I just read Cemetery Boys by Aiden Thomas and if you think for a second that Julian Diaz and Ronan Lynch wouldn’t get on like a wildfire you’re incorrect imagine the chaotic energy of those two together oh my god Julian would have Ronan dream him impossible things and I can just imagine Yadriel and Adam bonding like oh you fell for the idiot with the shaved head too? And then don’t get me started on Blue and Maritza they’d be perfect friends I love the idea of them hanging out and Yadriel Maritza and Julian can all see ghosts so they could all see Noah!! The perfect friend group
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It's a bit unrealistic that every kpop idol is gay don't you think
being straight is unrealistic
no clue what gave them the idea.
“but the plot is so cliche and overdone! no one will want to read it!” shut up and tell me what happens after peter parker and the decathlon team/midtown high have a field trip to stark industries even if it has the exact same plot as the other field trip fic I just finished reading
welcome to a series where I analyse the living daylights out of this show
Now, unless Netflix has done my (pitifully monolingual) self a disservice, this translates to “Can we talk?”. And boy, can we talk. There’s been a bit of discussion already about how Simon and Wilhelm’s relationship is so refreshing to watch because of the healthy level of communication between the two. This is excellent writing by an excellent team throughout the entire series, creating a story arc that is realistic and nuanced, with miscommunication not employed for cheap drama. However, I want to talk specifically about the two times Wilhelm uses the exact words “Kan vi snacka?”. Stay with me -
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The first time we see this play out it’s over text in episode 3, as Wilhelm wants to chat to Simon about their slumber party plans after parent’s lunch:
These three words precede the honest conversation about how Wille has heard August’s plans to stay at school over the weekend and, to keep their little burgeoning I-want-to-hang-out-with-you situation a secret, asks Simon if he can stay at his place instead. First off, this is a brilliant example of not taking the obvious story route, where Wille and Simon stay at school unaware August is there, and August finds out about them that way, potentially using this information in a blackmail fashion - as is seen all too often; the weaponisation of queer relationships in this way. (Keep in mind at this moment the audience is unaware of the events that will follow to close out episode 3, so for most of us I’d bet that stereotypical setup was the prevalent expectation.)
However, what makes this scene so intriguing is when you realise where they are - at the windowsill where their first kiss took place in episode 2. We actually get almost the exact same sequence in both scenes (though the frame is tighter in episode 2 - greater level of intimacy/secrecy?) of Wilhelm alone at the window, and Simon walking into frame to meet him.
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Most significantly for this parallel though, is that this is the first place Wilhelm tried (and failed spectacularly) to articulate anything of significance to Simon. “I’m not… sorry. I’m not… Wait!” is all we get out of Wilhelm in that scene. He’s trying so hard to tell Simon something, using his words, and he just… can’t. He resorts to carefully kissing Simon back in that moment (which is definitely appropriate and what the situation called for, I’m not trying to say the episode 2 scene was wrong in any way, it was simply not a conversation). It’s also important to note the words we do get out of him aren’t in support of pursuing Simon at all, it seems to be a defense of compulsory heteronormativity.
The contrast between these two interactions at the windowsill is astronomical. By the time we get to the end of episode 3, Wilhelm’s had some time to think, time to process, time to work out what he wants, time to be okay with his wanting. We’re getting full sentences from him! About his regard for Simon (and Simon’s family) and wanting to be involved with the people closest to him! He’s communicating his wants and needs! Which signifies he’s now comfortable with what he wants, and what he wants is hang time with his wittle cwush Simon. Ugh I just love how it’s the same place, it’s brilliant.
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Now onto the second time we hear the words, this time actually spoken, in episode 5. This is the scene directly after August reveals to Wilhelm that Simon’s the one that provided the drugs. Wilhelm asks Simon to chat; to tell him about Alexander being caught, to ask him about the pills. (Side note: I love this brilliant moment from Omar here, look at how fast Simon’s smile falls away when he gets a good look at Wille’s face. He’s all dimpled ‘my boy wants me’, and then 0.2 seconds later is a furrowed brow and ‘oh no, my boy needs me’.)
This conversation is another example of how this show did not take the easy way out in terms of a plot complication device formed from miscommunication. As soon as we hear August tell Wille about Simon’s role in their illicit activities, an audience raised on stereotypical (generally US) teen dramas would be thinking that Wille’s going to be annoyed with Simon immediately, perhaps take action to spite him, or blow up at him publicly. Or alternatively that this will fester as an unresolved issue and be brought up as an argument later in their relationship. The show does neither of these things, it says to us “Can we talk?” and proceeds to smash all of our expectations to smithereens.
