So you want to talk dirty but you have no clue what to say?
Dirty talk is an awesome way to explore your fantasies in a safe environment, but it can also be a daunting task if you’re not used to expressing your sexuality in such an explicit way.
What do you say? How do you say it? And how do you know he’ll like it?
Diclaimer: the following advice reflects our kinks and likes but the principles can be used for any fantasy you want to talk dirty about. We’re very much into hotwifing both of us. Basically he enjoys to watch me being fucked by a hung guy. He’s not into humiliation or being put down, but he do like to hear that another man can give me just as much pleasure as him, sometimes even more. For me, I enjoy walking that fine line where he’s a mix of horny and jealous. I want him to be horny thinking of me cumming over and over again, but I also love to know that it does sting a little bit when I tell him that a bigger dick can turn me into an obedient little slut and make me cum instantly.
Some safety rules.
First thing first. We don’t want your dirty talk to turn into a stupid argument, so let’s get some safety rules down first.
• Talk about what he like and doesn’t like beforehand. What I’m writing in this post is based on our likes and kinks, and they are not universal guidelines. You should always talk to your husband and find out exactly what it is he would love to hear from you. It’s important to keep this conversation non-sexual, so you get an honest answer, not a horny answer.
• What is said in dirty talk might not reflect real life. This goes both ways. Dirty talk is a great way to explore fantasies and boundaries, but not everything said when you’re raging horny is valid when you’re not. If something is said that surprises you, talk about it after. And remember, you’re going make him REALLY horny, so he might express fantasies or thoughts that is just that - fantasies and thoughts, and not necessarily something he wants to act on. In the same way you need to be clear about how you’re also just exploring your own fantasies as well as his, and might say something in the heat of the moment that you don’t necessarily mean or want to act out in real life.
• This is dirty talk, not a lie detector test. You’re allowed to exaggerate to increase his enjoyment, but I strongly advise you to reveal the truth after he’s had his orgasm so you won’t create a distorted image in his head.
What dirty talking is not
Dirty talking is not overthinking how to phrase the perfect sentence. In fact, once you start articulating your husband’s fantasies, I guarantuee he will be so horny he couldn’t care less how well you phrase it. Just the fact that you’re talking about his fantasies means that he’s too busy trying to keep his orgasm back to even care. Just relax and say something. Anything.
Don’t rush it
The goal with dirty talking is of course to make your husband have an amazing orgasm, but do not rush it!
I’ll dare say that for your husband the process and the talk itself is way more exciting than his orgasm. So take your time and let him enjoy and simmer in it.
Don’t worry about repeating yourself
You might be thinking “but I already told him that story 3 times, I can’t think of something new”. Don’t worry about that, just tell it again. Trust me.
And now…. Without further ado here are my secret dirty talking methods that’ll make your husband lose his mind.
And then what
I find that the biggest obstacle in dirty talking is how to start it. That first thing you break the ice with. It can feel a bit awkward at first, but you’ll quickly get the hang of it. I’m a big fan of something I call the and then what technique. Basically you just start with a rather innocent question or statement and then evolve into the next natural thing that would happen. So you say something, and then pretend someone asks you “and then what” and then you answer that question.
So let’s pretend for a second you’re on top of your man, riding him cowgirl style and you want to spice it up a little.
Simply starting with a “you like the way I fuck you?” Is enough to break that awkward ice. He’ll answer yes of course. And then what? “then imagine how Mark (using names of actual guys you know works amazingly) would feel if I fucked him like this”
And then what?
“I would bounce up and down his cock just like this. He’ll get to feel how tight your wife’s pussy is”
And then what?
“then I want him to….”
You get it.
Reliving the past
My husband is very much into hearing stories about guys I used to fuck so this one is his favorite type of dirty talk. The way it goes is when I give him a handjob, blowjob or even ride him, I would say something like “you like the way I stroke your dick?” (asking if he likes it is always a great way to break the ice and initiate dirty talk without feeling awkward). This always gets me a very enthustiastic “YES!” to which I answer something like “this is exactly how I used to stroke [name of guy I used to fuck]’s cock…” (pause for dramatic effect) “except… His was a lot bigger than yours”. This line alone is usually enough to almost bring him over the edge, and if not it’s a great way to go into more details - how did it feel to stroke a much bigger dick, would you do it again, perhaps the guy used to get so horny that he would fuck you before you could finish the handjob, etc. Details, details, details, I can’t stress it enough.
Fair warning: not everyone is into hearing about your past! Make sure your husband is into that before springing this on him.
The commentator
This one is super easy because you don’t feel like you’re talking dirty, you’re just saying what’s on your mind. So the way it works is to watch porn with your man and simply make comments about the movie paying. Particularly about the guy and what you like about him. Compliment his dick, go into details about what you like about him, think out loud like “I really wish I could get fucked like that one day” / “look how big his dick is. He would make me cum so fast with that”
If you’ve fucked someone who reminds you of the guy, by all means tell your husband about it. Watching a porn with a guy who’s fucking some girl senseless and hearing your wife drop the bomb that the guy is the exact same size as some dude she dated in college is a sure way to make your husband look at the porn and all he will see is you being fucked right there on the screen. Very hot for both of you.
The yes ladder
This is a really simple but very effective technique that is easy for new dirty talkers and is guarantueed to drive him crazy.
In a nutshell what you do is ask him some questions that all leads to a yes. With each question the intensity in what you’re asking increases. There’s something crazy hot about this almost confessional way of talking dirty and being “forced to admit” your deepest fantasies. This is a great way to get yourself going, and to test out boundaries.
