Dating While Married

Another hot 1st time cheating wife story from reddit

My husband [M][39] fucks his first cheating wife. 😈😜              

My husband Evan [M][39] and I [F][33] were just recently in Niagara Falls so if you think you might of seen us out there there’s a good chance you did.

We ran into this girl Lisa we knew our first night there. She was there with a girlfriend enjoying her first night out in over two year. She is an absolutely beautiful woman with a great personality and she is so incredibly sexy. Evan and I never thought of her as a potential play partner because of her marital situation but I don’t think very many people would pass on an chance for a wild night with her.

We had a few drinks together the first night and then we went our separate ways. Evan and continues the night bar hopping and getting up to our typical naughty shenanigans. We met some hot people throughout the night, made out with some sexy strangers in various clubs and eventually headed back to our room with two hot guys and the three of them just spent the entire night fucking me into a night of ecstasy.

But as hot as that was, it’s not the hottest part of our weekend. The next day I got a message from Lisa saying we should go out altogether that night. So we planned for it. She’s a really nice and extremely beautiful woman why wouldn’t we want to hang out with her. We met with her and her friend for dinner then started to bar hop. Drinks flowed and eventually she mentioned to me she had seen us out the night before at the club. And noticed how “friendly” we were with random people we met. I laughed and shrugged it off as having too much wine but she clearly was intrigued and interested in talking more about it. I eventually just told her that when it comes to sex Evan and I are very open.

Well that launched a discussion with her about her feeling that way. Wanting to explore sex outside of her marriage. And actually telling me that she desperately wants to have one crazy night of wild sex with no strings with someone so bad. And that she finds Evan and I so hot. I told her she was more than welcomed to flirt with him and that the night could lead wherever she wants it. Unsure if it was planned on her behalf but her friend ended up calling it a night and headed back to their hotel and we were left just the three of us. Within no time at all Lisa let go of her inhibitions and her flirting with Evan led to her running her hands all over his chest. Kissing him. And even rubbing his cock over his pants right in the club. The energy was just so positive and sexy. And the night was so fun. Chatting wasn’t easy as it was super loud but Evan was getting hard and Lisa was getting horny so she asked me how far we would be willing to take this. I asked her how far she wanted it to go. And she told me she has been wanting to have a sexual adventure for so long.

So I just asked her if she wanted to fuck Evan and she nodded shyly that she did. I told her we could surely do that and her eyes nearly popped out of her head. Her smile became brighter than the day. So We headed back to the hotel and the whole time in the cab and in the elevator she took turns making out with Evan and I. We got into the room and Evan now rock hard excused  himself and just said He needed to undo his pants.  His big cock couldn’t handle being constrained in his pants anymore.  I haven’t seen Evan have that intense of an erection that it was fighting against his pants. The second he undid his pants Lisa just looked at me with excitement but seeking approval and I just smiled and smirked and said things are about to get fun.

She immediately got on her knees pulled Evan’s pants down and released his cock. She was shocked. She couldn’t believe how big it was. Evan is hung. And when he gets hard his cock is on another level than any other out there. Lisa’s immediate reaction was excitement and she called it a porn star cock. She started to stroke it and suck it and absolutely fell in love with his cock. She couldn’t get enough of it. She would stroke it and just look at it in complete admiration. She got so slutty. As she sucked Evan I made out with him. It was hot and passionate. I eventually got on my knees and joined Lisa sucking off Evan. We took turns sucking and stroking his cock. We kissed each other. Ran both our mouths up and down his cock. We were both so slutty and Evan was loving it. Lisa was letting out her inner slut that I feel had always been there but never had an opportunity to come out.

After a bit of sharing Evan’s cock with our mouths I was getting so horny too I got up and undressed. Naked Standing beside Lisa on her knees with the biggest cock shes ever had in her mouth I started undressing Evan. I took his shirt off and Lisa got up. She peeled her form fitting jeans off and her jacket and shirt and unveiled the sexiest lingerie underneath. Evans and my eyes caught each other and we knew by how sexy her lingerie was that she had full intentions of having some naughty times tonight.

Evan was so turned on by her forbidden behaviour, beauty and sexiness, that he just picked her up, laid her on the bed, spread her legs wide, pulled her sexy panties to the side and starting licking her cheating married pussy. He absolutely fell in love with her. She was completely smooth. He licked every inch of her pussy. Pushed her legs up high and licked her ass. She loved every second of it. She had needed something like this for so long. With her sexy panties pushed to the side and his tongue deep in her pussy she told Evan she was cuming. He didn’t stop and kept licking her. As Evan licked her pussy and made her cum, Lisa looked at me and in a begging sort of whisper asked me if Evan could fuck her. I told her of course, and that I’d get protection. As I went to slip away she grabbed my hand and asked if he could fuck her bareback. And my pussy just instantly got way wetter. Evan overheard and his head popped up excitedly from between her married legs. She was begging for him bare. And I looked at Evan and told her that was up to him. She looked at Evan and mouthed the word “please” as he got up on his knees. He grabbed her legs spread them wide and pulled her to him. Grabbing his cock he started rubbing it up and down her smooth wet cheating pussy and whispered to her “I’ve wanted this pussy since the first time we met?”   She melted. I fucken melted. This was truly the most taboo thing Evan has done. He’s fucked married women but never a cheating wife. And he wanted her more than any other woman I’ve ever seen him fuck before.

