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Ok, so I have to give myself a little credit here for this idea. I try to write now and then about "keeping things fresh" and trying new things. I know, some of you are like, "you can have sex with three men, what else do you need?". And, well, yeah...you're right. But even then, creativity is what keeps things fun, even in this context.

If you've read this blog for long, you know a lot about us and my sex life. You know that I hate condoms and never have my men use them. You also know that while my husband knows that I often have sex with Ben, my "regular" FWB, and also Colin, my OG "FWB", that I could, if I wanted, have sex with another man of my choosing. Even without my husband knowing. It's been a little joke, a joke with some subtle meaning, that he makes sure I have a fresh condom in my purse, you know...just in case.

So, last night he comes home from work. I'm smiling, maybe even a little giddy. I make him wonder why. It's often how I am after a little "afternoon delight", especially when its spontaneous.

So, later in the evening, as I'm sure it's eating away at him what I did and with who, even though it's almost always Ben, he finds exactly what I wanted him to find, because I left it on his night table. A used condom, neatly tied off. The look on his face was something between, or maybe including: confusion, jealousy, angst, arousal, and multiple other things. He smiles, and says, "who?". I smile back, and in as sultry a voice as I can muster, I say, "make out with me, eat me, have sex with me and maybe I'll tell you."

We had a wonderfully erotic make out session. He ate me out with the vigor of a newlywed. He fucked me. As he's doing so, he just says, "is it someone I know?". "Yes", I say. To my surprise, he doesn't ask more. As we are recovering, lying side-by-side, I say, "It's killing you isn't it?" He smiles, "Yeah, but I won't admit it..."

I make him squirm for a few moments more as I brush my teeth. Then, as we're bedding down for the night, I turn to him. "Do you have any guesses?" He looks around. "Honestly, no...is Noah in town?" Noah is the young cute surfer that Maddy and I befriended some time ago with his buddy Trevor. Kyle knows Noah and I were a little flirty.

"No...but that could be fun", I say. Kyle looks bewildered. "I honestly can't think of anyone else I know that would interest you."

I kiss him. "That's because you're not thinking of all possibilities." He looks at me confused. I put him out of his misery. "Babe...it was Ben. We just thought we'd have a little fun with you tonight."

With your fantasy of your husband losing you for a night in a card game. Do you know he bet his wife or do you find out later?

There are variations of the fantasy but I typically envision it as follows: my husband and I are at a bar. He's watching his favorite team play on a game that's being shown at the bar. A group of guys who are fans of the opposing team notice us and start chatting us up. One of the guys appears to be interested in me and starts flirting with me in front of my husband. My husband is too into the game to really notice. The guy gets an idea. He starts trash talking with my husband about the game. It escalates to the point where he convinces my husband to place a wager. "If you really believe in your team, you'll put up $5,000, right?" My husband agrees to the bet. His team loses. I'm pissed at him for blowing $5,000. I get up to go to the bathroom. While I'm away, the guy says "I'll give you a chance to win your money back. He says to my husband "I'll let you take the favored team in the game that is coming on next. If the favored team wins, I'll forgive the bet. If the underdog wins, your wife has to come back to our place and strip for the guys." My husband agrees.

When I come back from the bathroom I notice all the guys eye humping me and giggling. I know something is up. So I ask my husband "why are they are staring at me and whispering to each other?" He confesses that he bet me but it's just to win his money back. There's no way the underdog team is going to win the game. I'm annoyed but take his word for it that it's going to work out, and momentarily relieved that the debt will be forgiven. My relief eventually turns to disbelief as the favored team chokes away the game at the very end. The guys are high fiving each other and taunting my husband. They say "meet us at this address in 15 minutes, but they make my husband and I ride with two of the guys from the group to make sure we don't try to drive off and get out of the bet.

The drive there is incredibly tense. I tell my husband I can't believe he got me into this. He better be prepared to deal with the consequences. Along the way, the guys pull in to a sex shop. He tells me to go pick out an outfit. At first I resist. So the guy says "ok, we'll pick one out for you then." I relent and go pick one out, wanting to at least maintain at least some level of control over the experience.

We arrive at the address, and the guy he lost a bet to tells me to go change into the slutty lingerie I just bought. When I come out the guys erupt in approval. Suddenly my mood changes. Seeing how excited all of these younger guys are to see my nearly nude body is a major turn on. They put on some "mood music" to strip to, and the show begins. I start peeling of clothes. I notice my husband is looking uncomfortable with how much I appear to be enjoying this. I decide to take it up a notch and begin giving lap dances. The guys are are loving it.

Eventually I'm down to just my thong. I'm grinding on their laps. Some of the guys are groping my breasts. My husband tries to interrupt. He says "ok, that's enough. The bet was my wife had to strip for you guys. She did that." The guys are like "the bet was that your wife would strip nude. She's not nude yet". I see the look of concern on my husband's face, as if to say "you're not actually going to do this, are you?" At that moment I decide I'm going to teach him a lesson. I bend over, and slide off my thong, revealing my fully naked body to the guys at the party. They erupt in cheers. I then resume giving lap dances.

When I get to the guy he lost the bet to, he bends me over his lap and starts spanking me. He then asks me to kneel in front of him. I comply. I unzip his pants and grab his cock. I ask him if he wants a hand job. He says "that's a good start, but I want you to put it in your mouth." I smile at him. Then I shoot my husband an evil grin just before I put my lips around the guy's cock and go to work. Eventually the guy fucks me in front of all of the guys at the party.

Dating While Married

In the beginning, I had a fears - one was that there would be no one out there for my wife to play with, 

Well, there’s plenty of people interested, if you know where to look.  According to the stats, something like 45% of couples 30-44 are not monogamous.  That’s probably higher in certain places.  Something like a ⅓ of couples have had sex with another with consent of their romantic partner.   If they haven’t done it, they probably have thought about it as a fantasy.  It’s the most popular sex fantasy for Americans.  So the number of people who are doing it, have done it or thought about it is pretty high. 

Those numbers go even higher in certain social situations.  For example,  if a man agrees to get “coffee” with your wife, there’s a high likelihood he’s open to exploring.  Not 100% certain, but high chance.  Those odds go even higher  if he invites your wife out for “coffee.” 

And likewise, if a man is open to another man spending time with his wife or going out for drinks, there's a good chance they are open to exploring.

It's not 100% guaranteed, but many people aren't really monogamous.

Hotwife

Ok so my husband and I recently started exploring the "hotwife" dynamic. Mostly he encouraged it and it took me a while to come around to it, but recently I told him that I'd be open to it under the right circumstances. That was about a month ago. I read your blog all the time, and I remember you saying something like when a wife decides that it is possible for her to do something like this and opens her mind to what it might mean, that her daily life changes. Her confidence blooms, and she sees men a different way. Let me tell you, 100% that is my experience. I guess I'm giving off some kind of vibe, because I swear that ever since I internally determined that I might do this, almost every attractive man I see--in a grocery store, in a store, just about everywhere, gives me that "look"--you know, where the eye contact lasts just a second too long. It's been an exciting, flirty, experience. It's also a super turn on. I don't know if I'll ever find the right guy. At this point I hope I do, because I'm wearing my husband out at night to the point he can't keep up. So this isn't really a question, just a comment. We've been married 10 years by the way--both of us are 35.

I know, right? Can't tell you how often I hear this. Even though I've been open to this for like 11 years now, I still have this experience out and about--maybe not to the same level you're now having it, but still. There's something to be said for the novelty of it--if you've been married that long and who knows how long you were committed before to him, you haven't opened yourself up to "flirting" for a long time. To find out attractive men are attracted to you is, well...intoxicating is a great word.

Some Nice movies to watch if you are into alternate lifestyle.

1) Mechanics of Desire -- One of the best! Husband can't get it up, so he encourages his wife to fuck other men, while he watches. The wife doesn't want to, but she agrees to save her marriage. The best scene is in the bar. They show the wife's face as she realizes this is really going to happen. Another great scene is just before the end of the movie, where the husband tries to set up the wife in the dirty bathroom of a gas station. I wish the last scene was longer.

2) Bitter Moon -- Leggy wife forces her paralyzed husband to watch as she seduces a black man. I wish they showed the man fucking the wife!

3) Depraved -- The only way a man gets off is by watching his fiancée with other men. The girl doesn't seem to mind.

4) End of Days -- A too short scene of an aggressive man (the devil!) kissing and fondling a woman right in front of her husband.

5) Tough Guys don't dance -- A man fucks a woman in front of her husband. The man likes it so much he convinces his wife to swap with another couple. There's a scene of the man with the other woman, and he hears his wife moaning from the fucking she's getting from the other man. The woman laughs, and says "I guess your wife really likes my BIG husband."

6) Unfaithful -- Pretty good, many scenes of a wife cheating on her husband.

7) Erosion -- A naughty wife fucks another man while watching her husband through the window. Later, she lets him fuck her again, saying "You like fucking another man's wife in the ass, don't you?"

8) Internal Affairs -- Two great scenes. In the first, Richard Gere is fingering a man's wife while talking to him across the table (the husband doesn't know what Gere is doing to his wife). In the second, Gere is fucking another man's wife while she talks to her husband on the phone.

9) Postman Always Rings Twice -- Jessica Lange cheats on her husband in this great scene. Jessica is wearing a garter belt and stockings, and you can see the man fingering her panty-clad pussy.

10) Sex and Consequences -- An older but very sexy Joan Severance (can you say cougar!) cheats on her husband with a much younger man. In one great scene, Joan encourages her lover to finger her to orgasm in a car. They should have made the scene longer, no way she cums that fast.

11) Husbands and Lovers -- A wife spends weekends with her lover. Great stocking scenes.

12) Intimate Obsession -- Jodie Fisher, a very pretty blonde wife, gets picked up in a bar

13) Damage -- Juliette Binoche (great legs) repeatedly cheats on her fiancée, with her fiancee's father

14) Survival Island -- Kelly Brook (very pretty face and a nice body) is stranded on an island with a muscular, handsome stranger (not her husband). She eventually succumbs to the stranger's advances, and lets him fuck her brains out. Later, she's reunited with her hubby, but you can tell she's addicted to the stud's hard body (and probably much larger cock).

15) Ken Park -- Wife (a cougar) cheats on her husband with her son's best friend. She tells her lover his cock is bigger than hubby's.

16) Door in the Floor -- Kim Basinger cheats on her husband with a much younger man. Kim isn't as pretty as she used to be, but her body is still very fuckable.

17) Les Valseuses -- a new mom lets two strangers fondle her in a train

18) Maria's Lovers -- Wife needs more than what her husband can give her. She's seduced on the ferry by a stranger (He pushes her skirt up to reveal her stocking tops. Then he pins her against the door and rubs her pussy over her dress. As he presses his cock against her, he says "You like the feel of that?). Later she lets the stranger fuck her.

19) Married People Single Sex -- Wives cheat on their husbands

20) Dead Calm -- Nicole Kidman and her husband are on their boat. A stranger takes over the boat, and sends hubby away on a damaged boat. Nicole lets the stranger fuck her, and even cum inside her! (What a slut! But she's got an incredible ass and legs.)

21) Eyes Wide Shut -- Nicole Kidman fantasizes about fucking a blonde sailor. A great dream scene of Nicole pulling off her panties as the sailor fondles her tits. Nicole admits to her husband that she would have fucked the sailor if he had asked her. Nicole has great legs!

22) Normal -- Camille Sullivan, a very pretty blonde with small perfect tits, lets a young stud fuck her. Just as they finish, her husband comes home early. Husband goes to the bedroom to find his sweet, pretty wife naked in bed (her lover is hiding behind the door). Husband fucks wife. What's great is you can tell from Camille's pretty face that she isn't enjoying her husband near as much as she enjoyed her young hard lover.

23) Price of Passion -- A good movie about a husband who likes to watch his wife flirt and make out with other men. A little like "Indecent Proposal." This movie would be better if the wife's sex scenes were longer.

24) Killer Looks -- One of the best wife watching movies. The husband encourages his wife to seduce other men. He likes to watch. The wife goes along with it, admitting that variety is exciting, but she's reluctant about it. Sara Suzanne Brown plays the wife with an alluring, southern accent. She has long blonde hair, a very pretty face, large shapely breasts and a flat stomach. Her legs are okay, especially in stiletto heels, but they're not long enough to qualify as killer legs. Does anyone know if Sara ever made any adult movies? Her face is so pretty, I'd love to see her lips around a big hard cock.

25) Scorned -- A great scene where the husband urges the wife (Shannon Tweed) to let another man fuck her to close a business deal. The agony on the wife's face as the man pulls up her dress and penetrates her is exquisite. I wish the scene was longer. (There's another great scene in this movie where a young blonde coed seduces her professor.)

26) Straw Dogs -- A great, long scene where a man forces himself on a wife while her husband is on a hunting trip. The wife initially resists but then enjoys it, lovingly stroking the man's chest and kissing him. Then, after they cum, another man (who was hiding and saw it all) fucks the wife in the ass.

27) Forbidden -- The wife fucks a young man in the car. You can see her wedding ring while her lover pounds her. Tracy Smith (aka Tracy Ryan) plays the wife. She's blonde with a very pretty face, and an incredible body. She's also done x-rated movies. In my book, Tracy is second only to Sara Suzanne Brown in hotness. (Sara has the prettier face and sexier voice, Tracy has better legs).

28) Tryst -- Great movie where the husband and wife go on vacation. The wife is clearly attracted to the French inn keeper, and the husband gives his permission for the French guy to dance with and then kiss his wife. The wife then goes down on the French guy. Later the wife urges her husband to take her from behind, to prove to him she still loves him. Very hot, I wish it had ended differently (with the French guy between the wife's legs.)

29) Voyeur Confessions -- Great scene where the boyfriend urges his hot girl friend to fuck another man. The girl friend is clearly reluctant, but she agrees and goes into a bar to pick up a guy. She brings him back to the hotel room and fucks him, while the boyfriend watches from the next room. Very hot, but too short.

30) Young Adam -- Wife fucks a young guy in the cabin of a boat, while her husband is upstairs steering the boat. This would be hotter if the wife was prettier and had a better body (she's too skinny with sagging breasts). This movie just proves that young handsome men like to fuck married women, even if they're dogs.

31) Zebra Lounge -- A couple decides to swap to make their sex life more exciting.

32) Trapped -- Charlize Theron plays the wife. She's so fucking sexy! She guides a stranger's hand up her shirt, so he can fondle her nipples. He says "your husband doesn't know how to handle you." "So you know how to handle me?" Charlize answers in a sexy, sultry voice.

33) Crash -- Wife fucks a man in the back seat of a car while hubby watches. Sexy stockings!

34) Cruel Intentions 3 -- A guy forces a girl to call up her boyfriend as he eats her out. A wicked scene!

35) Leo -- Elisabeth Shue lets a painter fuck her. You can see her wedding ring as she gets pounded by her new lover. Very hot! Elisabeth has made so many kinky, hot movies, you just know she's a horny slut in real life!

Why I Do It

It's been ten years since my husband and I began our sexual exploration, which has resulted in me having a long term sexual relationship with two other men. I know a lot of couples read this blog and are curious. I get your questions. I'll try here to explain a little, as briefly as possible, to answer the question: "Why do you have sex with other men? What do you get out of it after 10 years?"

First, I'll say that the reason has changed. At first, it was almost entirely because it turned my husband on. Turned me on too, of course, but...if it hadn't been a turn on for him, no way it happens.

Once I realized that the way we approached it strengthened our marriage, our communication bonds, and once I understood that I could have sex with another man without "falling in love" with him, then I began doing it for "us", but also for "me".

So, I find myself now ten years in and I can reflect on why I still do it. I love lists, so I'll make a list. It does not have a particular order. I'd place all of these as equal to each other.

Sex is healthy, and having this situation at hand leads to more overall sex.

It makes sex more interesting. Not that sexually monogamous sex can't be interesting, but it really can't be as interesting as when there's a third person involved. AndI don't mean just the physical. The mental/psychological aspect is even more important.

I love the attention from more than one male. I love guys. I love masculinity. The "friendship" I have with Ben and Colin are, outside of my marriage, my favorite relationships. I love talking to guys, getting in their brain. Having sex with them, especially when they know the boundaries, enhances that friendship beyond anything you could have non-sexually. Also, does it need to be said that it's just really super hot to get whisked away for a night or three with a hot man as his "date" or "girlfriend", and escape the reality of life for just a bit? Everyone has an escape--I think this is a very healthy escape. Being in their presence brings out the sensual femininity in me.

It gives me even more motivation to stay in good shape, physically, emotionally, spiritually.

It necessitates better and more communication with my husband. That's what this entire blog is about.

This is a hard one to quantify, but in my experience it makes me look at the world and my existence differently. I see the beauty and sexual appeal in a lot more. Almost like the difference between watching a black and white TV vs. super high def 4k. Even the curves in furniture can be sensual.

Did I mention the sex is good? It's better with my husband, it's better with Ben, than ever before. By that I mean the actual feeling of sex. The orgasm. It's better.

I enjoy giving to Ben (and before, Colin). Giving of my time, my talents, my ears, advice, and of course, my body. I feel like I'm a positive influence and a good friend.

That's a partial list, but everything else I could say about it falls under those general points.

Just Listen Darling My husbands words that made me a hotwife

I am really surprised to be writing this story. A month ago, I would have never believed I could have sex with a man other than my husband, especially not at his suggestion and with his encouragement. Most of all, I am astounded what a totally amazing erotic experience it turned out to be and how wantonly, willingly and shamelessly I threw myself into the adventure, to the delight of both my husband Rob, and myself.  

My name is Jillian and I am a successful professional woman of thirty-one years. I am a little taller than average and by all accounts I am attractive and have a good body. Men seem to think so. Like all women I can point out a dozen faults that I would love to change. However, the things that matter are all good: I have long well shaped legs, medium-large full breasts which still hold up pretty well, my bum is rounded and in good shape (it should be after endless work in the gym) and my face is pretty enough with the advantage of a great smile and full slightly pouting lips which look stunning with bright red lipstick. According to Rob, my pussy is muscular and tight. You will have to take his word for it. He certainly seems to love her!  

So there I am - respectable, married to a successful man and enjoying an intimate loving marriage with a good serving of regular sex. Not surprising, when my husband asked me if I had ever thought of having sex with another man, I was furious. My interpretation of the question was him challenging my fidelity, which was impeccable in our four years married together.  

“No way!” I snapped back angrily, turning away from him as we lay in bed, “You know I love you and I’ve been completely faithful. I can’t believe you even asking me”.  

I really hadn’t even thought of having sex with another man, despite the approaches and opportunities, which were available in my job as a conference organizer, since I was often away from home and there was an almost unending supply of total strangers, staying in the same hotel as me.  

“I’m sorry Jillian”, said Rob, his tone very repentant, “I really didn’t mean it like that. I know it’s just been us. I trust you and I love you very much”.  

I was still angry so I didn’t answer and now I was confused too. I just lay there in silence for a long while, listening to Rob breathing. I could tell he was awake too.  

“Then why did you ask me?” I said eventually.  

Rob turned to spoon me and wrapped his arm around me pulling our bodies together. I was glad to feel him close to me again. It’s never good to end the day on a sour note.  

Rob nuzzled my neck and kissed me gently, his hand tenderly cupped one of my breasts.  

“You remember a few nights ago when I woke you up in the middle of the night and we made love like crazy?”  

“Yes, you horny bastard, I was tired all the next day!”  

Rob had been so hot and excited that night; it was just like when we were first married and I had no complaints if my husband wanted to be that passionate with me!  

“Did you wonder what made me so horny?” Rob asked.  

I hadn’t. Now it intrigued me. “No? Are you going to tell me?”  

“Maybe I’ll just make love to you again”, whispered Rob, kissing my neck and now beginning to run his hand down my body and across my thighs. I could feel the unmistakable twitch of his cock as it stiffened against my bum. Now my breathing was starting to quicken too.  

“I want to know. Tell me what made you so horny?”  

Rob’s hand started to explore between my legs and I eased them open to let him touch my pussy. Ever so gently he drew his finger between the lips, finding my moisture and using it to tease my clit. The electric tingle shot through my whole body and I melted into his strong arms.  

“Just listen darling and please don’t be angry. I had a dream that you fucked another guy when you were away at a conference and then came home and told me all about it. I woke up with a massive hard on, just like the one I’m getting now!”  

Rob was getting hard very quickly and I could feel the heat of his growing cock as it started to explore between my legs from behind.  

“Weren’t you jealous and angry?” I asked.  

“Yes, I felt both at first when I woke up. Then I realized it was just a dream and I was so turned on that I had to have you right there and then. It was like a naughty fantasy. I was surprised how hot it made me.”  

