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Happy birthday to His Royal Highness Prince Henry George Edward James Fox-Mountchristen-Windsor ✨💕

thinking about alex losing his mind over being stuck inside the white house and having nothing but his phone to destroy, then going to argue with luna because he can’t afford to let anyone see himself burn, so he chose the closest thing to himself. luna was supposed to be alex in twenty years, so of course he went to antagonize him- he represented everything alex was scared of becoming in that moment.

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I feel like people don’t truly appreciate the national treasure than RW&RB is

Like,are you telling me than we have

Hate to love / mental health issues / queer history / forbidden romance / love letters (both historical and between the main characters) / dysfunctional families / a museum date / poetry / poc rep / a lgbt main character from the south / so romantic and sweet you’ll have cavities / late night phone calls / good adhd,depression and anxiety rep / accurate relationships with siblings / queer friend group / secret relationship / queer history (AGAIN) / “I do not have a crush on them” *they totally do* / Queen,Bowie and Elton John / greek mythology references / forced proximity / an scene with one character playing piano to the other / good representation of trauma / supportive friends / soulmates / long distance relationship where it works out because they actually communicate / a main character than discovers than even thought his future may not be how he expected it to be,it can still be good and he just needs to find out another future than works for him / sex positivity / a side character dealing with addiction / polar opposite best friends (Henry and Pez) / Texas going blue / a ‘standing in the rain and screaming into their window’ scene / etc

In just one book??

kent parson: welcome to my crib

“when I was in third grade I was told that I have a personality made for television. I think it was an insult.”

“this is my cat. her name is kit. I was actually thinking of getting another cat a little while ago but I think she would be offended and we have a good thing going, so.”

“this is the lamp that jeff troy broke. I’m keeping it like this until he apologizes”

“this is the wooden duck statue I won in a bet, and it was bad enough that I’m never getting rid of this now, which is saying something. I hate this stupid thing”

“I’m not showing you my bedroom, that’s creepy”

“that’s my snack cupboard but I’m not showing you that either because technically I’m not allowed to eat what’s in it”

“that’s kit’s room. I’m not allowed in there”

“this is the self portrait I painted of myself when I was nine. I got an A on it, actually. my teacher said I was a pleasure to have in class”

“how’s your love life, janet?”

“that’s where I keep my trophies and memorabilia and stuff. I don’t mean to brag but I kind of am. here’s my picture with elmo.”

“did you know I was on sesame street, janet?”

Darakaraka Notes 𓆩♡𓆪

💙Welcome back the second in Future Spouse series. We will look at some more info about your future partner. 💜

Because there isn't much Darakaraka in houses, here it is, i hope this helps.

Don't plagiarise, repost, translate or sell as your information.

Disclaimer: I am not putting any major negatives in this one, let's keep it light.

How to calculate your Dk Planet-

Go to Farfaraway.com generate your birth chart, look at the degrees and choose the lowest degree planet, or their must be DK written, that is your Darakaraka planet.

#Rahu-ketu cannot be Darakaraka.

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𓆩♡𓆪 Darakaraka in 1st - They may know you before you know them, may approach you, will influence your outlook and thoughts, could be dedicated to you, spouse can make or break things for you, may affect your health, could transform or change you, can challenge/trigger you, you may acknowledge them the first time based on their appearance, could be just like you in beliefs or looks like you, may meet them in Hospitals, police stations, grocery shops, mall, salon, events, marriage event, business events, social gatherings, court, places of businesses so malls, cafes, retailers, supermarket etc., Are supportive of you, power couple vibes. Could start off as sexual relationship, sexually attracted to each other first, marriage can change perspective and life for you, spouse will help you throughout, marriage/spouse may help make up some decisions or help give mental clarity.

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𓆩♡𓆪 Darakaraka in 2nd- Shows someone who is wealthy, may work in finance, banking, culinary, are family oriented, are "family/marriage" material, can be some one from your childhood, you may know them for a long time before marriage, they value security a lot, and will probably take time with you before entering into Partnership, can make or break your self esteem/security/finances, self learnt/independent and skilled, can teach you something, Family issues/attachment, may meet them at bank, near your home, at dentists, school, can come to your house, cinemas, after a major event in life, or after someone's death or loss, at places of spirituality, or in dark places or at night, could marry you for money, will affect your relationship with your family, wants a family, you can become more or less confident after marriage, more or less comfortable and finally not on your feet after marriage, stability and happiness from marriage.

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𓆩♡𓆪 Darakaraka in 3rd- May be from your neighbourhood, school, is a friend of your sibling, cousin, has relations with your friends, friends to lovers, talkative, competitive, skilled, socially anxious or sociable, may meet them in your neighborhood, around your house, on a short distance travel, on a bus, local transport, bus stop, local cafes, library at place of learning, while travelling or places involving foreign elements, both of you may gossip together, big on friendship in marriage, best friend type marriage, childlike love, infidelity, three party situation, communication is going to be very important for both of you, misunderstanding can occur, a true learning experience, you may learn something from them, they can be a teacher or teach something to you, verbal conflicts or stubbornness when it comes to opinion and lack of adjustment, similiar upbringing, rise in creativity after marriage for you, you both can together create something.

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𓆩♡𓆪 Darakaraka in 4th- Home like, safety and security is important, provider energy, emotional relationship (draining or beneficial), unadulterated love, attached to their mother, less likely to move to another place or leave their home place, you are their "home", patriotic, changes home aesthetic often, finds you "marriage/family material", could be from your childhood, mother(their or yours) may bring this person or introduce, Could meet you when you visit back home, around your house, at a realty site, near a building, can have good relationship with your mom, is like a mom(not literally) to you, wants you to have good relationship with their mother, affects your happiness (for good or bad) , private couple, challenge your upbringing, bring material wealth to you, influence political decisions, may meet near government buildings, has royal linkage or political connections, could be patriotic or serves country, Spouse can bring happiness and help you open up emotionally, they will last an everlasting impression on subconscious even if you decide to separate.

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𓆩♡𓆪 Darakaraka in 5th - Hopeless romantic, Soulmate connection, past life connection, head over heels, may meet you in your early 20s or teens, childlike love, meet you at a place of fun, at bank, through friends, at place of learning, normal but feel like divine meeting, meeting at University, young love, jealousy and passionate, Can be your first love, they love kids, you guys may have met when you were kids, can meet at a playground or around children, they want many kids or none, the kind of uncle/aunt kids love, popular or famous, into music, meets you when you are having fun or a place of fun/party, could be into Spirituality, affects your gains and finances, brings you material wealth, you or them could be other's creative muse, fun couple, you can see your relationship with children and creativity and self expression be affected or influenced by spouse, you may become more open and accepting to centre stage after marriage, rise in ego and confidence and may pay more attention to fun, spouse will add fun to life.