As he kept rubbing his cock up and down her wet pussy Lisa kept pushing herself onto him. Wanting to slide his cock in her. And Evan wanted to be inside her so bad. Within a few more strokes he inched his monster cock in her cheating pussy. She gasped. Put her hands on his stomach and held him back. She couldn’t believe how big he felt and told him to go slow. Evan is very aware of his size and amazing at making sure a woman enjoys his cock. He took his time. Slowly inching into her pussy ever so carefully with every stroke. He was so methodical I got Mesmerized but the whole situation and lost track of time. I think it took him twenty min of this slow progression before he was fully inside her. She whimpered and moaned the entire time. When she felt him press against her tight and realized he was fully inside her She told Evan she could cum right away again so Evan just slowly started to fuck her. Sliding his cock completely out of her pussy and completely inside her until his balls were pressing against her ass. 3 or 4 Full strokes and she exploded and came again. She erupted and squirted all over him. She was blown away by how hard she came. She had not squirted since before she got married. And then things got wild. She wanted to fuck like a porn star and Evan was the right partner for that.

Her and Evan fucked in her cum and their sweat for the next few hours. She rode his cock in every conceivable position. She moaned and screamed and never stopped telling him how amazing his cock felt. He held her hips tight and pounded her pussy while she laid on her back. Her side. Doggy style. She never stopped begging him to fuck her harder. And Evan fucked her like his own personal little fuck bunny. She came half a dozen more times. Every time they switch positions I would suck Evan’s cock dry and taste Lisa’s pussy all over him. When he’d go back to fucking her I’d lay my lips on hers so she could taste her slutty cheating married pussy off my lips. She loved every minute of it. And I was happy to let her have her time of ecstasy and watch as I rubbed myself to my own multiple orgasms.

Throughput the whole night she never took off her lingerie. Her sexy black lace bralette pushed her amazing boobs tight together and her naughty lace panties remained on and pulled to the side all night granting Evan’s cock an all access pass to fuck her married pussy. She was so crazy sexy. And the sex was completely out of this world.

When he was finally getting close to coming Lisa asked him to lay on his back and she got on top of him. She slid his thick cock inside her married pussy and told him not to hold back. She looked at me and asked if he could cum inside her. And I was not going to deprive her of that amazing feeling. Plus Evan wanted to fill her up so bad. I could tell he wanted to claim her as his. At least for the night.

Lisa lifted her knees got on her feet laid her hands on his chest and started to ride his cock like a cum hungry little slut. She was fucking him so deep and so hard I couldn’t believe this was the same girl that only a few hours ago took twenty minutes of slow stroking to get used to his size. As Evan kept getting closer to cumming Lisa kept telling him to fill her cheating pussy. Telling him how she wants his cum so bad. How she wants to feel him erupt inside her. And with those last few words he grabbed her ass tight lifted his bum off the bed pushed himself as deep as he could inside her pussy and he exploded. He came for like a minute. She could feel every powerful squirt fill her cheating pussy and she erupted and came as well.  Squirting again all over him. They came together and non stop for what felt like forever.

When the orgasms subsided she fell limp on top of him buried her face in his neck and whispered in his ear that it was the best sex she’s ever had. And that she came more in this one night than she has in the last ten years combined. She kissed him passionately rolled off of him and his cock still half erect covered in both their cum looked too amazing to me so I took him in my mouth. Sucked him hard and licked him completely clean. This turned Lisa on so much that once I was done with Evan I slipped between her legs, spread them wide, looked up at her and asked if this was ok, she begged me to go for it and I started to lick her pussy next. She was full of Evan’s cum which kept leaking out of her pussy. I kept licking her clean. I could taste her cum and Evan’s cum and I couldn’t get enough. Fuck it was so good. I kept licking her and Lisa’s focus went from watching me clean her married pussy with my mouth to getting lost in how amazing it felt. Evan got aroused as well and was hard again right away.

He got behind me lifted my ass off the bed, I arched my back like a good little slut and he started to fuck me hard from behind. I was dripping i was so wet. I needed a cock so bad. I stuck my tongue deep into Lisa’s pussy and she watched Evan pound me hard as I licked her freshly fucked cheating pussy. She whispered “just when I thought things couldn’t get any hotter”. I was going to cum any second. We all were. Evan just fucked me hard and pounded me so deep I could barely keep my tongue in Lisa’s pussy.  And as I started to cum Lisa told me she was coming too. And a few more powerful strokes later Evan pulled out and erupted all over my ass and my back. It was a strong and powerful orgasm for all of us. I laid on top of Lisa and just made out with her for the next little bit. She ran her hands all over me rubbing Evan’s cum all over my back. Fuck that was hot and naughty.

When we were done we were all exhausted. We all wanted Lisa to spend the night and keep fucking but she decided to head back to her room for it not to raise too much suspicion from her friend. We walked her back to her hotel. Kissed each other goodnight and she asked how we felt about us all doing this again. Evan and I obviously were happy to hear she wanted to explore more with us. Evan has never really been too keen on cheating women but with Lisa there were no limits. He wanted to fuck her. And he wanted to fuck her as much and as often as possible. In our relationship I’m always the one that thinks with her pussy, it was so hot for me to see him come to the dark side lol, and finally start thinking with his cock. 😈.  It’s been a few weeks since that night in Niagara Falls and our sneaky adventures with Lisa have continued. Lots more to share. 😜💋💦💦💦💦

Hotwife Lifestyle - Understanding Our Man’s Hotwife Fantasy and How to Use That to Our Advantage

The fantasy of having a “Hotwife” is growing, in fact, research shows it is growing at a higher rate than a good majority of the other lifestyle alternatives, including the old staple of “swinging” and the modern “open relationship”.  Why is it that a fantasy that revolves around only one part of a relationship – the woman – going out and finding pleasure from another man more intriguing to an increasing number of men than going out and “getting some” for himself?  

Basic psychology tells us that men are highly competitive creatures.  They have a drive to compete with other males of the species for the best mate – this isn’t so much different than what happens in the animal kingdom.  Most men have an innate drive to compete with other men when it comes to the “best mate” or the “most attractive woman”.  With this being said, one of the reservations of most women who find out about their husband or partner’s Hotwife fantasy is that he is somehow “weaker” than the rest because he wants to give up his position as your only partner.  Is this really true, though?  Could the truth lie somewhere within today’s man’s loss of natural competition in everyday life, and a desire to maintain a level of competition after marriage or “monogamy”?  Is this weakness, or rather the ultimate confidence?  

