When I shifted for the first time, I wasn't doing anything special.
I didn't embody my Dr self, I didn't affirm throughout the day, I didn't pretend to be somewhere I was not. I didn't visualize, I didn't script, I didn't even set an intention.
I put on a subliminal, took a nap, and woke up in a different reality.
I'm not saying this to tell you to stop everything you're doing, I'm not saying your methods are wrong or your reality checks are an overkill... I'm only saying this because I too have tried literally everything under the sun for years before I shifted and all it took was a nap.
Shifting is a simple or as complicated as you want it to be. If you assume that you don't have to do anything to shift, and you hold that assumption near and dear to your heart, you will shift without doing anything. The funny thing is that at the time I didn't even have that assumption, but every time I shifted after that I wasn't doing anything special. Yes my shifts have not lasted as long as the first one yet, but the point is:
I shifted.
And so will you.
And lastly, I would like to share with you this beautiful success story that I got under my subliminal yesterday:
Happy shifting โค๏ธ
I've always thought Jupiter ruled Nakshatras (Punarvasu, Vishakha, & Purvabhadprada) to be veryy magical with their themes of limitlessness, expansion, sheer spiritual abundance & power. I'm not sure if it has been talked about before, but something that always comes to mind when I envision Jupiterian Nakshatras or meet heavily Jupiter influenced people, is the concept of genies.
Jupiter's abundance and endlessly giving nature is known to be a blessing and a curse. A Jupiterian can be the sweet, generous, selfless friend who is there when you need them; providing you endless support, refuge & material generosity.
The dark side of this inherently generous 'wish-fulfilling' nature of Jupiter Nakshatras, is the possibility that they enable dark behaviours in others & themselves. Always saying yes, always being available and endlessly giving to the wrong type of cause or person, can make you complicit in the crime so to speak, even if the intention is simply to give, or give chances (Punarvasu's themes of second chances, 'return to the light'). Jupiter Nakshatras entail hugeee lessons regarding purpose (Vishakha, 'the Star of Purpose') & being intentional and wise as to how you use your power and influence (the infamous test of character in Purvabhadrapada 'the man with two faces').
These Jupiterian themes have always made me think of genies- wish fulfilling creatures who are inherently unable to say no to the wishes uttered to them. Having to just sit and watch people wish for dreadful things and just go... 'as you wish'. Obviously in real life, there really is a choice not to feed into others' and ones own toxic patterns but with Jupiterians, the urge to give, to be constantly available to others, can almost feel like it's not a choice. It's energetically intertwined in their make-up.
I would love to gather more examples, but it's 3am here and this was a bit of a spur of the moment thing I had to get out haha- I looked into a few of the most prominent 'genie' roles in movies and as I suspected, every single one features an actor/actress with strong Jupiter influence.
Jeannie from 60s sitcom 'I dream of Jeannie' - actress, Barbara Eden has Punarvasu Ascendant
Kazaam from 90s comedic film 'Kazaam' - actor/basketball player Shaquille O'Neal has Purvabhadrapada Sun
Genie from Disney's Aladdin - played in the live action movie by Will Smith, Vishakha Moon.
This genie theme really makes me think of all of the Jupiterian Nakshatras, but Vishakha especially. A friend of mine who is a Vishakha stellium always tells me about how it is said that Vishakha has the ability to generate 'instant karma'. So Vishakha natives to an extent greater than other Nakshatras will receive the raw manifested result of their thoughts/actions veryy quickly. Much like a genie granting instant wishes.
I was going to mention also that the whole genie archetype also reminds me of Rohini a bit- the wish-fulfilling aspect, the element of fulfilling desires without shame/inhibition. It's a little different in nature, but Rohini Nakshatra's got a similar theme where the native is incredibly nurturing of who or what sets their heart on fire, sometimes to a fault. Rohini is capable of immense growth but can forgo morality/practicality for the sake of immersion in the process of creation & sparking joy. Rohini's philosophy is something along the lines of 'let go of judgement because judgement inhibits creation and disrupts purity'. This is very true, but of course as humans on the divided and dense Earthly plane, we know that having a sense of judgement & boundaries is also important.