I was shocked. My husband was turned on thinking I had fucked another man! By now Rob’s cock was completely rigid and he was rubbing it along the length of my pussy from behind so I arched my back to make it easier for him. All the while his finger still teased my clit and I was now just as turned on as him.  

“Are you thinking about it again?” I asked.  

“Yes Jillian. I can’t get it out of my head. Please don’t be mad”.  

Just at that moment Rob’s cock found my pussy and he pushed a few inches into me. It felt like heaven and I was so excited that I couldn’t be mad.  

“I’m not mad if it makes you want me like this. There’s no harm in having dirty fantasies”.  

“I’m so glad you’re not upset darling”.  

Rob’s thrusts were becoming longer and he was driving deeper inside me now. His cock felt amazing and with his finger still teasing my clit I was fast approaching an orgasm. My mind began to wander to some of the men who had made passes to me at conferences. Somehow I was trying to imagine which one it would have been in Rob’s fantasy.  

“Oh Jillian, imagining you with another guy is so fucking hot!”  

I was still confused by Rob’s confession but it was turning me on too and I started to play along.  

“I’m sorry darling, I couldn’t help myself. I know I shouldn’t have done it”, I moaned as Rob’s thrusts quickened. By now my pussy was so wet and I was just about to come.  

“Was it good Jillian? Did he fuck you well?”  

“His cock was so hard, just like yours darling. He made me come twice before he came inside me. I loved it!”  

Rob drove his full length into me and I went wild, moaning with the best orgasm I can remember for ages.  

Rob rolled me onto my stomach and pulled me up onto my knees so he could take me properly from behind.  

“I can feel his hot come inside you. You are so wet”.  

“Yes, he came so much”, I played along, surprised how much this dirty talk was exciting me too.  

“I just love fucking your used pussy!”  

“Good, because I loved being fucked by another man”.  

“Oh Jillian, you are such a sexy slut. I love you. I want you to fuck as many men as you want. Just bring me home their cum in your hot pussy”.

I couldn’t believe Rob’s filthy talk! He was really into this and I was even more shocked that I didn’t mind a bit. Another orgasm was nearly on me.  

“I will, Rob. I will bring you home a dirty cum filled pussy”.  

“I’m coming…I’m going to add my come to his!”  

I felt Rob’s cock spasm and that was enough to send me over the top too and my second amazing come of the night tore through me as my mind was full of images of strange cocks unloading into my pussy.  

I slumped onto the bed, gasping. To my surprise, Rob turned me over, pushing my knees up and opening my legs wide, his face dove immediately between my legs.  

My pussy was already tingling, so the sensation of his tongue and mouth sucking on me sent me right up on a high immediately and fresh orgasms started to roll in waves, almost painful they were so good. Rob had never done this to me before after he came and I realized it must be part of his fantasy too.  

I had no complaints and by now I was completely immersed in the fantasy too.  

“Can you taste his come?”  

“Mmmmm”, was all Rob could answer as he lapped at me, sending me over the edge again.  

Eventually, I had to push Rob away because I was too sensitive. To my surprise he immediately pulled himself up over me and his cock was hard again brushing my opening.  

“I want you again”, is all he said, as he locked me in a kiss and I tasted my juices and his come combined. He entered me again and I let out a long slow moan.  

Rob’s pace was slower now and he looked lovingly into my eyes.  

“Thank you for not being angry at my fantasy”.  

How could I be - it was so hot for me too!  

“Thank you for not being angry that I fucked another guy!”  

“Oh Jillian, I will never be angry if you do!”  

“Then I will Rob. I’ll fuck another man if you’d like it”, I don’t know what made me say it but at that moment I really meant it.  

“Yes, I would”, groaned Rob and I felt his come gush into me.  

Exhausted and panting, we lay there in each other’s arms, neither of us saying a word. It had all been so intense and unexpected. Eventually Rob spoke.  

“I suppose it’s OK to bring fantasies into the bedroom?”  

“Yes darling, it is and I really do love you”. I said, feeling more in love at that moment than I can describe, I added, “and if you think you can handle it, we may even turn a few fantasies into reality one day”.  

“I think I could handle that, lover”, said Rob kissing me tenderly.  

That night, we slept like the dead.  

CHAPTER TWO  

The next morning when we awoke we lay in bed holding hands. There was an uneasy silence at first. Perhaps we had gone too far in one go last night and neither of us quite knew what to say. I was nervous because I had to admit that I was now contemplating the meaning of what I had said the night before and I was hot between my legs just wondering what it would be like to fuck another man and if that is what Rob really wanted of me. Eventually, I broke the silence.  

“That was a hot fuck last night darling. I can’t believe I was so turned on by all the dirty talk”.  

“Feel my cock now”, said Rob.  

My hand found the stiffest cock I had ever held.  

“You turned me on so much last night when you played along with my fantasy”.  

“Is it just a fantasy Rob, or is it what you really want?”  

“I don’t know darling. Somehow the jealousy is part of the turn on”.  

“Well let’s just think about it for a while and keep it as a fantasy”, I said climbing on top of Rob and placing his gorgeous hard cock into my pussy and pushing back on the full length. Neither of use spoke. We just fucked and came quickly. We were both absorbed in out own dirty thoughts.  

The next few weeks went by uneventfully although we did revisit Rob’s fantasy quite often, which always led to great sex. I was becoming more comfortable talking dirty and I had gotten over my initial shock that my husband could contemplate me fucking another man. The idea of it had begun to permeate my own thoughts and I found myself looking at other men differently, wondering if it could ever happen.  

Then it was time for me to go away again to organize a conference. Despite being only just over an hours drive away, I would stay over because with all the long days and drinks and dinners in the evenings it was too much to drive home each night.  

The night before I was due to leave, Rob and I lay in bed and inevitably the conversation turned to his fantasy, since the circumstances now meant I would be in the situation to make it a reality.  

“What if I really did find another man at the conference and decide to fuck him?” I expected Rob would back down, faced by the true prospect of his wife with another man. His answer was pretty intense!  

“I would like it to happen if we could agree some rules and it was a mutual decision. I don’t want to lose you darling. At the same time, deep down, I know I want you to enjoy other men as part of our sex life”.  

There was a long silence while I gathered my thoughts. I turned to Rob and kissed him tenderly. Then I looked into the eyes of the man I adore and asked him simply, “What are the rules?”  

“You let me know in advance if it is going to happen. You must tell me where you are so I can come and get you if you need me to. If it does happen, you share all the details with me and let me ask anything I want to know. And finally, if it is possible, you make love to me next with his come still inside you”. Rob kissed me back and mouthed the words “I love you”.  

“I like the rules and I agree. No promises that it will happen, darling, so don’t get your hopes up. Also, I don’t want to feel any pressure or do it for the wrong reason. If it happens, it will be because I want it to and we have spoken and agreed it’s OK”.  

“Yes darling, let’s add the rule that there is no obligation and it is only by mutual consent between us: nothing hidden or behind the back”.  

“OK, my love, you have a deal”, I smiled at Rob, kissing him again as my pussy sent a shiver of excitement through my body. The anticipation of leaving the next day, knowing I had ‘permission’ to fuck another man was turning me on.  

“Now fuck your wife Rob, because the next time you do, I may have a pussy full of someone else’s come!”  

Rob literally jumped on me a fucked my brains out! It was a hot, desperate fuck and we both came hard and quickly.  

CHAPTER THREE  

I left early the next day and drove down to the conference venue. The first day was always set up and so I just worked hard and got prepared for the delegates who started to arrive in the evening. Nothing eventful happened except the usual stuff ups with flight connections and late arrivals.  

By 10:45PM I was in my room and called Rob. We chatted for a while and I gave him all the news of the day. We didn’t discuss our naughty agreement and I was soon asleep without another thought of it.  

The conference next day was rather boring for me. The topics were all engineering and scientific, so I excused myself from the speeches and hung around outside by the coffee station. From time to time, delegates would come out to visit the rest rooms or stop off for a coffee. They were predominantly men and I suppose 90% of the 300 or so attendees were men.  

I was dressed smartly in a dark blue skirt, above the knee and a silver grey blouse that opened enough to give a hint of cleavage. I have good breasts, so I like to offer a glimpse of their soft valley, which always seems to draw men’s eyes! My legs are long and I know they look good too, although my heels were not extreme so I could walk around all day comfortably.  

One delegate came out a few times and several times he came over and engaged me in small talk. He was quite nice and I wondered if he liked the way I looked.  

The rest of the day was uneventful and I organized things, helped a few delegates with problems and sorted out a mix up in the program for two of the breakout rooms; all very ordinary stuff.  

That evening, there was a cocktail reception and I mingled with the delegates. Soon I found myself talking to the man I had met in the morning who introduced himself as John. He was polite and funny and soon I was relaxing in his company and becoming far more familiar with him than I would normally with a delegate.  

John found out that I was married and he was too. At first he didn’t flirt with me or give any indication he found me attractive but as the evening wore on and the drinks took effect, it was obvious that he was interested in me.  

“You must see all sorts of things happen at conferences”, John remarked.  

“I suppose so”, I said, wondering where this was leading.  

“I mean; don’t you see a lot of people getting up to mischief because they are away from home”.  

“Oh yes, of course. That’s always happening”.  

“Has it ever happened to you?” Asked John directly, now looking deeply into my eyes. I felt myself flush. I took a sip of my drink.  

“No”, I paused, “not so far”.  

“Well maybe it will one day?” quizzed John.  

I felt a flutter in my stomach knowing that he was testing me out. I looked at him differently now, wondering if he could be the one to let me indulge Rob’s fantasy, which was fast becoming my own.  

“It won’t be tonight, that’s for sure. I have some preparation for tomorrow still to finish”, I said, protecting myself from the randy thoughts gathering in my mind.  

“Let’s see what tomorrow brings”, said John with a provocative twinkle in his eye, “hopefully you will let me enjoy your company after the last night dinner?”  

“I’m sure I will see you at the bar John”, I said in a non-committal way. “The last night is always easier for me to relax”.  

“To relaxation”, said John and we clinked glasses, “I look forward to tomorrow evening Jillian.”  

“I do too, John”, I smiled, just enough to let him know I liked him. “Good night”.  

With that we parted company and I did a quick check of the guests before excusing myself and rushing up to my room to call Rob.  

First I took a shower and then slid into bed, warm and naked. I called Rob.  

“Hello darling”, he said, “how is the conference going?”  

“Very well Rob and I have some news for you. Would you like to hear it?” I teased.  

“Of course! Tell me all!”  

“It’s not very exciting I suppose, compared to your dirty fantasy, so don’t be disappointed”. I wanted to ruffle Rob a bit.  

“I don’t mind, just tell me your news”.  

I paused a bit.  

“Well…I…met a man who I like!”  

I could hear Rob inhale quickly.  

“And I know he likes me because he suggested that he would like to meet up for a drink tomorrow night”.  

Rob sounded like he was trembling. “Did you agree to have a drink with him?”  

“Not exactly but I could if you would like me to. He’s very attractive and good company. The problem is that I think he wants more than just a drink Rob!”  

By now I could definitely hear Rob breathing faster.  

“That is so exciting Jillian. What are you going to do?”  

“I don’t know Rob. What do you think I should do?” By now I was getting horny and my hand had found my dampening pussy. “I’m just worried that if I go for a drink with John, it might go a bit further”.  

“Would you like it to go further with him?”  

“I’m playing with myself trying to imagine what would happen!”  

There was a short silence from Rob.  

“I’ve got my cock out now. You are turning me on!”  

“How much would it turn you on if I went out with John?”  

“It will send me wild! Just talking about it is sending me crazy! Do you think you could have sex with him?”  

“You know the rules Rob. If I let you know in advance and we agree, then its OK for me to fuck another man”, I said, now beginning to groan a little myself as I picked up the pace fingering myself. “I promise to let you know in advance!”  

“Oh god that is so hot. I love you teasing me! If you carry on much more, I’m going to come!”  

“Hold on a bit”, I said, “I have an idea which I think you will like, on one condition that you don’t come until I have finished explaining it to you and then we come together on the phone!”  

“I agree darling. Please tell me your idea!”  

I could sense Rob was really hot now and I started to explain my wicked idea.  

“I want you to drive down here tomorrow evening. I will leave a key to my room for you at reception. At around 9:00PM go to the bar and wait there. I will come to the bar with John, or if he’s not interested, I will hang around there in case any of the other guys want to pick me up. The most important thing is for you not to let anyone know that you’re my husband. I would love you to be here and see me talking with a man who I might choose to fuck. That way, if I want him, you’ll be able to agree. We can text each other or find a way to talk”. By now Rob was moaning almost constantly and I was getting very high.  

“Then, when I go off with whoever I select, you can go up to the room and wait for me. That way, I can bring a freshly fucked pussy back to you and we can enjoy my first stranger experience together. You can even eat out his come from me if you want to”.  

“Oh darling, I love it. I will be down there tomorrow night!”  

“Good Rob. And now you can come if you like, imagining me going off with another man who you have agreed to let me fuck!”  

“Oh yes please, I want you to fuck him…” Rob’s voice trailed off and I heard him grunt as he came, which was enough to make me come too. That was our first ever phone sex and it was amazing!  

After we had calmed down, I gave Rob my room number and we arranged a few more details of how we would enact the evening.  

“I can’t believe we are going to do this Rob!” I finally said. “I am so excited now I know its going to happen”.  

“You’re amazing Jillian. I love you so much for agreeing to do this”.  

“It’s for both of us darling. I want it too. Just promise me not to jerk off too much tonight. I want you to have some come left so you can fuck me with another man’s cum inside me!”  

We said goodnight. I had to make myself come three more times before I could go to sleep. I’m sure Rob pretty well rubbed himself raw!  

CHAPTER FOUR   The next day was the last of the conference. Throughout the day, I kept seeing John and he always seemed to be looking at me. I tried to keep my calm and not stare back or give him any indication that I was interested. I wanted him to work for it. If this was going to happen I wanted John to be enthusiastic!  

On the other hand, I was a nervous wreck! My tummy was in knots and my pussy gushing with love juices - so much that mid afternoon I had to go back to my room and change my panties. It gave me the chance to finger myself to a couple of orgasms and that helped me get through until the formal dinner in the evening, for which I changed into a tight, short black dress and tall black heels.  

I caught up with John at the pre-dinner drinks and he told me how good I looked, which was true. I could feel dozens of the men looking at me and wanting me. There were a few moments when I could have almost let it happen, I was that hot! I managed to select a table away from John, (since I was in charge of the seating it wasn’t hard), yet I was still close enough that I could check him out occasionally and make sure our eyes met. By the time dinner and the dreary speeches had finished, the glances between us were conveying suggestions of what might transpire later that night. I knew I had John just where I wanted him. I was now in the driving seat.  

By around 9:20PM we were entering the bar and John had made his way alongside me. I could see Rob sitting casually at the far end of the bar and we exchanged knowing glances. This was it. I now had to decide if tonight I was going to become a hot wife and ask Rob to agree to it, which I knew he would.  

John touched me by the arm and we found a space half way along the bar. His touch was electric and it was all I could do not to jump. Rob would have us in full view if we sat here and I was able to position myself so I could watch Rob’s reactions without it being obvious.  

John ordered drinks and we settled into conversation. We talked about the conference, our interests, his job and we joked about things. We were becoming quite relaxed and John used every opportunity to touch my arm or hand. I did the same to him in return and the sexual tension between us was rising fast.  

John could sense I was getting interested, so he complemented me again on my looks and this time told me I looked hot. If only he knew how hot I was between my legs!  

“So is tonight the night Jillian?” John asked.  

“The night for what John?” I played dumb, looking him deep in the eyes.  

“The night you let being away from home lead you into a little mischief. You said it happens all the time at conferences.”  

“I’m shocked John. Are you making a pass at a married woman?”  

“I’m making a pass at you Jillian because you are beautiful, sexy and hot. I can’t think of anything better than making love to you tonight. If you will let me.”  

Of course he had me at “Hello” but I still wanted to play this out a little longer. I could see Rob along the bar shifting on his stool and I knew that meant he was already sporting a massive hard on watching his wife flirting with another man.  

“I’ve never done anything like that before John. You know I find you attractive but I shouldn’t go to bed with you. I’m a married and it’s just not right.”  

“So can I take that as a maybe?” said John, now taking my hand in his and pulling me ever so slightly closer. I let a coy smile slip and looked down for a moment. Then, biting my lower lip, I looked up at him with my best sexy ‘fuck me’ look.  

“I want you too. However I will need to be very discreet. I have colleagues here and they can see me talking to you. We can’t leave together.”  

“I’ll go to my room first and you can come up in about 20 minutes if you like. I’ll order some champagne. How does that sound?”  

“I don’t know”, I feigned, “I’m still really nervous. What if I get scared and want to back out?”  

“Then all its cost me is my dented pride, a bottle of champagne and a wonderful evening with a sexy woman who I’ll think about all night”.  

Quite smooth, I thought. I let his words sink in silently for as long as I dared.  

“What’s your room number John?”  

“1411”  

“Go up and wait for me lover and don’t worry, the champagne won’t go to waste! I’ll be up as quick as I can”.  

John left and I watched him go to make sure it was safe to go over to Rob.  

“What happened?” said Rob, “Why did he leave?”  

“He’s gone up to his room to wait for me, darling. So now is the moment you have been waiting for. You have to decide if you agree to your wife fucking another man!”  

Rob looked at me with eyes hooded with lust. He was shaking with excitement.  

“Oh yes, I want you to my love, but is it what you want Jillian?”  

“More than anything. This is so hot, especially knowing we’re doing this willingly together! Besides, I can’t wait to bring my used pussy back to you because I know that’s what you really want”.  

I leant forward and kissed Rob. The sweetest sexiest kiss I can remember and breathed, “I love you” into his mouth. He did the same.  

Rob held me close and whispered in my ear.  

“Now go and be a dirty girl and have fun with your lover’s cock. I’ll wait for you in bed with my tongue and a hard-on ready for you”.  

I kissed his cheek, winked with a dirty smile and set off for my room first to freshen up a little.  

I took off my sodden panties and left a note for Rob placing them both on the pillow.  

“When you read this note, your wife is somewhere in this hotel being fucked. I hope you like the idea because I do. Just save me some of your come for when I get back. I’ll be very disappointed if you can’t fuck me while I tell you all about what I did tonight with my other lover.  

Here are my wet panties, since I won’t need them. Why don’t you sniff them and then you can compare the smell of my cunt before and after John fucks me! Enjoy!  

Your sexy slut wife, who loves you totally,  

Jillian”  

I kissed the paper, leaving a corny lipstick kiss mark. I thought Rob would like that slutty touch.  

Then I headed off to room 1411 and my first cheating with the full blessing of my husband!  

CHAPTER FIVE  

By the time I reached John’s room I could hardly walk. I was trembling with fear and excitement. My mind was full of questions and doubts. How did I let this go so far? Is this going to ruin my marriage? Why do Rob and I both want this so much?  

John opened the door quickly to my knock, wearing the white hotel robe and I literally fell into his arms. Instantly we were kissing with hungry mouths. We kissed passionately for what seemed like ages until I had to break for lack of breath.  

John offered me champagne, which I gladly took and sat on the edge of the bed.  

“I’m so glad you came Jillian. Thank you”, was his simple statement.  

“I don’t know why I am here. It’s so wicked. For some reason, I just have to do this”. Poor John. If only he knew.  

John joined me on the bed and pushed me back, lying next to me. We started kissing again and after a while I felt his hand running up my inner thigh. Soon enough his fingers found my uncovered pussy and he would have instantly noticed how wet I was.  

“Seems like you came prepared,” said John. Then, holding up a condom pack he added, “and so did I!”  

“You won’t need that, lover. I want to feel you come inside me”.  

For one horrible second I thought I would fail in my mission to get my pussy nice and dirty with his hot come. I needn’t have worried as John tossed the condom aside and resumed his dexterous exploration of my open gash.  

“Oh yes John”, I moaned as his fingers sent shock waves through me, “I came here so you can fuck me. I really want you”. My hand found John’s cock and I started to massage and stroke it. The size felt about the same as Rob’s, maybe a little fatter.  

I couldn’t resist seeing it so I pulled open John’s robe and saw the first new cock since before I was married. It looked wonderful and quickly I took the tip in my mouth and washed it round and round with my tongue drawing it in and out of my lips. John moaned loudly. I didn’t want him to come in my mouth so I stopped the sucking quickly, probably to his disappointment.  

I was just aching to be fucked. I can’t explain it. It was so animal. I was just desperate for his cock to stuff me and come inside me. I was also thinking about Rob lying there waiting for me. I wanted to get back to him with a trophy of John’s come as soon as I could.  

John must have thought I was a total slut. I yanked up my dress to fully expose my pussy and lay on my back, submitting to him.  

“Fuck me now John. Please just fuck me. I want you so much!” I begged, completely without shame!  