Cuckholding aside, because this aspect of the fantasy requires a bit more in terms of a “woman led” relationship, and a bit more from the man in terms of a desire for mental sadomasochism, a good majority of men enjoy the idea that they have been able to “capture” the best mate and even when she’s out having amazing physical and emotional experiences with men who may have qualities that actually supersede their own – a better body, a larger cock, youth, more prowess in bed – their woman actually WANTS to come back to them at the end of the night.  While most Hotwife-Husbands do get some level of turn-on from the jealousy and the possibility that their Hotwife may actually be enjoying their dates more than they enjoy being “at home”, the overwhelming desire is the competition and the “win” in terms of having a wife who chooses them again and again even after being allowed to go out and have other men.  

As Hotwives, we may be the focus of the fantasy, but there is that deeper and more psychological desire of a man who, even after committing to one woman, is able to compete with other males sexually.  This is why the desire for “reclaiming” a Hotwife after a date is so strong – it’s actually been scientifically proven that men who are able to reclaim a partner after she has been with someone else have an increase in testosterone levels, which means stronger desire, more powerful erections, longer lasting erections, and an overall stronger sex drive.  So, what does this mean for us as Hotwives?

He Enjoys the Jealousy, Go with It

As women we’ve learned that inducing some jealousy can actually be a good thing when it comes to dating – before we’ve found our “person”.  We use our female prowess to keep the men who we are seeing guessing…why?  Because they seem more interested in us when it seems as though we may not be 100% there.  So, if this works in the dating world, why wouldn’t it work once we’re married? In contrast, women typically don’t respond as well, or in the same way to jealousy – we tend to worry, question, and sometimes shut down if we feel that he might be “just not that into us”.  Naturally, because of our own feelings on the matter, we tend to avoid making our men jealous once we’ve committed to them, because we, ourselves don’t want to feel as though we’re in constant competition with other, more attractive, sexier, younger, etc., women.  Why would we do something to the man that we love that we, ourselves, would hate?

For men, though, and especially those with Hotwife fantasies, jealousy is a big component and tool for us to keep our men hot and bothered.  Sometimes just the mere mention of being flirted with by that cute guy at our favorite restaurant, or our interest in the sexy personal trainer at the gym is enough to send our men into a sexual frenzy.  It doesn’t take a lot to feed the fantasy.  It’s not ALL about dates and recounting how well we got worked over in the bedroom (and how much we loved it), though that is the ultimate turn on for our men, it’s also about the little things – the mention of our interest in someone else, the sexy messages that we send to potential lovers or Bulls, the “tease” of how much we loved what our last Bull did for us and how much we’re looking forward to doing it again.  Remember, this ignites the “competition” element of things, which is natural for men.

The More You Enjoy it, the More He Enjoys it

You may be thinking, “But I’m doing it for him, I’m not doing it for myself” (a common theme by A LOT of Hotwives), but in reality, our men WANT us to enjoy our encounters. They want to hear about what this “other guy” did for or to is that sent us over the edge, and yes, they want to hear what we liked better about the “other guy”.  I know it seems crazy, because we don’t want to imagine our men, even if we did allow them to be with other women, thinking that their “others” were better, sexier, hotter or had something that we don’t.  That’s because we don’t have that “competition drive” like our men do.

Let’s face it, despite what our men tell us – “It’s all about your pleasure” or “I don’t get anything out of it unless you’re enjoying it, because I love you so much” – this isn’t some ultimate “unselfish” thing our men are doing for us.  These things come out of their mouths, but what they are really saying is “I want to know that you came three times while he was fucking you, and you STILL want to come home to me”.  It’s their kink, and we have to understand it.  

So, if you’ve actually taken the step into the world of Hotwifing, you’re going to have to learn how to properly tease your man into believing that, just maybe, your Bull was better than him in some ways.  Whenever you think “But I’m only doing it for him”, follow that us with “I’m doing it for him and he WANTS to know that I absolutely enjoyed it”.  Find some aspect of your encounter that was mind-blowing, and recount, in great detail exactly what it was that sent you over the edge.  This may require a little bit of embellishment, and that’s OKAY…trust me…embellishment is your friend in this situation.  Tell your man about your Bull’s amazing cock, how good if felt, how good he tasted, how fantastic he was at oral sex, etc.  These are the things that will ramp up that competition streak in your man and make him want to reclaim you with increased vigor and desire.  

The More You Want Someone Else, The More Your Man Wants You

Again, you’re playing on the competition and the teasing aspect of things here…  The more that you act as if you WANT to be a Hotwife, the more that your husband or partner is going to WANT you.  His desire for you is going to skyrocket, his sexual desire for you is going to make it so that he’s ready to chew his own leg off to get you back in bed.  I have experienced this firsthand many times…if I am completely honest about an “encounter” and admit to “D” that my Bull was lacking in some way, or I didn’t quite “get there”, he isn’t nearly as turned on as when I tell him about how amazing things were.  I don’t like or believe in lying, but I do advocate for being selective and stretching the truth…maybe your lover wasn’t the best at giving oral sex, but maybe he was an amazing kisser, so a good answer would be “he was amazing with his mouth” and leave the rest up for interpretation.  

We’re women.  We are strong and capable and we are smart.  And the truth is, this is a GAME we are playing for and with our husbands/partners, so we need to get our heads into the game. Furthermore, this is an intellectual game, and we need to use our intellects to get to where we want to be.  Where do we want to be?  We want to have a husband/partner who is absolutely drooling over us, believes we are the ultimate sexual goddess, and in is jealous enough to realize that in order to “compete” they will need to step up their own game in order to “keep” us satisfied – be that with amazing sex, extra romance, other rewards, or all of the above.  

