I’m Only Getting Prettier

2020 will be my year 💅🏾

Screening

Here’s the information I request on my contact form, and how I use it.

Required information is marked with an asterisk*

*First name

*Middle name

*Last name

*Email address

*Phone number

*Do you prefer texting or calling?

Texting 

Calling

Either

*Provider References

Please provide the name, email, website address or ad link, and contact number for AT LEAST TWO currently active companions, and the dates you last saw them. 

Age

Employment Verification (REQUIRED if you have less than two provider references, STRONGLY RECOMMENDED otherwise)

Employer’s name, your position/title, company phone number, your direct line or extension, and story for me to use when I call (or other way for me to verify employment, such as an employee photo ID badge)

*Appointment Date and Time

*Appointment Duration

P411/TER/localboard/Datecheck Info

Outift request (not guaranteed)

*What are you looking to get out of our date?

*Where did you find me?

Is there anything else you’d like to tell me?

RECOMMENDED Driver’s License Upload

OPTIONAL Face Photo Upload

How I use this information:

Google their name, both with and without quotes around their name (quotation marks tell the engine to search specifically for that exact phrase, not similar phrases)

Google their email address, both with and without quotations

Google their phone number, both with and without quotations

Plug their phone number and email address into the search feature of my local board to see if they’ve ever been blacklisted

Go to your state’s courts website, and search their court records database for his name. If your state separates their database by county, search for your county, his county, and a few surrounding counties. In my state, all superior court cases are available to view. You can see what pleading/motion was filed, and when, as well as the final judgment. You do have to pay to request the actual documents to see their contents, and you probably cannot do this anonymously (in my county, you have to call the county clerk’s office). In my state, district and municipal cases cannot be viewed, but they will still show up in the search results. Your state may be different. 

Search for them on Facebook. Often their wives or children have much more of their profiles publicly visible. 

Search for any information on their family members. 

(I will be buying a Spokeo subscription soon, so I can plug all their info into here, as well)

Google the providers (normally Googling their name and city will pop them up if they have any sort of online presence). Or just find them based on the info he gave you.

See what kind of reputation those providers have. What to they charge? Do they have any rob reports or bad reviews posted of them? Do they look like they have their shit together? Do they have their own website? Does it look nice? Are there a ton of typos? Having your own website legitimizes you. Do they have professional photos, or are they bathroom selfies?

Contact the providers. I start off by emailing them. “Hi Jessica, this is Foxxxy. Billy Joe is requesting a date with me and used you as a reference. Can you please tell me if he was safe, clean and respectful? Would you recommend him to another provider? Anything else you can tell me about him and his personality I would very much appreciate! Best, Foxxxy.” I follow up with a text. “Hi Jessica, this is Foxxxy. I just sent you an email with a reference request. If you could get back to me promptly, I would really appreciate it!” 

See what they say. Duh. 

Contact his employer. The one time I called a client’s company, it was quite well-known and Google-able. I called the main company line, and asked to be connected to the president of _____. He was already en route on the plane, but I was able to hear his voice during his voicemail recording. A simple phone call to his cell phone would match up his voice, verifying he does work there. I have had a few clients send me photos of their photo ID badge (military personnel, for example). 

Obviously check to see how many Okay’s they have, or if they’re on the whitelists for the hobby IDs they provided you. Search their usernames/IDs to see if anything negative pops up. 

If they sent you a photo of their driver’s license: search Google Maps for the address on the card. Do they live in a nice part of town? Google the address. Has it popped up on Zillow lately? Any homeowner info pop up? You might be able to search their driver’s license number, either by Googling or going to your state highway patrol site, though I haven’t tried this myself.

If they sent you a photo of their face: reverse Google image search that shit! Also reverse search for it on TinEye. Do they look friendly? 

This sounds like a lot, but doesn’t take all too long once you get the hang of it. This doesn’t guarantee your safety, but it sure does reduce the risk of an assault or an arrest. 

Be careful ladies this is why you always screen the person. I instantly found it number as a predator on not just this site but many others. Stay safe ladies 💕

I now have a favorite client.

250 deposit and 750 in cash later.