That was very wordy, but hopefully y'all see what I'm getting at lol. Although I'm more inclined to associate Rohini with wise old wizard dudes with cool beards & mad but genius scientists lol.
Back to Jupiterians-
I believe that Jupiter Nakshatra's 'remedy' is to eventually realise that they are not a slave to their giving nature, and the power lies in them to decide, & give only to a person, dream, goal or cause that truly is aligned with their own soul's path. Break free from the shackles lol- with wisdom hopefully. Without that element of wisdom, Jupiter can run wild with that discovered power.
Jupiterians struggling with discernment is why Jupiter Nakshatras oppose Venusian Nakshatras (Bharani opposes Vishakha; Purvaphalguni opposes Purvabhadrapada; Purvashadha opposes Punarvasu). Venus masters the fine art of 'necessary cruelty' sometimes ya gotta rip out the weeds, warn off the pigeons and trim the rose bush to make your garden a beautiful, pleasant, luxurious place. Jupiter can struggle with this, instinctively wanting to be a safe space for everyone and everything.
Jupiter ruled Nakshatras also partially oppose Solar Nakshatras (Krittika, Uttaraphalguni & Uttarashadha) illustrating the Jupiterian struggle with putting oneself first. Solar Nakshatras keep their energy strong and vibrantly resounding at their core; wheras Jupiter Nakshatras are kinda messy with their energy (lol, not necessarily in a bad way)- they disperse their energy everywhere, giving & giving. Both Solar & Jupiter Nakshatras deal with themes of limitless reserves energy, but in opposite, contrasting ways.
There's so much I could write about Jupiterians, I love Jupiter energy very much. I really love all of the Nakshatras lol, I mean how could you not? Every Nakshatra holds teachings that are integral to making the world a better place ๐๐ชท
Thankyou for reading!
i need women to understand that attraction does not equal respect, love, or care. menโs attraction = lust, objectification, possessiveness. just because men are attracted to women does not mean that they love women or respect women or care about women past having sex with us or having us as a trophy to show off. attraction is not the same thing as respect. men do not respect you, even if they want to be in a relationship with you.
Let's talk about 3D/4D
Thereโs no 3d or 4d, just now. You have it now or you donโt. I believe all the 3D/4D stuff is confusing and complicated. If I want something, I'm going to decide I have it, in my 3d and 4d, bc it is the truth for me now.ย
I used to be a believer in just fulfill my imagination only, but honeyโฆ the โ3dโ is also imagination.ย
I think people who use terms (3d and 4d) in order to manifest, donโt truly realize that the โ3dโ can be changed instantly.
the hardest pill to swallow . . if you donโt assume, it wonโt work
this isnโt tough love. this isnโt a scolding. this is just the mechanics of reality. this isnโt about blame. itโs not your fault, but itย isย your responsibility (i saw this quote somewhere and i really liked it, anyway). reality is malleable, but only if you stop acting like youโre at its mercy. stop waiting for permission. stop refreshing the page, stop tapping the glass. itโs done. act accordingly.
consider your brain an old, glitchy computer, whirring in the corner of your psyche, choking on its own outdated code. your subconscious doesnโt know whatโs real versus imagined, it only knows the instructions you give it. and if those instructions are โthis isnโt happening, i donโt see it, i donโt believe it,โ well, congratulations, the system registers that as the blueprint. and it prints that out. over and over. like a bureaucratic nightmare, a kafka novel of your own making.
this is not to say that doubt is failure, doubt is human, doubt is a thrum in the background of any great creation. but if doubt is the occasional rainstorm, belief is the structural integrity of the house. belief holds. belief carries. belief is the scaffolding between you and the impossible, and without it, you are just standing in an empty field, waiting for architecture to spontaneously occur.