Happy Hotwifing!

-S

Five nosy sex questions………….

1) How many different cocks have you fucked so far in 2022?

2) Favorite type of porn?

3) Would you rather suck off a coworker, your boss, or a stranger?

4) Do you squirt?

5) What’s your favorite place to take a load of cum?

1) Four cocks

2) Rough cheating sex

3) Coworker

4) I can, especially with great anal

5) Deep in my pussy, fill me up

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You can even tell me what you would like to do to me 😜

Beer buddies

Hubby makes his own beer on occasion, and he is always looking for tips and tricks to hone his skills. A few years ago he met another home brewer at the homebrew supply store, James, and they hit it off well enough that hubby invited him for a BBQ and to talk brewing. Dwayne told me he had invited someone over, which didn't thrill me at the time, but when James arrived and hubby introduced us my pussy was tingling. James was early 40's, 6'2", well built, 225 lbs, and single.

Dwayne and James hung out in the garage where hubby keeps his brewing equipment, talking about beer and how long they had been brewing. I would occasionally walk in asking if they needed anything, secretly aching to see what James was packing. I'd smile at him but was careful not to flirt with him or give a signal to hubby that I was totally into him. While they talked I'd go to the restroom and quickly finger myself, and it wasn't long before my pussy was a sopping mess.

I told hubby he should get the grill going, so he and James went to the back yard and fired up the grill. I was taking food outside when James asked if he could help. "Sure" I said, smiling at James before turning around and walking to the kitchen. James followed and I handed him a plate, telling him "thank you sweetie". As I handed him the plate I made sure to touch his hand and winked at him. He smiled at me and took the remaining food to hubby.

We all sat at the table once the food was ready and chit-chatted for a while. Hubby and James enjoyed several beers and I was squirming in my chair, my clit and pussy begging for cock. As the two of them got drunk I was openly flirting with both of them, being mindful to focus my attention on Dwayne. At one point I began caressing James' left leg with my foot, and he'd casually glance at me and give me a wink while we all talked, laughed, and had a good time.

James had to call an Uber since he and hubby had quite a few beers. We said our goodbyes and he told hubby he'd be back for his truck the next morning. Hubby said he'd be at work long before James would return, but I'd be home making sure his truck was ok. James and I smiled at each other before he left. I attacked hubby, telling him his flirting had me soaking wet the entire night. He fucked me hard and fast, filling me up with a huge load before rolling over and passing out. I fingered myself to a nice orgasm, thinking about James, before falling asleep. The next morning I made sure hubby filled me up again before going to work.

After hubby left I took a shower, got dressed in a sexy pleated skirt, black thigh highs, silky button-up blouse, and black high heels. I kept an eye on our surveillance camera on the garage so I could know when James arrived while I started work for the day. About 7:30 I saw an Uber drop off James, so I made my way outside. "Hey there" I greeted James with a smile. "Good morning Carla. How are you this morning" he replied. "I'm doing great, darlin" I responded, "how about you?" "I'm doing well, thanks", he said, "just getting ready to head to work." "You should come in for some coffee" I offered. James thought for a second and replied "sure."

I held the door open for James and as he walked past me he smiled and looked me up and down. My pussy was aching and started dripping. We walked into the kitchen and chatted a bit while I poured his coffee. "Do you take cream and sugar" I asked. "Sugar, please. 2" he said. "Ooooo", I cooed, "he likes it sweet." "Sure do" he said. As I handed him his cup I slightly bent over the counter, with my exposed cleavage pushing forward, put my finger in his coffee and stirred, and quietly said "I like mine with extra cream", then pulled my finger out of the cup, slowly put it in my mouth, and slowly sucked it clean. James looked at me with a smile and said "oh really?" "Mmmhmmm" I replied, "lots of cream makes me happy." "I'm sure Dwayne gives you plenty" he flirted back. "Well" I said, running my finger over the rim of his cup "he's definitely up to the task, but I need more" I said, looking up at him with a sultry gaze, "I need a lot more, if you know what I mean." "I might, but you may need to explain it to me differently so I don't misunderstand" he said.

Without saying anything I stood up, sauntered around the counter toward the living room, bent over the arm of the sofa, spread my legs, pulled my pleated skirt up over my hips, looked back at James, and slid two fingers into my soaked pussy, then spread my lips and said "I need extra cream, darlin. If you know what I mean." James walked over, admiring my exposed pussy, and started caressing my ass with one hand while grabbing his hardening cock with the other. I resumed fingering myself, moaning and biting my lower lip. I heard him unbuckle his belt and unsnap his pants, and it wasn't long before his hardening cock was touching my slit. I reached back further and gripped his shaft, rubbing the tip of his manhood through my slit and over my glistening clit. "Oh fuck" I purred as I savored the feeling of his meat against mine. He let out a low moan as I manipulated his cock, grabbing my hips with both hands and slowly grinding against me. "Fuck me James" I said softly, guiding the tip of his cock to the entrance of my willing and eager married hole. He slowly thrusted forward, coating his cock with the juices dripping out of me, pushing forward gently into me until his dick was completely inside. I looked back at him and growled "I said FUCK ME!" Without hesitation he began pounding his rock hard cock in and out of me, and I pulled my tits out as he fucked me. I supported myself with one hand while I pinched and pulled my nipples with my free hand, my tits swaying wildly as he pounded my adulterous pussy. I could feel my pussy spasming, but before I started to cum James groaned "FUCK I'M GNA CUM!" "DON'T STOP FUCKING ME" I moaned as my pussy began to convulse "I'M CUMMING ON THAT DICK!!!" As soon as I uttered that last word we came in unison, with James gripping my hips as he plunged as deep in me as possible. My cunt walls spasmed around his pulsing cock, and I savored the feeling of jets of sperm filling me. We came intensely, and he slumped over on my back as his softening cock dripped the final drops of cum from his balls.