John wasn’t about to turn me down either and he quickly threw off the robe and was on top of me, his mouth locked on mine in a passionate kiss and the head of his lovely cock brushing my open willing vulva.  

Reaching down, I positioned his beautiful meat perfectly and he just pushed into me all the way in a single deliberate thrust. I was off in heaven immediately. The anticipation all day had made me so high I was practically coming already. Running my hands over his powerful back and buttocks, I locked my calves behind him and pulled him into me.  

John was a strong man and I was being fucked well and hard, our pelvic bones smashing together and sending shocks into my clit. In no time I was moaning and coming in body splitting waves. John kept pounding me and I never really came down from my high. This was so good I could have almost cried!  

I could feel John building up to come. I wasn’t quite ready and I wanted his come as deep in me as possible.  

“Turn me over. I want you to fuck me deep from behind”. I have never known a man who doesn’t like a good doggy fuck and John quickly flipped me over and pulled me to the edge of the bed with my knees tucked under me, positioning my pussy perfectly at the edge of the bed. My face was on the bed. I arched my back like the slut I was and begged him again for his cock.  

John was in me immediately with his amazing hard cock. Now he could really pound into me and I could feel his tip all the way up to my cervix.  

“Oh yes, that’s it. That’s what I want! Fuck me hard until you come!”  

Which is exactly what he did, making me scream out with another massive orgasm as I felt him load me up with his hot come. I was so sensitive that I felt every turgid squirt and that was the sexiest part, knowing he was giving me the gift I wanted most of all.  

I flopped forward on the bed, still wearing my dress and one high heel, my bum and pussy exposed. John joined me and lay back beside me.  

“That was amazing Jillian. You’re SO hot!”  

“Thank you John, I really needed that and you fucked me to perfection!”  

John leaned over and we exchanged a long passionate kiss, which I broke, turning over and sitting up.  

“I am sorry lover but I have to go before the guilt sets in”.  

Poor John looked really disappointed, his cock hanging there still half hard. I am sure he was waiting for another less frantic session.  

“Are you sure you don’t want to stay the night? Please at least help me finish the champagne”.  

I pulled on my other sexy pump and stood up brushing down my skirt as the first drips of come started to leak onto my inner thigh.  

“I’d love to stay the night John but that would make it too intimate and I know I’d feel so guilty tomorrow. This was wonderful, believe me, but I have to go!” And I really did have to go because I could feel the come beginning to drip.  

“Please, if you change your mind you will come back? You’re so sexy I don’t think I could ever get enough of you”.  

“I know where you are if I need you!” I said with a sexy wink.  

John stood up and I took this lovely naked man, who had just fucked me so masterfully in my arms, his cock leaving little cum slicks on the lap of my dress. We kissed again and whispered a few more thanks to each other. John repeated his request for me to stay but I managed to get away.  

Then suddenly I was out in the corridor teetering toward the elevator, heading back to Rob. As nobody was around I stuck my hand up my dress and cupped my naked pussy to catch as much come as possible. Not very ladylike, even for a slut like me!  

Down two floors, I was at my room in a few seconds.  

CHAPTER SIX  

As I let myself in to my room, I could see Rob spread out on the bed, lit only by one bedside lamp, my discarded panties in one hand and a truly raging hard cock in the other. “I wasn’t expecting you back so soon,” he said smiling.  

“Lie back darling. I have a present for you,” I announced as I kicked off my shoes and clambered onto the bed, standing astride John and pulling up my dress off over my head. I flicked off my bra and presented myself naked for my husband.  

“Would you like to see your wife’s dirty fresh fucked pussy, full of another man’s come?”  

“Oh yes,” gasped Rob, staring intently at my puffy lips, from which a long filament of come was hanging, “bring that pussy here so I can smell and taste her”.  

So I straddled Rob’s face and slowly lowered my pussy down, stopping about six inches above his mouth.  

“Would you like me to describe how I got fucked by John?”  

“You know I would!”  

“OK then, you can suck on this while I tell you”. With that I lowered myself onto his mouth, thrilled by the filthy idea that my husband wanted to eat another man’s come out of my pussy.  

As soon Rob’s expert tongue and mouth were on my pussy, I was racing up towards another orgasm. It wasn’t just the sensation, which was delightful; it was also the naughtiness of the conspiracy that had brought us both to this depraved scenario. I was a good wife by being a bad wife. Go figure!  

Rob couldn’t get enough of my pussy and I gasped out the story of my short hard fuck with John. It was pretty hard to talk as I had a whole string of beautiful orgasms on Rob’s mouth.  

After I was satisfied that Rob had enjoyed as much of John’s come as possible, I slid myself back down his body and onto his sweet cock. He slipped in easily and I settled back on him with a sensual rocking motion.  

“How did my pussy taste?”  

“The best ever.”  

“So you like eating another man’s come from me do you?”  

“Oh yes darling, I love it”.  

Rob was looking dreamily up into my eyes and I could tell he was already on the verge of coming.  

“How does your wife’s used pussy feel darling?”  

“Soooo good! You’re so fucking sexy, I’m going to come really soon!”  

I quickened my pace just a fraction and leant forwards and started kissing Rob.  

“I want to taste myself and John too”, I said between kisses. That was enough to send Rob over the top. He just started to unload a huge hot flood into me and we had both achieved our wish of me taking loads from two men in my pussy one after the other.  

I collapsed into Rob’s arms and he just kept saying, “I love you darling, thank you, thank you”.  

Lying there in the after glow we talked about how we felt and both agreed it was beyond our wildest expectations and a total success. We laughed and giggled about our naughty sexy game.  

“I feel a bit sorry for John”, I said eventually, “I just used him to fuck me and he was hoping for a whole night with me. He looked so sad when I left”.  

“Would you like to go back to his room now?”  

Rob’s question surprised me. I hadn’t thought about it, although now I began to wonder if it would be nice to take more time with John. I felt a flutter in my tummy and my pussy. I don’t know how I could be getting excited after all this sex!  

“Can I - are you sure that’s OK with you darling?”  

“On one condition”, said Rob with an evil grin on his face, “You don’t clean my come out of your pussy”.  

“That’s so fucking naughty”, I exclaimed, instantly turned on by the idea.  

“I like the idea of that! Are you sure you’ll be OK until the morning?”  

“Yes, it will turn me on imagining you with him again. I probably won’t sleep and likely I will nearly pull my cock off my body!”  

“Just save some for me!”  

“Go on. Call him. He may already be asleep. I want to hear you call him and seduce him”.  

I picked up the phone, sharing it between Rob’s ear and mine so he could hear the call and dialed John’s room trembling with renewed excitement. He only took three rings to answer.  

“Is there any champagne left?” I asked in my sexiest voice, “that hot fuck has left me a bit thirsty!”  

“I was hoping you’d call. We still have half a bottle - do you think that will last us for the rest of the night?”  

“Probably, since we are going to be making love most of the time. That is if you let me come back?” I said teasingly.  

“I will leave the door ajar and wait for you in bed. All I ask is that you take your dress off this time. I want to enjoy you naked”.  

“I promise, but I have to warn you that I haven’t had a shower yet. Is that OK? I feel a bit dirty”.  

“I like dirty girls. Anyway, perhaps I can clean you up a little myself”. My pussy shivered at the thought!  

“I’m on my way John. I want whatever you want tonight”. I clicked the receiver down and looked at Rob who was beaming a smile up at me and already had nearly achieved another full erection.  

“Fuck we’re so dirty”, I said to him triumphantly, “This is so fucking horny darling. I’m glad you had your dirty dream and now we can make it real together”.  

“This is way better than any dream I’ve ever had”, said Rob and we kissed one last time. I thanked him for being the best sexy husband in the world. After all, I was the one getting double and triple portions!

I slipped on my dress, naked underneath and headed back up to 1411. I felt like a total whore and I just couldn’t stop smiling to myself. “Jillian”, I said to myself, “you are a sexy dirty slut! Go and enjoy yourself girl!”  

CHAPTER SEVEN  

I let myself into John’s room, locked the door behind me, pulled my dress over my head and stood there naked beside the bed. I extended a hand which he took and said quietly, “I am yours tonight John. Whatever you want, I am yours”.  

John flipped back the sheet and I slid in beside him, into his arms. The feeling was instantly different. I had come here to take my time; to make love. Suddenly, I was his lover and I was prepared to want him unconditionally the same way I wanted my husband Rob. This was the most erotic moment of the whole night when I decided to put Rob out of my thoughts and submit all of my feelings to enjoying John.  

For the first time I started to notice the differences between my two men. John smelled different, his body was an unfamiliar shape and the way he touched me was new. Although before we had a great fuck, I really didn’t pay any attention to him as a man or as a lover. Now I wanted to indulge that pleasure!  

I started to lovingly kiss John’s chest and teased his nipples with my tongue and teeth. At the same time, my hand reached down and cupped his lovely strong balls, which were big and filled my whole hand. His cock, now freshly erect, had thick soft skin, which flexed up and down across its hard inner core as I pulled up and down. Looking at his beautiful member I realized that he was uncircumcised, unlike Rob and I was fascinated with the way the hood could be pulled back to reveal his purple tip which was deliciously smooth and tight as if it was straining to be pleasured.  

With tenderness and equal measure of lust, I turned and took John in my mouth, holding his cock by the base and combining my mouth with my fingers as I worked him in and out of my salivating mouth. His cock was hot on my tongue and on every downward stroke, my teeth tugged gently on his foreskin, drawing it back across his taut-skinned glans so it could nudge the back of my throat. I was giving him the best head I know how and I became one with his cock, sensing every change in his response to my touch.  

As I lost myself in adoring his manhood, John gently lifted my leg over his head so I straddled him in a sixty-nine position. I could feel his hot breath on my pussy and he just stayed there for several minutes breathing on me, inhaling the smell of my pussy. Knowing it was Rob’s fresh load he was inspecting made me tingle all over with expectation that he would soon be unknowingly be drinking my husband’s come.  

When the moment came and his mouth encircled my puffy used vulva, I cried out with the exquisite intensity of the feeling, my innards in knots as an orgasm started to rise. Tears of pure sexual joy rolled from my eyes and I was completely connected to John, sobbing as I came. I could feel my inner contractions and I am sure that pushed Rob’s come from my pussy. John responded by running his tongue from my clit up to my open hole and drinking down my husband’s mess. Nothing had prepared me for this intensity and I sobbed and came continuously, unable to control my emotions.  

Soon, I could sense John’s cock tightening and his balls were contracting up in preparation for his come. His breathing into my pussy was in short hot gasps and his concentration was slipping. I pulled his foreskin right down from his sensitive tip and worked it with my tongue and teeth, lightly scraping them over its dome. Beneath me, John’s muscles contracted and his balls began to clamp into a tight ball in my hand, my fingernails scraping his soft scrotum. His mouth left my pussy and he let out a yelp of exquisite pain as his cock disgorged, pumping with such intense squirts, that I didn’t even need to swallow for his come to flood down my throat. John’s come spasms went on for ages and I luxuriated in several mouthfuls of his sweet come, some of which I held in my mouth to savor its taste and because I knew it would excite him if I swallowed slowly and cleaned his cock down to the last drop.  

Once I was sure that John was empty, I spent another few minutes kissing my lover’s cock and all around it until his size had diminished and his cockhead had disappeared back into its cute little cover.  

Turning round, I lay back in John’s arms and we kissed gently and tenderly. In my mouth were the remnants of two beautiful men’s come and at that moment I was sexually and emotionally complete. I don’t know if I will ever feel so fulfilled again, either as a woman, lover or wife.  

“You’re amazing Jillian”, whispered John between our kisses, “I’ve never enjoyed a woman as much as you. You are so beautiful and sexy. Thank you for coming back to me tonight”.  

“Thank you for cleaning my pussy so nicely”, I said, smiling inside as I reveled in the furtive thrill that he had consumed all of my husband’s come.  

“I loved the way you cleaned my cock after I came”, added John.  

“Well since we are both so clean and beautiful”, I said, looking lovingly into John’s eyes, “do you think it would be a problem if we got dirty again?”  

“I’m amazed to say, I think that is going to happen very soon”, said John, a naughty twinkle in his eyes. “There is something about you Jillian which is more sexy than I can even describe”.  

“I have no idea why”, I said, putting on my best innocent girl pout and dipping my head like a naughty child. “I don’t know what has gotten into me tonight - I’ve never behaved like this before!” OH JOHN, if only you knew!  

We kissed and talked and giggled like teenagers for a while and I got John to set the alarm for early, because I said I had to clean up from the conference. When we realized that only left a few hours together, the intensity of our kissing increased and eventually we were ready to make love for earnest.  

This time, I lay John down on his back, clicked out the bedside light and in the grey half light, slowly slid my pussy down onto his gorgeous cock, pressing my breasts on his warm chest and wrapping my arms around his neck. In this sweet embrace we rocked for what must have been hours. I was constantly teetering on the edge of an orgasm and occasionally let myself fall over the precipice, our mouths nibbling, our breaths entwined.  

“Tonight John, for just one night, I love you!” I confessed, consumed by these amazing feelings. I was crying just a little when I added. “This can only be one night my darling. I’m sorry. I can’t see you again. This is our special act of mischief. I will always remember loving you like this John”.  

“I love you tonight Jillian and always will in my memories. You are perfect and this is heavenly. Nothing can take this away from my heart now”.  

I could see the time on the bedside clock and realized we only had minutes left.  

“Can you come in me again, my lover?” I asked.  

“Yes”.  

I lifted myself up and ground my sensitive mound on John’s cock, rocking back so his base drew hard across my pussy bone. Inside me I could drive his cock into the sensitive g-spot of my box. I could feel him building again with me.  

“Come in me John. I want your come deep inside me!”  

This time, I could tell he had less come but my orgasm was just as intense as we reached our finale together screaming out our moment of joy.  

“I love you, I love you, I love you,” we both repeated over and over as the waves washed over us. And in that moment I did love him.  

We lay there in silent embrace for no more than a few minutes before the alarm brought us crashing down to reality and suddenly I was myself again.  

We kissed and touched and looked into each other’s eyes but my thoughts were now back with Rob. Sweet Rob, who had given me a night almost no woman could imagine possible. Now I just wanted to hurry back to him to say “thank you”.  

John’s plane was leaving early, so I knew I was safe and would not see him again this morning. As I slipped on my dress he begged me for my number although I knew he could find me through my work if he really wanted to.  

“Let’s not spoil this John. No numbers. No calling. No regrets. This was the first time for me being unfaithful and I cannot imagine it ever happening again, (that wasn’t quite true!). Go home to your wife and make love to her as beautifully as you did to me. I have a wonderful husband who wants me home too”.  

“You’re right, Jillian”. And with a simple kiss I let myself out of his room and headed back to my room. It was five fifteen.  

An early departing conference delegate looked at my disheveled state as I joined him for only two floors in the elevator. I am sure I reeked of sex but I just didn’t care.  

I couldn’t help laughing out loud as I covered the last few steps to my room.  

Rob greeted me at the door, naked with a hard cock. Happy as I was to see him, I was satiated and exhausted.  

“It was wonderful darling. Thank you for letting me go to John”, I said as he covered my face with kisses, “can I just sleep for two hours and then you can wake me up with kisses and I will tell you all about it?”  

“How about I put you to sleep with kisses between your legs? Otherwise you might leak all over the sheets”.  

I loved Rob so much. He was just like a naughty little boy at that moment. I melted and couldn’t resist his offer.  

Lying naked in bed, I lay on my back as Rob slowly lapped John’s last load of come from my now weary pussy. I did come again - not with the same ferocity as the night before. After that I must have blacked out.  

The next thing I knew was Rob gently kissing my face and neck to wake me. In my half consciousness I was in an erotic dream, raised on an upholstered table, like a whore-offering as several naked men surrounded me kissing and licking my body, running their hands into every crevice at will. Rob’s hands were gently stoking me and as I slowly woke to reality. I promised myself I would revisit that dream one day as a fantasy to describe to Rob!  

Needless to say, the whole experience has changed our lives and we now have plans to repeat the experience whenever the opportunity arises. That could be as early as next week, when I have another conference.  

So you want to talk dirty but you have no clue what to say?

Dirty talk is an awesome way to explore your fantasies in a safe environment, but it can also be a daunting task if you’re not used to expressing your sexuality in such an explicit way.

What do you say? How do you say it? And how do you know he’ll like it?

Diclaimer: the following advice reflects our kinks and likes but the principles can be used for any fantasy you want to talk dirty about. We’re very much into hotwifing both of us. Basically he enjoys to watch me being fucked by a hung guy. He’s not into humiliation or being put down, but he do like to hear that another man can give me just as much pleasure as him, sometimes even more. For me, I enjoy walking that fine line where he’s a mix of horny and jealous. I want him to be horny thinking of me cumming over and over again, but I also love to know that it does sting a little bit when I tell him that a bigger dick can turn me into an obedient little slut and make me cum instantly.

Some safety rules.

First thing first. We don’t want your dirty talk to turn into a stupid argument, so let’s get some safety rules down first.

• Talk about what he like and doesn’t like beforehand. What I’m writing in this post is based on our likes and kinks, and they are not universal guidelines. You should always talk to your husband and find out exactly what it is he would love to hear from you. It’s important to keep this conversation non-sexual, so you get an honest answer, not a horny answer.

• What is said in dirty talk might not reflect real life. This goes both ways. Dirty talk is a great way to explore fantasies and boundaries, but not everything said when you’re raging horny is valid when you’re not. If something is said that surprises you, talk about it after. And remember, you’re going make him REALLY horny, so he might express fantasies or thoughts that is just that - fantasies and thoughts, and not necessarily something he wants to act on. In the same way you need to be clear about how you’re also just exploring your own fantasies as well as his, and might say something in the heat of the moment that you don’t necessarily mean or want to act out in real life.

• This is dirty talk, not a lie detector test. You’re allowed to exaggerate to increase his enjoyment, but I strongly advise you to reveal the truth after he’s had his orgasm so you won’t create a distorted image in his head.

What dirty talking is not

Dirty talking is not overthinking how to phrase the perfect sentence. In fact, once you start articulating your husband’s fantasies, I guarantuee he will be so horny he couldn’t care less how well you phrase it. Just the fact that you’re talking about his fantasies means that he’s too busy trying to keep his orgasm back to even care. Just relax and say something. Anything.

Don’t rush it

The goal with dirty talking is of course to make your husband have an amazing orgasm, but do not rush it!

I’ll dare say that for your husband the process and the talk itself is way more exciting than his orgasm. So take your time and let him  enjoy and simmer in it.

Don’t worry about repeating yourself

You might be thinking “but I already told him that story 3 times, I can’t think of something new”. Don’t worry about that, just tell it again. Trust me.

And now…. Without further ado here are my secret dirty talking methods that’ll make your husband lose his mind.

And then what

I find that the biggest obstacle in dirty talking is how to start it. That first thing you break the ice with. It can feel a bit awkward at first, but you’ll quickly get the hang of it. I’m a big fan of something I call the and then what technique. Basically you just start with a rather innocent question or statement and then evolve into the next natural thing that would happen. So you say something, and then pretend someone asks you “and then what” and then you answer that question.

So let’s pretend for a second you’re on top of your man, riding him cowgirl style and you want to spice it up a little.

Simply starting with a “you like the way I fuck you?” Is enough to break that awkward ice. He’ll answer yes of course. And then what? “then imagine how Mark (using names of actual guys you know works amazingly) would feel if I fucked him like this”

And then what?

“I would bounce up and down his cock just like this. He’ll get to feel how tight your wife’s pussy is”

And then what?

“then I want him to….”

You get it.

Reliving the past

My husband is very much into hearing stories about guys I used to fuck so this one is his favorite type of dirty talk. The way it goes is when I give him a handjob, blowjob or even ride him, I would say something like “you like the way I stroke your dick?” (asking if he likes it is always a great way to break the ice and initiate dirty talk without feeling awkward). This always gets me a very enthustiastic “YES!” to which I answer something like “this is exactly how I used to stroke [name of guy I used to fuck]’s cock…” (pause for dramatic effect) “except… His was a lot bigger than yours”. This line alone is usually enough to almost bring him over the edge, and if not it’s a great way to go into more details - how did it feel to stroke a much bigger dick, would you do it again, perhaps the guy used to get so horny that he would fuck you before you could finish the handjob, etc. Details, details, details, I can’t stress it enough.

Fair warning: not everyone is into hearing about your past! Make sure your husband is into that before springing this on him.