thereโs a reason schrodingerโs cat remains the most infuriating hypothetical in quantum mechanics, because the cat is both alive and dead until you open the box. the observer collapses the wave function. and in this case, you are the observer. if you donโt believe it, you keep the box shut. if you do believe it, the universe is already rearranging itself around your conviction.
this is not new-age drivel. this is not a vision board with a quote about perseverance peeling off in the humidity. this is physics. have you ever thought about someone, and then they text you five minutes later? thatโs the speed at which reality moves when you donโt get in your own way. you didnโt sit there clutching your skull, willing them into existence, you just assumed, with ease, with god-tier nonchalance. and because you werenโt scrutinising the timeline like a detective with a corkboard and red string and bloodied eyes, the message came through. the only thing standing between you and everything you want is the way you react to its absence. the hand-wringing, the despair, the creeping doubt, itโs a full-time job, and it pays in absolutely nothing.
which brings me to my next point: trying.ย tryingย is the problem. trying implies effort, and effort implies resistance, and resistance is another way of saying โi donโt actually believe i have this.โ and you know what people do when theyย haveย things? they stop worrying about whether they have them. a person in possession of an apple does not pace the room, clutching their chest, whimpering, โbut do i really have it?โ they just eat the apple.
and before you say, โbut look at my reality, itโs contradicting me,โ i will say this once, and you must etch it into your mind like scripture: reality isย old news.ย what you are seeing is just a delayed projection of past assumptions. do not react to it. do not engage with it. it is a rerun of a show you no longer care about. the moment you stop feeding into the contradictions, they wither. the moment you accept that what you want is already done, reality will course-correct. until then, it is an echo chamber of your previous doubts. ignore it like itโs a tabloid headline about a scandal that never actually happened.
flip the switch. decide, assume, move forward. no more โmanifesting,โ no more โwaiting.โ you donโt wait for whatโs already yours. you donโt question a chairโs ability to hold you up before sitting down. you donโt send a letter and then agonise over whether the mail system still exists. you assume. you know. and so it is.
and before the panic sets in, no, this does not mean you must be a perfect disciple of unwavering belief. doubt will creep in, as it always does. you will have moments of existential dread, of scrutinising, of muttering โbut what ifโ into your hands at 2 a.m. this is fine. this is human. just donโt let it become the dominant narrative. there will be moments where you feel like you're nowhere, like your manifestations have abandoned you and you're left with nothing but the weight of your own effort. do not, under any circumstances, entertain this lie. i will personally resurrect the fear of god just to drill this into you: do not. what you do instead is cry a little, wipe your face, and then lock the fuck in, because i swear on everything, sometimes, all it takes is a stretch of nothing to summon an abundance of everything. let the doubt pass through like an intrusive thought you refuse to entertain, like a pigeon that landed in your cafe but is not, in fact, your problem.
maybe this reminds you of when the soviets tried to scientifically disprove intuition, only to realise they had unintentionally proved it instead. maybe this reminds you of every ghost story youโve ever heard, how the only ones who see them are the ones who expect to.
anyways. itโs all already happening. your only job is to get out of the way.
Parveen Shakir is the finest poetess in the history of urdu literature:
โye dukh nahi ke andheron se sulah ki humne, malal yeh hai ke ab subha ki talab bhi nahi.โ
i love the topic of money so much because itโs always been an extremely easy thing for me to manifest and iโm here to remind you of how easy it is. youโll be drowned in it once you fully tap into the mindset of a โspoiledโ person.
now, iโm not talking about being spoiled as in ungrateful, condescending, and unappreciative. iโm talking about having the mindset of someone who is always spoiled by those around them. a spoiled person is always receiving things. theyโre always given what they want and money seems to be around them everywhere they go. why is that ? because money isnโt something they get, itโs part of their identity and they donโt care how it comes to them.
this mindset can also be considered as receiving princess treatment. and trust me, having this mindset will make money flow to you in unlimited amount and in different forms, and you donโt even have to lift a finger.