Optional: let him know ahead of time that you’re going to ask him questions and if he says no just once, he don’t get to cum. See what he’s willing to say yes to - just remember these are forced and horny yesses expressing what he likes in the heat of the moment. They don’t necessarily count in real life.
Example of a yes ladder.
“you like this huh”
“would you like it if i did this to another guy?”
“would you let me pick any guy i want?”
“what if i want a guy who’s bigger than you, would you allow that?”
“do you want him to fuck me hard?”
“what if he makes me cum really hard, can you handle that?”
“what if he makes me scream out his name, can you still handle it?”
“can I fuck him right here in our bed?”
“would you allow me to fuck someone I’ve dated before?”
“even if he really knows how to fuck me good?”
“what if I want him to fuck me while you wait in the other room, will you do that?”
You get it, just continue like this. Make the questions increasingly more provocative and test his boundaries, maybe even cross them if you know he can handle it.
The O-bomb
This method works extremely well if you’ve been teasing and playing with him for a while, keeping him right on the edge and he’s SO close now that you can make him cum any second.
All there is to it is asking him “do you want to cum?” he’ll answer yes almost pleading. And that’s when you drop the O-bomb. The O-bomb is some of the blue thought you put into his head and force him to cum to before he can even react.
For example: he just said yes he wants to cum. You then say “good. I want you to cum while you think of me cumming all over (name)’s big dick” and then you simply force him to cum before he even gets a chance to react. As he’s cumming you keep feeding him the thought over and over until he’s done. “yes, cum while you imagine how he makes me scream” etc.
The story
My personal favorite. One thing is to talk about imaginary stuff that could maybe some day happen. Another is to talk about stuff that actually already happened simply by telling him a story about some incredible hot sex you’ve had, either because the circumstances where hot, because the guy knew what he was doing and fucked your brains out or the guy happened to be seriously hung.
This is also super simple for you because you dont have to make anything up, you simply just tell what happened and describe the situation.
Don’t worry about elaborate descriptions or anything. Trust me he’ll ask you to elaborate when he hears something he likes. Just describe what happened and how it felt for you. Especially the “how it felt” part is very important.
The talk
Now in the safety rules i told you to talk about what he likes and dislikes without touching him so his arousal won’t reflect his answers. This time you do the exact opposite. Simply have a conversation about what he likes while slowly touching his dick. There’s something really hot about just talking while casually stroking him. And you’ll be able to measure his response simply by the way his dick throbs, which is incredibly hot.
How to start it: just casually ask him a question about his likes and as he answers you slowly start touching him while asking him more questions.
The close your eyes and imagine
Sometimes it can be a lot easier if your husband can’t see you when you talk dirty.
Example:
“close your eyes. Do you like my hands on. Your dick? Now imagine i was doing this to another guy. Stroking his big dick just like this. I would be so turned on knowing it isn’t you. My pussy would want to feel him inside me. Imagine how he would push me down and fuck me. Imagine how i would gasp when he starts to stretch me. How I would scream when he goes deeper than you.”
Do you see how the above also make use of the and then what technique to tell the next part of the story?
Putting it all together
Now, I know reading about it and actually doing it is two very different things. When you’re first starting out I actually advice you to plan out your dirty talking. This might not be as sexy and spontaneous, but while you’re still getting the hang of it it’s nice to be a little prepared so you don’t run out of things to say. I would also advice you to start off doing it while giving a handjob, as you will have a much easier time focusing on what to say than if you were giving a blowjob or having sex.
Let’s break the ice with an innocent “do you like the way it feels when I stroke your cock?”
When he says yes I would then say something like “good…. Now close your eyes” wait for him to do it.
Then: “would you like it if I did this to another man?” - “yes”
Then: “you know, [name of ex / bull / fantasy guy] used to love when I stroked his dick. Of course his was a lot bigger than yours, I could barely close my hand around it”
Then: “do you like that, thinking about how I used to stroke his big cock?” - “yes”
Then: “having that big cock in my hands always made me feel so tiny and horny”
Then: “do you want me to show you how I used to suck him?” - “yes”. Then put all your effort into giving the best head you have ever given.
Then: “mmh… Can you imagine how good his cock must have felt in my mouth? I used to suck him just like that until he came in my mouth”.
By now he should be getting pretty close, so it’s time put on the finale. Ask him “do you want to cum?” - “yes”. Start stroking him faster.
“tell me…” - make him say that he wants to cum.
“I want you to cum while you think of me getting fucked by [name]. He would always make me cum so hard. Imagine how I used to scream his name” - if you really want to go all out you could start moaning the name of this other guy, whether that’s your bull, an old fling, your husband’s friend or who ever you like to fantasize about.
Do you see how easy it flows from do you like it, to imagine it’s someone else, to describing how you used to do or would do it on someone else?
With time it will come naturally and you won’t have to plan ahead, but to begin with it’s nice to have an idea of how you want to start it, how you want to end it and how you bridge that gap.
There you have it. My secrets to driving your husband wild. Now go… Make him lose it.
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Hotwifing is growing in popularity. 58% of men secretly admit they would like to share their wives. Imagine that! Half the men you know are into that and many of yours girlfriends are likely already doing it. A Hotwife is a married woman with permission to play but she makes the rules. Her husband must remain faithful. This lifestyle is a huge turn-on for many men. It’s not about jealousy and bi-curiosity. It’s about control. It’s about sharing the woman he loves, getting off on her enjoying other men, her being a personal porn star. Men who are into this kink tend to be hardworking, intelligent leaders. Alpha males, they are used to being boss with a take-charge personality and this lifestyle puts the control in the Hotwife’s hands. The more fun the hotwife has, the more her husband enjoys it.