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𓆩♡𓆪 Darakaraka in 6th - Lives around you, does social service, may meet you when you are helping others or they are helping others, at a gym, in neighbourhood, around your locality, at workplace, at a grocery store, pet store, park, at hospital, near spiritual sights, while travelling, around food outlets, in cinema, near places of art, is a colleague, has heightened nerves, can be a doctor or in medical line, has a pet, or you get a pet after marriage, may have health ailments, marriage affects your health (good or bad), spouse will affect your stress and anxiety(for good or bad), may do social services together, or work together after marriage, verbal arguments, animosity and competitiveness with spouse, marriage may affect work life, possible talks of separation or living separately for some time, loss of love or bond, either one could be critical or your insecurities may be triggered through them or after marriage, can work together, both can defeat others together, power couple, the intellectual couple.

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𓆩♡𓆪 Darakaraka in 7th- Spouse may be devoted to marriage, is loyal, could be famous, may meet you at your workplace, at a celebration, at a wedding event, at a social/public event, at a place of business so grocery store, retailers, stores, may come at you on their own, near court, at workplace, gym, etc. May be businessman or works with an audience. Has a social presence and will impact your life majorly. Foreign spouse. Will influence your perspection and Personality, opposite attract, partners in crime, business partners, may work together, could meet them with the soul purpose of marriage, they may be competitor, someone who values union, treats you their equal, sexual attraction first, starts with sexual relationship, enemy to lovers, communication and friendliness is important, there may be desires of either one involved with other, very sexual relationship based on trust and equality. Couple goals for some, people, recognition through Spouse or after marriage.

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𓆩♡𓆪 Darakaraka in 8th- Someone who will impact you in a major way. Could be someone that helps you with your fears, could be someone that meet you during or after a big change or after something sad happy. They may meet you in hospitals, places of mysticism, cinema, dark alleys, places where light is dim, during the night, in places of research, or investing, bank, or places you may have fears of. Shows deep intimate connection between two, very intense. Enemies to lovers. Can be introduced by older people. Foreign spouse, living in a foreign country after marriage, revealing deep issues through marriage, long distance relationship, lack of trust in marriage, secrecy about marriage or in between partners, in laws will play an important role in marriage, focus on increasing assets and finances, spouse can marry for money or you can, can start as sexual relationship, jealousy and possessiveness in marriage, and possibly control. Spouse can have insecurity arising from you, talks of prenup before.

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𓆩♡𓆪 Darakaraka in 9th - They will affect your beliefs, relationship with Spirituality and religion, they may be your teacher or someone you will look upto, they will teach you a lot, and you guys may be compatible over your beliefs or Experiences. You can meet them at a place of education, University, while travelling, through father or grandparents, in places of worship, religion and spirituality. Could be a soulmate or spiritual level connection or feels like one. Long distance relationship. Foreign spouse. Could be a teacher or traveller. Can travel a lot after marriage, relationship with father may be affected. Spouse's siblings play an important role in relationship. You could feel lucky or a dream come true with spouse, you may complete higher education after marriage, marriage may bring fame, rise in luck after marriage, financial prosperity from spouse, romantic and divine meeting and union.

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𓆩♡𓆪 Darakaraka in 10th- Helps you out with your career, status and responsibilities. Someone who shares your burden of duties, partners in crime. May meet at work, could be your colleagues or superior, meet at social event or family event or around your home or introduced by someone in family, at government buildings or historical or royal buildings. Likely to be older or mature than you, can have royal linkage. Works with government, may live in another country, contractual marriage, gains from father in law after marriage, spouse is attached to mother, provider energy, has a strong lineage, will bring fame or is famous, can affect public image or how others see you, challenges and is self righteous, you can get more responsible after marriage, both of you can work together, Spouse brings prosperity and you may feel powerful after marriage or with spouse, Spouse is person of power, both of you can do business together. There could be political ties.

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𓆩♡𓆪 Darakaraka in 11th- Someone you may be friends with, meet online or through friends or elder sibling, or you work together in a community or meet a social event. The emphasis will hugely be on friendship and communication and exchange of ideas. You will both be supportive of each other and will also benefit financially from marriage, you may find your hardwork paying off after this union. Some may have to work hard in the relationship but end result will be beautiful. Could do humanitarian work together. Could do business in technological or items of prestige. Spouse could work in tech field, both or either may feel very lucky after this union or feel like your are each other's manifestation. You both can make some goals and aims together you want to achieve together, Partners in crime, emphasis on friendship in marriage will be significant, communication will be important. Your desires may start to come true, fame can come to you, Spouse can bring contact with influential people, they may already be an admirer.

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𓆩♡𓆪 Darakaraka in 12th - You may have spiritual or soulmate level connection. Intuitively connected, you may meet them after a loss or at place where you may spend monetarily a lot. This may be a friends with benefits situation, you may meet at hospitals, places of spirituality, orgies, places with foreign elements, while travelling, in a distant land. You may meet in dreams, in parks, in places of healing and health care, grocery stores etc. They are likely to be yours or you to them a muse or creative inspiration. Will impact you deeply. Long distance relationship. Foreign spouse. They will impact your relationship with Spirituality. Could see increase in travel after marriage. You could do business of foreign elements, medicines, spiritual items, or in foreign land. This can indicate a relationship arising out of loneliness. They can come at a time when you feel alone and insecure. There may be substances involved either when you meet, or the person themselves does it, or you may be prone to it after marriage.

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♡Who is your Future Partner/Spouse♡

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💘Welcome to the first in The future spouse series💘

If you want to calculate your vedic chart and d9/Navamsa chart, go to farfaraway.com. generate both charts from there.-> go to my vedic astrology master list and find out how to read north indian vedic chart if you want to know about your future spouse traits.

I believe the following vedic ones to be the most apt and are always accurate. Try to find patterns across both systems.

This is made for first spouse. Read accordingly for other partners if you want. 2nd house is 2nd spouse, 9th house is for 3rd spouse. Same for UL take 8th house from first UL for second spouse.

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Your D9 Chart's Rising Sign/Ascendent And Married Life ~ Short Notes

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»» Aspects and planets' placements matter alot,and change the entire story so these are basic notes and collected information as studied and read in charts ~

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Kindly remember that this concept is applicable only to Vedic Astrology and only to your D9 chart and not the D1. You need to generate your navamsa chart/d9 chart via any web and kindly note it's Ascendent sign (D9's ). If anyone is having any confusion regarding it~~ they can comment down and I'll provide them the web's link or guide y'all 💙

This is a basic interpretation compiled into notes through research and collection of information

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Aries Rising D9 Chart:

Kindly remember that the planets in your Ascendent and the aspects the 1st house of d1 receives can change the interepretations at times.

