If you're dating a transfem, especially a butch one or a tall one or a big one you gotta just... not treat her like something to be afraid of. Like in a world where we are constantly painted as rapists, aggressors, hysterical bitches, and monsters you gotta fuckin stop and wonder how many times your girl has defanged herself. How many times has she dipped her shoulders and bowed her head because she was scared of being 'the bad one'? How many injustices and slights has she let slide because she wants to be soft and to be loved?
What does it do to her when you're too scared to have the hard conversations with her? How does the person you love feel when you show her even at home she is reduced to a potential for violence? If you avoid her, what thorns and poison does she imagine within and around herself?
If you want to love us, give us the dignity of trust. Talk to us like reasonable adults and let us feel. Don't dodge us while you find the right words to say, don't scatter eggshells on the floor then make us feel guilty you're walking on them, don't use trauma as an excuse to traumatize.
i meant the episode, stevens birthday, which takes place in the year 2002
does Steven universe find out about 9/11 at all?? Like we know that the show takes place presumably during or after 9/11, so he must know, right?
I cursed someone out for killing a snowman
ok repost when you think of it. what is the weirdest thing you have ever done in school?
Another question for my artist's.
what is the one thing you always forget to add or do? Other than color some times (that's some peoples art stile most times. Like manga.)
For me, I forget to add eyebrows
you dont have to be useful to be loved btw
(Got this idea from @st4rboyloser)
Rb this if you want a song that you remind me of in your askbox
I’m convinced Dutch isn’t a real language, it’s a fey language invented by the Germans to trick us into believing that the Netherlands exist
ohh golden boy
an animatic would go so unbelievably hard
Rule #34 by Fish in a Birdcage would be the perfect song for a Billford edit I think. The chorus specifically, “Right now you’re mine, all mine / Give in, you’re mine, all mine.”
It’s so them coded right? If you agree, just look up Billford Rule 34— *I am yanked bodily off of the stage by a comically large cane*