Richard Waiting To Be Let Into The Greek Class Like

tiktok and twitter really liked this one

it’s that time of year again where i reread tsh for the bajillionth time so here is the greek class!!!

A lot of pop psychology gets thrown around and since I already have a headache, here's preventing you lot from making it worse.

Love-bombing: A manipulation tactic of increasing affection and grand gestures before or after doing something abusive, specifically to weasel one's way out of consequences.

What it is not: A streak of affection and generosity towards friends/loved ones.

Trauma-bonding: Knowingly traumatizing someone to take advantage of their vulnerable state, to then act like the "hero" or the one who cheers them up.

What it is not: Bonding over similar traumas.

Gaslighting: *Knowingly* convincing someone they cannot trust their own perception of a situation in pursuit of one's own narrative.

What it is not: Misaligned perception of events.

Narcissist: Someone afflicted with Narcissistic Personality Disorder, a traumagenic cluster B disorder, that struggles with self-obsession, paranoia, craving validity from the public, delusions of grandeur, and social disconnection.

It is not: Your rubbish ex that cheated on you.

Thank you for coming to my TED Talk.

-Xanthe

𝔪𝔦𝔰𝔠𝔥𝔦𝔢𝔳𝔬𝔲𝔰 𝔪𝔦𝔰𝔣𝔦𝔱𝔰

#7 for the ask game, with Dazai, Chuuya and Odasaku ^^

go to a wedding with, go to a party with, go to a museum with

I'd go to a wedding with Chuuya, I think he'd be very respectful during the ceremony, but super fun at the reception!! he also gets drunk quickly and it'd be a great opportunity to hear his inner thoughts lmao

Go to a party with Dazai. i think he'd be really fun and create a great atmosphere lol, and i'd love to chat with him about stupid things. dancing w dazai would also be fun af

i'd go to the museum with Oda!! considering he's somewhat of an artist himself, i think he'd have some really interesting things to say, and i'd love to start some deeper conversations about the exhibits shown!! i also think Oda would just love museums in canon tbh

ty for the ask ^^

Timelapse time baybe

spring - year one

Richard in secret history is so funny being like “Judy poovey is such a shallow vapid stupid druggie for doing coke in a Burger King parking lot. Unlike me, I’m intellectual and deep and mysterious and also doing coke in a Burger King parking lot”

He's just like his dad