“No Amount Of Sanitization Will Save You From Bigotry”

i love you im glad you exist im so happy you’re alive

top 5 things people should know about sex

sex doesn't ever have to involve penetration or even genitalia if you don't want it to.

the lack of an orgasm isn't necessarily a sign that the sex was bad, and the presence of one isn't a guarantee that the sex was good or even wanted.

wanting or needing any kind of aides during sex - vibrators, other toys, more lube, pillows to prop up parts of your body, etc - is totally fine and doesn't mean that anyone isn't "good enough" as they are.

there's no guaranteed trick to make yourself a better sexual partner except for subjecting yourself to the mortifying ordeal of being known and just talking to your partner(s).

statistically speaking whatever you think is weird about your own body or sexual proclivities is probably pretty average.

happy trails r called happy trails because they make me happy when i trail my eyes down them ^_^

Yeah I do think about coming home and laying my head on their lap while they pet me and tell me what a good boy I was for working so hard this week.

Yes I am a top, now shut up.

an interesting detail I noticed in twd 9x01 was that when they hung gregory it seemed like daryl was the executioner. its fairly brief but its implied that although maggie ordered the execution it was daryl that physically carried it out. ofc this turned into a long rambling post:

it got me thinking that from very early on he was the member of the group who was doing the dirty work. he gets called rick’s henchman by another character at least twice (carol in s2 and milton in s3) and for the first 9 seasons that’s objectively correct. in s2 when they were going to execute randall it was daryl that physically dragged him there even though rick was the one who planned to carry it out (he also took it upon himself to torture randall which likely feeds into the way he was perceived). he doesn’t make many of the difficult decisions but he does tend to undertake the more unsavory work that needs to be done.

it seems like part of this is that the other group members view him as a violent person who may have been doing similar things prior to the outbreak (not a totally unfair assumption based on some of the things he said and did in the first few seasons). despite ostensibly escaping the prejudices and assumptions the others have about him when he’s accepted into the group, it’s pretty clear that this perception lingers, especially with regard to group members who’ve known him since early on.

it’s interesting to me bc it’s not clear to what extent he fills this role because he’s the most willing to do it or because other people expect him to. did he volunteer to execute gregory or did maggie ask him to? was it just assumed that he’d do it? anyway I just think it’s fascinating that even though daryl developed immensely through the seasons to a certain extent he continued to play the same role (the violent enforcer to ricks leader) up until season 9 at least.

hearing 'good boy, good boy, good boy, good boy' chanted breathlessly over and over while they're ruthlessly pounding you into the mattress. thats it thats the post

"Dogs don't talk" okay so fuck my throat then??? Make it so I can't talk?? Thanks????

"can trans men say the t slur?" trans men can jerk off on my face for all I care

Doms can ask for attention too.

Doms can be needy for attention too.

Doms can ask for reassurance too.

Doms can be clingy too.

Doms can be not in the mood too.

Doms can get jealous and insecure too.

They're not weaker or less of a dom for any of it. They're humans, too, not just Doms. And the fact that people genuinely think otherwise is kind of weird to me.

LET’S. GET. DRUNK!