ᝰ Aries being ruled by Mars traditionally,will make you slightly impatient and jump-y in the marriage at times. You may become impulsive at times when you shouldn't, either emotionally or just verbally.

ᝰ You'll want to get into relationships and romance. You'll desire a marriage/partnership within, whether you'll express or not or whether it'll be intial or gradual.

ᝰ Fights or arguments may be common in marriage at times but they may be solved if there's no malefics present. For eg, If Mercury is present or aspecting here ~ you may solve it through talk or of Venus is ~ then perhaps romance will.

ᝰ You may feel sexually fulfilled or happy in the marriage.

ᝰ You may prioritize your spouse at times in your marriage and may want to be with him or her for most of your time ~ it isn't toxic unless a certain malefic is aspecting it.

ᝰ You'll desire a partner or a spouse whom you'd want to grow with. Whom you'd have the comfort level to share your experiences or opinions with.

ᝰ Having Aries in your 1st house of D9 means you'll have Libra in your 7th ~ this shows that your marriage won't be a loveless one and love/romance will be a factor that may be present for sure in a way.

ᝰ You'll become rational minded after your marriage and immensely calculative in your ways.

ᝰ Case Study:

So I happened to read a chart of a woman whose been married for 2 years now. And she's been happily married in her life for now ~~ she's having a Aries Rising Navamsa with Venus in her 7th House aspecting the 1st. Her spouse is much more in love with her than she is ~ and you'll always see her spouse wandering around her where as,she loves him but her love is very calculative. Also she seems to be more dominant in the marriage than him.

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Taurus Rising D9 Chart:

Kindly remember that the planets in your Ascendent and the aspects the 1st house of d1 receives can change the interepretations at times.

ᝰ Taurus being ruled by Venus traditionally,will make you very loving in your marriage towards your spouse within.

ᝰ The thought of your spouse may make you giddy ~after~ the marriage. Yes, after the marriage,you may become a bit shy within when you think about your spouse or your long term partner. I've seen it in the charts of even those,who may have never been interested in marriage before but after being married,the thought of their spouse might make them shy at times. Ofcourse,this feeling withers out with time or after you get used to them.

ᝰ You'll eventually want to or desire to ~ take care of your future spouse whether it'd be necessary or not.

ᝰ You'll be very soft spoken in the marriage,even if you're tough before it.

ᝰ Security is very very important to such people. Especially if they're a Capricorn Ascendent in their D1 chart ~~ I mean they'd first want a stable home before cars and vacations. As much as they love them,they still yearn for a comfortable home first.

ᝰ You'll likely spiritually transform after your marriage or even before it, especially if Jupiter is aspecting the 1st house.

ᝰ Vacations and trips may suddenly be planned or happen after your marriage. Like you won't need to put in much efforts,even for your financial gains.

ᝰ You're likely to get an emotional spouse and maybe with some past emotional baggage as well. Emotions will be important for them,but though ~ aspects matter.

ᝰ You may either desire luxury and stability from your marriage or you may get alot of it in the marriage.

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Gemini Rising D9 Chart:

Kindly remember that the planets in your Ascendent and the aspects the 1st house of d1 receives can change the interepretations at times.

ᝰ Gemini is traditionally ruled by Mercury,so definitely such individuals would like a healthy, communicative relationship with their life partner.

ᝰ Before marriage,they're somehow emotional in their thinking but after marriage,they have the tendency to turn more practical or their partner helps them become more practical

ᝰ If you think that you're not very mature,then know that your spouse will be somehow more mature than you are because your 7th House of navamsa is being ruled by Jupiter here which a plant of worldly experience while Mercury is more so a youthful planet ~~ so the approach may be as such. Of course if you have Jupiter or Saturn placed in your 1st,then the scenario may change.

ᝰ With such a placement, you have a tendency to develop a stable marriage and home with your partners. Away from malefics,this can prove to be a good position for martial life.

ᝰ After marriage,the relationship with the in-laws becomes more so professional than emotional.

ᝰ You may develop an urge for foreign travel after marriage or you may travel alot due to the spouse ~ it's one of the two scenarios.

ᝰ Your spouse won't be able to pursue you in any kind of changes in your rigid view towards spirituality or religion.

ᝰ Your spouse is likely going to help you learn alot and guide you. He'll be a beam of light in your life,that is if malefics aren't present.

ᝰ If malefics are present in your 1st or 7th House of navamsa or sometimes even D1,you may have a major dispute with your spouse in this lifetime.

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Cancer Rising D9 Chart:

Kindly remember that the planets in your Ascendent and the aspects the 1st house of d1 receives can change the interepretations at times.

ᝰ With Moon being it's traditional ruler ~ you will be like a nurturing energy or side in this couple.

ᝰ Even though,you may have the emotional energy in this marriage,you'll never be the clingy one in the marriage unless the placements suggest so. Nevertheless,they'll be giving their spouse space instead of sticking to them 24/7.

ᝰ Such may have the tendency to look rigid at times during the married life,but they'll be extremely,extremely sensitive inside.

ᝰ These people may have expectations from their spouse that sometimes they won't be able to fulfill during the marriage. They can be emotional or financial expectations,so that'll depend on individual charts.

ᝰ Your spouse, sometimes will be workaholic at times,up to the point when you wouldn't like it ~ but it'll be for the best.

ᝰ Usually such people end up with a beautiful home environment. Especially the locality you live in ~

ᝰ Despite anything,you'll have a very balanced approach to your relationship and your family in general.

ᝰ It is or will be very difficult for people with such placements,to compromise within the marriage and relationship.

ᝰ Your children will hold immense importance in your life and they'll be revolutionary in a way. Your children will have the ability to transform something.

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Leo Rising D9 Chart:

Kindly remember that the planets in your Ascendent and the aspects the 1st house of d1 receives can change the interepretations at times.

ᝰ Leo being ruled by Sun traditionally will show that such individuals will most likely be dominant in the marriage OR they may yearn to be dominant in the marriage.

ᝰ Such people are likely to have a spouse that is more well known than they are. Or for some of you, your spouse may keep a close eye to your activities.

ᝰ The relationship with in-laws generally is just on the "okay" side unless benefic planets are present in the 8th house. It's more so a coordinal relationship.

ᝰ After your mid-ages or just after a break through at some point,you'll transform yourself with this placement. A shy may become very confident, someone may go through a glow up etc.

ᝰ Such people take good care of their family after marriage, just like a lioness or lion would take care of their jungle.

