Focus On The Likes And Not The Wants

focus on the likes and not the wants

you may not want to clean your room, but you like the peace and call it brings you after

you may not want to study, but you like the confidence and satisfaction you get from being prepared

you may not not want to apologise, but you like the relief and connection that reconciliation brings

you may not want to cook, but you like the satisfaction of eating a healthy come cooked meal prepared with love

you may not want to exercise, but you like how you feel afterwards and how it makes you confident

you may not want to journal or write, but you like the reflection and calm it brings you

you may not want to step out of your comfort zone, but you like the new experiences and growth you gain from it

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kaylaaplaf

3 weeks ago

conspiracy theories ab giants are really funny because like . they would be big . we would see them

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cooking up with these

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kaylaaplaf

4 weeks ago

Bothering the beast

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kaylaaplaf

3 weeks ago

AHHHHH thank you

Internet Archive

The Spectacular Spider-Man (2008) : MARVEL : Free Download, Borrow, and Streaming : Internet Archive

the show without a third season.

spectacular spider man on the internet archive you're welcome

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kaylaaplaf

1 week ago

If you're dating a transfem, especially a butch one or a tall one or a big one you gotta just... not treat her like something to be afraid of. Like in a world where we are constantly painted as rapists, aggressors, hysterical bitches, and monsters you gotta fuckin stop and wonder how many times your girl has defanged herself. How many times has she dipped her shoulders and bowed her head because she was scared of being 'the bad one'? How many injustices and slights has she let slide because she wants to be soft and to be loved?

What does it do to her when you're too scared to have the hard conversations with her? How does the person you love feel when you show her even at home she is reduced to a potential for violence? If you avoid her, what thorns and poison does she imagine within and around herself?

If you want to love us, give us the dignity of trust. Talk to us like reasonable adults and let us feel. Don't dodge us while you find the right words to say, don't scatter eggshells on the floor then make us feel guilty you're walking on them, don't use trauma as an excuse to traumatize.

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kaylaaplaf

2 months ago

i meant the episode, stevens birthday, which takes place in the year 2002

does Steven universe find out about 9/11 at all?? Like we know that the show takes place presumably during or after 9/11, so he must know, right?

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kaylaaplaf

2 months ago

you just reminded me that I haven't eaten, so thank you!

I haven't eaten today!?

What the hell!

I've just been accidentally starving myself!