𝐸𝑅𝑉𝐸 𝐼𝑇

π‘¦π‘œπ‘’ π‘Žπ‘Ÿπ‘’ π‘€π‘œπ‘Ÿπ‘˜π‘–π‘›π‘” β„Žπ‘Žπ‘Ÿπ‘‘, π‘Žπ‘›π‘‘ π‘π‘Ÿπ‘œπ‘”π‘Ÿπ‘’π‘ π‘  π‘‘π‘’π‘ π‘’π‘Ÿπ‘£π‘’π‘  π‘π‘’π‘™π‘’π‘π‘Ÿπ‘Žπ‘‘π‘–π‘œπ‘›! π»π‘’π‘Ÿπ‘’ π‘Žπ‘Ÿπ‘’ π‘Ž 𝑓𝑒𝑀 π‘€π‘Žπ‘¦π‘  π‘‘π‘œ π‘‘π‘Ÿπ‘’π‘Žπ‘‘ π‘¦π‘œπ‘’π‘Ÿπ‘ π‘’π‘™π‘“:

π‘†π‘π‘Ž π·π‘Žπ‘¦ : π‘…π‘’π‘™π‘Žπ‘₯, 𝑒𝑛𝑀𝑖𝑛𝑑, π‘Žπ‘›π‘‘ π‘Ÿπ‘’π‘β„Žπ‘Žπ‘Ÿπ‘”π‘’.

π·π‘Žπ‘‘π‘’ π‘π‘–π‘”β„Žπ‘‘ : π‘†π‘œπ‘™π‘œ π‘œπ‘Ÿ π‘€π‘–π‘‘β„Ž π‘Ž π‘™π‘œπ‘£π‘’π‘‘ π‘œπ‘›π‘’, π‘’π‘›π‘—π‘œπ‘¦ π‘Ž 𝑛𝑖𝑐𝑒 π‘šπ‘’π‘Žπ‘™.

π‘€π‘œπ‘£π‘–π‘’ π‘π‘–π‘”β„Žπ‘‘ : πΆπ‘œπ‘§π‘¦ 𝑒𝑝 π‘€π‘–π‘‘β„Ž π‘¦π‘œπ‘’π‘Ÿ π‘“π‘Žπ‘£π‘œπ‘Ÿπ‘–π‘‘π‘’ π‘“π‘–π‘™π‘š.

π‘†β„Žπ‘œπ‘π‘π‘–π‘›π‘” π‘†π‘π‘Ÿπ‘’π‘’ : 𝐡𝑒𝑦 π‘¦π‘œπ‘’π‘Ÿπ‘ π‘’π‘™π‘“ π‘ π‘œπ‘šπ‘’π‘‘β„Žπ‘–π‘›π‘” 𝑛𝑖𝑐𝑒 (π‘€π‘–π‘‘β„Žπ‘–π‘› 𝑏𝑒𝑑𝑔𝑒𝑑!)

𝐹𝐼𝑁𝐴𝐿 𝑅𝐸𝑀𝐼𝑁𝐷𝐸𝑅

πΊπ‘Ÿπ‘œπ‘€π‘‘β„Ž 𝑖𝑠𝑛'𝑑 π‘Žπ‘π‘œπ‘’π‘‘ π‘π‘’π‘Ÿπ‘“π‘’π‘π‘‘π‘–π‘œπ‘›- 𝑖𝑑'𝑠 π‘Žπ‘π‘œπ‘’π‘‘ π‘π‘Ÿπ‘œπ‘”π‘Ÿπ‘’π‘ π‘ . π‘†π‘‘π‘Žπ‘¦ π‘π‘œπ‘›π‘ π‘–π‘ π‘‘π‘’π‘›π‘‘, π‘‘π‘Ÿπ‘Žπ‘π‘˜ π‘¦π‘œπ‘’π‘Ÿ 𝑀𝑖𝑛𝑠, π‘Žπ‘›π‘‘ π‘Ÿπ‘’π‘šπ‘’π‘šπ‘π‘’π‘Ÿ : πΈπ‘£π‘’π‘Ÿπ‘¦ π‘ π‘šπ‘Žπ‘™π‘™ 𝑠𝑑𝑒𝑝 π‘Žπ‘‘π‘‘π‘  𝑒𝑝 π‘‘π‘œ π‘Ž 𝑏𝑖𝑔 π‘‘π‘Ÿπ‘Žπ‘›π‘ π‘“π‘œπ‘Ÿπ‘šπ‘Žπ‘‘π‘–π‘œπ‘›.

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8 months ago
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1 month ago

The It-Girl Blueprint: Where to Put Your Energy :

The It-Girl Blueprint: Where To Put Your Energy :
The It-Girl Blueprint: Where To Put Your Energy :
The It-Girl Blueprint: Where To Put Your Energy :

An It-Girl doesn’t waste time overthinking, gossiping, or stressing about other people's actions or behaviour. She doesn’t entertain unnecessary thoughts or internal conflicts. An it-girl doesn't dwell on things that drain her. Instead, she detaches, refocuses, and puts all that energy into herselfβ€”her growth, her glow, her dream life.