ᝰ Ego--ego would be a big issue in their marriage at a point. If you have Sun in the 7th House of the d1 or d9 it'd be from both sides and that'd be worse ~~

ᝰ With your spouse coming in your life,you'll see how much of a difference they'd make in your life. They'd likely bring inspiration, confidence, opportunities and luck with them. And if not the spouse ~~ then perhaps a lady would come into your life to bless you with this.

ᝰ Marriage may be very esscentric and you and your spouse may be polar opposite, either professionally or emotionally.

ᝰ There is karma to pay with mother after marriage like for eg. your spouse and your mother may not get along at times or moving far away suddenly after marriage. Of course,other placements may change this scenario

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Virgo Rising D9 Chart:

Kindly remember that the planets in your Ascendent and the aspects the 1st house of d1 receives can change the interepretations at times.

ᝰ With this placement, stability will be something you associate work and status with,more than security itself at times.

ᝰ You'll be very very practical minded after marriage. No matter how much of a romantic you are by heart ~~ after marriage,it's all about the responsibilities. And it's not because of the spouse, it's because you'll have this change of outlook towards life.

ᝰ You may become clean freak during your martial life ~ trying to organize everything in place. Messy places will annoy you, after being marriage. Or it could be that your spouse may be a bit messy.

ᝰ Your children may be scared of you more than your spouse, because you'd want them to be perfect at times. Unless placements like Saturn or Sun is in the 7th ~~ planets can change this interepretation but generally I've seen it in charts.

ᝰ You may be business minded for the others,but for your immediate family,you'll always have that unconditional love. Though, conflicts with siblings may arise after marriage unless the aspects suggest other wise.

ᝰ You may be advising your spouse to spend less. Your spouse may like to spend alot at times or you may like spending less. One of the two scenarios may be applicable.

ᝰ You may get the support of inlaws, especially of malefics are present in your 2nd,3rd or 8th house of navamsa

ᝰ You'll go through some sort of a personality change or transformation after your marriage.

ᝰ Case Study:

Reading the chart of a woman ~ this lady is someone who values her relationship in a very practical way. She values and respects her in-laws and in return,recieves the same. She's a little bit of a miser,and she's always forcing her children to be the best and utmost important in a way. Her conversations revolve around her children alot,and she likely seems to have a pleasant relationship with her spouse. Though she has Mercury in her 1st house of navamsa, aspecting her 7th,so I assume the relationship will have communication being a key in their martial life.

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Libra Rising D9 Chart:

Kindly remember that the planets in your Ascendent and the aspects the 1st house of d1 receives can change the interepretations at times.

ᝰ Your life partner will likely be someone fiery, dominating and courageous in a way.

ᝰ Within,you may yearn for a fairytale love story at times,no matter you realize it or not.

ᝰ The sexual life with your spouse will likely be satisfying and adventurous.

ᝰ The assets through their marriage, always remain secure. There's no danger to that. They'll only grow ~ not decrease after marriage.

ᝰ After being married, these people are likely to lose connection with their own family or either move far away from where they live,with Scorpio being in the second house ~unless ofcourse the placements suggest something different.

ᝰ You're likely to get rid of your enemies and debts quick after marriage.

ᝰ You may have verbal fights with your spouse that'd lead to huge conflicts at times,and remaining calm would be something your spouse wouldn't be good at.

ᝰ Your way of dealing with the arguments in the marriage,may be very weird or different than others. How it may differ,is more so for you to find out. Because they're not stereotypical solutions that you may come up with.

ᝰ You may have slight sleep schedule issues after marriage. They may be because you may overthink at times.

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Scorpio Rising D9 Chart:

Kindly remember that the planets in your Ascendent and the aspects the 1st house of d1 receives can change the interepretations at times.

ᝰ You'll generally get a long with your spouse's family very well,and they'll emotionally support you ~~ unless placements suggest something different.

ᝰ After being married,you may five deep into spirituality, occult, mysteries,maybe even religion etc.

ᝰ After being married, you'll always be doing something. Like sitting and relaxing,is just something you won't allow yourself to do,and your spouse may notice that about you.

ᝰ Such people will never even think about cheating on their spouse,like never ~~ in any way, because they may have suffered emotionally (not necessarily romantically) of some sort of detachment or abandonment in their life experiences. If not,then they may generally be like this in nature.

ᝰ You're spouse may be liberal,multi cultured and understanding in a way, unless malefics are present or placements suggest something different.

ᝰ During your martial life,you may burst your emotions. Like ~~ you may suddenly be happy and suddenly down,it's just something you may develop a habit about.

ᝰ Your spouse will likely be way more romantic and creative than you are ~~ so if you feel as though you're romantic or creative,then perhaps you'll be getting an even more romantic/creative spouse ~

ᝰ Such a placement, doesn't rush to break a marriage at all. They'll be sustainable in a way~~ and they'll re-evaluate after a fight instead of jumping to a conclusion,no matter how aggressively they may have acted during the fight/argument with their spouse.

ᝰ Case Study:

So this case study isn't done by me,but by one of my very known former classmate aka friend,that discussed with me about this placement. Basically,their mom had this placement and with this placement,this lady would always be sharp with her tongue and may be always very action oriented as a mother. Their spouse,that is their dad~~ was way more calm in demeanor than her. I assume she told me that she had Mars and Jupiter in her first house as well,so she was I assume,way more impulsive than an empty first house D9 Scorpio Rising would be.

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Sagittarius Rising D9 Chart:

Kindly remember that the planets in your Ascendent and the aspects the 1st house of d1 receives can change the interepretations at times.

ᝰ There's a high chance of changing a few rigid beliefs you may have about life or spirituality that suddenly, completely change after getting married.

ᝰ This is not always true,but I read about a person ~ who got married to a wife who had a twin sister. And then another who married twice,but their second wife behaved and slightly looked exactly like their previous ex. Now I know it's weird,but Gemini in 7th does bring up a weird "twin reference" somewhere with in the marriage. Maybe not necessarily,but likely. A weird reference maybe,but it's seen~unless placements may be affecting in a certain way.

ᝰ Through out the marriage, you'll be very cautious about savings and money matters. Your spouse may be the same in nature. Y'know saving for a rainy day,or just saving more than spending on useless items ~~ if it won't be an extreme habit so it'll be good for your finances.

ᝰ You may likely get a witty and communicative spouse, that'd love to talk to you

ᝰ You may be like a mentor to your spouse in times when they feel lost ~ helping them get on the right path.

ᝰ Your spouse or your in-laws may act over-reactive to certain issues or situations at times.

ᝰ Sometimes people with this placement ~ can have multiple relationships or marriages but after marriage they will feel that they married their ex or someone known to them.

ᝰ Their status is likely to levitate after getting married.

ᝰ They find their utmost peace within the house,in which they live with their spouse or where they live after getting married.