Wilhelm asks point blank what’s happened. Simon is open and completely honest, hard as that must have been. Wilhelm relays exactly the conversation that happened in the little Society meeting. From there the conversation devolves into a… heated discussion - there’s tension, they don’t agree. This is one of the first times, in a conversation between only the two of them, that their class divide hovers like an elephant in the room (as opposed to earlier on, when it’s been other people - August, etc. - pointing out their differences in station). I may be mistaken, but I also believe this is the first time Simon calls Wille ‘Prince’ to his face; which is big, huge, in the narrative of their relationship. Wilhelm was not, in his mind, Simon’s ‘Prince’ before now. Wilhelm likes Simon’s socialist talk in theory, but in this scene he butts up against the fact that he isn’t completely separated from the vaguely anti-monarchist rhetoric of Simon’s. Simon doesn’t dislike the monarchy but likes Wilhelm, Simon dislikes the monarchy and likes Wilhelm. There’s a distinct difference, as with Erik’s death, Wilhelm is now the sole future of the monarchy. What a cross to bear.
And once again, look at where Wilhelm takes him to have this conversation; remember the “Simon. Don’t you know how to read sheet music?” scene? The conversation in episode 5 takes place in the school music room, which we first became acquainted with when Simon tried to talk about their kiss at the beginning of episode 3.
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We can draw similar parallels here as above - in episode 3, Wilhelm is not really talking to Simon yet. It’s “Because I did say, you know, that I’m not…”, compared to the more developed, mature and nuanced conversation happening in episode 5.
However, the biggest difference here is Simon’s response to a disagreement with Wilhelm. In episode 3, Wille asks if they can forget about the kiss, and Simon nods. He says yes, he says that he gets it. When Wilhelm asks if he’s sure, he says “That’s fine.” (spoiler alert, it’s not fine). At this point the stakes are lower, Simon’s not sure Wilhelm’s in this, he’s not sure what he can ask for. He obviously does not understand in the slightest and is not okay with how Wilhelm is brushing him off, but he says it’s fine and walks away from the conversation.
Contrast this with Simon’s position in the conversation in episode 5, where he stands his ground. He knows now that Wilhelm wants this, wants him. He questions Wilhelm’s assumptions. When Wille talks about his family’s reputation, Simon asks but what about him and his family? Simon’s under the assumption there’s the start of an “us”, that they’re on the same rung of the ladder, and rightfully questions when Wilhelm makes statements contrary to what Simon believed was a shared understanding of their situation. Simon walks out of this conversation too, mind. (Foreshadowing his leaving the relationship stranded?) But we have growth! Development! Communication!
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So basically, our two “Kan vi snacka?” moments are two (of many) building blocks laying the open and honest communication foundation for Simon and Wilhelm in their relationship. The two scenes they parallel back to are where Wilhelm begins “I’m not…” and then finishes “…not like that, you know?”, and to have him then open up to Simon in the way that we have seen is such good character development; similarly, to have Simon now stating his reality, his significance, his wants and needs when faced with Wilhelm’s frustration and anxiety is such good character development.
(Someone please work out how to bottle the creative genius of this show, we could make millions.)
Darakaraka Notes 𓆩♡𓆪
💙Welcome back the second in Future Spouse series. We will look at some more info about your future partner. 💜
Because there isn't much Darakaraka in houses, here it is, i hope this helps.
Don't plagiarise, repost, translate or sell as your information.
Disclaimer: I am not putting any major negatives in this one, let's keep it light.
How to calculate your Dk Planet-
Go to Farfaraway.com generate your birth chart, look at the degrees and choose the lowest degree planet, or their must be DK written, that is your Darakaraka planet.
#Rahu-ketu cannot be Darakaraka.
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𓆩♡𓆪 Darakaraka in 1st - They may know you before you know them, may approach you, will influence your outlook and thoughts, could be dedicated to you, spouse can make or break things for you, may affect your health, could transform or change you, can challenge/trigger you, you may acknowledge them the first time based on their appearance, could be just like you in beliefs or looks like you, may meet them in Hospitals, police stations, grocery shops, mall, salon, events, marriage event, business events, social gatherings, court, places of businesses so malls, cafes, retailers, supermarket etc., Are supportive of you, power couple vibes. Could start off as sexual relationship, sexually attracted to each other first, marriage can change perspective and life for you, spouse will help you throughout, marriage/spouse may help make up some decisions or help give mental clarity.