The commentator

This one is super easy because you don’t feel like you’re talking dirty, you’re just saying what’s on your mind. So the way it works is to watch porn with your man and simply make comments about the movie paying. Particularly about the guy and what you like about him. Compliment his dick, go into details about what you like about him, think out loud like “I really wish I could get fucked like that one day” / “look how big his dick is. He would make me cum so fast with that”

If you’ve fucked someone who reminds you of the guy, by all means tell your husband about it. Watching a porn with a guy who’s fucking some girl senseless and hearing your wife drop the bomb that the guy is the exact same size as some dude she dated in college is a sure way to make your husband look at the porn and all he will see is you being fucked right there on the screen. Very hot for both of you.

The yes ladder

This is a really simple but very effective technique that is easy for new dirty talkers and is guarantueed to drive him crazy.

In a nutshell what you do is ask him some questions that all leads to a yes. With each question the intensity in what you’re asking increases. There’s something crazy hot about this almost confessional way of talking dirty and being “forced to admit” your deepest fantasies. This is a great way to get yourself going, and to test out boundaries.

Optional: let him know ahead of time that you’re going to ask him questions and if he says no just once, he don’t get to cum. See what he’s willing to say yes to - just remember these are forced and horny yesses expressing what he likes in the heat of the moment. They don’t necessarily count in real life.

Example of a yes ladder.

“you like this huh”

“would you like it if i did this to another guy?”

“would you let me pick any guy i want?”

“what if i want a guy who’s bigger than you, would you allow that?”

“do you want him to fuck me hard?”

“what if he makes me cum really hard, can you handle that?”

“what if he makes me scream out his name, can you still handle it?”

“can I fuck him right here in our bed?”

“would you allow me to fuck someone I’ve dated before?”

“even if he really knows how to fuck me good?”

“what if I want him to fuck me while you wait in the other room, will you do that?”

You get it, just continue like this. Make the questions increasingly more provocative and test his boundaries, maybe even cross them if you know he can handle it.

The O-bomb

This method works extremely well if you’ve been teasing and playing with him for a while, keeping him right on the edge and he’s SO close now that you can make him cum any second.

All there is to it is asking him “do you want to cum?” he’ll answer yes almost pleading. And that’s when you drop the O-bomb. The O-bomb is some of the blue thought you put into his head and force him to cum to before he can even react.

For example: he just said yes he wants to cum. You then say “good. I want you to cum while you think of me cumming all over (name)’s big dick” and then you simply force him to cum before he even gets a chance to react. As he’s cumming you keep feeding him the thought over and over until he’s done. “yes, cum while you imagine how he makes me scream” etc.

The story

My personal favorite. One thing is to talk about imaginary stuff that could maybe some day happen. Another is to talk about stuff that actually already happened simply by telling him a story about some incredible hot sex you’ve had, either because the circumstances where hot, because the guy knew what he was doing and fucked your brains out or the guy happened to be seriously hung.

This is also super simple for you because you dont have to make anything up, you simply just tell what happened and describe the situation.

Don’t worry about elaborate descriptions or anything. Trust me he’ll ask you to elaborate when he hears something he likes. Just describe what happened and how it felt for you. Especially the “how it felt” part is very important.

The talk

Now in the safety rules i told you to talk about what he likes and dislikes without touching him so his arousal won’t reflect his answers. This time you do the exact opposite. Simply have a conversation about what he likes while slowly touching his dick. There’s something really hot about just talking while casually stroking him. And you’ll be able to measure his response simply by the way his dick throbs, which is incredibly hot.

How to start it: just casually ask him a question about his likes and as he answers you slowly start touching him while asking him more questions.

The close your eyes and imagine

Sometimes it can be a lot easier if your husband can’t see you when you talk dirty.

Example:

“close your eyes. Do you like my hands on. Your dick? Now imagine i was doing this to another guy. Stroking his big dick just like this. I would be so turned on knowing it isn’t you. My pussy would want to feel him inside me. Imagine how he would push me down and fuck me. Imagine how i would gasp when he starts to stretch me. How I would scream when he goes deeper than you.”

Do you see how the above also make use of the and then what technique to tell the next part of the story?

Putting it all together

Now, I know reading about it and actually doing it is two very different things. When you’re first starting out I actually advice you to plan out your dirty talking. This might not be as sexy and spontaneous, but while you’re still getting the hang of it it’s nice to be a little prepared so you don’t run out of things to say. I would also advice you to start off doing it while giving a handjob, as you will have a much easier time focusing on what to say than if you were giving a blowjob or having sex.

Let’s break the ice with an innocent “do you like the way it feels when I stroke your cock?”

When he says yes I would then say something like “good…. Now close your eyes” wait for him to do it.

Then: “would you like it if I did this to another man?” - “yes”

Then: “you know, [name of ex / bull / fantasy guy] used to love when I stroked his dick. Of course his was a lot bigger than yours, I could barely close my hand around it”

Then: “do you like that, thinking about how I used to stroke his big cock?” - “yes”

Then: “having that big cock in my hands always made me feel so tiny and horny”

Then: “do you want me to show you how I used to suck him?” - “yes”. Then put all your effort into giving the best head you have ever given.

Then: “mmh… Can you imagine how good his cock must have felt in my mouth? I used to suck him just like that until he came in my mouth”.

By now he should be getting pretty close, so it’s time put on the finale. Ask him “do you want to cum?” - “yes”. Start stroking him faster.

“tell me…” - make him say that he wants to cum.

“I want you to cum while you think of me getting fucked by [name]. He would always make me cum so hard. Imagine how I used to scream his name” - if you really want to go all out you could start moaning the name of this other guy, whether that’s your bull, an old fling, your husband’s friend or who ever you like to fantasize about.

Do you see how easy it flows from do you like it, to imagine it’s someone else, to describing how you used to do or would do it on someone else?

With time it will come naturally and you won’t have to plan ahead, but to begin with it’s nice to have an idea of how you want to start it, how you want to end it and how you bridge that gap.

There you have it. My secrets to driving your husband wild. Now go… Make him lose it.

Your stories are so hot! Could you write a story about a doctor taking advantage of his patient?

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Thanks! I love a good challenge. Here goes nothing. Let me know what you think. :) Also, for others: I hesitate to write stuff like this because I’m sure it could be triggering to some. I’m sure this goes without saying, but use your judgement on whether or not you want to read.

You were proud of yourself, as silly as that sounds. For the first time in your life you made a doctor appointment all on your own. Turning 18 was one thing, but becoming an adult didn’t just magically happen from one day to the next. The only way to become an adult was to do adult things, and you felt that this qualified. Your heart raced when you spoke to the receptionist on the phone. “Do you have a preference on which doctor?”, the receptionist had asked. “Anyone will do,” you replied in a rush to get off the phone.

When the day came you showed up to the office early and begrudged the fact that your mom wasn’t there to fill out the monotonous paperwork for you like she used to. You were finding that being an adult wasn’t all that it was cracked up to be. Just as you started to feel sorry for yourself you heard your name. You looked up to see a nurse smiling at you as she held the door open and motioned for you to come back. She took you to a room where she glimpsed at your paperwork and took your vitals. “Change into this,” she said as she handed you a medical gown. “Dr. Jacobs will be with you shortly.” With that, she offered another polite smile on her way out the door. You returned the offering then wiped the fake smile from your face as the door closed behind her.

No sooner were you done changing than there was a knock on the door. Your heart began to race as you saw a man step through the door. Suddenly, you were mad at yourself for assuming you would be assigned a female doctor. It hadn’t even crossed your mind that you would need to ask. You wondered, had your mom always asked? “I’m Dr. Jacobs,” he said extending his hand. You took it in your own, consummating an awkward handshake where he held your hand a little too firmly. “Here for a physical, I see?” he asked rhetorically as he glanced over your paperwork. You nodded. Somehow you had forgotten how to speak.

Dr. Jacobs approached you with his stethoscope. “First I’m going to listen to your lungs,” he advised before leaning towards you. His hand wrapped around your back. You could smell his body spray as you tried to avoid looking down the front of his scrubs. You stole glimpses of his face from up close as he alternated listening to your right and left lung. He was in his mid-forties, if you had to guess. Fit and handsome, with a five o’clock shadow that you guessed was a result of the long hours required of a man in his position.

“Now, your heart,” he said as he moved his hand to your chest. His palm pressed up against your breast as he moved the stethoscope around, presumably trying to find the right position. You blushed in return, suddenly aware of a tingling sensation coming from between your legs. If you didn’t know better you would swear he was groping you. You wondered to yourself, did the female doctors do this? For the life of you, you couldn’t remember.

When he was done he stood back. “Ok, gown off,” he said. You looked back at him, unsure if he was being serious. His look didn’t waver. There was no sign that he was joking. Tentatively you began to remove the gown. You thought about the fact that you hadn’t shaved in a couple of days, then questioned yourself for why that would cross your mind. You folded your hands over your crotch as you sat naked in front of this stranger. Your perky tits and erect nipples on full display.

He gently pushed on your stomach as he guided you to lay down on the table. Unable to keep covering yourself, you let your hands fall to your sides. It wasn’t as though he was the first person to see you naked. A handful of boys had had the pleasure. But you had never felt so vulnerable in your life. Your heart pounded as he groped at your tits. You could feel his crotch pressing against your arm as he stood close to the table. “No lumps,” he said. His voice was monotone and professional. He moved to the foot of the table. You clenched your legs together, in denial of what must be coming next. He looked up at you curiously. “Scoot down, please, and spread your legs,” he instructed. Reluctantly, you complied with his request.

“Is this your first physical?” he asked as he began to inspect between your legs. It wasn’t, but it was your first one like this. “No,” you replied, trying to sound relaxed. “When you turn 18 we have to be more thorough,” he assured you, clearly aware of your uneasiness. You clenched your teeth as you felt him spread your pussy with his fingers. You glanced down at him and watched his face as he admired your tight hole. “Just try to relax,” he advised as he slipped a finger inside you. “I just have to see something,” he continued as he pulled his finger up against your g-spot. You were vulnerable and helpless. Completely exposed to this man you had just met. You had serious doubts about the legitimacy of this exam. But, you were also human, and, objectively, this was starting to feel pretty fucking amazing.

You began to relax as he slid a second finger inside you. The endorphins were taking over and your nervousness was becoming a distant memory. Slowly but surely, all you really wanted was to cum. You ground your hips against his hand as he fingered you. Biting your lip as you softly whimpered from his touch. Your eyes were closed and you jumped as you suddenly felt his mouth on your pussy. There was no point in pretending anymore. You knew what this was, and you were too turned on to mind. You reached down to pull his head into you as his tongue expertly flicked against your clit. Your body buckled as you came. Your attempts to mute yourself were mostly successful. Judging by the look on his face, he didn’t seem concerned.

When he was sure you were done he stood up and pulled down his scrubs to reveal his cock. He was already hard. His precum glistened as it dripped from the tip of his cock. He spit in his hand, stroked himself a few times, then pushed himself inside you. “Oh, fuck,” you muttered involuntarily as he worked his cock inside you, stretching you far beyond what any of your high school boyfriends had managed. When you were ready, he positioned your legs over his shoulders and started to fuck you. The sound of his body slapping against yours filled the small room as your tits bounced in rhythm with his thrusts. It didn’t take long for you to cum again. Moments later he pulled out and stroked himself as he shot ropes of cum all the way from your pussy up to your tits. You admired the visual as he walked to the counter to find something for you to use to clean up.

He returned with some paper towel. Handing it to you before tucking his still semi-hard cock back inside his scrubs. Once you were clean it was back to business as usual. He made notes on his clipboard and told you what to expect next. There was some bloodwork needed, and the nurse would be back soon with a shot of some sort. He allowed you to dress, stealing a look or two as you did so. No doubt, trying to commit you to memory. When you were done he asked if you had any questions. “Nope,” you lied, sure that the questions you had didn’t match what he was willing to answer. He nodded, then turned to leave. “I’ll see you again in a year,” he said over his shoulder before closing the door behind him. “Yes, you will,” you thought to yourself as he left.

Techniques for Hotwives: by my wife

I absolutely love being a hotwife. One of the best parts for me is driving my husband insane with lust for me by giving him just the right blend of teasing and reassurance. Not only do I get the freedom and variety of choosing my own sexual partners, but I also get a husband who burns with desire for me. For the purpose of this entry I’m going to use the term hotwife for any wife with permission to play, cuckoldress for a hotwife who emphasizes her dominance in the sexual relationship, huband for the hotwife’s primary partner (could easily be a fiance or boyfriend), and lover for the other sex partner who’s not the husband.

Here are some techniques I regularly use that I’ve found hotwives and cuckoldresses can use to make their encounters extra fun for their husbands and for themselves.

When Husband is Watching You with Another Man

Eye Contact* - Nothing will arouse and tease your husband like strong eye contact with him. Eye contact says, “Look at me!” and makes it impossible for either of you to ignore or trivialize what’s going on. Eye contact can be gentle or fierce, depending on your style and the message you’re trying to send. I prefer to lock eyes for a long time, then wink or smile right before I look away. I like to lock eyes with my husband while I’m blowing my lover.

Smile* - Smiling is both a tease and a reassurance. It says both, “Look how much fun I’m having!” and “Everything is OK.” I love to smile at him when I’m riding my lover cowgirl-style.

Say Something* - You don’t have to jabber away, but it’s fun to say things now and then. I love dirty talk with my lover while my husband’s watching. I also like to interact with him, asking, “How are you liking the show?” or “Don’t you wish you were doing this?” I also encourage my lover to talk about how good everything feels and how much fun he’s having. Moaning, screaming, crying, laughing, giggling, etc. are all great things to do, too. It’s also cute to call you husband by terms of endearment like honey, baby, etc. when you’re being fucked by another man.

Dress Up* - High heel shoes, lingerie, nicely done nails, and perfume all say, “I’m putting effort into looking fucking hot for my lover!” You husband will be aroused by your appearance and jealous of the effort to look good for another guy.

When Husband is Listening from Another Room

Go Nuts* - Scream, cry, moan, laugh, beg, talk dirty, giggle, and slurp. Encourage your lover to slap your butt. These sounds will float through the closed door and to your husband’s ears, driving him wild with desire and jealousy.

Emerge, then Vanish* - Take a break from fucking. Go out into the room where your husband is: hair a mess, makeup smeared. Have a glass of water. Say hi to your husband. Then, go back to the bedroom. Close the door. Lock it.

Make a Movie* - Film your bedroom romp. Hook the camera in your room to the TV in the room where he’s sitting so he can watch live feed! He’ll be scratching at the door in no time.

When Husband is Not Around

Call Him* - It’s fun to call him and put the phone on speaker phone while you’re getting railed. Then, husband can listen! Even more fun (for you cuckoldresses) is let your other guy call from his phone instead. It’s more humiliating.

Texts* - Like above, but text dirty things. What you’re doing, feeling, etc. Have your other guy send husband dirty pics of what you’re doing.

Get Caught* - I love having my husband walk in on me when he’s not expecting anything. Just make sure that you know he’d be OK with this, and that your lover is also OK with this. Some people don’t like surprises.

Leave Evidence* - Your lingerie lying around the bed, sex toys on the nightstand, or a condom in the garbage all remind your husband of what you were doing in his absence.

Make a Movie (pt. 2)* - Film your bedroom romp and leave the recording on the nightstand for him.

My weekend

I had to change my closet over and totally didn't feel like dragging it out so it was a call and order to bestie's mom to come over and help. Well she did most of the work while I laid and gave the orders. She got random teases and edges by me because she was doing such a good job. When she was done she was allowed to massage my feet and then eat me to orgasm. On her way out we called bestie and decided to do a daughter swap for the night.

Before I left I had a chat with @therealhotpotatogirl and made her suffer a bit. Seem she was holding her pee and I was in a very extreme mood. I told her I would knee and punch her in the bladder, make her grind her cunt on my foot, and thought of other evil things I could do to try and make her pee herself. It turned me on so much making her suffer I decided I would do that with bestie's mom that night.

On the way over I stopped and bought a case of water. Bestie actually carried it in for me lol. She didn't understand why I bought a case of water over. I just told her it's for her mom and we are going to have a little fun. We had a little peck on the lips and off she went. Bestie's mom then came down naked to kiss my anklet and welcome me into her home like usual.

After the initial fuck on the couch it was all focus on her. I made her drink a bottle of water on command. For each bottle she drank I edged her with my fingers or let her grind the couch arm for her husband and I. She knows I control all bathroom privileges when I am there but that didn't stop her from repeatedly asking me to let her pee. I loved telling her know seeing the look of panic on her face while making her edge more and more pushing in on her full bladder with my fists and knee. She was informed if she peed she was cleaning it up and she would be thoroughly punished let alone her family room smelling of piss.

When I felt like she had enough I took her up to the tub and rubbed her to orgasm. Horny cunt just let loose as her knees became weak and lost total control of her bladder at the same time. My hand was so pee soaked so I used it to smear her piss all over her face and tits and then made her lick my hand clean before allowing her to shower and clean. The three of us then spent a nice romantic night together filled with sex, kissing, touching, cuddling, and love. It was nice cuddling in between them that night since it is getting colder here.

A user on Reddit came up with a fun (and maybe useful) idea of making an escalating list of hotwife activities, and got some good feedback from other users. Obviously, it’s very subjective from person to person, so the list was never completely finished. But it’s worth giving a thought to, especially if you’re still pretty new or just starting out (or even wanting to start!).

0 - monogamous relationship

1 - talk about hotwifing with your partner

3 - looking at tame hotwife material

5 - reading or watching more erotic hotwife material

9 - making plans to take things further

10 - talk dirty about the plans

15 - pretend you’ve just met for the first time

16 - use a dildo on her after she knows about your fantasy

20 - upload a pic to /r/wifesharing

21 - upload pic to /r/tributeme

22 - wife putting on a webcam show

23 - let her flirt with other guys in person

24 - ask her to dress up and go out without panties

25 - asking a guy for his number

29 - ‘accidentally’ let a lucky guy see too much

30 - dancing in a club/bar with a guy

35 - dirty dancing/grinding

39 - let him feel you up a bit

40 - make contact with a specific guy via online/text

45 - send dirty messages (text/email)

49 - send a naughty pic

50 - make plans to meet up

55 - meet for a drink and flirt

60 - kiss another man

61 - put his hand on your thigh

62 - let him grab your ass

64 - let him touch your tits

66 - give him a handjob

69 - let him finger you

70 - give him a blowjob

75 - let him eat you out

79 - 69

85 - just the tip inside

89 - take it all

90 - (different kinds of sex)

100 - ???

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My First Post

Mmmh…so this is my first confession here and it’s a long one. I’ve been at this cheating thing for a while but never really thought of sharing my stories until recently. I really get a high out of doing the most fucked up things and the thought of sharing it publicly turned me on so much I decided to give it a go today. At this moment, my hand is resting against my throbbing clit this morning just thinking about one of the sexiest moments last night that I had in my cheating life. The past couple days, my bf has been out of town and I’ve been waiting to fuck any guy I can get my pussy on. Late last night, my bf was scheduled to come back to town and I was feeling especially filthy and wanted to do something that, if he knew about it, would not only hurt him but would really mentally fuck with him if he had any suspicions.

In the evening, my clit was throbbing badly so I called two of my guy friends who had tagteamed me before and asked them if they wanted to get drinks and then hookup. Ofc they said yes so we agreed on a time and I got ready. I put on the tightest black leggings I owned without any panties, the kind that has a bit of a butt scrunch and gives a whopper cameltoe. And also a tight tee without a bra. I then got out my vibrator and began playing with myself through the leggings because I wanted to actually soak my crotch in pussy juices before meeting the guys. I like to be wet and smell of sex when any guy first touches me down there - it really turns us both on.

After about 20 mins of rubbing and vibrating myself, I finally got out the door, and as I was walking to meet them, I could feel thick soppy wetness just soaking my crotch and it was making my clit throb even more. We met at the bar, had a couple drinks, and then one of my guys began touching my thigh as we sat at the bar. I took my cue and parted my legs a bit and he slipped his hand down to my crotch and his eyes widened as he felt that I was actually so wet, that as he pressed my leggings into my pussy, some of the wetness actually squeezed out and made a soft squelching sound. My other guy on the other side of me began touching me too and I was a literal waterfall.

We paid our bill and as soon as we stepped outside, guy 1 pulled me around a corner into a side street that was a bit poorly lit, and began desperately groping at my body before dropping to his knees and burying his face in my crotch. The other guy and I passionately made out, sliding our tongues in and out each other as he groped my tits and also kissed and licked my neck. Fast forward a bit and we agreed that the night was perfect for a bit of public fun, so we went to a small park nearby with a lot of trees that is usually very quiet at night, and here is where we fucked like never before.

They tagteamed me standing up, with one guy behind me shoving his cock into my ass and a guy in front of me, lifting my leg and thrusting into my pussy. No condoms, no BC, nothing. Just raw, wet, sloppy sex. I blew them both, I was facefucked, and both my holes were used and dp’ed. I especially loved it when the guys used my ass…I never let my bf use it bc I like to make him think I just don’t like anal, but in reality I just like it when other guy’s bareback me. We passionately made out and fucked for a long time before some park rangers came in to do their periodic check so we quickly left.