James quickly gathered himself and stuffed his cock back in his pants, apologizing for his hasty departure. "Sorry Carla, but I'm late for work." His cum dripped down my thighs as I stood up and pushed my skirt down, telling him "no problem, honey. I understand. Dwayne leaves for work at 6AM, in case you want to give me some extra cream again." James smiled and said "I'll be back tomorrow" before closing the door behind him. I walked over to the bedroom as James dripped out of my pussy, undressed, laid on the bed, pulled out my dildo, and fucked myself to a squirting orgasm.

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SEXYTIMES EXPERIENCES

1. How many people have you had sex with?

2. Can you remember the names of everyone you’ve slept with?

3. With whom did you first do the sexytimes? Was it good?

4. What’s the best sex you’ve ever had?

5. What’s the worst sex you’ve ever had?

6. Where’s the most unusual place you’ve had sex?

7. Where’s the most unusual place you’ve masturbated?

8. Have you ever been caught doing the sexytimes?

9. If you masturbate, when did you start, and how?

10. Have you ever been caught masturbating?

QUEER SHIT

11. How would you describe your sexuality using only adjectives (describing words–busy, fluffy, squishy, etc.)?

12. Have you ever been in a queer relationship?

13. Have you ever been in a straight relationship?

14. How and when did you realise you weren’t straight?

15. Are you out to everyone you know?

16. Where do you meet queer folks to date? Do you find it difficult?

17. If your parents know about your sexuality, how did they react?

18. Does your best friend know about your sexuality? How did they react?

19. Describe your first queer kiss.

20. What’s the queerest shit you’ve ever done?

LET’S GET PHYSICAL

21. Are you happy with your body?

22. What’s the raddest part of your bod, and why?

23. What do you do with your body hair (pubes, underarms, legs, etc.)?

24. Do you have stretch marks? Where?

25. Describe your nipples in too much detail.

26. (Vagina-owners) Do you have an “innie” (small, tucked-in inner labia), or an “outie” (more visible/larger inner labia)?

27. (Vagina-owners) Is it very obvious when you’re turned on (swelling, wetness etc.)?

28. (Penis-owners) Describe the size and shape of your penis. Are you happy with it?

29. (Penis-owners) Have you tasted your own cum? Did you like it?

30. (Breast-owners) How does the size of your breasts compare? Is one bigger than the other?

SEXUAL FANTASY LAND

31. Describe your most unusual/taboo fantasy.

32. Do you fantasise more about real situations, or imaginary/impossible ones?

33. Who’s the oddest person you’ve fantasised about?

34. Do you ever find yourself fantasising absent-mindedly, or is it something you do on purpose?

35. Do you always fantasise while you masturbate?

36. When you fantasise, does it usually lead to masturbation?

37. Have you ever had sex with someone while fantasising about someone else?

38. Do you have any celebrity crushes that you fantasise about?

39. Have you ever fantasised about something by accident, and felt weird about it after?

40. Describe your most sexy fantasy.

KINKTOWN USA

41. How do you feel about BDSM?

42. What’s your most unusual kink?

43. In an SM context, do you prefer giving pain, or receiving it?

44. Do you consider yourself to be dominant, submissive, both, or neither?

45. Describe your most recent bondage experience.

46. In a BDSM context, have you ever referred to anyone as “daddy,” “mommy,” or any similar term?

47. Do you have a kink for any bodily fluids (pee, saliva, blood, tears, cum, etc.)?

48. Have you ever revealed a kink to someone and had them react negatively?

49. Do you have any kinks that you’re ashamed of?

50. How much money have you spent on equipment for your kinks (toys, whips, chains, etc.)?

COME FOR THE QUESTIONS, STAY FOR THE SUBHEADINGS

51. (Vagina-owners) Do you ever squirt when you come?

52. Have you ever come solely from penetration (anal or vaginal)?

53. Can you have an orgasm without your genitals being touched?

54. Describe how you like your genitals to be touched.

55. How sensitive are your nipples? Does nipple play turn you on?

56. Do you find it easier to orgasm with another person, or through masturbation?

57. Have you ever had an orgasm that you weren’t expecting?

58. Do you get off easier from rough contact, or gentle?

59. What’s the best orgasm you’ve ever had?

60. Did it take you a while to have your first orgasm, or were you an early starter?

ORAL FIXATION

61. Do you enjoy giving oral sex? Why?

62. What’s your favourite position in which to receive oral?

63. Describe your oral sex technique.

64. Do you find it easier to give oral to someone with the same genital configuration as you (eg., you both own vaginas/both own penises), or different?

65. Describe the worst oral sex you’ve ever received.

66. Describe the best oral sex you’ve ever received.

67. Do you ever simulate oral sex while masturbating (sucking on dildos etc.)?

68. How sensitive is your mouth? Is it an erogenous zone, for you?

69. Do you like 69ing?

70. Can you deep-throat?

EVERYTHING BUTT

71. Do you like it in the butt?

72. What’s the strangest object you’ve had in your butt?

73. Do you enjoy being rimmed?

74. Can you take a lot in your butt, or just a little?

75. Describe your most recent experience with buttsex.

76. Do you like doing stuff to other people’s butts?

77. (Prostate-owners) Have you ever received a prostate massage?