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Capricorn Rising D9 Chart:

Kindly remember that the planets in your Ascendent and the aspects the 1st house of d1 receives can change the interepretations at times.

ᝰ No matter what you do after marriage,you'll do it together with your spouse. In terms of like ~~ you may cry together or fight and make up soon. So like a "harmony" will be present in the relationship, unless malefics are present.

ᝰ Your spouse will be like a motherly, nurturing figure to you ~ helping you emotionally.

ᝰ You may hate disorganization after getting married.

ᝰ Status matters to such individuals alot. After marriage,they'd like their spouse to focus on their stability and security in a way.

ᝰ Your spouse may have many ideas, like their energy will be very creative and jump-y

ᝰ Don't hate me,but eight five percent of the people with this placement are more so like gold diggers ~~ lmao,I mean that's what it is for most of the cases. Though, they're not cheaters -- they just yearn stability in the best way possible.

ᝰ Your spouse may come from a good financial background.

ᝰ Your relationship with your children may have its challenges and ups and downs.

ᝰ People with this placement may dominate their spouse or would want to dominate them in the relationship.

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Aquarius Rising D9 Chart:

Kindly remember that the planets in your Ascendent and the aspects the 1st house of d1 receives can change the interepretations at times.

ᝰ Just like Capricorn Risings in d9,these people also wish to dominate their spouse in a way. Whether they're able to do it or not,is seen from other placements ~

ᝰ Such people will turn calm and collected during their fights with their spouse verbally on the spot and react later.

ᝰ Their spouse will be egoistic at times (just sometimes,not alot) with Leo in the 7th of navamsa but their spouse is likely to be very loving as well.

ᝰ You'll likely be the parent bringing discipline to your children's lives more than the spouse would.

ᝰ You'll become much more mature after your marriage.

ᝰ Your life partner will be understanding and quite supportive. But likely will hate compromises

ᝰ You likely will start join some sort of philanthropic work after your marriage, especially for orphans or children in need at times ~

ᝰ Your spouse could be slightly philosophical or you may develop a love for it after getting married.

ᝰ Case Study:

A lady had Aquarius Ascendent in her d9 chart,and strong malefics in her 8th house of d9 and d1. She described her married life as beautiful,and it was wonderful. And her partner was very understanding and compassionate. But unfortunately,he passed away within 2 years. Now,that doesn't mean it's because of this aquarius ascendent ~ but this is just my observation in 2 charts that I've seen and both had a weak 8th and 12th house along with this ascendent in d9.

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Pisces Rising D9 Chart:

Kindly remember that the planets in your Ascendent and the aspects the 1st house of d1 receives can change the interepretations at times.

ᝰ Your spouse and mentors,will help you transform drastically after marriage or a drastic change towards the outlook of life. Sometimes,you may have to go through a heartbreak before finding the love of your life~~ but other aspects needs to be checked as well.

ᝰ You'll be a very nurturing parent , especially emotionally ~ even if you don't show it, because Cancer is ruling your 5th house of d9>

ᝰ You'll be like a support system for your spouse and for your children, taking care of them immensely.

ᝰ You're likely to not get into conflicts with your in-laws, unless malefics are present in the 8th house of d9.

ᝰ You may yearn to go to a spiritual or religious place with your spouse after marriage.

ᝰ You'll be extremely loving to your spouse and your family.

ᝰ Your spouse will be extremely organized and you may get to learn from him alot~ he could be a perfectionist at times.

ᝰ You'll respect your in-laws and in return,they'll respect you. A less chaotic relationship is seen with this placement.

ᝰ You may sometimes e in your old world or have the tendency to get depressed easily at times. You may stress out on little things after your marriage,but you'll most likely be a great support system for your family.

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7 HOUSE LORD AND YOUR SPOUSE

Everyone this is just a general idea and other houses and aspects of your charts affect too. Also most of it is inspired by faraway.com’s blog please do check their youtube channnel and blog out. They both are so amazing. I have watched a lot of their videos to understand vedic astrology. Here is the link teheee.

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HOW TO FIND IN WHICH PLANET IS YOUR 7 HOUSE LORD AND IS IN WHICH HOUSE?

Like in the chart above 7 house is in Pisces and Pisces is ruled by Jupiter and Jupiter is in the 11 house. Therefore the 7 lord is in 11 house.

ARIES(1) AND SCORPIO (8)- MARS

TAURUS(2) AND LIBRA(7)- VENUS

GEMINI(3) AND VIRGO(6) - MERCURY

LEO(5) - SUN AND CANCER(4) - MOON

CAPRICORN(10) AND AQUARIUS (11) - SATURN

SAGITTARIUS (9) AND PISCES ( 12) - JUPITER

7 HOUSE

7 house is related to marriage, spouse, relationship, business partnerships and the kind of people you attract.

SUN AS THE LORD OF 7 HOUSE

Sun as the lord of the seventh house will attract authority figures in your life. So your spouse would be an authority figure, would be independent, confident and influential. The spouse would be working in a leadership role/ type of a life-giver of some kind e.g. businessperson, a govt official or a politician. You are going to get inspired and influenced by your spouse in a significant way although you are bound to get into a power struggle with your spouse at some point. You might also have an ego clash. If you handle it with maturity it won't be an issue.

MOON AS THE LORD OF 7 HOUSE

Moon as the lord of the house will attract a motherly as in a very emotional figure in your life. So your spouse would be very sensitive and emotional and would have a strong emotional bond with you. You would feel very warm and comfortable in the company of your future spouse.

MERCURY AS THE LORD OF 7 HOUSE

Mercury as the lord of the seventh house will attract intellectuals. So your spouse would be a good orator and the relationship would be built on good communication and sharing of ideas. The spouse would be like a friend to you, would be social, and would be really good at business. Could be good at writing and very sensible overall.

VENUS AS THE LORD OF 7 HOUSE

Venus as the lord of the seventh house will attract love and affection from others and especially from your spouse. Your spouse would be very pleasant to talk to, would know how to make people smile and would give out compliments. Very romantic spouse with great potency.

MARS AS THE LORD OF 7 HOUSE

Mars as the lord of the seventh house will attract a lot of competition from others. The spouse would be self-driven, goal-oriented, passionate and a bit masculine. The spouse would stand by you like a pillar. You would feel pushed in the relationship but that would make you a strong person. Maybe short-tempered. May be a very quick decision-maker. Would sure be very passionate.

JUPITER AS THE LORD OF 7 HOUSE

Jupiter as the lord of seventh house will attract people who have a broad perspective on life. So, your spouse would be well educated, well informed, well traveled or someone who has had many different experiences in life. The spouse would be a good and strategic planner. You would find a mentor, a guide and a teacher in your spouse and so the chemistry you share with your spouse is similar to that of teacher-student. Could be a bit strict about religion and very spiritual.