It started for me when I found Hotwife porn on my hubby’s computer. I was shocked, offended. I thought he wanted to fuck other women. This was far from the truth. It took some time to realize he wanted to share me. It turned him on and he did not know how to tell me. Would I think he wanted to cheat if I did it? Would I think he’s bi? These are fears he had and it took some time for me to realize it was all about him being turned on by me being naughty and in control. It was all about me and him finding me attractive. Me being naughty makes him want me more. It’s brought us so much closer.
Most marriages get very boring in the bedroom. Hotwifing spices it up 100x. It’s important to focus on the physical aspect of sex with your dates and the emotional connection with sex with your hubby. The extra sex with other men isn’t the main focus, ITS THE RECLAIMING SEX WITH YOUR HUBBY. You just enjoyed a great, liberating experience and hubby gets you in the end every time. You’re going to be having a lot more sex and you will find yourself saying “can you do what X did to me?”.
Some of my list below ventures more on your hubby being more submissive. Others less so. If your hubby does not want to do the extra submissive ones, that’s ok. You might not either. It’s important to be respectful to hubby. Your date should always be respectful if your hubby is there for the encounter. He should never ridicule your hubby. That will ruin the experience. Depending on your relationship, you may say more submissive things like “what do you want him to do to me” or “is this what you wanted to see?”, or more dominant things like “watch how good he fucks me”, or engaging in more dominant activities that you will find below. Many couples are afraid to try the light dominant acts, but you might be surprised how much you’re both into it once you do.
Here are some tips, challenges, and dares!
Starting out:
1. Point out men you’d like to fuck. Tease the idea.
2. Tell your husband you know men who want to fuck you.
3. Flirt with men, even in front of your husband. Make it obvious you’re flirting. Even say something like “you and I should get together for drinks sometime. This is my hubby but he’s working tomorrow. How about we get together then?”
4. Tell men you’re married and need extra cock. A lot of men will fuck you harder knowing you’re married.
5. Talk about your exes. Especially sex with them.
6. Tell your husband you want to fuck other men during sex.
7. Tell your husband you won’t fuck him again until you fuck someone else.
8. During sex, make him admit you deserve more cock. Not just from him, but you deserve to be well fucked by other men, often.
9. Tell your husband of fun you’ve had with men while in bed. Be honest and tell him of occasions you’ve never told him. He WILL be turned on. I told mine of some past infidelity from years back and he was turned on.
10. Tell your husband you want to fuck your ex (and do it)
11. Tell your husband you want to feel another man fill your pussy with cum.
12. During foreplay, tell your husband you want to leave to go fuck someone you know. Have your husband take a pic of you to send to him right then.
13. Go to a hotel bar with your husband and flirt with guys. Try to get invited to his room.
14. Dance with guys and grind on them in front of your husband.
15. Have your husband tell a guy you’ve been flirting with that he wants him to fuck you.
16. Have drinks with your husband and a guy you want to fuck and tell the guy how you want to be fucked. Touch him, get close to him, guide his hands.
17. Get a guy’s number that you met with your hubby and secretly sext him in front of your hubby. Pro tip: Use the message app Kik.
18. Go on a girls night out and go home with a guy. Best if you have single friends. Make sure to dress slutty and have your husband watch you get ready. He’s hoping it turns into a late night.
19. Carry condoms in your purse and make sure your husband knows.
20. Sext other men and show your husband.
21. Have your husband take pics of you in your underwear for you to send to men.
22. Make a dating profile (Ashley Madison, Tinder, etc). This is a must do. Show hubby the guys you want to fuck.
23. Have your husband pay for lingerie your lover will enjoy. Say things like “Do you think he’d like to fuck me in this?”
24. Have your husband help you get ready for a solo date. Make sure to trim very well. Very little or no hair. Clean yet sooooo dirty :p
25. Go out and send updates and pics. Start clothed at a bar or restaurant with his hand on your hips or butt. Your hand on his crotch, etc. First kiss.
26. Go to his place and have your date send a pic of you bent over in your underwear. If it’s new underwear say something like “recognize the new panties you bought me? I found someone who will be the first to make them wet”
27. Send pics of his hand on your panties, rubbing your crotch. Suggestive pics. Don’t go full nude. Tease him.
28. Send pics of his face in your pussy.
28. Send a selfie with his dick in your mouth (very hot)
29. The pics stop as your hubby knows you are getting fucked.
30. Alternative: Live video or speakerphone your husband while you get fucked. Moan loud and beg for cock. Make sure to audibly tell your lover you are married and need to be fucked harder than your husband fucks you.
31. If you choose to send pics of the action, use low light. Tease him with it.
32. If no condom, scream for him to cum in your pussy.
33. If using a condom, use a new one each time you fuck and bring them all home to show your husband.
34. Tell your lover to make your panties soaking wet so you can show your husband.
35. Play with the idea of having your hubby eat your pussy after your date or kiss you after a blowjob. You might not think it, but when in the act both tend to find it very hot.
36. BONUS: Let your lover cum in your pussy and put your panties on immediately. Go home, lay on the bed, and spread your legs showing your husband your cum soaked panties.
37. Tell your husband every detail. You decide if your husband deserves a blow job, hand job, let him fuck you, or make him jerk off.
38. Make your husband use a condom to fuck you. Or don’t. Make him be your sloppy seconds.
39. MAKE HIM WATCH: It’s not going to be easy to find a guy who is okay with hubby watching. This is often best done if it’s someone you have been fucking so you and your lover are both comfortable. The three hottest moments of the first encounter hubby sees is watch your date slowly undress you, watching his cock enter you for the first time, and cum dripping out of you.
