Take a minute and have your hubby answer this quiz to understand how much fun you can have. The test offers him with simple ideas and scenarios.
Use scale to rate answers with how you feel about real life situations.
1 - I don’t like that.
2 - Like to imagine it, but not to do it.
3 - It’s very arousing to think about it. I would like to try it.
4 - That thought gave me a hell of a hard-on. I can’t wait to do it.
5 - That’s my darkest desire!
Scoring key is at bottom. Print, mix Hubby a drink, and give to complete.
Remember just rate the thought of doing in real life
1) You and your wife are walking by the beach (or pool). She is wearing a very sexy and revealing suit and every man is looking at her body.
2) Your wife is telling you about her past experiences.
3) Your wife a flirty text or sext that a guy sent her.
4) Your wife asks you to help her take sexually suggestive or nude pics that she can sext others with..
5) There is a guy that likes your wife, she knows and she is acting ‘slutty’
6) Your wife is changing clothes with the windows opened, the neighbor is watching.
7) Some male friends, you, and your wife are in a private tub. Then she decides to take off the bra and remains topless.
8) Your wife ignores you when she talks to someone with whom she is thinking about fucking.
9) Your wife likes the idea of the threesome and is inviting 2 other people (a couple) to your house to have sex with and you can only watch.
10) Your wife is having sex with another girl but you are tied up and blindfolded.
11) Your wife is having sex with another guy and you are watching her taking him bareback.
12) A guy is banging your wife and asked her to cum in her mouth know she will likely kiss you afterward.
13) A guy asks you if he can remove his condom and go bareback in your wife. You know his intention is to cum in her and your wife looks to you to answer.
14) You are looking at your just-banged girl’s pussy and another man’s cum is beginning to leak out and she asks you to give her an orgasm orally.
15) You are touching your girl’s pussy, filled with other man’s cum.
16) You feel responsible and a duty to lick her mouth, boobs or pussy clean after you or another man makes a cummy mess of her.
17) Your wife instructs you to jack-off on your lover’s dick for lubricate her for penetration.
18) Your wife instructs you to lay on you back and lick her clit as she gets fucked doggy style.
19) Your girl is fucking a guy and called you on the phone so you can hear.
20) Your girl fucked a guy and came home with her pussy still wet. She’s telling you about it.
21) You shave your girl’s pubic hair before her date so that she’s silky smooth.
22) The only time you get to be inside your girl is when she wants you to feel how her lover has stretched out her pussy.
23) Your girl, in front of you, tells others how she is allowed to play with other men while you are not.
24) You love the thought of eating someone else’s cum from her pussy.
25) You are swinging with another couple, the other girl is awesome, but you are only interested in watching the three of them have sex.
26) You help dress your girl before she goes out on a date.
27) You loving plan a reoccurring schedule for your wife to have a date night or hotwife only weekend and manage the calendar for her.
28) Your wife has you drop you off and pick her up on date nights.
29) Your wife instructs you to give her lover a few quick hand job strokes to keep him hard then to insert his cock into her before leaving the room.
30) You are not afraid of a little cum if it makes your wife happy and feel loved, validated, and pampered afterward. After all, is it really that different than saliva on a beer bottle that you share?
Scoring:
110 + = Total Cuckold Slut - You are a Hotwife treasure!
95-90 = Ultimate Cuckold
85-80 = Basic Cuckold
75-70 = Cuckold
65-60 = Want To Be Cuckold
55-50 = Wife Sharer
45- Below = Not much interest
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Ok so my husband and I recently started exploring the "hotwife" dynamic. Mostly he encouraged it and it took me a while to come around to it, but recently I told him that I'd be open to it under the right circumstances. That was about a month ago. I read your blog all the time, and I remember you saying something like when a wife decides that it is possible for her to do something like this and opens her mind to what it might mean, that her daily life changes. Her confidence blooms, and she sees men a different way. Let me tell you, 100% that is my experience. I guess I'm giving off some kind of vibe, because I swear that ever since I internally determined that I might do this, almost every attractive man I see--in a grocery store, in a store, just about everywhere, gives me that "look"--you know, where the eye contact lasts just a second too long. It's been an exciting, flirty, experience. It's also a super turn on. I don't know if I'll ever find the right guy. At this point I hope I do, because I'm wearing my husband out at night to the point he can't keep up. So this isn't really a question, just a comment. We've been married 10 years by the way--both of us are 35.
I know, right? Can't tell you how often I hear this. Even though I've been open to this for like 11 years now, I still have this experience out and about--maybe not to the same level you're now having it, but still. There's something to be said for the novelty of it--if you've been married that long and who knows how long you were committed before to him, you haven't opened yourself up to "flirting" for a long time. To find out attractive men are attracted to you is, well...intoxicating is a great word.