SATURN AS THE LORD OF 7 HOUSE

Saturn as the lord of seventh house will attract people who have a serious outlook on life. So your spouse would be someone who is senior to you in age or mature in life. Resilience and persistence would be your spouse’s greatest attributes. May have very good self-control and a strong sense of duty. A very sincere and faithful spouse. Could also have great endurance.

Predicting Your Future Spouse’s Physical Appearance Based On Your Darakaraka Planet 💫🪞

In my previous post we predicted you future spouse based on your Darakaraka planet aka “DK” planet. Your DK planet is the lowest degree planet in your Vedic Sidereal birth chart. 

We talked about their characteristics in that post but lets see what their physical traits might be 👀

*Quick disclaimer: this is what your spouse could look like based on your Darakaraka planet in a general sense, of course the entire chart has to be considered in order to make a definitive judgment*

If your DK planet is the….

SUN 

With Sun Darakaraka, your spouse can have squarish/angular features, a strong jawline, broad face shape, and overall have a masculine appearance. Their shoulders/chest can be broad or large. Their hair can be thin with a golden/brown color. Their complexion (undertones) can be warm/reddish/golden. They can have a strong, healthy body and be on the taller side. (6ft+)

MOON 

With Moon Darakaraka, your spouse can have a round face, eyes or nose. They can have a fleshy body with fuller curves/chest and have a youthful appearance. They may be medium to tall in height. Their complexion can be fair, pale, or luminescent, with cool/neutral undertones. Your person can have hair that is thick, dark or even curly or wavy. Moon can give a soft/feminine look to the appearance (even for a male spouse). More often than not, this gives a spouse who is attractive/beautiful.

MERCURY 

With Mercury Darakaraka, your spouse can have a petite, dainty, or slender frame. They can be tall or short, but usually manifests as medium height. They can look quite youthful and look younger than their actual age. They might look androgynous or have a style that is both feminine and masculine. Your person can have natural facial symmetry and have a “polished” or “neat” look overall. Their complexion can be neutral with yellowish undertones. 

VENUS

With Venus Darakaraka, your spouse can have an overall pleasant appearance. Perhaps they have facial symmetry, full lips, or big wide set eyes. They can be tall in height and have a curvy or well proportioned body. Your person’s hair can be dark/black and it can be curly or thick. Their skin can be smooth/clear and they can have a complexion that is warm/tan/neutral. Sometimes it can give a reddish undertone.

MARS

With Mars Darakaraka, your spouse can have an angular, or masculine appearance. Their body type can be lean, muscular, strong, or athletic. Their complexion can have a reddish undertone and their hair can too. Their hair can also be blonde/light colored. Your person can be short in height or have a stocky build (not always). They can have sharp facial features, like a strong jawline or have a head that is prominent. 

JUPITER  With Jupiter Darakaraka, your spouse can have a large, well-proportioned frame. Height and size is emphasized here, where your person is taller or larger than average. Their body type can be fleshy, or their mid-section/chest can have extra padding. Their butt/thighs can be pronounced also. Your person’s complexion can have a fair/warm/orange/reddish undertone. Jupiter can “soften” their appearance as well, where it’s not so angular. 

SATURN

With Saturn Darakaraka, your spouse can have a frail, tall or slim frame. They can have and mature or older-looking appearance. Their disposition can be solemn, serious or refined. Their eyes can be deep-set and they may have high cheekbones/gaunt cheeks. Their complexion can be dark, tan, neutral or cool toned. Your person’s teeth can be pronounced as well, where their smile is prominent or they have something unique with them (like a gap). Their hair might be dark, thick or curly.

no but i love the idea that at one point mary and stede start sharing the kids.

Just like. once a month, Alma and Louis go spend one week with Stede and Ed. It's supposed to be safe, like in one week they can't go far, but then anything goes at sea. They got attacked twice. It's a shared agreement to not tell Doug and Mary. Alma starts idolizing Jim because they're so cool. Louis has the whole crew melting and spoiling him. When she's 12, Alma enters a pirate phase and yes, Mary gives a look at Stede "You realize this is because of you, right?" "Yes, sorry" (he's not. he's ecstatic. his heart breaks when at 13 Alma finds pirates are lame now). Meanwhile Louis is learning how to steal and where to stab a man between a cooking and sewing lesson. When he gets interested in fashion, Louis uses the crew as models, and everyone has to be nice and supportive even when he gets experimental. Stede has to stop the crew from teaching Alma how to cheat at poker. She still learns how to cheat at poker. Families of kids being mean to them will find themselves attacked by pirates when they first go on sea after it happened. Alma and Louis are unstoppable.

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so im rewatching apollo justice and you get live commentary (spoilers ofc, but this doesnt focus on the main story that much more on the little stuff i kinda missed the first time) 

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-kristoph is nicer in the first half than i remember even with the backhanded compliments -“BULLETS!? WHERE!?” -love that apollos defence is that mr wright would NEVER do that (cue anime eyes) -apollos thinking sprite my beloved -apollos 2d sprites my beloved  -apollos objection, complete with the screen shaking effect and music is funnier than it should be -the OST goes hard -he has such a snarky inner monologue, quite similar to phoenix. ive heard a lot of apollos character got lost in translation so rip -phoenix and kristoph are both so dramatic. such tangled webs we weave my ass phoenix weve seen you cross examine a parrot -kristoph really said ‘his vibes were off’  -phoenix really revoked zaks right to call himself a dad. good.  -they really did not pull any punches in the intro case, excellent start. it all feels really ominous, with the music and beanix and. everything. (also its long under the cut)

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no clue what gave them the idea.

Phoenix Wright's best traps are the ones he knows the effectiveness of firsthand.

He knows that a bright-eyed young defense attorney with a burning desire to exonerate their client will take key evidence from a disarmingly innocuous-seeming girl in a cape. Kristoph Gavin taught him that, and Apollo Justice takes the bait.

He knows that, if you want to get evidence from someone or retrieve certain objects, the most effective way to do so is to get close. To be friends. To take meals together. Perhaps even to get them to fall for you. To make them think you're nothing but a helpless pretty face. Dahlia Hawthorne taught him that, and Kristoph Gavin takes the bait.

He knows that, if you don't have the evidence needed to convict someone obviously guilty, you're not out of options. Their crimes speak for themselves, and if they're made known in court, it's the court of public opinion who will deem them guilty, and the gavel has no choice but to follow. Mia Fey taught him that, and Kristoph Gavin takes the bait.