78. Do you own any buttplugs?

79. Have you ever had an embarrassing buttsex experience?

80. Have you ever pegged someone (ie., worn a strapon and fucked them in the butt)?

SHARING IS CARING

All questions assume you’ve done group sex of some kind

81. Describe your most recent group sex experience.

82. Have you ever had sex with more than two people at once (eg., foursome, moresome)?

83. Have you ever had an orgy? Would you?

84. Do you enjoy watching your partner(s) having sex with others?

85. Do you prefer to arrange group sex beforehand, or allow it to happen organically?

86. Have you ever felt left out during group sex?

87. Have you ever done a gangbang (ie., lots of people have sex with one person, but not each other)?

88. Have you ever teamed up with someone and given a double blowjob/double cunnilingus?

89. Have you ever been penetrated by more than one person at the same time?

90. Have you ever been ejaculated on by more than one person at the same time?

**BONUS DARES**

91. Post a selfie.

92. Post a naked selfie.

93. Tag your biggest tumblr crush.

94. Post your follower count.

95. Press ctrl-v, and post whatever comes up.

96. Tag your top five followers.

97. Post your most recent Facebook status here.

98. Post the last SMS you received.

99. Post the last SMS you sent.

100. Send me $500.

Today has been a fun day. I spent time at the pool trying to make as many friends as possible. I was quite friendly with one of the hosts and he was very sweet to me all day. My husband told me that I should offer to suck his dick for being so nice. Unfortunately he turned down my invitation (girlfriend excuse). It was hot to openly proposition him though.

A young guy was eying me at the pool all day. As he was leaving he asked for my number. I was disappointed he didn’t talk to me earlier. I love a mid-20s military man. I returned to my chair and suddenly he came back a bit later, grabbed me by the neck and just laid a kiss on me. He told me he had been wanting to do that all day. He then sat for a minute. He couldn’t get up because his dick was too hard in his swim trunks. I didn’t help by reaching over and rubbing it more. He kept trying to push it down and it popped back up. He finally calmed down and said he better see me later.

The night is off to a great start. I had a meet up last night with a 26 year old. We spent time at the bar sharing drinks and groping each other. I was impressed enough with what I felt. Due to the time, I didn’t want to miss out on heading out to the bars so we agreed to get back together today.

We met again for a quick drink and headed up to my room. He was infatuated with me and wanted to take some photos together so he could remember. He then picked me up and put me on the bed and began eating my pussy. I needed to taste him and he slid up to my chest and fed me his cock. He reached back and finger my soaking wet pussy while I continued to suck him. I shifted him to his back so I could show off my deepthroat skills. I stuffed both his balls in my mouth and he was in awe.

I wanted to be covered in his cum and he shifted me to my knees. He jerked his big load all over my tits and used his cock to spread it all over.

I’m all cleaned up and heading out now to hopefully find round two. Cross your fingers I run into some hot groups.