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𓆩♡𓆪 Darakaraka in 2nd- Shows someone who is wealthy, may work in finance, banking, culinary, are family oriented, are "family/marriage" material, can be some one from your childhood, you may know them for a long time before marriage, they value security a lot, and will probably take time with you before entering into Partnership, can make or break your self esteem/security/finances, self learnt/independent and skilled, can teach you something, Family issues/attachment, may meet them at bank, near your home, at dentists, school, can come to your house, cinemas, after a major event in life, or after someone's death or loss, at places of spirituality, or in dark places or at night, could marry you for money, will affect your relationship with your family, wants a family, you can become more or less confident after marriage, more or less comfortable and finally not on your feet after marriage, stability and happiness from marriage.
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𓆩♡𓆪 Darakaraka in 3rd- May be from your neighbourhood, school, is a friend of your sibling, cousin, has relations with your friends, friends to lovers, talkative, competitive, skilled, socially anxious or sociable, may meet them in your neighborhood, around your house, on a short distance travel, on a bus, local transport, bus stop, local cafes, library at place of learning, while travelling or places involving foreign elements, both of you may gossip together, big on friendship in marriage, best friend type marriage, childlike love, infidelity, three party situation, communication is going to be very important for both of you, misunderstanding can occur, a true learning experience, you may learn something from them, they can be a teacher or teach something to you, verbal conflicts or stubbornness when it comes to opinion and lack of adjustment, similiar upbringing, rise in creativity after marriage for you, you both can together create something.
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𓆩♡𓆪 Darakaraka in 4th- Home like, safety and security is important, provider energy, emotional relationship (draining or beneficial), unadulterated love, attached to their mother, less likely to move to another place or leave their home place, you are their "home", patriotic, changes home aesthetic often, finds you "marriage/family material", could be from your childhood, mother(their or yours) may bring this person or introduce, Could meet you when you visit back home, around your house, at a realty site, near a building, can have good relationship with your mom, is like a mom(not literally) to you, wants you to have good relationship with their mother, affects your happiness (for good or bad) , private couple, challenge your upbringing, bring material wealth to you, influence political decisions, may meet near government buildings, has royal linkage or political connections, could be patriotic or serves country, Spouse can bring happiness and help you open up emotionally, they will last an everlasting impression on subconscious even if you decide to separate.
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𓆩♡𓆪 Darakaraka in 5th - Hopeless romantic, Soulmate connection, past life connection, head over heels, may meet you in your early 20s or teens, childlike love, meet you at a place of fun, at bank, through friends, at place of learning, normal but feel like divine meeting, meeting at University, young love, jealousy and passionate, Can be your first love, they love kids, you guys may have met when you were kids, can meet at a playground or around children, they want many kids or none, the kind of uncle/aunt kids love, popular or famous, into music, meets you when you are having fun or a place of fun/party, could be into Spirituality, affects your gains and finances, brings you material wealth, you or them could be other's creative muse, fun couple, you can see your relationship with children and creativity and self expression be affected or influenced by spouse, you may become more open and accepting to centre stage after marriage, rise in ego and confidence and may pay more attention to fun, spouse will add fun to life.
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𓆩♡𓆪 Darakaraka in 6th - Lives around you, does social service, may meet you when you are helping others or they are helping others, at a gym, in neighbourhood, around your locality, at workplace, at a grocery store, pet store, park, at hospital, near spiritual sights, while travelling, around food outlets, in cinema, near places of art, is a colleague, has heightened nerves, can be a doctor or in medical line, has a pet, or you get a pet after marriage, may have health ailments, marriage affects your health (good or bad), spouse will affect your stress and anxiety(for good or bad), may do social services together, or work together after marriage, verbal arguments, animosity and competitiveness with spouse, marriage may affect work life, possible talks of separation or living separately for some time, loss of love or bond, either one could be critical or your insecurities may be triggered through them or after marriage, can work together, both can defeat others together, power couple, the intellectual couple.