Learning a new language

Crocheting

Reading (books, articles, etc.)

Learning sign language

Practicing Pilates, Yin Yoga, and workout

Writing a novel

Writing comics or short stories

DIY projects (decor, stationery, etc.)

Dancing or learning new choreography

Listening to pep talks and podcasts

Doing facial massages

Weekly exfoliation & masks

Staying hydrated

At-home spa days

Hair care routine

Nail care routine

Skin care routine

Tracking skincare progress

Start a blog and share your journey

Learning digital art and design

Drinking lemon water for skin clarity

Cleaning makeup brushes regularly

Applying SPF daily

Cleansing your skin twice a day

Learning video editing skills

Learning effective communication skills

Painting & sketching

Practicing meditation, mindfulness, and self-awareness

Making your favorite food and experimenting with new recipes

Learning attractive body language and self-presentation

Learning about fashion & finding your style

Diy candles

Planning ahead for studies and personal goals

Planning and preparing for exams in advance

Creating a schedule for consistent progress

Organizing and cleaning your desk

Experimenting with makeup and beauty routines

Learning photography

Exploring new music and creating playlists

Designing and organizing your personal planner

Taking nature walks

Trying out journaling

Making your personal playlist for different moods

Learning about astrology or spirituality

Doing vision board

Exploring aromatherapy and creating a calming space

Practicing gratitude journaling or affirmations

Creating a travel bucket list

Developing a signature fragrance

Growing your own mini garden

Trying out new hairstyles or hair experiments

Staying active with fitness routines

Mastering time management

Learning new skills online

Doing regular digital detoxes

And yet, there are so many more... the list goes on...

The It-Girl Blueprint: Where To Put Your Energy :
The It-Girl Blueprint: Where To Put Your Energy :
The It-Girl Blueprint: Where To Put Your Energy :
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11 months ago

pinterest and tumblr are the girls’ version of the dark web

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11 months ago

dream girl affs β‚ŠΛšπŸ¦’βœ©

Dream Girl Affs β‚ŠΛšπŸ¦’βœ©
Dream Girl Affs β‚ŠΛšπŸ¦’βœ©
Dream Girl Affs β‚ŠΛšπŸ¦’βœ©
Dream Girl Affs β‚ŠΛšπŸ¦’βœ©

i'm everyone's dream girl

everyone loves me for who i am

i'm the ultimate it girl

i always shine

i sparkle and bring joy wherever i go

i'm the emulation of everything pink and pretty

i'm the perfect blend of grace and charm

my smile lights up the room

i am adored and admired by all

i am beautiful, kind, and elegant

my heart is as warm as my style is flawless

i am cute and confident

i am enchanting, delightful, and lovely

everyone sees the magic in me

i'm a literal gem among girls

i bring color and happiness to life

my style is always on point

i'm a fashion icon

i am so sweet and alluring

i make the world a prettier place just by being in it

i spread positivity and love wherever i go

my presence is a gift, and everyone appreciates me

everyone dreams of having a friend like me

i'm the girl everyone wants to be around

i turn heads and capture hearts effortlessly

i live my best life every single day

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7 months ago

⎯ Goodbye Summer⎯

⎯ Goodbye Summer⎯
⎯ Goodbye Summer⎯
⎯ Goodbye Summer⎯
⎯ Goodbye Summer⎯
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2 months ago

April : your chance to rise even higher.

April is the month to prove to yourself how strong, capable, and unstoppable you are. Every day is a new opportunity to learn, grow, and move closer to your goals.

April : Your Chance To Rise Even Higher.
April : Your Chance To Rise Even Higher.
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1 year ago

Little things to upgrade your morning routine

Little Things To Upgrade Your Morning Routine
Little Things To Upgrade Your Morning Routine

Always start your morning with a nice drink like a coffee, matcha, or tea.

Say good morning to your pets, you can also text your friends and maybe, make some plans!! <3

Set an alarm so you wake up on time and don't feel rushed, for me, it's usually enough to just sleep with my blinds open!! :)

Open your windows to let some fresh air in, also make sure to check if any of your plants need water!!

Make-up and music. I love doing my make-up while listening to one of my playlists, it's the perfect way to set the mood <3

Positive affirmations!! You can write them on sticky notes and put them on your mirror so you'll see them while getting ready!! :)

Prepare a cute outfit the night before, and make sure to check the weather so you can plan ahead!

Don't skip breakfast, If you are busy, you can meal prep some overnight oat or chia pudding the night before.

Try reading at least 10 pages in the morning, it will help you feel more refreshed.

Make sure to check your bag, so you don't forget things like your lip combo, keys, and headphones!! Nothing worse than sitting on the subway without headphones (me rn) :((

As always, please feel free to share your own suggestions and tips in the comments!! I hope you all have a beautiful Monday/Week <3

βœ©β€§β‚Š*:・love ya ο½₯:*β‚Šβ€§βœ©

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