40. Introduce your lover: “Hubby, this is Mark. He knows how to fuck me and he’s going to show you how I like it.” Or “what do you want him to do to me?”
41. Have him sit outside the bedroom door and listen “Sorry, you can’t watch but we’ll let you listen”. Then make it loud!
42. Have hubby hold you while you get fucked.
43. Have your husband pull aside your panties while your lover eats your pussy.
44. Have your husband take off your panties for your lover.
45. Alternative: Make sure your panties are wet and put them on your husband’s head.
46. Or fuck with your panties on so they are wet and cum soaked. Visually, women look hot fucking with the panties pulled aside. Plus, you’ll get more cum in them for later tips.
47. Ride your lover’s cock so your hubby can see from behind. Great in video too.
48. Tell your husband he can’t touch himself. BONUS: strap him to a chair.
49. Look in your husband’s eyes as you’re fucked from behind.
50. Moan loud. Tell him how good you’re being fucked.
51. Wear your wedding ring and have your lover cum on it.
52. BONUS: Have your lover do something to you that your husband doesn’t: “Fuck my ass”, etc.
53. Have your hubby rent a hotel room and send him out for drinks when you have a “guest”. He’ll come back to you getting fucked.
***Other adventures:
54. Fuck several men. Make some more frequent but keep options. Fuck other men AT LEAST once a week. Your hubby will want to fuck you immediately, so be prepared for lots of sex.
55. Have your husband drive you to your lovers house.
56. Fuck your lover all night and call your husband to pick you up in the morning only to fuck your lover once more while he waits.
57. Kiss your lover as you leave and tell him you can’t wait to fuck again.
58. Tell your husband to thank your lover for fucking you.
59. Have your husband wait outside your lovers house while you fuck.
60. Tell your hubby to undress you for your lover.
61. Fuck your lover at home and leave your panties, a condom, or other memento on his side of the bed.
62. Fuck your lover on your wedding anniversary. Bonus if you’re wearing bridal lingerie. I planned this for a weekend getaway. My husband watched as I wore white panties that said “bride” on the back and white leggings for three rounds of fucking in our hotel room.
62. Fuck your lover on your husband’s side of the bed while he’s at work. Send pics and video.
63. Suck your lover’s cock and send a pic of the cum in your mouth to your husband.
64. Have your husband rent a room for you and your lover for the weekend. Count the number of times you cum and tell hubby. Must send pics!
65. Tell your husband he can’t fuck you until you’ve fucked X number of guys or X number of times.
66. Let your lover do things to you that you don’t do with your husband (cum in your ass, threesome with two guys). All the reason for private sessions without hubby.
67. Speaking of 3somes. Try two guys at once.
68. Wear panties with slutty messages (Return to Husband Full, Make a Mess My Hubby Will Clean It Up, Fuck Me Harder Than My Husband). Show this to men you’re flirting with in front of your hubby: Unzip and show message “what do you think of these?” I have some that say “my hubby won’t mind” at the top of the butt that I let guys see when in bars or a dance club.
***ADVANCED:
69. BIG BONUS AND VERY HOT. HE DOESN’T KNOW IT YET BUT THIS IS A BIG TURNON: When you come home with your panties full of cum, take them off, put on something sexy, and put the creamy panties on his head so your lover’s cum drips on him. Just do it. Nothing tells him you got well fucked like cum in your panties. VERY HOT.
70. Or…lay him on the ground while wearing the panties and rub your crotch on his face. Very very hot. He might just eat your pussy. I’m getting wet thinking about it.
71. Or…if using condoms, empty them in your panties and put them on his head.
72. When doing this, rub his cock and tell him how good you got fucked and tell him he needs to see and feel how good the cum was that was inside you. Tell him to feel your well used pussy.
73. When fucking in front of your hubby, make him wear your panties.
74. Blow your lover and swallow, but leave some on your lips. Tongue kiss your hubby.
***If your hubby REALLY deserves to be teased. You are in control and he WILL do what you say.
74. If your husband is watching, tell your lover to make a mess of your pussy because your husband will clean it up. Then sit on him when you’re done and let it leak all over him. His legs, chest, even his face.
75. BONUS: make him eat your pussy whether or not you used condoms. If you came home from a date, tell hubby to pull your panties aside and eat your pussy, especially if he cheated with X. Tell him how good you got fucked. Just tell him to do it and he will do it. YOU MAKE THE RULES.
76. Make a list of consequences. Checked a girl out: You get a Tinder date. Watched porn: you’re free to be a porn star with another man for the day. Flirted with a girl: You fuck five guys. One nighters, all weekend, your ex, someone you both know. Anyone you want and you make the rules. Even if he has to fly you somewhere to fuck someone all week. Updates and pics are required.
77. Spanking.
***Clearly there a humiliation factor that you both will get off to. Men knowing they are fucking his wife, you fucking men you both know. Maybe a friend knowing. Spanking (naughty boys deserve it). Your lover’s cum on hubby. Your lovers being told to show hubby how you like it. Have fun with this. It will make the experience stronger.
78. The hotwife 69. Get in the 69 position with your hubby but have your lover fuck you so your hubby has a great view just inches from your pussy.
79. ADVANCED: Strap-on play.
80. Wear a Hotwife anklet. Guaranteed to get attention of men in the know.
81. Have a friend spank your hubby. I have a friend who is a bit kinky and knows about our lifestyle. She felt my hubby needed punishment for flirting with a mutual friend years ago. I brought a guy home on girls night and she spanked my hubby, with my lovers belt, as I was getting fucked by my lover. I came out with the belt and handed it to her. After a while I came out with my soaking wet panties for him to wear and she sparked him. Of course you need a friend you can trust for this one.