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𓆩♡𓆪 Darakaraka in 7th- Spouse may be devoted to marriage, is loyal, could be famous, may meet you at your workplace, at a celebration, at a wedding event, at a social/public event, at a place of business so grocery store, retailers, stores, may come at you on their own, near court, at workplace, gym, etc. May be businessman or works with an audience. Has a social presence and will impact your life majorly. Foreign spouse. Will influence your perspection and Personality, opposite attract, partners in crime, business partners, may work together, could meet them with the soul purpose of marriage, they may be competitor, someone who values union, treats you their equal, sexual attraction first, starts with sexual relationship, enemy to lovers, communication and friendliness is important, there may be desires of either one involved with other, very sexual relationship based on trust and equality. Couple goals for some, people, recognition through Spouse or after marriage.
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𓆩♡𓆪 Darakaraka in 8th- Someone who will impact you in a major way. Could be someone that helps you with your fears, could be someone that meet you during or after a big change or after something sad happy. They may meet you in hospitals, places of mysticism, cinema, dark alleys, places where light is dim, during the night, in places of research, or investing, bank, or places you may have fears of. Shows deep intimate connection between two, very intense. Enemies to lovers. Can be introduced by older people. Foreign spouse, living in a foreign country after marriage, revealing deep issues through marriage, long distance relationship, lack of trust in marriage, secrecy about marriage or in between partners, in laws will play an important role in marriage, focus on increasing assets and finances, spouse can marry for money or you can, can start as sexual relationship, jealousy and possessiveness in marriage, and possibly control. Spouse can have insecurity arising from you, talks of prenup before.
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𓆩♡𓆪 Darakaraka in 9th - They will affect your beliefs, relationship with Spirituality and religion, they may be your teacher or someone you will look upto, they will teach you a lot, and you guys may be compatible over your beliefs or Experiences. You can meet them at a place of education, University, while travelling, through father or grandparents, in places of worship, religion and spirituality. Could be a soulmate or spiritual level connection or feels like one. Long distance relationship. Foreign spouse. Could be a teacher or traveller. Can travel a lot after marriage, relationship with father may be affected. Spouse's siblings play an important role in relationship. You could feel lucky or a dream come true with spouse, you may complete higher education after marriage, marriage may bring fame, rise in luck after marriage, financial prosperity from spouse, romantic and divine meeting and union.
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𓆩♡𓆪 Darakaraka in 10th- Helps you out with your career, status and responsibilities. Someone who shares your burden of duties, partners in crime. May meet at work, could be your colleagues or superior, meet at social event or family event or around your home or introduced by someone in family, at government buildings or historical or royal buildings. Likely to be older or mature than you, can have royal linkage. Works with government, may live in another country, contractual marriage, gains from father in law after marriage, spouse is attached to mother, provider energy, has a strong lineage, will bring fame or is famous, can affect public image or how others see you, challenges and is self righteous, you can get more responsible after marriage, both of you can work together, Spouse brings prosperity and you may feel powerful after marriage or with spouse, Spouse is person of power, both of you can do business together. There could be political ties.
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𓆩♡𓆪 Darakaraka in 11th- Someone you may be friends with, meet online or through friends or elder sibling, or you work together in a community or meet a social event. The emphasis will hugely be on friendship and communication and exchange of ideas. You will both be supportive of each other and will also benefit financially from marriage, you may find your hardwork paying off after this union. Some may have to work hard in the relationship but end result will be beautiful. Could do humanitarian work together. Could do business in technological or items of prestige. Spouse could work in tech field, both or either may feel very lucky after this union or feel like your are each other's manifestation. You both can make some goals and aims together you want to achieve together, Partners in crime, emphasis on friendship in marriage will be significant, communication will be important. Your desires may start to come true, fame can come to you, Spouse can bring contact with influential people, they may already be an admirer.
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𓆩♡𓆪 Darakaraka in 12th - You may have spiritual or soulmate level connection. Intuitively connected, you may meet them after a loss or at place where you may spend monetarily a lot. This may be a friends with benefits situation, you may meet at hospitals, places of spirituality, orgies, places with foreign elements, while travelling, in a distant land. You may meet in dreams, in parks, in places of healing and health care, grocery stores etc. They are likely to be yours or you to them a muse or creative inspiration. Will impact you deeply. Long distance relationship. Foreign spouse. They will impact your relationship with Spirituality. Could see increase in travel after marriage. You could do business of foreign elements, medicines, spiritual items, or in foreign land. This can indicate a relationship arising out of loneliness. They can come at a time when you feel alone and insecure. There may be substances involved either when you meet, or the person themselves does it, or you may be prone to it after marriage.
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