Hubby makes his own beer on occasion, and he is always looking for tips and tricks to hone his skills. A few years ago he met another home brewer at the homebrew supply store, James, and they hit it off well enough that hubby invited him for a BBQ and to talk brewing. Dwayne told me he had invited someone over, which didn't thrill me at the time, but when James arrived and hubby introduced us my pussy was tingling. James was early 40's, 6'2", well built, 225 lbs, and single.
Dwayne and James hung out in the garage where hubby keeps his brewing equipment, talking about beer and how long they had been brewing. I would occasionally walk in asking if they needed anything, secretly aching to see what James was packing. I'd smile at him but was careful not to flirt with him or give a signal to hubby that I was totally into him. While they talked I'd go to the restroom and quickly finger myself, and it wasn't long before my pussy was a sopping mess.
I told hubby he should get the grill going, so he and James went to the back yard and fired up the grill. I was taking food outside when James asked if he could help. "Sure" I said, smiling at James before turning around and walking to the kitchen. James followed and I handed him a plate, telling him "thank you sweetie". As I handed him the plate I made sure to touch his hand and winked at him. He smiled at me and took the remaining food to hubby.
We all sat at the table once the food was ready and chit-chatted for a while. Hubby and James enjoyed several beers and I was squirming in my chair, my clit and pussy begging for cock. As the two of them got drunk I was openly flirting with both of them, being mindful to focus my attention on Dwayne. At one point I began caressing James' left leg with my foot, and he'd casually glance at me and give me a wink while we all talked, laughed, and had a good time.
James had to call an Uber since he and hubby had quite a few beers. We said our goodbyes and he told hubby he'd be back for his truck the next morning. Hubby said he'd be at work long before James would return, but I'd be home making sure his truck was ok. James and I smiled at each other before he left. I attacked hubby, telling him his flirting had me soaking wet the entire night. He fucked me hard and fast, filling me up with a huge load before rolling over and passing out. I fingered myself to a nice orgasm, thinking about James, before falling asleep. The next morning I made sure hubby filled me up again before going to work.
After hubby left I took a shower, got dressed in a sexy pleated skirt, black thigh highs, silky button-up blouse, and black high heels. I kept an eye on our surveillance camera on the garage so I could know when James arrived while I started work for the day. About 7:30 I saw an Uber drop off James, so I made my way outside. "Hey there" I greeted James with a smile. "Good morning Carla. How are you this morning" he replied. "I'm doing great, darlin" I responded, "how about you?" "I'm doing well, thanks", he said, "just getting ready to head to work." "You should come in for some coffee" I offered. James thought for a second and replied "sure."
I held the door open for James and as he walked past me he smiled and looked me up and down. My pussy was aching and started dripping. We walked into the kitchen and chatted a bit while I poured his coffee. "Do you take cream and sugar" I asked. "Sugar, please. 2" he said. "Ooooo", I cooed, "he likes it sweet." "Sure do" he said. As I handed him his cup I slightly bent over the counter, with my exposed cleavage pushing forward, put my finger in his coffee and stirred, and quietly said "I like mine with extra cream", then pulled my finger out of the cup, slowly put it in my mouth, and slowly sucked it clean. James looked at me with a smile and said "oh really?" "Mmmhmmm" I replied, "lots of cream makes me happy." "I'm sure Dwayne gives you plenty" he flirted back. "Well" I said, running my finger over the rim of his cup "he's definitely up to the task, but I need more" I said, looking up at him with a sultry gaze, "I need a lot more, if you know what I mean." "I might, but you may need to explain it to me differently so I don't misunderstand" he said.
Without saying anything I stood up, sauntered around the counter toward the living room, bent over the arm of the sofa, spread my legs, pulled my pleated skirt up over my hips, looked back at James, and slid two fingers into my soaked pussy, then spread my lips and said "I need extra cream, darlin. If you know what I mean." James walked over, admiring my exposed pussy, and started caressing my ass with one hand while grabbing his hardening cock with the other. I resumed fingering myself, moaning and biting my lower lip. I heard him unbuckle his belt and unsnap his pants, and it wasn't long before his hardening cock was touching my slit. I reached back further and gripped his shaft, rubbing the tip of his manhood through my slit and over my glistening clit. "Oh fuck" I purred as I savored the feeling of his meat against mine. He let out a low moan as I manipulated his cock, grabbing my hips with both hands and slowly grinding against me. "Fuck me James" I said softly, guiding the tip of his cock to the entrance of my willing and eager married hole. He slowly thrusted forward, coating his cock with the juices dripping out of me, pushing forward gently into me until his dick was completely inside. I looked back at him and growled "I said FUCK ME!" Without hesitation he began pounding his rock hard cock in and out of me, and I pulled my tits out as he fucked me. I supported myself with one hand while I pinched and pulled my nipples with my free hand, my tits swaying wildly as he pounded my adulterous pussy. I could feel my pussy spasming, but before I started to cum James groaned "FUCK I'M GNA CUM!" "DON'T STOP FUCKING ME" I moaned as my pussy began to convulse "I'M CUMMING ON THAT DICK!!!" As soon as I uttered that last word we came in unison, with James gripping my hips as he plunged as deep in me as possible. My cunt walls spasmed around his pulsing cock, and I savored the feeling of jets of sperm filling me. We came intensely, and he slumped over on my back as his softening cock dripped the final drops of cum from his balls.