1. princesses donโt have to do anything to get spoiled. they just exist.
when you truly believe that money is your birthright and that being spoiled is the norm, thatโs exactly what you receive. walk around knowing that everywhere you go, people want to do things for you. they want to give you their money. they want to buy you things. they want to pay for your food. they want to pay for your rent. they want to take you anywhere you want.
2. stop putting money on a pedestal.
itโs literally just paper. diamonds on earth are really expensive yet apparently there are planets where it RAINS diamonds. nothing really is as valuable as you think. we assign meaning to everything. having all the money you want is literally a thought away from receiving it. just take it off the pedestal.
3. money comes in many forms.
one thing that helped me manifest anything money related is that i didnโt limit money to just receiving it in its โpaper form.โ i see money in everything. i see ABUNDANCE in everything. i donโt just focus on money itself. i focus on the idea of being spoiled, thus leading to money being manifested in different ways. i donโt just limit myself to receiving cash or money randomly showing up on my bank account. be open to receiving money in any way aka being spoiled through different ways. i donโt have money to buy food ? oh, whatever. someone will pay for my food. i donโt have money to pay for rent or the clothes i want ? oh, someone will pay for my rent or it will magically be solved because i am spoiled and donโt have to do anything. also, someone will buy me the clothes i want because i deserve to receive gifts and be spoiled exactly how i want.
4. spoil yourself first.
i know this might raise some questions like how tf am i supposed to do that ? this works for me so it might work for you as well. i always spoil myself in any way possible. through self-care routines, buying myself little things if i can, and overall doing things that make me in the state of being someone who is living a soft life ? i also keep affirming that iโm always spoiled and receive princess treatment from everyone. i donโt necessarily focus on money as something that is separate from me. i make it my identity and like i said, iโm fully open to receiving it in any way possible not just in a particular form. and since then, iโve been manifesting not only cash, but also everything i could possibly want that requires money without having to pay at all, paying a little amount, etc.
i am drowned in money everywhere i go.
i receive princess treatment from absolutely everyone.
i am always spoiled by everyone around me.
everything comes to me effortlessly.
everything works out in my favor perfectly.
i am a spoiled princess. i receive everything i want.
i get paid to exist because life loves me that much.
i love how everywhere i go, people want to buy me stuff.
i love how everyone wants to make my life easier. i truly donโt have to do anything.
i love how money is always chasing me everywhere i go.
money is my birthright and being spoiled is a norm for me.
i love being spoiled and treated like royalty.
i am living a soft life. i donโt have to work hard for anything.
money comes to me easily. i can just sit and do nothing and it begs me to spend it on everything i want.
i have always been a spoiled person. i love how easy my lifestyle is.
i am abundance personified.
overall, you can manifest money in various ways and any way works. i believe that choosing this mindset just makes it flow to you so easily without even having to do anything and it truly feels so good. โถ เซฎโเงนหแตหเงนโแ ๐
Iโm really a Magha native cause if there is something that somebody is trying to compete with me or they want me to fight for, I will simply let them have it LMAO
I do not believe the things I want and that want me would have me out here going to war for it. It feels so low quality and creates a scarcity mindset where I donโt want that energy near me AT ALL. I will simply leave lol
How to Strengthen Your Subconscious Belief
Forget force. Forget effort. Forget the clenched fists, the whispered affirmations, the desperate grasping for something that already belongs to you. The subconscious does not respond to struggleโit responds to certainty, to familiarity, to the things you take for granted as truth.
And hereโs what you need to understand: your subconscious is not judging. It is not skeptical. It is not sitting there, arms crossed, waiting for a PowerPoint presentation on why shifting is real. It is a mirror. It does not care what you tell itโit only reflects what you assume. It takes your passing thoughts, your fleeting assumptions, and treats them as reality because, to your subconscious, there is no such thing as โpretend.โ There is only what is repeated, what is expected, what is known.