He knows that, when trusted family commits unspeakable crimes, only the light of the court can exorcise that darkness. Miles Edgeworth taught him that, and Klavier Gavin takes the bait.

no see the thing is. the thing IS. no one gets it? JACK doesn't get it. for jack, it was all physical. it was friendship and hockey and a little bit of self discovery, sure, but it was also messy and toxic and then it was over because he got hurt and it had to be. jack saw every reason it had to be over in glaring detail. but no one gets what it was for kent because he didn't get it and he never talked about it. he was young and he was scared and they were intense, ok, and that might be jack's default, so it doesn't stand out for him, but for kent? it was so much. it was his first....something. and he still doesn't have words to explain what that first even WAS??? and when it ended, it was a one sided choice, and he didn't make it. he didn't know what the terms were, he never got closure! that shit stings years later when you're NOT emotionally stunted and repressed, like?

and its like this open wound for so long and it becomes this thing where he just keeps picking at it and trying to patch it himself but he cant do it alone! and then suddenly jack is right in front of him again but its a different jack but kent is still stuck, still trying to make sense of it all and thats so fucking SAD. not to poor little meow meow code him but like? baby girl you are so pathetic i just want to hold you. who is going to tell you that you can't keep chasing the feeling of being 17 and recklessly entangled in feelings for your best friend who you KNOW you can't be with? who's going to tell you that's not love??? hopefully a therapist!!!!!!

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i just think that if you’re telling any kind of story in which there’s a designated love interest, and you REALLY want the audience to be invested in that love story instead of going “hm, but i think they have more chemistry with the villain/sidekick/best friend/etc.,” the emotional intensity of that relationship has to outweigh every other relationship either character has. your protagonist has to have stronger feelings about their love interest than they do about anyone else. so often the emotional stakes inherent to the main love story (or friendship! or familial relationship!) are informed attributes - the author tells us that they have chemistry, that they’re best friends, that this dude would do anything for his family - but those emotional relationships aren’t central motivating factors that drive the story forward. if the protagonist spends more time thinking about their nemesis than their love interest, or if the conflict is driven by two people hating each other and that emotion is what drives their actions, your audience is gonna pick up on that! it’s the most interesting and emotionally intense relationship you’re giving us! it’s basic “show don’t tell” - people won’t just get invested in the dynamic between two characters because you say so. it’s on you, the creator, to make that relationship the most compelling one on the page/screen.

While I sit, taking a break from being frustrated at genshin impact, I want to talk about something that you probably won't find in other areas. This post is for my hypersexual people out there, so if that triggers you, please move onto another post.

I recently had someone ask me, how to deal with hypersexuality if you do not want to masturbate, or look at sexual material or anything. And this goes for the younger people out here that might not be old enough to involve themselves in safe sexual communities. But you can be an adult and still find this advice useful, it's for everyone to keep in mind.

Hypersexuality is a coping mechanism, usually coming from a traumatic experience or something similar. It's also incredibly similar to OCD and the obsessive/compulsive part, with intrusive sexual fantasies/thoughts and compulsions like oversharing and sexual acts. And with it, you will feel shame, regret and self hatred, hypersexuality is not pretty and is very damaging to live with, especially if you've been dealing with it since you were a child.

When hypersexuality is triggered, you may be feeling...

small and like you need to be protected or else, like a kid, like condescended or put down

pain, you may be dealing with some sort of pain when it is triggered, you may have a hard time sleeping, and it's triggered, or you had a bad day

self hatred, you may feel like you cannot escape your shame and guilt, you may be spiraling and need some sort of reprieve to take you away from reality

or literally any sort of stress, it can be anything, and its usually something painful. You could be feeling lonely, you could be struggling with intrusive thoughts that make you feel aroused, anything.

So you will experience urges and intrusive thoughts. And a lot of it, a lot of what I've experienced, and I know others have, is self harming behaviors with the hypersexuality. It's not necessarily physical, it can be emotional self harm. Regardless, it's self punishing for "taboo" or "disgusting" acts. And its a very intense headspace that is hard to escape from.

There are things called endorphins, hormones/neurotransmitters that reduce pain and discomfort, that come from sexual acts. And they make you feel better and help you sleep. But that does not mean you do not experience emotional pain from engaging in sexual situations. It's self harming, and hypersexuality is known as an addiction, just like codependency.

So how does one deal with hypersexuality in a more healthy manner? How to not hate yourself so much when you get compulsions and intrusive thoughts? Well, there is therapy, but that's just an easy answer that doesn't work for everyone. And a lot of therapy is just this. It's self work and self care.

I'm not going to act like that is easy, nor is it pleasurable a lot of times. But it's healing and progress, it's something that is worth it in the long run. It's teaching yourself that sexual things are not taboo, and that you're not evil for doing it. It's learning to accept yourself and break down dissociative barriers if you have them.

In combatting this, here are some things to focus on:

Affirmations and self appreciating. No more telling yourself that you're gross or disgusting, no more viewing yourself in a negative light. There are positivity blogs and posts, surround yourself with that love and kindness, and no more falling back on "I'm gross for feeling this way".

Unlearning the lies that your inner child has been told. And this is specifically the lie that "sex is bad" or that it's taboo. Its just a normal part about having bodily needs. Even if you don't like sex, it's not inherently bad. Within this, educate yourself about the things you may have not learned in school. Let's stop feeling ashamed of ourselves when we experience arousal. Become more sex positive.

Learning self care and aftercare. Aftercare is mostly talked about in kink communities but it should be discussed more in general. It's about coming down from emotional highs after sexual encounters. And that means being gentle and kind with yourself. Take care of yourself, use the bathroom, etc. You don't even have to have had a sexual encounter to preform self care.

Along with the point above, self care is important in general. Create a safe space for yourself, have relax days, take time for yourself and treat yourself well. Hypersexuality is often the "replacement" for the need of unconditional love. This is why you need to be more gentle with yourself and to forgive yourself. Even if you cannot be with others, or trust others, at least you can do is be gentle and kinder with yourself.

Give your inner child a safe space. Watch kids shows, watch your favourite movies you loved as a child. Let yourself eat snacks or drinks. Let yourself play and have fun. Sit in comfy pajamas and make pillow forts, or take a nature walk. Surround yourself in things you enjoyed or wanted as a child. (I recommend The Little Prince if you want a good movie to enjoy.) Let your inner child be themselves, because more often than not, they're the one that feels unloved and unsafe here. No more shame, let yourself have fun.

And this is not a cure, this will not help you with everything. Sometimes you need actual therapy, actual medication, you need an answer. It's hard, the healing journey is tough because of the stigma and struggle with finding a therapist that is right for you.

I really recommend researching about OCD as well, you may not have OCD, but it's really similar to a lot of what hypersexuality is. And getting a diagnosis for that or getting medication for that, may help you deal with some issues you cannot contend with on your own. Especially with the lack of boundaries you may have. Especially if you have been in a toxic or codependent relationship/friendship or situation due to hypersexuality. You may learn better coping mechanisms through that as well. You are not a lost cause.