I checked the time and knew my bf had probably just got home (I told him earlier that I was out drinking with some girlfriends) so I told the guys to come with me to my apartment building, and right outside the building, in another dimly lit area, I told them again pull my now sex-covered leggings down and fuck me and spill their cum inside my ass and pussy. So that’s what they did, one guy released a massive hot load inside my asshole and the other pushed it deep into my pussy.

Then I did the sluttiest thing I’ve ever done - I told them I had a dirty idea, and they got so excited about it. I pulled my leggings up and began rubbing their cocks all over my crotch, smearing both their precum and cum remnants all over my cameltoe and ass area before dropping to my knees and taking them both in my mouth deeply. I made sure that my tongue had some cum on it and that their cock flavor was thoroughly in my mouth. I immediately brushed my hair back, made myself look mildly groomed, and went into my apartment and my unsuspecting bf was back home lying in bed with the lights dimmed. He was so excited to see me he jumped up and came to give me a kiss - and boy did I kiss him! I french kissed my lovers’ cock juices into my bf, making sure I rubbed the flavor of their dicks onto his tongue and throat. My bf looked at me and said “oh babe you seem hot and bothered, you must’ve missed me so much!” I winked at him, pushed him onto the bed, and then sat on his face with my leggings still on and grinded my lovers’ cock juices into his face, relishing the squelching sound of my pussy against the cloth. When I let him gasp for air he commented that I smelled so good and tasted a bit salty but that was okay. Then I told him to lick my pussy so he tugged my leggings down and as he ate me out, all the cum in my ass and pussy dripped into his mouth and I loved smearing myself all over his face. He said something about me dripping like never before and tasting salty-sweet but he never thought that what he was eating was cum from other men. I spent a lot of time facesitting him until I pushed out all their cum and I knew he had swallowed it. We fucked after that, raw also so he got their cock juices on his cock and then we both washed up, cuddled and went to sleep.

Now it’s the morning and he’s knocked out still while my cunt is so wet reminiscing about last night. I can’t wait to do more things like this again - cheating on him gives me so much pleasure and there’s nothing I love than taking my innocent bf, exploiting his trust, and breaking my commitment to him over and over. Ive already gotten other guys to sleep with me in our shared bed, cum on his clothes, piss in his drinks. I’ve even gotten guys to cum on his leftover food so much that my bf wondered if it had gotten a little moldy bc it was a bit strange tasting but he ate it anyway. I never use condoms, and maybe one day I wanna get pregnant from some guy and pass it off as my bf’s. I’ve taken so much inspiration from you cheating women on this sub, and all I can hope is to do you proud and ruin my bf more than anything else in the world. I’m so bad that if he ever found out the things I did, it would probably fuck up his brain so much he might go crazy, and that thought just makes me throb harder.

Anyway, that’s my LONGass story for y’all 😂 DM me if you have any questions or suggestions or just wanna hear me share how I fuck up my bf’s life - like I said I’m new here so I might be slow in responding but I’m excited to share!

(1) My First Post : sluttycheaters (reddit.com)

Hotwifing is growing in popularity. 58% of men secretly admit they would like to share their wives. Imagine that! Half the men you know are into that and many of yours girlfriends are likely already doing it. A Hotwife is a married woman with permission to play but she makes the rules. Her husband must remain faithful. This lifestyle is a huge turn-on for many men. It’s not about jealousy and bi-curiosity. It’s about control. It’s about sharing the woman he loves, getting off on her enjoying other men, her being a personal porn star. Men who are into this kink tend to be hardworking, intelligent leaders. Alpha males, they are used to being boss with a take-charge personality and this lifestyle puts the control in the Hotwife’s hands. The more fun the hotwife has, the more her husband enjoys it.

It started for me when I found Hotwife porn on my hubby’s computer. I was shocked, offended. I thought he wanted to fuck other women. This was far from the truth. It took some time to realize he wanted to share me. It turned him on and he did not know how to tell me. Would I think he wanted to cheat if I did it? Would I think he’s bi? These are fears he had and it took some time for me to realize it was all about him being turned on by me being naughty and in control. It was all about me and him finding me attractive. Me being naughty makes him want me more. It’s brought us so much closer.

Most marriages get very boring in the bedroom. Hotwifing spices it up 100x. It’s important to focus on the physical aspect of sex with your dates and the emotional connection with sex with your hubby. The extra sex with other men isn’t the main focus, ITS THE RECLAIMING SEX WITH YOUR HUBBY. You just enjoyed a great, liberating experience and hubby gets you in the end every time. You’re going to be having a lot more sex and you will find yourself saying “can you do what X did to me?”.

Some of my list below ventures more on your hubby being more submissive. Others less so. If your hubby does not want to do the extra submissive ones, that’s ok. You might not either. It’s important to be respectful to hubby. Your date should always be respectful if your hubby is there for the encounter. He should never ridicule your hubby. That will ruin the experience. Depending on your relationship, you may say more submissive things like “what do you want him to do to me” or “is this what you wanted to see?”, or more dominant things like “watch how good he fucks me”, or engaging in more dominant activities that you will find below. Many couples are afraid to try the light dominant acts, but you might be surprised how much you’re both into it once you do.

Here are some tips, challenges, and dares!

Starting out:

1. Point out men you’d like to fuck. Tease the idea.

2. Tell your husband you know men who want to fuck you.

3. Flirt with men, even in front of your husband. Make it obvious you’re flirting. Even say something like “you and I should get together for drinks sometime. This is my hubby but he’s working tomorrow. How about we get together then?”

4. Tell men you’re married and need extra cock. A lot of men will fuck you harder knowing you’re married.

5. Talk about your exes. Especially sex with them.

6. Tell your husband you want to fuck other men during sex.

7. Tell your husband you won’t fuck him again until you fuck someone else.

8. During sex, make him admit you deserve more cock. Not just from him, but you deserve to be well fucked by other men, often.

9. Tell your husband of fun you’ve had with men while in bed. Be honest and tell him of occasions you’ve never told him. He WILL be turned on. I told mine of some past infidelity from years back and he was turned on.

10. Tell your husband you want to fuck your ex (and do it)

11. Tell your husband you want to feel another man fill your pussy with cum.

12. During foreplay, tell your husband you want to leave to go fuck someone you know. Have your husband take a pic of you to send to him right then.

13. Go to a hotel bar with your husband and flirt with guys. Try to get invited to his room.

14. Dance with guys and grind on them in front of your husband.

15. Have your husband tell a guy you’ve been flirting with that he wants him to fuck you.

16. Have drinks with your husband and a guy you want to fuck and tell the guy how you want to be fucked. Touch him, get close to him, guide his hands.

17. Get a guy’s number that you met with your hubby and secretly sext him in front of your hubby. Pro tip: Use the message app Kik.

18. Go on a girls night out and go home with a guy. Best if you have single friends. Make sure to dress slutty and have your husband watch you get ready. He’s hoping it turns into a late night.

19. Carry condoms in your purse and make sure your husband knows.

20. Sext other men and show your husband.

21. Have your husband take pics of you in your underwear for you to send to men.

22. Make a dating profile (Ashley Madison, Tinder, etc). This is a must do. Show hubby the guys you want to fuck.

23. Have your husband pay for lingerie your lover will enjoy. Say things like “Do you think he’d like to fuck me in this?”

24. Have your husband help you get ready for a solo date. Make sure to trim very well. Very little or no hair. Clean yet sooooo dirty :p

25. Go out and send updates and pics. Start clothed at a bar or restaurant with his hand on your hips or butt. Your hand on his crotch, etc. First kiss.

26. Go to his place and have your date send a pic of you bent over in your underwear. If it’s new underwear say something like “recognize the new panties you bought me? I found someone who will be the first to make them wet”

27. Send pics of his hand on your panties, rubbing your crotch. Suggestive pics. Don’t go full nude. Tease him.

28. Send pics of his face in your pussy.

28. Send a selfie with his dick in your mouth (very hot)

29. The pics stop as your hubby knows you are getting fucked.

30. Alternative: Live video or speakerphone your husband while you get fucked. Moan loud and beg for cock. Make sure to audibly tell your lover you are married and need to be fucked harder than your husband fucks you.

31. If you choose to send pics of the action, use low light. Tease him with it.

32. If no condom, scream for him to cum in your pussy.

33. If using a condom, use a new one each time you fuck and bring them all home to show your husband.

34. Tell your lover to make your panties soaking wet so you can show your husband.

35. Play with the idea of having your hubby eat your pussy after your date or kiss you after a blowjob. You might not think it, but when in the act both tend to find it very hot.

36. BONUS: Let your lover cum in your pussy and put your panties on immediately. Go home, lay on the bed, and spread your legs showing your husband your cum soaked panties.

37. Tell your husband every detail. You decide if your husband deserves a blow job, hand job, let him fuck you, or make him jerk off.

38. Make your husband use a condom to fuck you. Or don’t. Make him be your sloppy seconds.

39. MAKE HIM WATCH: It’s not going to be easy to find a guy who is okay with hubby watching. This is often best done if it’s someone you have been fucking so you and your lover are both comfortable. The three hottest moments of the first encounter hubby sees is watch your date slowly undress you, watching his cock enter you for the first time, and cum dripping out of you.

40. Introduce your lover: “Hubby, this is Mark. He knows how to fuck me and he’s going to show you how I like it.” Or “what do you want him to do to me?”

41. Have him sit outside the bedroom door and listen “Sorry, you can’t watch but we’ll let you listen”. Then make it loud!

42. Have hubby hold you while you get fucked.

43. Have your husband pull aside your panties while your lover eats your pussy.

44. Have your husband take off your panties for your lover.

45. Alternative: Make sure your panties are wet and put them on your husband’s head.

46. Or fuck with your panties on so they are wet and cum soaked. Visually, women look hot fucking with the panties pulled aside. Plus, you’ll get more cum in them for later tips.

47. Ride your lover’s cock so your hubby can see from behind. Great in video too.

48. Tell your husband he can’t touch himself. BONUS: strap him to a chair.

49. Look in your husband’s eyes as you’re fucked from behind.

50. Moan loud. Tell him how good you’re being fucked.

51. Wear your wedding ring and have your lover cum on it.

52. BONUS: Have your lover do something to you that your husband doesn’t: “Fuck my ass”, etc.

53. Have your hubby rent a hotel room and send him out for drinks when you have a “guest”. He’ll come back to you getting fucked.

***Other adventures:

54. Fuck several men. Make some more frequent but keep options. Fuck other men AT LEAST once a week. Your hubby will want to fuck you immediately, so be prepared for lots of sex.

55. Have your husband drive you to your lovers house.

56. Fuck your lover all night and call your husband to pick you up in the morning only to fuck your lover once more while he waits.

57. Kiss your lover as you leave and tell him you can’t wait to fuck again.

58. Tell your husband to thank your lover for fucking you.

59. Have your husband wait outside your lovers house while you fuck.

60. Tell your hubby to undress you for your lover.

61. Fuck your lover at home and leave your panties, a condom, or other memento on his side of the bed.

62. Fuck your lover on your wedding anniversary. Bonus if you’re wearing bridal lingerie. I planned this for a weekend getaway. My husband watched as I wore white panties that said “bride” on the back and white leggings for three rounds of fucking in our hotel room.

62. Fuck your lover on your husband’s side of the bed while he’s at work. Send pics and video.

63. Suck your lover’s cock and send a pic of the cum in your mouth to your husband.

64. Have your husband rent a room for you and your lover for the weekend. Count the number of times you cum and tell hubby. Must send pics!

65. Tell your husband he can’t fuck you until you’ve fucked X number of guys or X number of times.

66. Let your lover do things to you that you don’t do with your husband (cum in your ass, threesome with two guys). All the reason for private sessions without hubby.

67. Speaking of 3somes. Try two guys at once.

68. Wear panties with slutty messages (Return to Husband Full, Make a Mess My Hubby Will Clean It Up, Fuck Me Harder Than My Husband). Show this to men you’re flirting with in front of your hubby: Unzip and show message “what do you think of these?” I have some that say “my hubby won’t mind” at the top of the butt that I let guys see when in bars or a dance club.

***ADVANCED:

69. BIG BONUS AND VERY HOT. HE DOESN’T KNOW IT YET BUT THIS IS A BIG TURNON: When you come home with your panties full of cum, take them off, put on something sexy, and put the creamy panties on his head so your lover’s cum drips on him. Just do it. Nothing tells him you got well fucked like cum in your panties. VERY HOT.

70. Or…lay him on the ground while wearing the panties and rub your crotch on his face. Very very hot. He might just eat your pussy. I’m getting wet thinking about it.

71. Or…if using condoms, empty them in your panties and put them on his head.

72. When doing this, rub his cock and tell him how good you got fucked and tell him he needs to see and feel how good the cum was that was inside you. Tell him to feel your well used pussy.

73. When fucking in front of your hubby, make him wear your panties.

74. Blow your lover and swallow, but leave some on your lips. Tongue kiss your hubby.

***If your hubby REALLY deserves to be teased. You are in control and he WILL do what you say.

74. If your husband is watching, tell your lover to make a mess of your pussy because your husband will clean it up. Then sit on him when you’re done and let it leak all over him. His legs, chest, even his face.

75. BONUS: make him eat your pussy whether or not you used condoms. If you came home from a date, tell hubby to pull your panties aside and eat your pussy, especially if he cheated with X. Tell him how good you got fucked. Just tell him to do it and he will do it. YOU MAKE THE RULES.

76. Make a list of consequences. Checked a girl out: You get a Tinder date. Watched porn: you’re free to be a porn star with another man for the day. Flirted with a girl: You fuck five guys. One nighters, all weekend, your ex, someone you both know. Anyone you want and you make the rules. Even if he has to fly you somewhere to fuck someone all week. Updates and pics are required.

77. Spanking.

***Clearly there a humiliation factor that you both will get off to. Men knowing they are fucking his wife, you fucking men you both know. Maybe a friend knowing. Spanking (naughty boys deserve it). Your lover’s cum on hubby. Your lovers being told to show hubby how you like it. Have fun with this. It will make the experience stronger.

78. The hotwife 69. Get in the 69 position with your hubby but have your lover fuck you so your hubby has a great view just inches from your pussy.

79. ADVANCED: Strap-on play.

80. Wear a Hotwife anklet. Guaranteed to get attention of men in the know.

81. Have a friend spank your hubby. I have a friend who is a bit kinky and knows about our lifestyle. She felt my hubby needed punishment for flirting with a mutual friend years ago. I brought a guy home on girls night and she spanked my hubby, with my lovers belt, as I was getting fucked by my lover. I came out with the belt and handed it to her. After a while I came out with my soaking wet panties for him to wear and she sparked him. Of course you need a friend you can trust for this one.

***This Hotwife activity has brought us closer. We are more open sexually and satisfied. After all, I get many times more sex than ever. Sex with my husband is frequent. HAVE FUN!

MY FIRST BIG DICK

Note: I have no idea how long this post will end up being, but this is probably one the most eventful weekends of my life for tons of reasons. I’ve waited for this moment for so long and if you were ever going to reblog one of my posts, it should be this.

For the past week or so, I’ve been texting this boy on and off that I met at a frat party last weekend. He isn’t a frat bro, but he’s 6′2″, Columbian, handsome as shit, funny, and plays soccer. For anonymity, I’ll call him Dan. He’s not the kind of guy I would normally go for, but he’s good conversation and with everything that’s been going on between me and my ex the past week, it’s been a huge relief to be able to connect with someone. I have zero romantic feelings towards him, but I’m absolutely physically attracted to him in a way that honestly caught me off guard at first. I think it was something about the way he looked me up and down when we first met, that he just gave off this carnal energy that made me flustered and confused.

Like every cute boy I talk to, I became a mess, stumbling over my words and accidentally making it very obvious I think he is hot. I wish I could give you all more details of that night and our initial interactions, but I was honestly wasted and don’t remember much more than briefly talking to him, then making out for pretty much the rest of the party.

I’ll stop the story here to mention that while my boyfriend and I are in a tough spot right now, I still have incredible emotional reserves for him and would not be doing any of this stuff had I not been entirely caught in the moment and swept off my feet by this dude. It was never my intention to do anything behind my boyfriend’s back, and none of this happened out of spite.

So the week goes on, and he continues to text me, and I only respond occasionally. I spent a few days after the party reflecting on what I really wanted and feeling bad about entertaining this guy purely out of my own loneliness and need to talk to somebody. During those few days, my boyfriend made it clear to me that he needed more time to think about our relationship, so I decided to just say fuck it and keep talking to Dan. As the week went on, I felt less and less bad about it and on thursday night Dan invited me to hang out at his apartment and watch Netflix that friday. I had LOTS of reservations at first about going through with anything, because I knew he probably had intentions of sleeping with me and I didn’t want to put myself in a potentially compromising situation. But after enough peer pressure from my girl friends and rationalizing with myself that I shouldn’t pass up this opportunity to at the very least spend an evening with someone I would have otherwise spent alone, even if it was just watching TV. 

In truth, when I got to his apartment I didn’t think we were actually going to do anything at first. His two roommates were home and they spent the first hour or so hanging out with us, asking us silly questions and just introducing themselves. A few times throughout, they subtly made jokes about Dan and I fucking and implied that it wouldn’t be easy at first, which embarassed the shit out of me but suddenly made it all I thought about while they talked. I only had maybe a drink or two, but Dan had a huge, expensive glass bong that he let me smoke out of and I got stupid high after coughing my ass off. Just shortly after we all smoked and finished the episode of Always Sunny, his roommates said they had a party to go to and promptly left me and Dan in the apartment alone. Almost immedialtely, he put his big, muscular arm around my dainty shoulders and I got pulled straight into his mouth as we started making out. It all happened in such a way where it swept me in the moment and I hardly had time to process any of it. I had so many thoughts rushing through my head and I thought about everything from what was about to happen to me to what my boyfriend would be thinking if he saw me like this, to how good his cologne smelled. I’m glad we made out simply for the fact that I would have been speechless and utterly unable to form proper sentences. I was wear a tight, mirco-length white dress that really hugged the shape of my body, and him running his big hands all over my sides and around on my ass as we made out started sending ripples of energy to my vag and quite honestly turned me on immediately. 

I hardly had time to process any of it before he grabbed my hand and put it straight on his basketball shorts, where once again I felt his soft dick and reconfirmed that holy shit, it’s BIG. Like, without question bigger than my boyfriend. Now granted, my boyfriend is more of a grower than a shower, but as soon as I felt his dick resting on his thigh, I knew I was in trouble. Obviously, as soon as I felt that, I cut to the chase and pulled his shorts down so I could finally know what I was working with. As soon as I did, my jaw DROPPED.

I pulled Dan’s penis out from his shorts and it was literally almost as big as my boyfriend is hard, but soft. Granted, Dan is taller than my boyfriend so I definitely expected him to be bigger, but not THAT big. I had no words. I had told him during the week that my boyfriend was the only person I’ve ever been with, so he knew that I had no experience even seeing a dick that big with my own eyes. I spent a good three/four minutes just holding it in my hands, looking at it then up at him watching me stare in disbelief. I could tell he was getting a kick out of it, but I seriously couldn’t control myself. It was so big. 

Then, it started getting hard. My hands were on it, and all of a sudden I could feel it swelling up, pulsing every few seconds with energy as it got bigger in my hands. It hit my boyfriend’s length quickly, and then continued to get bigger and bigger. My eyes were wide the entire time, and I couldn’t tell if it was because I was so high or what but I felt my heart start pounding each second it got bigger.

Once it was finally hard, it was legitimately the size of my wrist and I gasped when I stuck it next to it for comparison. Believe me guys, I wanted nothing more than to just take a picture of that right then and there to show you guys the size of it, but my phone died shortly after arriving at his house and I forgot my charger at home (he only has androids). Regardless, I was speechless, and knowing me, I had to ask him the first thing you’d probably expect me to ask: How big is it? 

Conveniently he had a ruler in the room and he let me measure him. It was just over 8 inches, like 8.1 or 8.2″. I thought it was going to be big, but I was shocked. His dick was the size of the dicks in a lot of the gifs I post, which I thought would honestly never happen to me. It was rock hard, had big, thick veins running along it that I kept feeling with my fingers like a blind person reading braille. Since he’s Colombian he’s tan and his penis was a beautiful shade of light brown that gave it a more exotic look than my boyfriend’s dick. After I was swept up in the initial shock and awe of his penis, my mind immediately drifting towards the challenge on the horizon: How was I ever going to fit this thing inside of me?