So the question is not how do I make my subconscious believe in shifting? The question is how do I make shifting something my subconscious assumes to be normal?
And the answer? You make it part of your world. You carve it into the walls of your reality until it is so ingrained, so natural, so utterly unremarkable that your subconscious stops questioning it.
i , Stop Making It Special
Belief does not bloom under pressure. If you treat shifting like some grand, unattainable miracle, your subconscious will follow suit. If you treat it like a rare event, something that only happens after you โearn it,โ it will remain out of reach.
You donโt doubt that the sun will rise tomorrow. You donโt doubt that gravity will keep your feet on the ground. You donโt need to โconvinceโ yourself of these things because they are part of your world. That is the level of belief you need to cultivate.
So stop making shifting the peak of the mountain. Stop treating it like something you have to fight for. Make it as mundane as brushing your teeth, as ordinary as blinking. Assume it. Expect it. Shrug at it. "Of course, I can shift. Why wouldnโt I?"
Because when something is ordinary, your subconscious does not resist it.
ii , Blur the Lines Between Here and There
Your subconscious cannot tell the difference between real and imagined. If you feed it an idea often enough, in enough detail, with enough certainty, it stops being an idea and starts being a truth.
So immerse yourself. Live as if shifting is already a regular part of your existence.
Talk about shifting like itโs past tense. Not "I hope I can shift," but "I remember shifting last time, it was so easy."
Write journal entries from your DR self. Not "I want to be there," but "Today, I woke up in my DR and had breakfast with [character]."
Use sensory details. Smell the air in your DR. Feel the texture of your sheets. Hear the distant hum of life around you. Make it vivid. Make it real.
Catch yourself when you doubt. Every time you think "I donโt know if I can shift," immediately replace it with "Thatโs ridiculous, of course, I can shift."
Play pretend like a method actor. Slip into the mindset of someone who has already shifted a hundred times. What do they think? How do they act? Become that person.
Because the more real you make shifting in your waking life, the more your subconscious will accept it as just another part of your world.
iii , Abandon Proof, Trust the Feeling
Your subconscious does not work in logic. It works in feelings, in impressions, in what is known rather than what is proven.
You do not wake up every morning and check to see if gravity is still working. You do not demand scientific proof that your reflection will appear in the mirror. You simply know.
That is how you must approach shifting. Not as something to be questioned, not as something to be proven, but as something that simply is.
Stop waiting for evidence. If you keep looking for proof, you are telling your subconscious that there is something to prove. You are telling it that shifting is uncertain. Instead, treat it as inevitable.
Lean into knowing. Certainty is a feeling, not a thought. It is the quiet, unshakable confidence of someone who no longer needs to ask. Step into that mindset.
iv , Cut the Ties to the Old You
The person who doubts shifting? The person who hesitates, who second-guesses, who overanalyzes? That is an old version of you. That is a version of you who still saw the door as locked.
You are not that person anymore.
You are the version of you that knows shifting is real. That has already shifted. That does not need to force belief because belief is woven into their bones.
And when doubt creeps inโdo not fight it. Do not push against it. Simply step aside and say, Thatโs not me anymore.
Because in the end, strengthening your subconscious belief is not about convincing yourself. It is about stepping into the version of you who never needed convincing in the first place.
And when you do that?
Shifting is no longer something you are trying to achieve.
It is simply something you do.
Vedic astrology observations
Part 7
Feminine archetype and appearance focused
Preface
In general, yoni animals of big three(especially moon's) nakshatras play a huge role in how a person looks and what they embody. Two people who share one or more yoni animals in big three might look similar, even if all the nakshatras are different. Also, for example, if someone has Uttara Phalguni in big three, and another person has Krittika or Uttara Ashadha(other two sun nakshatras) and Uttara Bhadrapada(U.Phalguni's yoni match), then they will likely have similar appearances and nature too. Both of have them have a Sun nakshatra and a Cow yoni nakshatra in big three. This is one of the interesting ways to look at the bigger picture while interpreting.