A guide to entering the Hotwife lifestyle

So you are now one of the millions of women who learned she has a husband with fantasies about you having sex with other men. Welcome to our club. Hopefully you’re past the shock. Maybe you have even reached that point where there is no need for me to tell you how lucky you are. If you’re not then you WILL reach that point if you follow what other wives like me have learned. If you’re like most of us, you were unaware that your husband had these desires. You were living the married life thinking that you knew your husband better than he knew himself. Ha! Too funny. Depending on how long you’ve been married, things may or may not have cooled off in the bedroom. Face it. The rut comes to every bedroom. If it hasn’t don’t be lulled into thinking it won’t happen to you. Some of you may have already had affairs or even had thoughts of leaving your husband out of sheer boredom. Then you somehow found out about his secret fantasy, and hopefully decided that there is a solution for the both of you. Lucky you, even if you don’t know it yet. He wants you to have sex with another man. Wow. Unsure about it? Don’t feel alone. I did too. But take a moment and think about the potential. See all of those other unhappy women out there in boring, sexless marriages? See all those other women around you having affairs, lying to themselves and their husbands, and risking messy divorces? Don’t laugh at them. They were once you, or could have been you. But now you will end up different from them. If you read this and follow it you’re going to find yourself on a road that will return you to sexual fulfillment, feeling as confident as when you were first married, in love with your husband again and appreciating him more than ever. You are on the way to becoming a Hot Wife. A Hot Wife is a woman who is free to have sex with others with her husband’s knowledge, approval and encouragement. The level of her husband’s involvement can vary. In fact it will be up to YOU. Some wives play completely on their own, with no interaction with her husband. Others enjoy their husband watching or participating. However, in all these relationships the wife is free to play with others, while the husband remains completely monogamous and faithful only to her. Sound crazy? Well believe me when I tell you it is easy to do and your sex life will be better than you imagine. In this new relationship the husband is often called a cuckold, which just means a man with a cheating wife. Of course cheating is a misnomer, since the wife’s actions are not hidden from the husband, and he is very aware of her activities. In fact his awareness and approval is one of the most important ingredients. It will turn him on like nothing you’ve ever done before. I assume you’re reading this because you’ve finally found out about your husband’s desires and you are contemplating the Hot Wife lifestyle. Good for you, but you may want some advice. First, go slowly. Do not rush it. Having a husband that enjoys this lifestyle is different, so you need to nurture the relationship first and foremost, while moving into the lifestyle slowly. It might take time before you are comfortable having full on sex in front of him, or he may take time to become accustomed to watching or knowing you are out being intimate with other men. What you want to do is encourage his desires for you to be with other men, and make it as pleasurable for him as it is for you. If you go slowly and follow my advice, in time you will have a husband that will let you do anything sexually. Anything! And he will want you to do more. He will find himself anticipating it as much as you (maybe more than you). He will get his sexual satisfaction from YOUR encounters with other men, and most importantly he will be drawn to you like never before, and more in love with you than at any time in your marriage! In the Hot Wife lifestyle there are three levels of involvement for your husband: 1. You meet other men alone with no involvement from your husband. He may never know them or meet the other men in your life. You meet them on your own, and make all arrangements without any approval from your husband. The other men may or may not know about your lifestyle, or be aware that your husband knows about them. They may not even know you’re married, if you choose to remove your rings and pretend to be single. 2. You meet other men together with your husband, with him knowing them, and them knowing of him. However any interaction between both men is more on a social or perhaps friendship level. Your husband is not involved in any sexual activities between you and the other man. Your husband could even be the one who finds other men or helps make arrangements for you to meet them (your “dates”). But your husband is not included in your sexual encounters, except possibly left to hear them via an open phone call while they are happening. 3. Having sexual relations with other men in your husband’s presence, or even engaging in some sexual play that involves all three of you, ménage à trois style. In the classic cuckold arrangement you engage in sexual play with your lover while your husband watches, but he does not play at all. As an extension of this situation, there can be involvement of the husband in the classic ménage-a-trois arrangement, or traditional three ways. This could involve any degree of sex, which all three agree upon. Some wives prefer their husband be involved sexually and that is your choice. As you will see this will all become about YOUR preferences. Any of these levels can be appropriate, depending on the couple and what they prefer. It’s important to know where you, and to a lesser extent your husband, wish to take things, so open communication is important to establish your goals and boundaries. Just make sure that the “other” man fully understands everything as well. It’s important for him to know upfront where he fits into the couple’s relationship. It’s also important that he respect any boundaries you set out (you set the boundaries, NOT your husband). With proper techniques, a new Hot Wife can quickly learn how to get the most from her sexual encounters AND help her husband find new levels of pleasure from a more passive role than he is likely to have experienced earlier in your marriage. This takes time though, as most husbands are accustomed to being the spouse in charge. As you begin, you MUST remember one very important fact. Hot Wife is not just about sex. It’s also about CONTROL. If you are like most women, your husband has been in control so far in your marriage. Right? Well, now you can change that. Hot Wife is about what YOU want. YOUR sexual pleasure. YOUR sexual control. I know it sounds strange. But once you’ve experienced it you WILL enjoy it immensely! Think YOU not HIM. As selfish as it may sound at first, doing so will turn him on more than anything you’ve ever done yet! The change in you by itself will begin to arouse him. Now, here’s what to do the first few times. After that, once you’ve got a taste of it (and he’s thirsty for more), you can do as you damn well please. After all, you are the Hot Wife! (You won’t read stuff like this anywhere else.) Remember rule #1 - The goal is for YOU to be in control of the sex, not him. You do what you want; when you want; and how you want; with whom you want and have him go along with it. Got it? First, you have to set the groundwork from the beginning. If you do it right, he will be totally faithful and a perfect husband to you, as he learns to get his sexual satisfaction in the lifestyle as a result of YOUR being satisfied. Meanwhile you can have fun with your new freedom and let out the little slut that’s bottled up inside every woman. DON’T let him decide what kind of sex or how much sex or who you should have sex with. Remember this - NO CHOICE and NO VOICE. He should have no say in whether or not you jack a man off, or if you chose to screw the entire staff of Starbucks. He should have no say in whether you go out to another mans home, or bring a man into your bedroom. He should have no say in when it happens, or whom you choose. Once you allow him to have a say, then you let the control slip back to him. That’s NOT what you want. You want to be the one in control. Trust me, YOU will love it once it happens, and HE will too (even if he doesn’t know why). When you decide you’re going to go out and meet someone, or have someone over, just tell your husband, in a very matter of fact tone. Don’t give him a choice in the matter. Say, “I’m having someone over tomorrow evening and we’re going to spend some time in bed.” Or say, “I’m going out with someone Friday night and I plan to go home with him afterward”. That’s it. You can share as many details as you want (before and after) but don’t let him try to influence you or allow him to shape the event. Be firm. Make it clear that you are making the decision because it’s what you want. Take control of your sexuality and control that aspect of your relationship for that night. Send the message that you’re in charge. If you want, it’s fine to tell him what’s going to happen before you do it. That is a big part of the excitement for many couples. Share all of the details you wish. But the idea is to show him that you’ve made a decision based on YOUR needs and desires, and his needs are secondary to your needs right now. Show him that you’re a horny woman who’s taken charge of getting yourself satisfied without him. The idea that you will go to another