I started getting more nervous as I realized I have no idea what to do with a dick that big to keep it from impaling me, so I told him straight up that I’ve never been with anything that big and we would probably have to be extremely slow and careful. He told me to rest easy and to trust he knows what he’s doing, which both relieved me and instantly made me wet. I was still nervous and trying to stall it in any way I could, though, so I tried to give him a blowjob first. His dick was circumcised, and the head was big enough that it was literally a struggle to get my mouth past it. Part of me blames myself for not practicing any deepthroating techniques, but I did not think this boy’s dick was going to be this big. I gagged, had a hard time keeping my teeth off it, and eventually had to give up. He didn’t take it harshly, and actually said it was hot that I couldn’t even fit it inside my mouth. I shrugged, but before I could respond he picked me up in his arms and carried me to his bed in the room over (another major turn on, that’s something my boyfriend has never done to me). He laid me down, helped me unzip my dress and spent a good 10 minutes just looking up and down at my naked body, taking time to feel every curve and crevice and study me. It was honestly one of the hottest things a guy has ever done to me, especially since I knew I was the reason his big dick was hard, throbbing, and dripping with precum as he looked at me. He flipped me over and started grabbing and kneading my ass, spanking it and just appreciating the shape of it. My butt has definitely gotten bigger and wider over the past few months, and my boyfriend has hardly commented on it, but other guys have definitely taken notice.

He flips me over again, and without a word in between he begins to pull me legs apart and eat me out. Now, my boyfriend is actually pretty good at eating me out, and that’s something I’ve always given him props for. Even though I haven’t came from intercourse, he can almost always make me cum with oral. Dan however, just had a tongue that felt… different. It was wider, and had a bit more force behind it so as it ran up and down my clit, it hit the nerves in a way I never felt before. It wasn’t any better or wose than my boyfriend, just… different. In a welcoming way. After a few minutes, his tongue sent me over the edge and I came from it. That’s typically when my boyfriend would switch to actually fucking me, but Dan kept his head low and grabbed me by the hips as I came. When I was done spazzing out, he just went straight back at it and continued to eat me out. My clit was ridiculously sensitive, and I was twitching and jerking the entire him, only being held down to the bed by his big hands gripping my hips. In less time than the first one, I came again.

I was shaking, sweating, and already out of breath. His tongue felt so good alone that it almost felt like I had had an entire sex session already… and that’s when he decided to bring out the dick. Luckily, I was already soaking wet from him eating me out, or it probably would have been a nightmare trying to fit it inside me. I told him to go incredibly slow, and with deep breaths, he pushed the head of his huge cock inside of me. I immediately almost screamed and gripped the bed sheets, as I had never felt that kind of pressure and pain in my vagina in my life. Once he told me he got the head in, I thought he was lying, because it felt like I was already being torn apart. His dick even just resting on my small frame before it went inside me looked like it was going to have a hard time fitting. I honestly don’t know how girls my size do it.

It hurt so much, I started to panic and told him that this might not work. He assured me it will and we took a break to smoke more for a few minutes. Back on the couch, he just sat there with his dick pointing up and said we should probably try it in cowgirl first. I obliged, and got up on top of him and tried lowering myself slowly over his dick. I don’t know if it was the weed or what, but I felt like I had much more control over letting it inside me, and about two minutes later I managed to actually lower down onto it as much as I could without it punching my cervix (which also hurt, holy shit). I literally felt like I was sitting on top of a fire hydrant or something, like no dick that big was ever meant to fit in a girl my size. But once I began to raise myself off it… holy shit. The sudden friction in my vagina, and the feeling of all that pressure and energy suddenly moving in the opposite direction felt incredible.  Don’t get me wrong, it still hurt, but added to the pain was some weird, fantastic feeling of ecstasy. Almost like every single nerve in my vagina was all being hit at the same time, including my g-spot.

Slowly, without him moving, I began to work my hips on him and get into a nice rhythm on his dick. At that moment, I had a literal epiphany where I suddenly completely understand everything everyone has ever said to me about why they love big dicks. That raw, primal feeling of just being filled all the way, getting just… fucked, without him putting in any effort was just so sexy and so hot. The amount of pressure and energy I felt radiating from my vagina throughout my entire body just from the sheer size of his penis felt so completely different than how my boyfriend fucks me. Even when sex with my boyfriend is amazing and he does everything right, the feeling and sensation in my vagina just isn’t as…. challenging as Dan’s bigger dick felt. I can still see how a guy with a smaller dick could do a better job in bed than a bigger dude that’s completely clueless, but I now firmly believe that even a mediocre big dick feels physically better than a “good” smaller one. Now obviously there’s exceptions to that, but I fully believe that the bigger the size difference is, the more of a difference this makes.

Sitting on the couch still, I rode his dick for probably a good five minutes before the pain of the size started to subside and the physical pleasure began to really exceed it. More and more, it was beginning to hurt less and instead just feel absolutely fucking amazing. After a few more minutes, the pressure building in my body hit absolute maximum, and I lost control of my legs completely. I was shaking violently on his dick, having one of the most intense orgasms of my entire life. I screamed. Literally. I’m surprised his next door neighbors didn’t knock on our door, because I shrieked bloody murder as I came, his penis just made my entire physical being explode into rainbows and supernovas. I have never experienced anything like that. 

After basically regaining consciousness, he picked me up off the couch as I held onto his shoulders, and he began to fuck me while holding me midair in his arms like the gifs I post. That feeling of complete lack of control in the hands of a sexually experienced man was one of the sexiest feelings ever, and I came a second time in his arms. I couldn’t believe what was happening. 

At that point, he brought me back to the bedroom and we kept fucking for probably another 10 minutes at least, in everything from doggy to missionary to reverse cowgirl. I found that the positions where I have more control over my hips tend to feel a little less intense, and I could tell he was so into me being on top of him. He was way stronger and more aggressive and dominant than my boyfriend, though that’s something I expected from someone much more athletic. His stamina was incredible, and he literally kept going even well past my “breaking point”. After cumming again TWICE (that’s four in total), I was physically, emotionally, and spiritually drained. I felt like my insides were completely rearraged, and had to stop fucking to just finish him off with two hands on his cock. He shot his load onto my face (something I’ve only ever done once with my boyfriend), and handed me a towel to clean myself off. It was honestly pretty degrading but also incredibly hot?? He was nice enough to let me pass out in his bed, and made breakfast for me before ubering me back to my dorm. When I got home, I spent probably two hours just reeling in pain and looking at my busted ass in the mirror reflecting on the fact that I just had the craziest sex of my entire life. Note that I said crazy, and not best. While physically, it was LEAGUES beyond anything my body has ever experienced with my boyfriend, it still had that lack of emotional bond that I feel like is required to really call it the “best” sex of your life. But fuck man, it felt fucking good. 

So yeah, I really hope that this is something I’ll be able to put behind me and not feel bad about if my boyfriend and I end up working things out, but until then, here’s hoping that one day when I no longer feel like I need crutches to walk, I can get a second night stand with Dan. And until then, I can at least sleep well at night knowing that a real life big dick actually feels like. Incredible.

I know I couldn’t cover possibly every detail of that night in this post because it was be an entire book’s length, but don’t hesitate to ask me questions about it. I think I can now safely call myself a true size queen (especially since it completely exceeded my expectations).

Big dicks–I was a fan before, but now I might be in love.

Honesty - Does size really matter?

Ok since so many guys feel they have to give me lessons on how size doesn’t matter I feel like I need to tell you why it does - to me.

You’re absolutely right. You can have good, even great sec with an average cock and won’t think much about a bigger one.

However, with an average guy I’ve never had that earth shattering sensation I get when a really big cock is penetrating me. It just doesn’t happen. Even when I’m not cumming, I look like someone who is - because I’m in another world completely. Im in ecstasy basically.

Plus the orgasms are so intense. I can’t describe it but the girls who’ve tried it will know what I mean. I basically feel like I’m exploding. My whole body just ignites. And it happens even when the guy is doing nothing but letting me bounce on it, move back and forth on it etc. So it really is the size.

Apart from that. A big cock is so sexy to look at. I get so turned on by it. I don’t know if it’s a masculinity thing or thinking about how big it is compared to me, making me feel small and pretty but it gets me wet. The whole reason why I’m on here is because it gets me off looking at big dicks fucking girls.

Some of you even think that I’m just crazy sexually - but I’m really a down to earth, sweet and kind girl. If any of my friends knew I had this blog, they’d be severely chocked. I’m a completely normal girl who studies and minds her business like any other so it’s not because I’m a sex addict. I just really like big cock and just talking about it has gotten me really horny already. So sorry guys.

But size definitely DOES matter

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To my male followers, tell us about your experience when you got cheated on for first time! Tell us why do you get a kick out of being relegated to role of a cuck while your lady is out there, getting fucked by random men!!

She Bullied Me

My wife Melissa told me a few weeks ago that she was sexually frustrated and would like to take a lover. Hearing those words was like a punch in the gut. And while I have fantasied about her with other men, I said that I would never agree to such a risky and frankly terrifying circumstance.

Then, the other day, during one of our sweet, gentle, and totally unsatisfying (for her) lovemaking rituals where I was slowly pushing myself in and out of her, she suddenly flipped me on my back. What started as an easy and uneventful session quickly turned into an intense and overwhelming physical act.

She started rocking on me, fully engulfing me inside of her and then lifting herself almost completely off. Then quickly plunging downward, and then just as quickly, lifting herself off. It only took five plunges for me to feel my orgasm starting to formulate. Sensing this, she stopped rocking and slapped me hard across my face two times. Her sudden outburst quelled my budding orgasm, and I was seeing stars.

Before the stinging died down, she started rocking on me again, this time, with a firm grip around my neck. She has a sinister grin on her face as she expertly brought me back to the edge.

I began moaning. “Don’t even try it,” she said, as her grip on my neck tightened. I fought back my orgasm with all my will, trying to focus on anything but how incredible it felt being inside of her.

I was clearly no match for her sexually. Her sudden dominance and display of erotic mastery had me in utter awe of her.

She continued to rock up and down while gripping my neck, as she took her other hand and pried open my mouth. She pushed in two fingers and started pushing them in and out.

“Suck,” she said through her grin. It was too much. I did as she said. As I neared the point of no return, she withdraw her fingers, and I felt two more brutal slaps across my cheeks. I again saw stars as my orgasm was frightened away.

I had never been this turned on in my life, but it didn’t seem to phase Melissa even for a second. She held her hips motionless to make sure I didn’t orgasm as she plunged her fingers back into my mouth.

She brought her face to my ear. “Suck, boy” she whispered.

I sucked.

She resumed her rocking. She plunged down and then back up on me while pumping her fingers in and out of my mouth in sync. I whimpered as I pleaded with my eyes for her to let me orgasm.

Melissa, sensing I was at my breaking point, looked me in the eyes, and said, “I am taking a lover. Understood?”

I was beside myself. This was not at all what I wanted. But I found myself nodding instantly and frantically.

“I am taking a lover,” she repeated. “Do I have your support?” She rocked faster and i was immediately on the edge once again. “Do I?” she asked, as she raised her hand high, ready to deliver punishing blows to my already reddened face. “Say it!” she demanded.

“Yes, yes, okay!” I shouted.

She rocked on me and delivered a devastating slap across my cheek. “Say it!” she barked and landed another slap. My eyes began to tear.

“Yes, yes, please take a lover!” I begged.

Her grin widened as she fingered my mouth deeper and started rocking with abandon on me. “Again!” she demanded.

My words were mumbled as I was taking through her fingers. “Please, take a lover, get a boyfriend, do anything you want!” I sputtered out, practically begging her to cheat on me. She gagged me with her fingers as she continued rocking. My orgasm took over my body and I climaxed as I never did before.

As my orgasm subsided, my body fell limp. She removed her fingers from my mouth and put her arms around me. I sobbed audibly.

“Good boy” she said. “I am glad we’ve come to an understanding.”

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A guide to entering the Hotwife lifestyle

You are having an affair? Fall in love to your lover maybe? Daydreaming of him all the time? Constantly wet? Your husband gets hard when you tell him something about those things? And he wants you even more? You want to have them both in your life and don’t want to get divorced?

The Hotwife livestyle is solution for you then.

So you are now one of the millions of women who learned she has a husband with fantasies about you having sex with other man. Welcome to our club. Hopefully you’re past the shock. Maybe you have even reached that point where there is no need for me to tell you how lucky you are.

If you’re like most of us, you were unaware that your husband had these desires. You were living the married life thinking that you knew your husband better than he knew himself. Ha! Too funny.

Depending on how long you’ve been married, things may have cooled off in the bedroom. Face it. The rut comes to every bedroom. If it hasn’t don’t be lulled into thinking it won’t happen to you. Then you somehow found out about his secret fantasy, and hopefully decided that there is a solution for the both of you. Lucky you, even if you don’t know it yet.

Take a moment and think about the potential. See all of those other unhappy women out there in boring, sexless marriages? See all those other women around you having affairs, lying to themselves and their husbands, and risking messy divorces? Don’t laugh at them. They were once you, or could have been you. But now you will end up different from them. If you read this and follow it you’re going to find yourself on a road that will return you to sexual fulfilment, feeling as confident as when you were first married, in love with your husband again and appreciating him more than ever.

A Hot Wife is a woman who is free to have sex with other/s with her husband’s knowledge, approval and encouragement. The wife is free to play with other/s, while the husband remains completely monogamous and faithful only to her.

Sound crazy? Well believe me when I tell you it is easy to do and your sex life will be better than you imagine. In this new relationship the husband is often called a cuckold, which just means a man with a cheating wife. Of course cheating is a misnomer, since the wife’s actions are not hidden from the husband, and he is very aware of her activities. In fact, his awareness and approval is one of the most important ingredients. It will turn him on like nothing you’ve ever done before.

First, go slowly. Do not rush it. Having a husband that enjoys this lifestyle is different, so you need to nurture the relationship first and foremost, while moving into the lifestyle slowly. What you want to do is encourage his desires for you to be with other man, and make it as pleasurable for him as it is for you.

If you go slowly and follow my advice, in time you will have a husband that will let you do anything sexually. Anything! (When I say anything – I mean anything). And he will want you to do more. He will find himself anticipating it as much as you. He will get his sexual satisfaction from YOUR encounters with other man, and most importantly he will be drawn to you like never before, and more in love with you than at any time in your marriage!

As you begin, you MUST remember one very important fact. Hot Wife is not just about sex. It’s also about CONTROL. If you are like most women, your husband has been in control so far in your marriage. Right? Well, now you can change that.

Hot Wife is about what YOU want. YOUR sexual pleasure. YOUR sexual control. I know it sounds strange. But once you’ve experienced it you WILL enjoy it immensely! Think YOU not HIM. As selfish as it may sound at first, doing so will turn him on more than anything you’ve ever done yet! The change in you by itself will begin to arouse him.

Now, here’s what to do the first few times. After that, once you’ve got a taste of it (and he’s thirsty for more), you can do as you damn well please. After all, you are the Hot Wife! (You won’t read stuff like this anywhere else.)

Remember rule #1 - The goal is for YOU to be in control of the sex, not him. You do what you want; when you want; and how you want; with whom you want and have him go along with it. Got it?

First, you have to set the groundwork from the beginning. If you do it right, he will be totally faithful and a perfect husband to you, as he learns to get his sexual satisfaction in the lifestyle as a result of YOUR being satisfied. Meanwhile you can have fun with your new freedom and let out the little slut that’s bottled up inside every woman.

DON’T let him decide what kind of sex or how much sex or who you should have sex with. Remember this - NO CHOICE and NO VOICE. He should have no say in whether or not you jack a man off, or if you chose to screw the entire staff of Starbucks. He should have no say in whether you go out to another man’s home, or bring a man into your bedroom (I know you want to try this – it turns you on). He should have no say in when it happens, or whom you choose. You want to be the one in control. Trust me, YOU will love it once it happens, and HE will too (even if he doesn’t know why).

When you decide you’re going to go out and meet someone, or have someone over, just tell your husband, in a very matter of fact tone. Don’t give him a choice in the matter. Say, “I’m having someone over tomorrow evening and we’re going to spend some time in bed.” Or say, “I’m going out with someone Friday night and I plan to go home with him afterward”. That’s it. You have to share as many details as you want (before and after) but don’t let him try to influence you or allow him to shape the event. Be firm. Make it clear that you are making the decision because it’s what you want. Take control of your sexuality and control that aspect of your relationship for that night.

It’s fine to tell him what’s going to happen before you do it. That is a big part of the excitement for many couples and also your wild-card for your freedom. Share all of the details while he has an erection. But the idea is to show him that you’ve made a decision based on YOUR needs and desires, and his needs are secondary to your needs right now. Show him that you’re a horny woman who’s taken charge of getting yourself satisfied without him. The idea that you will go to another man for your sexual fulfilment will drive him crazy with lust for you (trust me!). Absolutely the best way to tell him all things above is when you have sex with him (with intercourse or without). In the moment of coming he knows that your demand of having sex with another man in unavoidable.

It’s also important to keep him involved every step of the way. Share everything. Depending on your relationship level, you may want to keep him up-to-date of your discussions with the other man, share details of your plans, etc. It’s important to keep him involved.

This creates a sexually charged experience for him, even before you have ANY sex at all! If you are having thoughts about calling someone to meet this weekend even though it is most likely that this will never occur, tell him. Let the suspense and excitement build. It’s a game. Share it with him and it will excite you BOTH.

When the big day arrives to meet a man, be deliberately aloof and distant from your husband the entire day. Give him some tasks to keep him busy, maybe something that helps prepare for your evening. Perhaps send him out to buy a nice bottle of wine or a new lingerie.

Many couples enjoy the ritual of the husband helping the wife prepare herself for a date. You can have him help you bathe or shower. Have him put on your panties and stockings. I talk to my husband and tease him, I tell him to get me ready for the other man’s cock, etc.

Doing this lays the groundwork early on. It puts you in charge and creates an atmosphere where he begins to mentally relinquish his rights to you, as part of turning you over to another man. Let he jerks off besides you while you whisper what you will do that night to your lover. Doing this also reinforces the new power you have. It will also make the sex more intense between the two of you during the next few days. It’s an important part of the game that has powerful appeal, and helps bond you together.

Here’s another tip - treat your lover like you treated your husband WHEN YOU WERE DATING. Ladies, you know what this means. Let your slut come out! Plenty of oral sex. Plenty of fucking. Multiple times if possible. Give him all he wants, until he can’t see straight and you can’t walk straight! When he’s done, continue to pamper him EXACTLY as you would your husband, right up until the goodnight kiss at the door.

After he leaves, you think you’re done and now it’s time for some sleep? Surprise girl! It’s not close to being over yet.

The next step is VERY important if you want to keep doing this. It’s important that your husband support your Hot Wife life, and that he be behind you all the way. So, even if you’re tired, you must immediately turn ALL your attention to your husband. Turn off the distant, sex-starved Hot Wife games you played earlier and become ALL HIS AGAIN!

Let him reclaim you as his own. Reassure him that you’re still his wife and that you love him even MORE for allowing you this night of pleasure! Depending on the couple, you may or may not have intercourse right away BUT you have to have some kind of sexual interaction with your husband. I the beginning try to have intercourse even if you are not in the mood. In later stages you can just give him blowjob or jerk him off while you tell him dirty details. I personally perform some of above and CLEAN UP duty. This is where the husband licks the lovers cum from the wife’s pussy or off of her breasts. It can be EXTREMELY arousing for both involved! It’s a primal reaction serving to both reclaim the wife and show the husband’s subservience to her pleasure. But even though they desire this, most husbands will not do this on their own. Your husband usually wants you to ORDER HIM to perform clean up duty. He cannot explain himself that he allows you to have sex with your lover but if you tie his hands and order him to clean you he doesn’t have choice. Right? This maintains the woman’s sexual dominance in all areas of the Hot Wife lifestyle. My biggest turn on is to come back in a sweat lingerie with few drops of my lovers cum both on my breasts and in my vagina. Sometimes I sit on him and sometimes I just jerk him off. It turns me on when I tie him down while he is desperate and horny.  

Over the next few days, reassure him that you love him and care about him, that you’re his wife forever. Most importantly, remind him that you LOVE the fact that he lets enjoy this lifestyle. Tell him how much you enjoyed that night. Tease him while replaying the night over and over. Tell him you can’t wait to do it again. Tell him how self-assured and unique he is to be able to share you the way he does, and how you appreciate the freedom he gives you.

After few months you will be bored of having sex with your husband all the time, especially if he is not good in bed like your lover. That is very delicate part of being a hotwife. In his head everything is about sex. Even though you love him completely (OK, you love your lover a little bit – aren’t you?), that’s not enough for him. He has to have a kind of sexual interaction with you more or less every single day. Sounds tough right? It is. Sometimes it makes me crazy and I hate him for not being perceptive for me and my body. But if you think that is a small price you have to pay for you pleasure and for your marriage (you don’t want to divorce – don’t you?). So don’t avoid those situations when he wants sex. If you are not in the mood just tell him to jerk off while you tell him some dirty details from your last date or, even better, tell he what you will do next time with your lover.