***This Hotwife activity has brought us closer. We are more open sexually and satisfied. After all, I get many times more sex than ever. Sex with my husband is frequent. HAVE FUN!
One of the best ways to warm up a woman into the concept of becoming a slutwife is roleplaying. Roleplaying can be a big turn on for both men and women and can be done pretty safely. It opens up the mind to possibilities and new concepts. As mentioned before, roleplaying can be used as a lead-up to asking her to become a slutwife.
Today we will talk about roleplaying, but this is not your normal roleplaying. this is roleplaying with a slight twist to it, you will roleplay being someone else while she remains the same person, your wife. The only role she will play is that she is herself as a slutwife. I say again, in the scenarios below, she is only roleplaying the role of herself as a slutwife, and not that she is someone else. That is, she remains your wife in each scenario, while you roleplay being someone else. These scenarios work best after you have told your wife you want her to be a slutwife, but they can work as a warm-up to asking her as well.
1. You Are Her Crush - As mentioned before, you should ask her and know who is her crush. This could be someone from her past or a celebrity. It doesn’t matter. You will roleplay that you are that person she has always had a crush on and create a scenario where your wife bumps into him in private. They will agree to meet at a hotel room alone. Her role will be to let loose for her crush and have the sex of her life with him. Constantly ask her to scream his name as you fuck or eat her out, and do not break out of character. While in character, tell her her husband is a lucky guy to have such a sexy slut for a wife. Once you are both done, have her leave the room and head home. You will wait for her at home and ask her how things went with her crush. Feel free to pleasure her again and tell her how much you enjoyed the experience.
2. She is an Escort - For this scenario, you have become completely dependent on her due to unforeseen circumstances, the entire family is in trouble, the economy collapsed, and she needs to go into prostitution or escorting to make things work. For her role as an escort, get a room and call her to hire her services. Ask her to dress extra slutty and go meet you at the room. Important, she must get there on her own, like an escort would, don’t give her a ride. You can watch her get dressed for her client, but you must be in the hotel room before her waiting for her. Once she gets there, remember that you are just a client. Ask for her name, ask her to model for you, and tell her what to do every step of the way. Ask her if she us married, has kids, etc., and if her husband knows she is an escort. Of course, give her a really good fucking. Have her do something she does not normally do for you as a husband, suck you, anal, etc., and have her scream your name as you fuck her (different name than your real name). Finish by telling her that you will be in town once or twice a month and that you will be hiring her services to perform that act she does not normally do for you as a husband. Have her set a date on her calender for her next appointment. She will drive herself home as an escort finishing her job, and you wait at home asking how things went.
3. She is a Prostitute - Similar to the escort, have her dress slutty again, only this time have her drive to some random street and stand in a corner. Let her embrace standing dressed sexy in a corner a few minutes before driving up and asking her for her name and prices. Ask her to model for you and what she does for different prices. Pick her up and drive her to a cheap motel. Have her get off and rent a room by herself looking like a prostitute. Proceed to giving her a good fucking as a client would fuck a street hooker. Ensure you have her do something she normally won’t do for you and have her scream your made up name as you fuck her. Once you are both completely satisfied, tell her she has been a good hoe for you and you will start picking her up in that corner a few times a month. Have her check out of the room as a slut and drop her off in her corner. Leave her there a few minutes as she waits for her next client. Scenario does not end until she gets home and tells you about her workday.
4. The Bar Hookup - For this scenario, she will dress sexy to go out to the bar/club in another city. She will hang out at the bar and hangout for a while while you watch from a distance. You will eventually approach and buy her a drink. Ask her name, where she is from, etc, while you give her your fake identity. You start flirting and feeling her up a bit, touch her, and make out with her. Take her to the backseat of your car and have her give you a blow job and eat her out. If feasible, fuck her in the backseat. If not, get a room. Scenario does not end until she gets home and tells you all about her night out.
5. The Student and Teacher - For this scenario, ask your wife if she ever had a crush on one of her teachers or who was her hottest one. Once she tells you about it, you will roleplay that she will be taking a few college courses. Of course, you are her teacher which happens to be her old teacher. Since she is failing, she must take extreme measures to ensure she passes. So the day of the scenario she will dress extra sexy for her class. She will approach you as her teacher and confess how hot she has always thought you were. Then she will ask if you (her teacher) have ever found her attractive which will be a yes. She will then proceed to getting on her knees and giving you a blow job while asking for your help with passing the class. You will receive the blowjob and tell her to meet you in a hotel room for personal tutoring. She will meet you in the hotel room dressed very sexy and have sex with you while screaming your name (teacher’s name). Once you are both satisfied, you will tell her she will continue to pass as long as she attends her scheduled tutoring sessions. The scenario does not end until she gets home and tells you all about her school day.
6. Boss and Secretary - For this scenario, you will ask for the name of her current boss. If she is unemplyed, she can use the name of any boss she had in the past and liked, or the name of your own boss. Again, dire circumstances have come to the family and she needs a job or promotion. She will wear her work attire but make is sexier and wear lingerie underneath. She will go and ask you (her boss) for what she needs and proceed to undress for him as she tells him how she is willing to do anything. You (the boss) will start feeling her up and get a blowjob from her. You will then ask her to meet you at a hotel to continue the conversation. She will meet you there and let you have you way with her as she screams the name of her boss. Once you get what you want, tell her she got the job/promotion but that she will need to be available to extra duties and overtime at work and the hotel room. The scenario does not end until she gets home and tells you how her work day went and what her new duties will be.