Bharani girls/women look divine in high fantasy/period(especially medieval)/mythical inspired looks. Long hair, headbands/diadems, low contrast/ethereal coloring, dresses that show the body/skin but don't hug it tightly, flowy fabrics. Unique pieces in general are best for them. They should avoid modern trends that are too constricting and structured. Their faces tend to have a unique beauty too so they should think outside of what's generic to see their own true essence. Also, their eyes are usually the best part of their face, they have a look of anticipation, innocence and fire in them. Makeup should be serving that beauty of their eyes, and their lips have a unique shape too, the sides of it are pulled downwards, but they're rarely too thick. Too much makeup in general is detrimental to them. They should not be afraid to appear delicate. Everything about how Bharani women should be styled must be focused on embracing and nurturing their natural beauty. They really should not try too hard. Looks should fit the person, not the other way around, that is true for everyone but especially for Bharani girls/women.
Pushya, Uttara Phalguni, Uttara Bhadrapada, Revati(?), Krittika, Rohini and Mrigashira might feel good/look good in a "milkmaid" look/aesthetic. What's interesting is that all of these nakshatras are associated with cows. The first three nakshatras listed might embody that aesthetic more. One of Pushya's symbols is the cow udder, so is Revati's. Pushya's fully in Cancer, and has associations with milk and nurturing. Saturn has associations with agriculture. Uttara Bhadrapada is another Saturn ruled nakshatra and its yoni animal is the cow, although it might lean towards more etheral looks than the sheep/goat yoni Pushya, due to it being in Pisces. Uttara Phalguni's milkmaid look might be more earthy. Mrigashira and Rohini can sometimes wear this look, due to them being in Taurus. Three fourths of Krittika is also in Taurus, and it's another goat/sheep yoni nakshatra that has associations with nurturing, but not as much as Pushya.
^^ To expand on the Cow yonis from above, they look really good with braids(so does Mrigashira but for different reasons). Cow yonis should lean into "traditional",natural clothing. That really allows them to show their femininity. They look really good with their hair down and with clothes that are comfortable. Like, they might look the best with a hoodie or a simple jacket and slightly discheveled hair. Big ballgowns also look amazing on them, as well as regal attire. They also might wear/incorporate elements that has personal significance to them, usually in relation to their close loved ones/family/community, a family heirloom or something that shows where their loyalty lies. (Please tell me this makes sense)
Cat yonis usually have medium to high contrast coloring, especially Ashlesha. Eyeliner looks divine on them, so does lipstick, usually with a rich red or pink color. Punarvasu might look ethereal and perfect in softer shades though too. They're the ones from the two more likely to have low constrast in coloring. I'd say if Punarvasu is light pink, Ashlesha is red. Punarvasus also have mixed/warmer tones than Ashlesha. They both might look good in Silver but Punarvasus should also try wearing gold(Jupiter's color). Punarvasu might look amazing with no lipstick at all too, but lip gloss or moisturizer is still desirable. They both also usually have really nice skin. If not, taking care of its health might really transform their appearance. Lastly, I think these two nakshatras look better if they feel a certain sense of control over their lives๐ ๐ญ hear me out. Like how Cats usually bathe themselves(but still smell nice???๐ญ) and have a private, sort of weird and adorable "self-care" routine, these women approach everything in a careful, gradual but determined way, and I think that they need to settle into certain ways of taking care of presenting themselves. They need to feel a sense of safety and assuredenss in it on some level. They need to feel neat and tidy.