If you do this, the lifestyle will become an important part of your sexual relationship and it will grow into the most exciting sex life you’ve ever enjoyed together. In time, his most intense sexual pleasure will come from you HAVING SEX WITH SOMEONE ELSE, as crazy as that might sound. And what could be better for you? You get to take charge of your sex life. You get to explore new sexual horizons most married women never experience. Your husband will love and adore you more than he ever has, and you BOTH stay sexually fulfilled.

There is so much to experience in this lifestyle that you’ll never be bored. If you lay the right groundwork and do it correctly from the beginning, you can have a supportive, open-minded husband and the freedom to do whatever you want with his blessing. To me, there is no better marriage than one that is open and sexually permissive. Without my loving husband involved in my new life, I would probably have long ago been divorced and miserable by now. So get out there and get started.

Hotwife Lifestyle - Understanding Our Man’s Hotwife Fantasy and How to Use That to Our Advantage

The fantasy of having a “Hotwife” is growing, in fact, research shows it is growing at a higher rate than a good majority of the other lifestyle alternatives, including the old staple of “swinging” and the modern “open relationship”.  Why is it that a fantasy that revolves around only one part of a relationship – the woman – going out and finding pleasure from another man more intriguing to an increasing number of men than going out and “getting some” for himself?  

Basic psychology tells us that men are highly competitive creatures.  They have a drive to compete with other males of the species for the best mate – this isn’t so much different than what happens in the animal kingdom.  Most men have an innate drive to compete with other men when it comes to the “best mate” or the “most attractive woman”.  With this being said, one of the reservations of most women who find out about their husband or partner’s Hotwife fantasy is that he is somehow “weaker” than the rest because he wants to give up his position as your only partner.  Is this really true, though?  Could the truth lie somewhere within today’s man’s loss of natural competition in everyday life, and a desire to maintain a level of competition after marriage or “monogamy”?  Is this weakness, or rather the ultimate confidence?  

Cuckholding aside, because this aspect of the fantasy requires a bit more in terms of a “woman led” relationship, and a bit more from the man in terms of a desire for mental sadomasochism, a good majority of men enjoy the idea that they have been able to “capture” the best mate and even when she’s out having amazing physical and emotional experiences with men who may have qualities that actually supersede their own – a better body, a larger cock, youth, more prowess in bed – their woman actually WANTS to come back to them at the end of the night.  While most Hotwife-Husbands do get some level of turn-on from the jealousy and the possibility that their Hotwife may actually be enjoying their dates more than they enjoy being “at home”, the overwhelming desire is the competition and the “win” in terms of having a wife who chooses them again and again even after being allowed to go out and have other men.  

As Hotwives, we may be the focus of the fantasy, but there is that deeper and more psychological desire of a man who, even after committing to one woman, is able to compete with other males sexually.  This is why the desire for “reclaiming” a Hotwife after a date is so strong – it’s actually been scientifically proven that men who are able to reclaim a partner after she has been with someone else have an increase in testosterone levels, which means stronger desire, more powerful erections, longer lasting erections, and an overall stronger sex drive.  So, what does this mean for us as Hotwives?

He Enjoys the Jealousy, Go with It

As women we’ve learned that inducing some jealousy can actually be a good thing when it comes to dating – before we’ve found our “person”.  We use our female prowess to keep the men who we are seeing guessing…why?  Because they seem more interested in us when it seems as though we may not be 100% there.  So, if this works in the dating world, why wouldn’t it work once we’re married? In contrast, women typically don’t respond as well, or in the same way to jealousy – we tend to worry, question, and sometimes shut down if we feel that he might be “just not that into us”.  Naturally, because of our own feelings on the matter, we tend to avoid making our men jealous once we’ve committed to them, because we, ourselves don’t want to feel as though we’re in constant competition with other, more attractive, sexier, younger, etc., women.  Why would we do something to the man that we love that we, ourselves, would hate?

For men, though, and especially those with Hotwife fantasies, jealousy is a big component and tool for us to keep our men hot and bothered.  Sometimes just the mere mention of being flirted with by that cute guy at our favorite restaurant, or our interest in the sexy personal trainer at the gym is enough to send our men into a sexual frenzy.  It doesn’t take a lot to feed the fantasy.  It’s not ALL about dates and recounting how well we got worked over in the bedroom (and how much we loved it), though that is the ultimate turn on for our men, it’s also about the little things – the mention of our interest in someone else, the sexy messages that we send to potential lovers or Bulls, the “tease” of how much we loved what our last Bull did for us and how much we’re looking forward to doing it again.  Remember, this ignites the “competition” element of things, which is natural for men.

The More You Enjoy it, the More He Enjoys it

You may be thinking, “But I’m doing it for him, I’m not doing it for myself” (a common theme by A LOT of Hotwives), but in reality, our men WANT us to enjoy our encounters. They want to hear about what this “other guy” did for or to is that sent us over the edge, and yes, they want to hear what we liked better about the “other guy”.  I know it seems crazy, because we don’t want to imagine our men, even if we did allow them to be with other women, thinking that their “others” were better, sexier, hotter or had something that we don’t.  That’s because we don’t have that “competition drive” like our men do.

Let’s face it, despite what our men tell us – “It’s all about your pleasure” or “I don’t get anything out of it unless you’re enjoying it, because I love you so much” – this isn’t some ultimate “unselfish” thing our men are doing for us.  These things come out of their mouths, but what they are really saying is “I want to know that you came three times while he was fucking you, and you STILL want to come home to me”.  It’s their kink, and we have to understand it.  

So, if you’ve actually taken the step into the world of Hotwifing, you’re going to have to learn how to properly tease your man into believing that, just maybe, your Bull was better than him in some ways.  Whenever you think “But I’m only doing it for him”, follow that us with “I’m doing it for him and he WANTS to know that I absolutely enjoyed it”.  Find some aspect of your encounter that was mind-blowing, and recount, in great detail exactly what it was that sent you over the edge.  This may require a little bit of embellishment, and that’s OKAY…trust me…embellishment is your friend in this situation.  Tell your man about your Bull’s amazing cock, how good if felt, how good he tasted, how fantastic he was at oral sex, etc.  These are the things that will ramp up that competition streak in your man and make him want to reclaim you with increased vigor and desire.  

The More You Want Someone Else, The More Your Man Wants You

Again, you’re playing on the competition and the teasing aspect of things here…  The more that you act as if you WANT to be a Hotwife, the more that your husband or partner is going to WANT you.  His desire for you is going to skyrocket, his sexual desire for you is going to make it so that he’s ready to chew his own leg off to get you back in bed.  I have experienced this firsthand many times…if I am completely honest about an “encounter” and admit to “D” that my Bull was lacking in some way, or I didn’t quite “get there”, he isn’t nearly as turned on as when I tell him about how amazing things were.  I don’t like or believe in lying, but I do advocate for being selective and stretching the truth…maybe your lover wasn’t the best at giving oral sex, but maybe he was an amazing kisser, so a good answer would be “he was amazing with his mouth” and leave the rest up for interpretation.  

We’re women.  We are strong and capable and we are smart.  And the truth is, this is a GAME we are playing for and with our husbands/partners, so we need to get our heads into the game. Furthermore, this is an intellectual game, and we need to use our intellects to get to where we want to be.  Where do we want to be?  We want to have a husband/partner who is absolutely drooling over us, believes we are the ultimate sexual goddess, and in is jealous enough to realize that in order to “compete” they will need to step up their own game in order to “keep” us satisfied – be that with amazing sex, extra romance, other rewards, or all of the above.  

Happy Hotwifing!

-S

Anybody know of any good swinging or Hotwife movies? That doesn't end badly.

A guide to entering the Hotwife lifestyle

So you are now one of the millions of women who learned she has a husband with fantasies about you having sex with other men. Welcome to our club. Hopefully you’re past the shock. Maybe you have even reached that point where there is no need for me to tell you how lucky you are. If you’re not then you WILL reach that point if you follow what other wives like me have learned. If you’re like most of us, you were unaware that your husband had these desires. You were living the married life thinking that you knew your husband better than he knew himself. Ha! Too funny. Depending on how long you’ve been married, things may or may not have cooled off in the bedroom. Face it. The rut comes to every bedroom. If it hasn’t don’t be lulled into thinking it won’t happen to you. Some of you may have already had affairs or even had thoughts of leaving your husband out of sheer boredom. Then you somehow found out about his secret fantasy, and hopefully decided that there is a solution for the both of you. Lucky you, even if you don’t know it yet. He wants you to have sex with another man. Wow. Unsure about it? Don’t feel alone. I did too. But take a moment and think about the potential. See all of those other unhappy women out there in boring, sexless marriages? See all those other women around you having affairs, lying to themselves and their husbands, and risking messy divorces? Don’t laugh at them. They were once you, or could have been you. But now you will end up different from them. If you read this and follow it you’re going to find yourself on a road that will return you to sexual fulfillment, feeling as confident as when you were first married, in love with your husband again and appreciating him more than ever. You are on the way to becoming a Hot Wife. A Hot Wife is a woman who is free to have sex with others with her husband’s knowledge, approval and encouragement. The level of her husband’s involvement can vary. In fact it will be up to YOU. Some wives play completely on their own, with no interaction with her husband. Others enjoy their husband watching or participating. However, in all these relationships the wife is free to play with others, while the husband remains completely monogamous and faithful only to her. Sound crazy? Well believe me when I tell you it is easy to do and your sex life will be better than you imagine. In this new relationship the husband is often called a cuckold, which just means a man with a cheating wife. Of course cheating is a misnomer, since the wife’s actions are not hidden from the husband, and he is very aware of her activities. In fact his awareness and approval is one of the most important ingredients. It will turn him on like nothing you’ve ever done before. I assume you’re reading this because you’ve finally found out about your husband’s desires and you are contemplating the Hot Wife lifestyle. Good for you, but you may want some advice. First, go slowly. Do not rush it. Having a husband that enjoys this lifestyle is different, so you need to nurture the relationship first and foremost, while moving into the lifestyle slowly. It might take time before you are comfortable having full on sex in front of him, or he may take time to become accustomed to watching or knowing you are out being intimate with other men. What you want to do is encourage his desires for you to be with other men, and make it as pleasurable for him as it is for you. If you go slowly and follow my advice, in time you will have a husband that will let you do anything sexually. Anything! And he will want you to do more. He will find himself anticipating it as much as you (maybe more than you). He will get his sexual satisfaction from YOUR encounters with other men, and most importantly he will be drawn to you like never before, and more in love with you than at any time in your marriage! In the Hot Wife lifestyle there are three levels of involvement for your husband: 1. You meet other men alone with no involvement from your husband. He may never know them or meet the other men in your life. You meet them on your own, and make all arrangements without any approval from your husband. The other men may or may not know about your lifestyle, or be aware that your husband knows about them. They may not even know you’re married, if you choose to remove your rings and pretend to be single. 2. You meet other men together with your husband, with him knowing them, and them knowing of him. However any interaction between both men is more on a social or perhaps friendship level. Your husband is not involved in any sexual activities between you and the other man. Your husband could even be the one who finds other men or helps make arrangements for you to meet them (your “dates”). But your husband is not included in your sexual encounters, except possibly left to hear them via an open phone call while they are happening. 3. Having sexual relations with other men in your husband’s presence, or even engaging in some sexual play that involves all three of you, ménage à trois style. In the classic cuckold arrangement you engage in sexual play with your lover while your husband watches, but he does not play at all. As an extension of this situation, there can be involvement of the husband in the classic ménage-a-trois arrangement, or traditional three ways. This could involve any degree of sex, which all three agree upon. Some wives prefer their husband be involved sexually and that is your choice. As you will see this will all become about YOUR preferences. Any of these levels can be appropriate, depending on the couple and what they prefer. It’s important to know where you, and to a lesser extent your husband, wish to take things, so open communication is important to establish your goals and boundaries. Just make sure that the “other” man fully understands everything as well. It’s important for him to know upfront where he fits into the couple’s relationship. It’s also important that he respect any boundaries you set out (you set the boundaries, NOT your husband). With proper techniques, a new Hot Wife can quickly learn how to get the most from her sexual encounters AND help her husband find new levels of pleasure from a more passive role than he is likely to have experienced earlier in your marriage. This takes time though, as most husbands are accustomed to being the spouse in charge. As you begin, you MUST remember one very important fact. Hot Wife is not just about sex. It’s also about CONTROL. If you are like most women, your husband has been in control so far in your marriage. Right? Well, now you can change that. Hot Wife is about what YOU want. YOUR sexual pleasure. YOUR sexual control. I know it sounds strange. But once you’ve experienced it you WILL enjoy it immensely! Think YOU not HIM. As selfish as it may sound at first, doing so will turn him on more than anything you’ve ever done yet! The change in you by itself will begin to arouse him. Now, here’s what to do the first few times. After that, once you’ve got a taste of it (and he’s thirsty for more), you can do as you damn well please. After all, you are the Hot Wife! (You won’t read stuff like this anywhere else.) Remember rule #1 - The goal is for YOU to be in control of the sex, not him. You do what you want; when you want; and how you want; with whom you want and have him go along with it. Got it? First, you have to set the groundwork from the beginning. If you do it right, he will be totally faithful and a perfect husband to you, as he learns to get his sexual satisfaction in the lifestyle as a result of YOUR being satisfied. Meanwhile you can have fun with your new freedom and let out the little slut that’s bottled up inside every woman. DON’T let him decide what kind of sex or how much sex or who you should have sex with. Remember this - NO CHOICE and NO VOICE. He should have no say in whether or not you jack a man off, or if you chose to screw the entire staff of Starbucks. He should have no say in whether you go out to another mans home, or bring a man into your bedroom. He should have no say in when it happens, or whom you choose. Once you allow him to have a say, then you let the control slip back to him. That’s NOT what you want. You want to be the one in control. Trust me, YOU will love it once it happens, and HE will too (even if he doesn’t know why). When you decide you’re going to go out and meet someone, or have someone over, just tell your husband, in a very matter of fact tone. Don’t give him a choice in the matter. Say, “I’m having someone over tomorrow evening and we’re going to spend some time in bed.” Or say, “I’m going out with someone Friday night and I plan to go home with him afterward”. That’s it. You can share as many details as you want (before and after) but don’t let him try to influence you or allow him to shape the event. Be firm. Make it clear that you are making the decision because it’s what you want. Take control of your sexuality and control that aspect of your relationship for that night. Send the message that you’re in charge. If you want, it’s fine to tell him what’s going to happen before you do it. That is a big part of the excitement for many couples. Share all of the details you wish. But the idea is to show him that you’ve made a decision based on YOUR needs and desires, and his needs are secondary to your needs right now. Show him that you’re a horny woman who’s taken charge of getting yourself satisfied without him. The idea that you will go to another man for your sexual fulfillment will drive him crazy with lust for you (trust me!). It’s also important to keep him involved every step of the way. Share everything. Depending on your relationship level, you may want to keep him abreast of your discussions with the other man, share details of your plans, etc. It’s important to keep him involved, but as a SPECTATOR and NOT a participant. This creates a sexually charged experience for him, even before you have ANY sex at all! If you are having thoughts about calling someone to meet this weekend, tell him. Let the suspense and excitement build. It’s a game. Share it with him and it will excite you BOTH. When the big day arrives to meet a man, be deliberately aloof and distant from your husband the entire day. Give him some tasks to keep him busy, maybe something that helps prepare for your evening. Perhaps send him out to buy a nice bottle of wine, or tidy up around the household. Many couples enjoy the ritual of the husband helping the wife prepare herself for a date. You can have him help you bathe or shower, and dry you off. Have him put on your panties and stockings. I talk to my husband and tease him, I tell him to get me ready for the other man’s cock, etc. Doing this lays the groundwork early on. It puts you in charge and creates an atmosphere where he begins to mentally relinquish his rights to you, as part of turning you over to another man. Doing this also reinforces the new power you have. It will also make the sex more intense between the two of you during the next few days, when he takes charge of you again. It’s an important part of the game that has powerful appeal, and helps bond you together. If you are having a man over, have your husband arrange the areas where you will entertain (living room, bedroom, ect). Dim the lights. Light some candles and put on some quiet music as you wait. If he will be present in the bedroom, have him prepare an area off to the side from where he will watch. When the man arrives, EVERYTHING should change. Discuss beforehand what your husband’s role will be. Assuming that he remains present, there are certain things you can do to set the tone, and create an unforgettable night for him AND you. First, have it prearranged for him to sit somewhere out of the way, so that you and your lover can carry on as if your husband is NOT THERE AT ALL (this is VERY important). I usually tell the other man to ignore my husband. After the early pleasantries my husband seldom interacts with us at all. The excitement of experiencing a new man sexually, while at the same time turning on the man I love, is difficult to explain but incredibly exciting. When the man arrives at your home, don’t be timid and make small talk for an hour. This is a common mistake. It’s too awkward to prolong things. Everyone knows he’s there for sex. There’s no reason to delay. Since it’s all about sex, look for the first chance to break the ice and get started. This is part of your “take charge” persona that comes with the control you’ve assumed. Show your desire for the other man by initiating intimacy while your husband watches. If I know him from previous dates I often give a full kiss to my “date” right in the doorway and linger, perhaps even lightly rub his crotch a bit, giving him a chance to return the grope. Then I walk him into the living room, with my husband either following or already waiting for us. Depending on the man, I sometimes prefer to have an adult video playing on the TV with the volume turned down, and pleasant music playing lightly in the background. With a nice glass of wine this is a sure-fire way to get things going without much delay. You can linger there if you want, or wildly strip off your clothes and jump on him, or lead him to the bedroom. It’s up to you. You’re the Hot Wife. Some women like to tease their husbands for a while. Others just like to plop down in the doorway and start sucking within seconds. It’s up to you. Do what turns YOU on. YOU are in charge. Some wives like to NOT look at or talk to their husband AT ALL, especially during the first few times he watches. But some husbands want their wives to look them in the eye while they’re enjoying their new lover. It can be very exciting to tell your husband how GOOD it feels, how much BIGGER he is than your husband, and how much BETTER the sex feels. Cuckold husbands want their hotwives to have the BEST sexual experience of their lives, so let him know that is what you are getting. It can be extremely sexy either to ask if it’s OK for your lover to cum inside of you, or for your husband to hear you TELL your lover to cum inside of you. And be sure to let your husband know each and every time you orgasm with your new lover. On the other hand, you can try to totally PRETEND HE’S NOT THERE. Some watching husbands love this. They like to think they are anonymously watching you have a secret sexual affair. But in any case, they want to see you lost with your lover, while they get a front row seat to the best live porn they will ever experience. Here’s more advice for the first few times. ENJOY yourself! Don’t be shy or act inhibited. Don’t be afraid to moan and scream and cry out with passion. Pay attention to your lover exactly like you would if you were totally alone with him. Many women feel inhibited and reserved with their husband watching, but this hinders what you want to accomplish. He wants to see you in the throes of wild passion, without a care in the world (least of all worrying about your husband). It may take you some time to do it, but putting him out of your mind should be your goal. Here’s another tip - treat your lover like you treated your husband WHEN YOU WERE DATING. Ladies, you know what this means. Let your slut come out! Plenty of oral sex. Plenty of fucking. Multiple times if possible. Give him all he wants, until he can’t see straight and you can’t walk straight! When he’s done, continue to pamper him EXACTLY as you would your husband, right up until the goodnight kiss at the door. After he leaves, you think you’re done and now it’s time for some sleep? Surprise girl! It’s not close to being over yet. The next step is VERY important if you want to keep doing this. It’s important that your husband support your Hot Wife life, and that he be behind you all the way. So, even if you’re tired, you must immediately turn ALL your attention to your husband. Turn off the distant, sex-starved Hot Wife games you played earlier and become ALL HIS AGAIN! Let him reclaim you as his own. Reassure him that you’re still his wife and that you love him even MORE for allowing you this night of pleasure! Depending on the couple, you may or may not have sex right away, or even for days after (this is up to you two). He may even have masturbated earlier, while watching you. I know some husbands who just watch without a hard-on but then end up fucking their wives like madmen for days after the date. Many husbands will want to perform CLEAN UP duty. This is where the husband licks the lovers cum from the wife’s pussy or off of her breasts. It can be EXTREMELY arousing for both involved! It’s a primal reaction serving to both reclaim the wife and show the husband’s subservience to her pleasure. But even though they desire this, most husbands will not do this on their own. Your husband may want you to ORDER HIM to perform clean up duty. This maintains the woman’s sexual dominance in all areas of the Hot Wife lifestyle. But each relationship is different. Do what’s right for you two. But as soon as the other man departs you must be right back in your husband’s arms and become his wife and lover again. Make sure he receives the love and pleasure and release he needs to REINFORCE his desire to watch you do it again. Over the next few days, reassure him that you love him and care about him, that you’re his wife forever. Most importantly, remind him that you LOVE the fact that he lets enjoy this lifestyle. Tell him how much you enjoyed that night. Tease him while replaying the night over and over. Tell him you can’t wait to do it again. Tell him how self-assured and unique he is to be able to share you the way he does, and how you appreciate the freedom he gives you. Chances are you’ll be having great sex with your husband for weeks after he watches, and he will be more attentive and loving than he was before you started these games. That’s just another benefit of the lifestyle. When that happens, you’ll become hooked on the Hot Wife lifestyle, and so will he. If you do this, the lifestyle will become an important part of your sexual relationship and it will grow into the most exciting sex life you’ve ever enjoyed together. In time, his most intense sexual pleasure will come from you HAVING SEX WITH SOMEONE ELSE, as crazy as that might sound. And what could be better for you? You get to take charge of your sex life. You get to explore new sexual horizons most married women never experience. Your husband will love and adore you more than he ever has, and you BOTH stay sexually fulfilled. There is so much to experience in this lifestyle that you’ll never be bored. If you lay the right groundwork and do it correctly from the beginning, you can have a supportive, open-minded husband and the freedom to do whatever you want with his blessing. To me, there is no better marriage than one that is open and sexually permissive. Without my loving husband involved in my new life, I would probably have long ago been divorced and miserable by now. So get out there and get started.