man for your sexual fulfillment will drive him crazy with lust for you (trust me!). It’s also important to keep him involved every step of the way. Share everything. Depending on your relationship level, you may want to keep him abreast of your discussions with the other man, share details of your plans, etc. It’s important to keep him involved, but as a SPECTATOR and NOT a participant. This creates a sexually charged experience for him, even before you have ANY sex at all! If you are having thoughts about calling someone to meet this weekend, tell him. Let the suspense and excitement build. It’s a game. Share it with him and it will excite you BOTH. When the big day arrives to meet a man, be deliberately aloof and distant from your husband the entire day. Give him some tasks to keep him busy, maybe something that helps prepare for your evening. Perhaps send him out to buy a nice bottle of wine, or tidy up around the household. Many couples enjoy the ritual of the husband helping the wife prepare herself for a date. You can have him help you bathe or shower, and dry you off. Have him put on your panties and stockings. I talk to my husband and tease him, I tell him to get me ready for the other man’s cock, etc. Doing this lays the groundwork early on. It puts you in charge and creates an atmosphere where he begins to mentally relinquish his rights to you, as part of turning you over to another man. Doing this also reinforces the new power you have. It will also make the sex more intense between the two of you during the next few days, when he takes charge of you again. It’s an important part of the game that has powerful appeal, and helps bond you together. If you are having a man over, have your husband arrange the areas where you will entertain (living room, bedroom, ect). Dim the lights. Light some candles and put on some quiet music as you wait. If he will be present in the bedroom, have him prepare an area off to the side from where he will watch. When the man arrives, EVERYTHING should change. Discuss beforehand what your husband’s role will be. Assuming that he remains present, there are certain things you can do to set the tone, and create an unforgettable night for him AND you. First, have it prearranged for him to sit somewhere out of the way, so that you and your lover can carry on as if your husband is NOT THERE AT ALL (this is VERY important). I usually tell the other man to ignore my husband. After the early pleasantries my husband seldom interacts with us at all. The excitement of experiencing a new man sexually, while at the same time turning on the man I love, is difficult to explain but incredibly exciting. When the man arrives at your home, don’t be timid and make small talk for an hour. This is a common mistake. It’s too awkward to prolong things. Everyone knows he’s there for sex. There’s no reason to delay. Since it’s all about sex, look for the first chance to break the ice and get started. This is part of your “take charge” persona that comes with the control you’ve assumed. Show your desire for the other man by initiating intimacy while your husband watches. If I know him from previous dates I often give a full kiss to my “date” right in the doorway and linger, perhaps even lightly rub his crotch a bit, giving him a chance to return the grope. Then I walk him into the living room, with my husband either following or already waiting for us. Depending on the man, I sometimes prefer to have an adult video playing on the TV with the volume turned down, and pleasant music playing lightly in the background. With a nice glass of wine this is a sure-fire way to get things going without much delay. You can linger there if you want, or wildly strip off your clothes and jump on him, or lead him to the bedroom. It’s up to you. You’re the Hot Wife. Some women like to tease their husbands for a while. Others just like to plop down in the doorway and start sucking within seconds. It’s up to you. Do what turns YOU on. YOU are in charge. Some wives like to NOT look at or talk to their husband AT ALL, especially during the first few times he watches. But some husbands want their wives to look them in the eye while they’re enjoying their new lover. It can be very exciting to tell your husband how GOOD it feels, how much BIGGER he is than your husband, and how much BETTER the sex feels. Cuckold husbands want their hotwives to have the BEST sexual experience of their lives, so let him know that is what you are getting. It can be extremely sexy either to ask if it’s OK for your lover to cum inside of you, or for your husband to hear you TELL your lover to cum inside of you. And be sure to let your husband know each and every time you orgasm with your new lover. On the other hand, you can try to totally PRETEND HE’S NOT THERE. Some watching husbands love this. They like to think they are anonymously watching you have a secret sexual affair. But in any case, they want to see you lost with your lover, while they get a front row seat to the best live porn they will ever experience. Here’s more advice for the first few times. ENJOY yourself! Don’t be shy or act inhibited. Don’t be afraid to moan and scream and cry out with passion. Pay attention to your lover exactly like you would if you were totally alone with him. Many women feel inhibited and reserved with their husband watching, but this hinders what you want to accomplish. He wants to see you in the throes of wild passion, without a care in the world (least of all worrying about your husband). It may take you some time to do it, but putting him out of your mind should be your goal. Here’s another tip - treat your lover like you treated your husband WHEN YOU WERE DATING. Ladies, you know what this means. Let your slut come out! Plenty of oral sex. Plenty of fucking. Multiple times if possible. Give him all he wants, until he can’t see straight and you can’t walk straight! When he’s done, continue to pamper him EXACTLY as you would your husband, right up until the goodnight kiss at the door. After he leaves, you think you’re done and now it’s time for some sleep? Surprise girl! It’s not close to being over yet. The next step is VERY important if you want to keep doing this. It’s important that your husband support your Hot Wife life, and that he be behind you all the way. So, even if you’re tired, you must immediately turn ALL your attention to your husband. Turn off the distant, sex-starved Hot Wife games you played earlier and become ALL HIS AGAIN! Let him reclaim you as his own. Reassure him that you’re still his wife and that you love him even MORE for allowing you this night of pleasure! Depending on the couple, you may or may not have sex right away, or even for days after (this is up to you two). He may even have masturbated earlier, while watching you. I know some husbands who just watch without a hard-on but then end up fucking their wives like madmen for days after the date. Many husbands will want to perform CLEAN UP duty. This is where the husband licks the lovers cum from the wife’s pussy or off of her breasts. It can be EXTREMELY arousing for both involved! It’s a primal reaction serving to both reclaim the wife and show the husband’s subservience to her pleasure. But even though they desire this, most husbands will not do this on their own. Your husband may want you to ORDER HIM to perform clean up duty. This maintains the woman’s sexual dominance in all areas of the Hot Wife lifestyle. But each relationship is different. Do what’s right for you two. But as soon as the other man departs you must be right back in your husband’s arms and become his wife and lover again. Make sure he receives the love and pleasure and release he needs to REINFORCE his desire to watch you do it again. Over the next few days, reassure him that you love him and care about him, that you’re his wife forever. Most importantly, remind him that you LOVE the fact that he lets enjoy this lifestyle. Tell him how much you enjoyed that night. Tease him while replaying the night over and over. Tell him you can’t wait to do it again. Tell him how self-assured and unique he is to be able to share you the way he does, and how you appreciate the freedom he gives you. Chances are you’ll be having great sex with your husband for weeks after he watches, and he will be more attentive and loving than he was before you started these games. That’s just another benefit of the lifestyle. When that happens, you’ll become hooked on the Hot Wife lifestyle, and so will he. If you do this, the lifestyle will become an important part of your sexual relationship and it will grow into the most exciting sex life you’ve ever enjoyed together. In time, his most intense sexual pleasure will come from you HAVING SEX WITH SOMEONE ELSE, as crazy as that might sound. And what could be better for you? You get to take charge of your sex life. You get to explore new sexual horizons most married women never experience. Your husband will love and adore you more than he ever has, and you BOTH stay sexually fulfilled. There is so much to experience in this lifestyle that you’ll never be bored. If you lay the right groundwork and do it correctly from the beginning, you can have a supportive, open-minded husband and the freedom to do whatever you want with his blessing. To me, there is no better marriage than one that is open and sexually permissive. Without my loving husband involved in my new life, I would probably have long ago been divorced and miserable by now. So get out there and get started.