Rat yonis on the other hand have low to medium contrast. Purva Phalguni might have lower constrast than Magha. They look best in gold rather than silver. Purva Phalguni is one of the nakshatras that can benefit from having and sticking to staple looks/pieces, so they should not be afraid to do that. Similar to Bharani, they should avoid excess makeup too, but if they truly enjoy something, no matter how camp it seems, then they should go for it, with some discernment. Overly controlled looks are also not the best for them. Maghas usually have bold/noticable hair and they should lean into it. Usually these people don't fuss about appearance in details, but rather go for big statement pieces, like a big gold bracelet or chuncky earrings.
Tiger yonis, unlike cow yonis, will benefit from trends/structured and modern looks. Chitra especially is the nakshatra that likes to fit into certain aesthetics, but I'd advise them to avoid natural looking clothes that fit Cow yonis so well. Instead they should go for tight tops, shorts, tighter dresses, punk rock, fitted garments. If Cow yonis look good in big ballgowns, Tiger Yonis should go for formal dresses that are not flared but still look classic. Vishkhas should wear smudged eyeliner(my opinion lol). A little intensity and fierceness looks really good on Vishakhas but they should avoid excess otherwise like plague. Chitras might have a liscence to overaccessorize sometimes but Vishakhas do not. Also, Chitras can lean into softer/coquettish aesthetics but Vishakhas should aim for something more simple but intense and fierce, and they should not be afraid to mix feminine and masculine elements.
Jyeshta women have a very specific look. Their eyes are rich and intense, usually brows and eyelashes help with the intensity. These women might look really good with earrings, especially round-shaped ones, or a round necklace, given that Jyeshta's symbol is a round talisman. Their eyes are deep and piercing, but not really sharp, their shape could be soft. They could also have doe eyes but the ones that have intelligence, wisdom and worldly depth reflected in them. Dark hair flatters these women a lot, especially if they have Jyeshta moon or ascendant, but that's not a rule. Overall their look is intense, mercurial but regal. Their image should showcase their integrity. Any clothing that seems a little too frivolous or childish is not for them. They could find that they enjoy wearing quality but comfortable pieces that look simple. They can definitely play around with style though, given that they're a Mercury nakshatra, and can look good in something more "excessive". However, I've noticed that, even then, Jyeshta women still prioritize minimalism on some level. If they wear something more "out there" it must be once in a while, just to symbolically display their power. A lot of the times their most excessive outfits are not that excessive to others.
Punarvasu might be another nakshatra that makes its female natives look good in longer dresses. It's a very feminine nakshatra, despite being ruled by a masculine planet. Generally, cat yonis have distinctive faces. Punarvasu, being the soft one out of those two nakshatras, as well as having connection to spirituality and "godhood", influences appearance in a very unique way. These women might benefit from wearing long, soft, flowly garments that cover the body, maybe even a cape or a veil pulled backwards, but the face should be visible. It gives a "divine", "goddess-like", supernatural element to their appearance, which is true to their essence.
Vanar yonis are another pair of nakshatras that are more ethereal looking. They should avoid compact/structured garments and should not be afraid to wear anything oversized, within reason. Shravanas generally tend to be a little longer and slimmer, due to it being in the Saturn-ruled Capricorn, but they don't have the Venusian fierce, Aphrodite look that Purva Ashadhas have. Instead, they're smoother and colder, almost too subdued/neutral than their yoni consorts. Purva Ashadhas can have a more robust bone structure and look "healthier", but their etheriality can have an "earthly"/material element to it unlike Shravana, if that makes sense. This is also the yoni type that can get away with wearing anything weird: the type of choices that make you scratch you head and think "why would anyone go for this" but they somehow look fine and sometimes even good on them. This applies to Shravanas more. Quirky makes them look and feel good. Vanar means "being from other dimensions". According to vedic, they live in forests. Their yoni animal is literally not an actual common "animal" as most think of them, although "Vanar" has been interpreted as "Monkey". It's not inaccurate exactly, since these natives usually do have slightly protruding ears(like elephant yonis) but I think tossing out the origin of the word leaves out an important association.