This is a new alternate blog started because Tumblr has designated my original “The Hotwife Blog” as explicit, thus almost everything I post is flagged/removed unless it’s extremely tame.

This blog is about the Hotwife phenomenon. I began researching the subject many years ago seeking to understand what about a Hotwife was so sexually exciting, and if I was crazy for wanting my wife to be one. Was there something screwed up in my head, that my wife having sex with other men turns me on? At the time I had no idea there was even a term for my fantasy. I found out that not only is it the most common fantasy men have, but it is also a lifestyle that is much more mainstream than I ever imagined. I also found a lot of confusion and conflicting information.There are a lot of wife sharing lifestyles, many of which overlap or share some of the same basic ideas, but too often the Hotwife lifestyle and cuckold lifestyle are depicted as being one in the same. In actuality they are very different. Unfortunately, Tumblr is probably the worst offender at spreading misinformation. It is full of captioned photos linking cuckolding and Hotwifing. Not to mention most of these photos are of young women with perfect little bodies fucking hot young guys with big cocks, which doesn’t represent reality for most people. Add to that captions saying something to the effect of how the husband is a sissy and needs to lick the cum off her when she gets home, and you can get a really distorted view. I understand these are fantasies, but anyone looking for information about the lifestyle, especially women, could be immediately turned off before having a chance to explore the true lifestyle. I hope to clarify the classic Hotwife lifestyle with this blog. The following is a compilation of information gathered from across the Internet along with my own experiences and preferences. Hopefully, for anyone who happens to stumble across it, this blog will give a little clarification into this quickly growing phenomenon.

First let’s define the Hotwife. A “Hotwife” is a happily married woman who has the freedom to have sex with other men with both the permission and encouragement of her husband. However, while the wife is free to play with others, the husband remains completely monogamous to her. The husband is turned on by his wife’s sexual exploits. The wife’s sexual pleasure should not be confused with romantic feelings for her sex partners. The other men just are sexual adventures, she loves her husband and both spouses understand the distinction between love and sex.

The hotwife shouldn’t be confused with other forms of wife sharing lifestyles including swinging and the aforementioned cuckolding. Swingers are typically couples that enjoy having sex with other couples, so both the husband and wife have sex with different partners. The term “cuckolding” is tossed around quite a bit these days and while “Hotwife” is often used synonymously with the term “Cuckoldress” within that lifestyle, it is a different idea. Cuckolding, while also wife-centric, focuses on demeaning and abusive behavior towards a submissive husband whom usually considers himself sexually inadequate. Where Hotwifing could be considered the polar opposite of cuckolding. It focuses on the wife’s experiences. Hotwives and their husbands are motivated by the sexual thrill, for its own sake. The exhilaration she gets having sex with other men and knowing that this excites her husband. Humiliation has no part in it. Recently the term Stag, for the husband, and Vixen, for the wife, have starting to be used to further define this lifestyle and distance it from Cuckolding.

Clearly, the Hotwife concept is at odds with cultural conditioning and human tendencies toward jealousy and possessiveness, so it’s no surprise most wives are shocked to learn of their husband’s desire. At the same time, most husbands wouldn’t allow their wives to become Hotwives. Although they may entertain these thoughts in fantasies; possessiveness, jealousy and cultural conditioning ultimately prevail. However, we know that some husbands seem to handle this without ill effects on the relationship. The jealousy often still exists, but comes out in their sexual excitement, rather than through fear or anger. And some husbands seem to just be immune to jealousy, either by virtue of their own personality, or by their confidence in the security of their relationship and the love they share with their wives. Surprising to most people, couples that participate in the Hotwife lifestyle aren’t unhappily married couples that have fallen out of love and are just looking for a way to fuck around. In most cases, the couples have been together for a very long time and are very much in love. They still have great sex just maybe not as often as they would like. By exploring this lifestyle they experience more physical and emotional intimacy and end up having better sex, having it more often and being more adventurous when they do it. That being said, these types of relationships are not for everybody. Many couples may dip their toes into these waters, and yanked them out again, because of jealousy and fear. Furthermore, if you have an unhealthy relationship, venturing into the lifestyle is just asking for trouble.

So why would a husband who truly loved his wife want to see her with another man? There are many answers and it varies from husband to husband. I think most are voyeuristic in nature, but the underlying answer is that it’s his love and deep emotional connection with his wife that’s at the core. It’s his wife having sex with others that excites him; not strangers having sex with which he has no emotional connection. He gets turned on seeing his wife excited and feeling free, in the throes of passion achieving greater sexual pleasure through the attentions of more than one man. It makes her more appealing and naughty, basically letting her inner slut out.

So why would a wife who truly loves her husband want have sex with other men? As with the husband, there can be many reasons. For some, they like feeling desired or they may enjoy being seduced. Others may simply enjoy the opportunity for sexual variety, the excitement of new sexual experiences, the “forbidden” nature of what she’s doing and knowing that it excites her husband. In many cases it improves relationships communication and intimacy, as well as, supercharging her sex life with their husband. Some women may immediately embrace the opportunity for sexual freedom, but most will take some time to weigh how it will affect her marriage and your feelings toward her. Many wives will suspicious that you have some ulterior motive… that its just a ploy for you to later say that since she is fucking other guys, that you should be able to fuck other women too. In this case, it will take time for her to truly believe that this is not your desire. It should be noted that, of course, many wives are not interested in becoming Hotwives, even though she may enjoy sex and may have had numerous sexual partners before marriage, and may even enjoy Hotwire role play, actually being a Hotwife is just not something she will ever be comfortable with. In this situation the husband should not push his wife into doing anything she doesn’t want to do. If for no other reason than it defeats the idea of the fantasy, but more importantly it will most likely damage your relationship.

Hotwifing has several levels of involvement by the husband. The arrangement between each husband and wife will be specific to them depending on the couple and what they prefer. There are no set rules; it depends entirely on the partners to set the boundaries and limitations. The wife may meet other men alone. The husband may never know or meet the other men. She meets them on her own, and makes all the arrangements without any involvement from her husband. The other men may or may not know about her lifestyle, or be aware that the husband knows about them. They may not even know she is married, if she chooses to remove her rings and pretend to be single. Sometimes both the husband and wife meet men together. The husband could even be the one who finds other men or helps make arrangements for the wife to meet her “dates”, but the husband is not involved in any sexual activities between the wife and the other men. Other wives will have sexual relations with other men in her husband’s presence, or even engaging in sexual play that involves all three, as part of threesome where she first has sex with the other men and then her husband, or both with her at once. Whatever the level of involvement, the husband is turned on by his wife’s sexual exploits, whether this happens with his direct involvement or with him just watching or hearing her recount later when she returns home from a date.

The rest of this blog consist of a collection of inspirational images collected from across the web that I believe embodies the true spirit of the Hotwife/Vixen lifestyle.

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Hotwife Lifestyle - Understanding Our Man’s Hotwife Fantasy and How to Use That to Our Advantage

The fantasy of having a “Hotwife” is growing, in fact, research shows it is growing at a higher rate than a good majority of the other lifestyle alternatives, including the old staple of “swinging” and the modern “open relationship”.  Why is it that a fantasy that revolves around only one part of a relationship – the woman – going out and finding pleasure from another man more intriguing to an increasing number of men than going out and “getting some” for himself?  

Basic psychology tells us that men are highly competitive creatures.  They have a drive to compete with other males of the species for the best mate – this isn’t so much different than what happens in the animal kingdom.  Most men have an innate drive to compete with other men when it comes to the “best mate” or the “most attractive woman”.  With this being said, one of the reservations of most women who find out about their husband or partner’s Hotwife fantasy is that he is somehow “weaker” than the rest because he wants to give up his position as your only partner.  Is this really true, though?  Could the truth lie somewhere within today’s man’s loss of natural competition in everyday life, and a desire to maintain a level of competition after marriage or “monogamy”?  Is this weakness, or rather the ultimate confidence?  

Cuckholding aside, because this aspect of the fantasy requires a bit more in terms of a “woman led” relationship, and a bit more from the man in terms of a desire for mental sadomasochism, a good majority of men enjoy the idea that they have been able to “capture” the best mate and even when she’s out having amazing physical and emotional experiences with men who may have qualities that actually supersede their own – a better body, a larger cock, youth, more prowess in bed – their woman actually WANTS to come back to them at the end of the night.  While most Hotwife-Husbands do get some level of turn-on from the jealousy and the possibility that their Hotwife may actually be enjoying their dates more than they enjoy being “at home”, the overwhelming desire is the competition and the “win” in terms of having a wife who chooses them again and again even after being allowed to go out and have other men.  

As Hotwives, we may be the focus of the fantasy, but there is that deeper and more psychological desire of a man who, even after committing to one woman, is able to compete with other males sexually.  This is why the desire for “reclaiming” a Hotwife after a date is so strong – it’s actually been scientifically proven that men who are able to reclaim a partner after she has been with someone else have an increase in testosterone levels, which means stronger desire, more powerful erections, longer lasting erections, and an overall stronger sex drive.  So, what does this mean for us as Hotwives?

He Enjoys the Jealousy, Go with It

As women we’ve learned that inducing some jealousy can actually be a good thing when it comes to dating – before we’ve found our “person”.  We use our female prowess to keep the men who we are seeing guessing…why?  Because they seem more interested in us when it seems as though we may not be 100% there.  So, if this works in the dating world, why wouldn’t it work once we’re married? In contrast, women typically don’t respond as well, or in the same way to jealousy – we tend to worry, question, and sometimes shut down if we feel that he might be “just not that into us”.  Naturally, because of our own feelings on the matter, we tend to avoid making our men jealous once we’ve committed to them, because we, ourselves don’t want to feel as though we’re in constant competition with other, more attractive, sexier, younger, etc., women.  Why would we do something to the man that we love that we, ourselves, would hate?

For men, though, and especially those with Hotwife fantasies, jealousy is a big component and tool for us to keep our men hot and bothered.  Sometimes just the mere mention of being flirted with by that cute guy at our favorite restaurant, or our interest in the sexy personal trainer at the gym is enough to send our men into a sexual frenzy.  It doesn’t take a lot to feed the fantasy.  It’s not ALL about dates and recounting how well we got worked over in the bedroom (and how much we loved it), though that is the ultimate turn on for our men, it’s also about the little things – the mention of our interest in someone else, the sexy messages that we send to potential lovers or Bulls, the “tease” of how much we loved what our last Bull did for us and how much we’re looking forward to doing it again.  Remember, this ignites the “competition” element of things, which is natural for men.

The More You Enjoy it, the More He Enjoys it

You may be thinking, “But I’m doing it for him, I’m not doing it for myself” (a common theme by A LOT of Hotwives), but in reality, our men WANT us to enjoy our encounters. They want to hear about what this “other guy” did for or to is that sent us over the edge, and yes, they want to hear what we liked better about the “other guy”.  I know it seems crazy, because we don’t want to imagine our men, even if we did allow them to be with other women, thinking that their “others” were better, sexier, hotter or had something that we don’t.  That’s because we don’t have that “competition drive” like our men do.

Let’s face it, despite what our men tell us – “It’s all about your pleasure” or “I don’t get anything out of it unless you’re enjoying it, because I love you so much” – this isn’t some ultimate “unselfish” thing our men are doing for us.  These things come out of their mouths, but what they are really saying is “I want to know that you came three times while he was fucking you, and you STILL want to come home to me”.  It’s their kink, and we have to understand it.  

So, if you’ve actually taken the step into the world of Hotwifing, you’re going to have to learn how to properly tease your man into believing that, just maybe, your Bull was better than him in some ways.  Whenever you think “But I’m only doing it for him”, follow that us with “I’m doing it for him and he WANTS to know that I absolutely enjoyed it”.  Find some aspect of your encounter that was mind-blowing, and recount, in great detail exactly what it was that sent you over the edge.  This may require a little bit of embellishment, and that’s OKAY…trust me…embellishment is your friend in this situation.  Tell your man about your Bull’s amazing cock, how good if felt, how good he tasted, how fantastic he was at oral sex, etc.  These are the things that will ramp up that competition streak in your man and make him want to reclaim you with increased vigor and desire.  

The More You Want Someone Else, The More Your Man Wants You

Again, you’re playing on the competition and the teasing aspect of things here…  The more that you act as if you WANT to be a Hotwife, the more that your husband or partner is going to WANT you.  His desire for you is going to skyrocket, his sexual desire for you is going to make it so that he’s ready to chew his own leg off to get you back in bed.  I have experienced this firsthand many times…if I am completely honest about an “encounter” and admit to “D” that my Bull was lacking in some way, or I didn’t quite “get there”, he isn’t nearly as turned on as when I tell him about how amazing things were.  I don’t like or believe in lying, but I do advocate for being selective and stretching the truth…maybe your lover wasn’t the best at giving oral sex, but maybe he was an amazing kisser, so a good answer would be “he was amazing with his mouth” and leave the rest up for interpretation.  

We’re women.  We are strong and capable and we are smart.  And the truth is, this is a GAME we are playing for and with our husbands/partners, so we need to get our heads into the game. Furthermore, this is an intellectual game, and we need to use our intellects to get to where we want to be.  Where do we want to be?  We want to have a husband/partner who is absolutely drooling over us, believes we are the ultimate sexual goddess, and in is jealous enough to realize that in order to “compete” they will need to step up their own game in order to “keep” us satisfied – be that with amazing sex, extra romance, other rewards, or all of the above.  

Happy Hotwifing!

-S

BIGGER NEW LIST OF SEX QUESTIONS

This is a mix of all the best questions I’ve come across on here, with a few new ones suggested by my mutuals.

They’re are all in a random order so you won’t know which ones are being asked…

And they’re meant to gender neutral and for all ranges of experiences! (Let me know if any aren’t and I can edit it)

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Tag your biggest tumblr crush.

Do you eat ass? Do you like to have your ass eaten?

Have you washed your hands since you last had an orgasm?

Have you ever posted a nude to your own blog?

What’s the best orgasm you’ve had in the past few months?

Have you ever masturbated to someone you know who isn’t your partner?

What’s the soonest after meeting someone that you’ve slept with them? 

What position or angle or specific technique never fails to make you cum?

When was the last time you watched porn?

What is the hottest thing someone has ever done with you in bed? 

Do you prefer tongue or fingers? 

Are you a top/dominant a bottom/submissive or a switch?

Have you ever had your own underwear in your mouth? Have you ever had someone else’s underwear in your mouth? Has your underwear ever been in someone else’s mouth?

What’s your go-to nude pic to send to someone. Describe the angle, lighting, body part etc.

Do you ever suck on a dildo while you masturbate?

Do you have a sideblog? Is it more or less NSFW than this one? Is it secret or can we see it?

Has anyone ever watched you masturbate live online? Have you ever watched someone masturbate live online?

Do you have anyone from Tumblr’s nudes on your phone right now?

What underwear do you have on right now?

What’s the most surprising discovery you’ve made about your own body?

Has a neighbour ever seen you naked? Did you like it?

What’s the hottest sex dream you’ve ever had?

Have you ever watched people having sex?

Are you open about your sex-life and sexuality?

Does anyone you know in real life know about this blog?

Do you have any of your own nudes on your phone right now?

When was the last time you had sex?

Have you ever masturbated to any of your friends? Do you think any of your friends have ever masturbated to you?

Describe a typical masturbation session.

How do you feel about threesomes? Have you ever had one, and if not, would you ever have one?

What’s something that turns you on, but you’re a bit embarrassed by?

What is the wildest fantasy you ever had that actually came true?

Have you ever gotten turned on at work (or while WFH)? What did you do about it?

Do you listen to audio porn?

Which one of your holes do you most want to be filled right now?

Are you loud or quiet when you masturbate?

Do you own any toys? What’s your favourite?

Have you ever confessed to someone that you got turned on by them? What about masturbated to them?

Do you have anyone else’s nudes on your phone right now?

Have you ever hooked up with a stranger or had a one-night stand?

Do you like being called a slut or whore in bed?

Have you ever been caught or walked in on while masturbating? Have you ever been caught or walked in on while fucking?

How do you feel about swinging or partner swapping? Does the idea turn you on?

Have you ever masturbated to a mutual’s selfies before? Tag them if you dare.

What’s the kinkiest thing you’ve ever asked someone to do while sexting?

Has anyone ever watched you masturbate in person? Have you ever watched someone masturbate in person?

If you had 5 mins alone to get yourself off right now, without your phone, what would you do and what would you imagine?

Have you ever sent a nude via DM here?

What’s a sex act you think is overrated? What’s a sex act you think is underrated?

When did you last have an orgasm? How did it happen?

Do you shave your pubic hair?

How often do you masturbate?

Where’s the most unusual place you’ve masturbated?

What’s the most amount of times you’ve orgasmed in a day?

Have you ever been so turned on that someone noticed?

Have you ever masturbated with someone?

Have you ever gotten cum on your clothes before? Did anyone see that shouldn’t have?

Have you showered since you last had an orgasm?

Who’s the most inappropriate person you’ve ever had a fantasy about?

Have you tasted yourself? If so, what did you think?

Have you ever masturbated to someone you know’s selfies before?

How long do you usually masturbate before you cum? 

What’s the weirdest porn category you’ve ever searched for?

Are you noisy?

What are your top five favourite blogs to masturbate to? Tag them!

Describe your nipples. What colour are they? What size are they?

If you had 5 mins alone to get yourself off with porn right now, what would you type in the search bar?

What is your favourite pair of underwear like? When did you last wear them? Was it special occasion?

Are you masturbating right now?

Would you like to watch your partner have sex with another person? Would you like to have your partner watch you with another person?

Start typing out your dirtiest fantasy you can think of and don’t stop til you get so embarrassed you can’t go on any longer. Just make sure it’s actually something you’re into!

Would you ever fuck a couple?

Would you do a cum-walk?

Have you ever had an orgasm that you weren’t expecting?

What’s the messiest you’ve ever got when masturbating on your own?

Have you ever worn lingerie?

If you could fuck anyone at all right now, who would it be? Do you know them in real life? Do they know you like them? 

Which mutual would you most like to fuck right now? Do they know? Tag them if you dare!

What’s the last object you put into your own body for sexual reasons?

Do you have any recurring fantasies you keep coming back to? Do you think they’ll ever happen?

Where’s the most unusual place you’ve had sex? Did you cum?

Have you ever been made to/made somebody beg for it?

What’s your dirtiest secret?

What’s the most embarrassing porn you like to watch?

Have you ever put your finger in your own ass?

Do you like slapping someone’s face? Do you like your face being slapped?

Have you ever used panties to masturbate? 

Do you have sex dreams? If yes, when was the last one?

Have you ever slid into someone’s DMs? Did it work? If yes, what was your technique?

Who is the coolest person you follow here? Tag them.

What is your sexual orientation?

Have you ever fucked in public? Where was it? Did you get caught?

Do you have any piercings or tattoos?

Describe your body in a way that would turn us on.

Do you like being tied up?

What’s the kinkiest thing you’ve ever asked someone to do in real life?

What was your most shame-filled orgasm? Why?

What’s the messiest you’ve ever gotten during sex?

Admit something sexual that you’ve never told anyone else before.

Put your hand into your underwear right now and type a reply to this with your other hand. Say whatever you want, so long as you’re touching yourself as you type.


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