James quickly gathered himself and stuffed his cock back in his pants, apologizing for his hasty departure. "Sorry Carla, but I'm late for work." His cum dripped down my thighs as I stood up and pushed my skirt down, telling him "no problem, honey. I understand. Dwayne leaves for work at 6AM, in case you want to give me some extra cream again." James smiled and said "I'll be back tomorrow" before closing the door behind him. I walked over to the bedroom as James dripped out of my pussy, undressed, laid on the bed, pulled out my dildo, and fucked myself to a squirting orgasm.
The first time she cheated was on her first girls night out. She messaged me at the beginning of the night. She slowly stopped talking to me and then after an hour of silence, a photo of her hugging another man appears on her facebook. she was visibly drunk and was very close to him. A friend of mine calls me later to say he found her drunk and wondering at this 24 hour food place and walked her home. when she was asleep i read her phone and this is where the fun started fun started for me. i found messages of her telling her friend about how she had pulled some guy, hot body and all that. Then saying about how she’d just fucked him a couple of times and then he’d just kicked her out of his house. I didn’t feel hurt at all, I was surprised i felt turned on,
Knowing she had a drunk one night stand with a guy who had just fucked her and thrown her out was a huge turn on, I then read messages from the friend of mine who had picked her up, Turns out, when he got her back to our place, she invited him in and said thank you to him as well ;) I was tured on that my innocent girlfriend had became a slut.
A user on Reddit came up with a fun (and maybe useful) idea of making an escalating list of hotwife activities, and got some good feedback from other users. Obviously, it’s very subjective from person to person, so the list was never completely finished. But it’s worth giving a thought to, especially if you’re still pretty new or just starting out (or even wanting to start!).
0 - monogamous relationship
1 - talk about hotwifing with your partner
3 - looking at tame hotwife material
5 - reading or watching more erotic hotwife material
9 - making plans to take things further
10 - talk dirty about the plans
15 - pretend you’ve just met for the first time
16 - use a dildo on her after she knows about your fantasy
20 - upload a pic to /r/wifesharing
21 - upload pic to /r/tributeme
22 - wife putting on a webcam show
23 - let her flirt with other guys in person
24 - ask her to dress up and go out without panties
25 - asking a guy for his number
29 - ‘accidentally’ let a lucky guy see too much
30 - dancing in a club/bar with a guy
35 - dirty dancing/grinding
39 - let him feel you up a bit
40 - make contact with a specific guy via online/text
45 - send dirty messages (text/email)
49 - send a naughty pic
50 - make plans to meet up
55 - meet for a drink and flirt
60 - kiss another man
61 - put his hand on your thigh
62 - let him grab your ass
64 - let him touch your tits
66 - give him a handjob
69 - let him finger you
70 - give him a blowjob
75 - let him eat you out
79 - 69
85 - just the tip inside
89 - take it all
90 - (different kinds of sex)
100 - ???
For years, the idea of my sexy wife being with another man had been a fantasy of mine. At first, it was just a passing thought, something that I couldn’t ever see becoming a reality. After all, I love Melissa very much, and she is my wife. Only a husband is supposed to make love to his wife. Right?
And while I have never been skillful bed, our sexual encounters were pleasant and comfortable. But as the years moved on, my fantasy grew stronger, until I could no longer keep it to myself. I finally mustered up enough courage to tell her about it.
She was not shocked by the idea, but initially blew it off as a fleeting whim. But when I brought it up a second time, she told me I shouldn’t play with fire. She said, “Dear, you better be careful what you wish for. If you keep pushing for it, it will happen. And there’s no telling where it will go once it starts.”
I said, “But it’s all I can think about.”
She touched my cheek and replied, “Okay, dear. But I am warning you. The reality may not be as good at the fantasy.”
I couldn’t believe that she was willing to do it. After a few seconds of thinking about it, she said, “If we do this, it must be with a friend. I have no interest in being with a stranger.” My face went pale. “But one thing you should know. I am not into one-night stands. Once this starts, you will have to ride it out. Think long and hard about this. Be sure this is what you want.”
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