7. The Doctor and Patient - You are her doctor and she is your patient. She comes to your office because she seems to not be able to get pregnant and needs your help. She tells you of her family plans with her husband of having a baby but that she can’t seem to get pregnant. You (the doctor) will then proceed to asking her to undress and inspecting her body liberally. Touch her thighs, butt, boobs, everything. Have her sit and check her mouth, looking inside and putting your fingers inside of it to get a feel of her throat and gag reflex. Then you will move down to her breasts, asking her to remove her blouse and bra. Ask her to lift her breasts with her hands, to squeeze them, to pull them apart, pull them together, the proceed to groping them as you please. You will ask her questions about her breasts, as you grope them, like her current bra size, age she developed them, if she has ever lactated, etc then proceed to suck on each to check for any lactation. She will then remove her pants and panties and lay back and open her legs wide. You will then inspect her pussy, touching her clitoris, labia, and pushing fingers inside of her. Ask her questions about her sexual life as you probe her, how often she has sex, largest dick she has ever taken in her pussy, which areas she enjoys having touched more, how many fingers she can fit inside, etc. Eat her pussy and taste it to see if everything seems fine. After you are done, tell her she seems perfectly fit to be bred and it is likely her husband just hasnt been able to breed her. Tell her that you will start her on a breeding treatment immediately and she should see results soon if she commits to it. Once she accepts the treatment, proceed to fucking her. The scenario does not end until she gets home and tells you all about her doctor’s visit.
8. The Admirer - Most women have at least one man that likes them or wants to fuck them wether they are married or not. Odds are, she knows it too. This guy could be a friend, ex, coworker, neighbor, etc. you know guys out there want her and would fuck her. The mission here is knowing who seems the most obvious, that you and her recognize. Have her talk about if any guys have hit on her lately or someone who seems flirty or is always checking her out. Once you have identified who wants her, the scenario is simple. You will be out of town and your wife will then ask that admirer (you) to come keep her company. She will obviously dress in casual yet slutty clothes to wear for his stay. He is allowed to be as forward with her as he wants, and she is to remain flirty at all times. He may feel her up randomly around the house and she will let him, but no sex yet. They can go out, to the movies, dancing, to the mall, etc., but she will dress sexy for him and only acknowledge you (by his name). He is allowed to touch her freely at all times and she must remain flirty. At the end of the day, she will go to the guest bedroom wearing her sexiest lingerie and invite him to come over and sleep with her in her bed since her husband is gone. She will start by giving him a blowjob then letting him fuck her as much as he wants and thanking him for spending the night with her when her husband isn’t home. The next morning, she will have sex with him again and thank him again. The scenario does not end until you leave the house and come back later as her husband. She will tell you all about her day and night with her admirer.
These are a few roleplay scenarios to play with your wife that work well to her warming up to becoming a slutwife. As mentioned before, it is important that she remains herself during the scenarios while you roleplay being a completely different person. We finish each scenario with her coming hime to telling you about her experience to double up on the idea of her having had sex with another man, ensure she feels in role and sexualized all throughout the experience of being with another man, and to ensure her that her sleeping with other men is something you both and enjoy as a sexual adventure without drama.
These scenarios are designed to give her a feel a being sexual with other men under different circumstances as well as using her sexuality to get what she wants. They should start to ease her into the possibilities and open her up to acting out more fantasies (and realities) involving her and other men. In essence, she is practicing her life as a slutwife.
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For years, the idea of my sexy wife being with another man had been a fantasy of mine. At first, it was just a passing thought, something that I couldn’t ever see becoming a reality. After all, I love Melissa very much, and she is my wife. Only a husband is supposed to make love to his wife. Right?
And while I have never been skillful bed, our sexual encounters were pleasant and comfortable. But as the years moved on, my fantasy grew stronger, until I could no longer keep it to myself. I finally mustered up enough courage to tell her about it.
She was not shocked by the idea, but initially blew it off as a fleeting whim. But when I brought it up a second time, she told me I shouldn’t play with fire. She said, “Dear, you better be careful what you wish for. If you keep pushing for it, it will happen. And there’s no telling where it will go once it starts.”
I said, “But it’s all I can think about.”
She touched my cheek and replied, “Okay, dear. But I am warning you. The reality may not be as good at the fantasy.”
I couldn’t believe that she was willing to do it. After a few seconds of thinking about it, she said, “If we do this, it must be with a friend. I have no interest in being with a stranger.” My face went pale. “But one thing you should know. I am not into one-night stands. Once this starts, you will have to ride it out. Think long and hard about this. Be sure this is what you want.”
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This is a mix of all the best questions I’ve come across on here, with a few new ones suggested by my mutuals.
They’re are all in a random order so you won’t know which ones are being asked…
And they’re meant to gender neutral and for all ranges of experiences! (Let me know if any aren’t and I can edit it)
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Tag your biggest tumblr crush.
Do you eat ass? Do you like to have your ass eaten?
Have you washed your hands since you last had an orgasm?
Have you ever posted a nude to your own blog?
What’s the best orgasm you’ve had in the past few months?
Have you ever masturbated to someone you know who isn’t your partner?
What’s the soonest after meeting someone that you’ve slept with them?
What position or angle or specific technique never fails to make you cum?
When was the last time you watched porn?
What is the hottest thing someone has ever done with you in bed?
Do you prefer tongue or fingers?
Are you a top/dominant a bottom/submissive or a switch?
Have you ever had your own underwear in your mouth? Have you ever had someone else’s underwear in your mouth? Has your underwear ever been in someone else’s mouth?
What’s your go-to nude pic to send to someone. Describe the angle, lighting, body part etc.
Do you ever suck on a dildo while you masturbate?
Do you have a sideblog? Is it more or less NSFW than this one? Is it secret or can we see it?