You will lessen the intense headspace with care and work, you are not a monster and you are not disgusting. Please treat yourself with more respect and kindness. Sex is not a sin, and nor does hypersexuality make you a bad person. Educate and treat yourself better. You are an equal and you deserve to be respected. You are not lower than anyone else, nor are you less intelligent or stupid. You are not an inferior being.

Here's to healing, the journey begins. May you grow and build a sanctuary for yourself. I hope you flourish. No more self hatred and no more shame. You are deserving of respect and you deserve the unconditional love that was not given to you. Only you can take the first step of this. It's not as scary or uncomfortable as you think it is.

TDLR: Please read the bullet points if nothing else. Hypersexuality is very similar to OCD, so OCD coping mechanisms may help you as well. Practicing self care, as well as unlearning shame and self punishing attitudes will help. It's not protective if you don't learn to respect yourself. Stop shaming yourself for sexual feelings. It's not your fault you deal with this. So it's time you build yourself a safe space/sanctuary in order to be more authentic and loving with yourself.

Bruce was ready to throw hands the second Luther started badmouthing his kids and that’s exactly how it should be.

On what occasions does Phoenix Wright get paid?

PHOENIX WRIGHT: ACE ATTORNEY

Case 1-1 Defendant: Larry Butz Does Phoenix get paid? No way in hell.

Case 1-2 Defendant: Maya Fey Does Phoenix get paid? I doubt it ever even occurred to him to bill her, honestly.

Case 1-3 Defendant: Will Powers Does Phoenix get paid? Yes! I doubt Will makes a lot of money, but he has a steady job, and the studio might or might not have covered some of it. Some kind of compensation occurred.

Case 1-4 Defendant: Miles Edgeworth Does Phoenix get paid? I feel like Miles tried to pay him and Phoenix refused him point blank, and they went back and forth on this for entirely too long until Maya, wanting burger money and also to keep the damn lights on, took it upon herself to deposit the check behind Phoenix’s back and leave for Kurain Village before he discovered it. This is probably what kept him fed through all of game two.

Case 1-5/DLC Defendant: Lana Skye Does Phoenix get paid? Definitely! Lana makes decent money, she knows what the rates for a good defense attorney should be, and she would absolutely take that debt seriously. Congratulations, Phoenix, burgers for you and fancy plant food for Charley.

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seems that Chrome has around 60-65% market share, so it’s not totally dominating the market yet but it’s worrying that we’re basically reliant on Apple and Microsoft to hold the line.

Important messages in Young Royals that I don’t want overlooked because two boys kiss:

- the difficulty of growing up with ADHD and aspbergers (or other diagnoses that affect you). the fact that you say too much, or too little, and come off as someone not like everyone else. the way kids/teens usually go through life just trying to convince themselves they DON’T want friends and don’t need them when all they want is to be liked and not have to change who they are. something that affects so many kids today and it is shown in such a real, good, honest way in this show

- girls supporting girls in everything. the fact that felice supports sara, that madison tells so many people off for being rude to her girls and also is one hundred percent right and supportive about how august treats felice and doesn’t want that for her girl. we need this and it’s refreshing to see it in such a nice way without any kind of drama to it just for drama’s sake

- GIRLS PLAYING SPORTS. most girls stop playing sports at the age of 14 which is a big, big problem imo. to see here that the one playing football and wanting support is rosh, and that people GIVE it to her and show how fun she’s having is absolutely also an important thing to show. it made me absolutely so happy to see this get attention and i think people overlook the importance of it

- politics when it comes to rich and poor. the way rich people are allowed to accept all kinds of money whereas if poor people get them it’s disgusting and they are awful for accepting money. that the royal family is the one family getting the most money out of all. 

- you are allowed to set boundaries for yourself. you are allowed to not want to be a secret, you are allowed to not wear a dress that your mother wants you to wear. you are allowed to dump someone even if it could give you opportunities.

- girls have a sexuality and it is OKAY and i love to see that girls talk about sex and hookups and all just as much as the guys (even if a different way) because let’s get rid of the way girls are never supposed to explore their sexuality, discuss it or want to let others know (or know about others experiences)

- parents and substance abuse and how it affects your family and the difficultiy of wanting maybe a relationship but knowing it could fuck up everything. the way kids have to deal with it when they should be the ones taken cared of

- that spreading nude videos, photos of any kind is A CRIME and should be treated as a crime and is absolutely never wrong of the one taking part of the video. they didn’t do anything wrong. august was the absolute asshole that should be charged with so many things. and that people were supportive and felt sorry for them was also the best.

The way this is the thing Omar chose to interact with on Twitter tonight. It already had me howling before he replied to it too. 😂😂

Writing Websites

1. a website with a list of superpowers and what they are

2. a website that generates random au ideas

3. a website that generates names, basic info and futures in a bunch of languages

4. a website that checks your grammar

5. website that lists types of execution in the states

6. a website with info on death certificates

7. a website with info on the four manners of death

8. a website with info on the black plague

9. website with information on depression

10. a website with info on the four types of suicide

11. website that lists famous quotes

12. website with different kinds of quotes

13. a website with info on food in every country

14. a website with a list of different colors

15. website with a list of medieval jobs

16. website with a list of fabrics

17. website with a list of flowers and pictures

18. website with a list of flowers and no pictures

19. website with a list of poisonous plants

20. website with a list of poisonous and non-poisonous plants

21. website with a list of things not to feed your animals

22. website with a list of poisons that can be used to kill people

23. website with info on the international date line

24. website with a list of food allergies

25. website with a list of climates

26. website with info on allergic reactions

27. website with info on fahrenheit and celsius 

28. website with info on color blindness

29. website with a list of medical equipment

30. website with a list of bugs

31. website with an alphabetic list of bugs and their scientific name

32. website with a list of eye colors

33. website (wikipedia sorry) with list of drinks

34. website with a list of religions

35. website with a list of different types of doctors and what they do

36. website (wikipedia again sorry) with a list of hair colors

37. website that generates fantasy names

38. website with a list of body language

39. website with a list of disabilities

40. website with an alphabetic list of disabilities

TAYLOR SWIFT WRITES HER SONGS FOR FIRSTPRINCE (REAL)

cruel summer

… ready for it?

invisible string

cardigan

london boy

Love religiously

1. Katherine Philips / 2. Oscar Wilde / 3. Anne Sexton / 4. Sappho / 5. Richard Siken / 6. Victor Hugo / 7. Hozier / 8. Richard Siken / 9. Taylor Swift / 10. Madeline Miller