Has anyone ever watched you masturbate live online? Have you ever watched someone masturbate live online?
Do you have anyone from Tumblr’s nudes on your phone right now?
What underwear do you have on right now?
What’s the most surprising discovery you’ve made about your own body?
Has a neighbour ever seen you naked? Did you like it?
What’s the hottest sex dream you’ve ever had?
Have you ever watched people having sex?
Are you open about your sex-life and sexuality?
Does anyone you know in real life know about this blog?
Do you have any of your own nudes on your phone right now?
When was the last time you had sex?
Have you ever masturbated to any of your friends? Do you think any of your friends have ever masturbated to you?
Describe a typical masturbation session.
How do you feel about threesomes? Have you ever had one, and if not, would you ever have one?
What’s something that turns you on, but you’re a bit embarrassed by?
What is the wildest fantasy you ever had that actually came true?
Have you ever gotten turned on at work (or while WFH)? What did you do about it?
Do you listen to audio porn?
Which one of your holes do you most want to be filled right now?
Are you loud or quiet when you masturbate?
Do you own any toys? What’s your favourite?
Have you ever confessed to someone that you got turned on by them? What about masturbated to them?
Do you have anyone else’s nudes on your phone right now?
Have you ever hooked up with a stranger or had a one-night stand?
Do you like being called a slut or whore in bed?
Have you ever been caught or walked in on while masturbating? Have you ever been caught or walked in on while fucking?
How do you feel about swinging or partner swapping? Does the idea turn you on?
Have you ever masturbated to a mutual’s selfies before? Tag them if you dare.
What’s the kinkiest thing you’ve ever asked someone to do while sexting?
Has anyone ever watched you masturbate in person? Have you ever watched someone masturbate in person?
If you had 5 mins alone to get yourself off right now, without your phone, what would you do and what would you imagine?
Have you ever sent a nude via DM here?
What’s a sex act you think is overrated? What’s a sex act you think is underrated?
When did you last have an orgasm? How did it happen?
Do you shave your pubic hair?
How often do you masturbate?
Where’s the most unusual place you’ve masturbated?
What’s the most amount of times you’ve orgasmed in a day?
Have you ever been so turned on that someone noticed?
Have you ever masturbated with someone?
Have you ever gotten cum on your clothes before? Did anyone see that shouldn’t have?
Have you showered since you last had an orgasm?
Who’s the most inappropriate person you’ve ever had a fantasy about?
Have you tasted yourself? If so, what did you think?
Have you ever masturbated to someone you know’s selfies before?
How long do you usually masturbate before you cum?
What’s the weirdest porn category you’ve ever searched for?
Are you noisy?
What are your top five favourite blogs to masturbate to? Tag them!
Describe your nipples. What colour are they? What size are they?
If you had 5 mins alone to get yourself off with porn right now, what would you type in the search bar?
What is your favourite pair of underwear like? When did you last wear them? Was it special occasion?
Are you masturbating right now?
Would you like to watch your partner have sex with another person? Would you like to have your partner watch you with another person?
Start typing out your dirtiest fantasy you can think of and don’t stop til you get so embarrassed you can’t go on any longer. Just make sure it’s actually something you’re into!
Would you ever fuck a couple?
Would you do a cum-walk?
Have you ever had an orgasm that you weren’t expecting?
What’s the messiest you’ve ever got when masturbating on your own?
Have you ever worn lingerie?
If you could fuck anyone at all right now, who would it be? Do you know them in real life? Do they know you like them?
Which mutual would you most like to fuck right now? Do they know? Tag them if you dare!
What’s the last object you put into your own body for sexual reasons?
Do you have any recurring fantasies you keep coming back to? Do you think they’ll ever happen?
Where’s the most unusual place you’ve had sex? Did you cum?
Have you ever been made to/made somebody beg for it?
What’s your dirtiest secret?
What’s the most embarrassing porn you like to watch?
Have you ever put your finger in your own ass?
Do you like slapping someone’s face? Do you like your face being slapped?
Have you ever used panties to masturbate?
Do you have sex dreams? If yes, when was the last one?
Have you ever slid into someone’s DMs? Did it work? If yes, what was your technique?
Who is the coolest person you follow here? Tag them.
What is your sexual orientation?
Have you ever fucked in public? Where was it? Did you get caught?
Do you have any piercings or tattoos?
Describe your body in a way that would turn us on.
Do you like being tied up?
What’s the kinkiest thing you’ve ever asked someone to do in real life?
What was your most shame-filled orgasm? Why?
What’s the messiest you’ve ever gotten during sex?
Admit something sexual that you’ve never told anyone else before.
Put your hand into your underwear right now and type a reply to this with your other hand. Say whatever you want, so long as you’re touching yourself as you type.
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Make her say good things about herself while you fuck her. Associate her pleasure with self confidence. Condition that bitch to love herself. 🥵🥵🥵
Today has been a fun day. I spent time at the pool trying to make as many friends as possible. I was quite friendly with one of the hosts and he was very sweet to me all day. My husband told me that I should offer to suck his dick for being so nice. Unfortunately he turned down my invitation (girlfriend excuse). It was hot to openly proposition him though.
A young guy was eying me at the pool all day. As he was leaving he asked for my number. I was disappointed he didn’t talk to me earlier. I love a mid-20s military man. I returned to my chair and suddenly he came back a bit later, grabbed me by the neck and just laid a kiss on me. He told me he had been wanting to do that all day. He then sat for a minute. He couldn’t get up because his dick was too hard in his swim trunks. I didn’t help by reaching over and rubbing it more. He kept trying to push it down and it popped back up. He finally calmed down and said he better see me later.
The night is off to a great start. I had a meet up last night with a 26 year old. We spent time at the bar sharing drinks and groping each other. I was impressed enough with what I felt. Due to the time, I didn’t want to miss out on heading out to the bars so we agreed to get back together today.
We met again for a quick drink and headed up to my room. He was infatuated with me and wanted to take some photos together so he could remember. He then picked me up and put me on the bed and began eating my pussy. I needed to taste him and he slid up to my chest and fed me his cock. He reached back and finger my soaking wet pussy while I continued to suck him. I shifted him to his back so I could show off my deepthroat skills. I stuffed both his balls in my mouth and he was in awe.
I wanted to be covered in his cum and he shifted me to my knees. He jerked his big load all over my tits and used his cock to spread it all over.
I’m all cleaned up and heading out now to hopefully find round two. Cross your fingers I run into some hot groups.
I will always answer the phone when he calls me in the middle of cheating.
Telling my boyfriend that I love him, and that I miss him, while shamelessly lying to him about where I am and what I'm doing... just makes the joy of violating his boundaries and betraying his trust even more intense and satisfying.
If he only knew what was being done to me, while I fill his mind with false reassurances that nothing abnormal is happening... he would be shocked, devastated, and completely broken. The thought of this just makes my already blissful moans twice as deep, and twice as loud.
Have you ever slept naked?
What's your bra size, or dick length?
Where was or would you want your first time to be and why?
Have you ever shown anyone your body parts and asked advice?
Have you ever seen any of your relatives naked?
Do you prefer doing it in the dark or in the light?
What's your greatest fantasy?
Would you suck on anyone's toes?
Where do you think would be the weirdest place to have sex?
Would you have sex there?
What and who turns you on?
What celebrity would you have sex with?
Whose the sexiest male you know?
Whose the sexiest female you know?
How many people would you have sex with at once?
Have you ever put on a strip show?
Have you ever seen a strip show?
Have you ever seen any of your friends naked?
Have you ever had a fantasy about a teacher?
Have you ever gone skinny dipping?
If you could be a spice what would it be?
Have you ever worn your underwear two days in a row?
Have you ever compared your body parts to someone else's while you were both naked?
Have you ever took a piss standing up or squatting in the woods?
What was the weirdest place you have ever done something with someone?
Have you parents ever caught you doing anything?
Have you ever caught them?
Would you ever have sex in the ocean?
Have you ever gotten sand up you?
Have you ever run or walked around your house nude?
What do you wear to bed?
Have you ever done anything with someone in your parents bed?
Would you ever consider rubbing hot oil or cream all over your guy or girl?
Have you ever used lubricant?
Have you ever taken off your bra or underwear on a main road?
Would you ever do anything on a Ferris wheel?
Have you ever tasted cum or female juice?
How old were you when you got your first real kiss?
Have you ever done anything with anyone in a pool, hot tub, or bath tub?
Have you ever tied up or hand cuffed anybody?
Were you a witness to someone having sex?
Would you ever have phone sex?
Would you ever do anyone in a tree?
Would you ever have sex with your best friend?
Would you have sex withsomeone you don't even know?
Do you find physical pain like spanking an element of good sex?
Do you find older women attractive?
Do you find older men attractive?
Would you rather have sex with or without a condom?
Who was the person you kissed that was the best?
What excuse would you give your parents if they caught you having sex?
What color is your pubic hair?
Does your hair color match the color of your pubic hair?
Have you ever opened your eyes while making out?
How many people have you slept with?
Have you ever had anal sex?
Where on your body is your favourite place to be touched?
When was the last time you had a dirty dream?
If you could have sex anywhere in the world, where would it be?
What’s the best sex you’ve ever had?
What’s your favourite position?
Name a sex position you’d like to try
What was your best orgasm ever?
Have you ever sent nudes of yourself?
Are you loud or quiet during sex?
Have you ever tried using food during foreplay?
Have you ever made a sex tape?
What’s the first thing that sexually attracts you to someone?
When it comes to BDSM, how far have you gone/would go?
Do you ever read erotic fiction?
What’s your favourite toy?
Have you joined the mile high club?
Would you say you’re kinky?
Do you enjoy shower sex?
Where’s the weirdest place you’ve ever masturbated?
Do you like to be spanked?
What was your most embarrassing sexual experience?
Have you ever fantasised about someone else during sex?
Have you ever cried or fallen asleep during sex?
Do you prefer eye contact or not during sex?
Do you like to kiss during sex?
Do you get tired after sex?
What’s a surefire way to turn you on?
Do you like dirty talk?
Have you had sex in a car?
Do you like sexting?
What’s the shortest and longest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm?
Have you ever masturbated in front of your partner?
Have you ever been choked during sex?
Have you ever had a friend with benefits?
Have you ever worn lingerie?
Have you ever had sex outdoors?
Have you ever watched porn with someone?
Have you ever kissed multiple people in one night?
Have you ever had sex in a bathroom stall?
Have you ever tasted yourself?
Have you ever worn a butt plug?
Have you ever used a sex swing?
Have you ever had sex in a classroom or office?
Have you ever gone skinny dipping?
Have you ever been pinned down?
Have you ever had sex while drunk?
Have you ever had sex while high?
Have you ever orgasmed five times in one day?
Have you ever had morning sex?
Have you ever eaten food off of your lover’s naked body?
Have you ever used hot wax?
Have you ever worn crotchless underwear?
Have you ever had sex on the floor?
Have you ever had sex in front of a mirror?
What is your favorite porn category?
Do you like to have sex outdoors?
How long do you like foreplay to last?
Do you prefer being the dominant one or the submissive one?
Do you prefer rough or gentle sex?
Do you make noises during sex?