Not only did he comply with my screening. He sent over my deposit. The only pet peeve is that I had to ask for the donation up front. (Which is annoying) but other then that it’s all good. He was awkward at first but I slowly warmed up to him and we had an amazing conversation.

Thank you Mr L. Hope to see you again soon ♥️

Are you a green witch?💵💸💰This is a money spell: sending good vibes so you can pay your bills and buy something nice. Like to charge, Reblog to cast!

Feeling discouraged

I’ve been feeling discouraged lately. Idk if business is slow. But the slowness is making me feel insecure.

Hi How are you? I was wondering have ever heard or worked in Monaco before? I heard a lot women go there around grand prix or Cannes?

A lot of women go to both the Cannes Film Festival and the Monaco Grand Prix. It can literally be the biggest payday of the year for an escort, can set a sugarbaby up with a whale (or two) and for girls that just want to live the jetset life, it can give them a mile long list of contacts. As long as you go in with a solid game plan, I highly recommend going to both events if you’re into this type of lifestyle. 

And although you didn’t ask, I have to talk more about this because I love the French Riviera so much. So in no particular order here are my suggestions, tips, opinions, etc:

The “route” works like this: Cannes for the Film Festival (it comes first, around the middle of May) then Monaco for the Grand Prix (it happens at the end of May) and then you can leave and go home but in my opinion while you’re in the area you may as well make a visit to St Tropez lol. If you really have your heart set on staying in Cannes or Monaco, book your accommodations as far in advance as you can. Both the Festival de Cannes and the Formula One are really good at posting next year’s dates super early (usually not to long after that year’s event has taken place) so be on the lookout and book early. Book your hotel first, then your airfare. Hotels can get ungodly expensive right before the events. 

Now if you don’t care about staying in Cannes or Monaco (and honestly, you shouldn’t, especially if this is your first time) or if you’re on a budget, stay in either Nice or Antibes. Now, if it were me, I would stay in Antibes. Antibes is about a 10 minute train ride from Cannes and quite a few celebrities (and other affluent people) stay in Antibes instead of Cannes during the film festival. FYI: the hotel they usually stay at is Hotel du Cap at Eden Roc, and while it’s most likely booked solid by now if you’re really into celebrity spotting, you can always go for lunch or a spa treatment (just make a reservation). Hell you could probably go for breakfast, they start serving at 7:30 lmao. Wherever you choose to stay remember the hotel room should mainly be functioning as your storage/dressing room. Don’t spend too much time in the room or the hotel itself. Store your belongings. Change into your clothes. Sleep (but the “sleeping” part is up to you. Depending on who you meet and your game plan, you may not be sleeping in your hotel room at all lol).

If you’re staying outside of Cannes/Monaco do not take the bus. Let me repeat that, do not take the bus. Don’t do it to yourself, you’ll have a headache by the end of the day. It literally takes like 2 hours to get anywhere during this time of the year if you’re on the bus. Take the train, it only costs a few dollars more and if you’re in Antibes it will get you to Cannes in 10 mins, Nice to Cannes in about 25 mins. Now when it comes time to “work” in Monaco, you may want to stay in Nice because the transport time is shorter, about 15 mins I think. Antibes to Monaco can be anywhere from about 35 mins to 1 hour. Still not bad though.   

Know whether or not you’re going to approach this as a sugar baby or as an escort because you will get propositioned. This is of course what you want if you’re an escort, but not so much if you’re a sugar baby. So know “your role” before you go. Not only will it make things a lot easier but it will keep you from looking naive. 

Speaking of naive…know your rates/allowance in both euro and american dollars. 

Speaking of rates… if you’re an escort, know what you’re going to charge for half a day, a full day, overnights, weekend, etc. Most men when they go to events like this do not want to be with someone for just an hour or two. 

Look on point at all times. *takes a deep breath*  LOOK ON POINT AT ALL TIMES!!! Sis, when you step out of that hotel room or from that train, you better be slaying. There will be competition. Girls from all over the world flock to the film festival and the grand prix because of the amount of wealth that surrounds these kinds of events - the amount of money and luxury you see is almost surreal at times. 

It never hurts to have business cards (but only if you’re escorting and make sure they’re discreet).

If you don’t know anything at all about the film festival or the grand prix, read about it while you’re on the plane/train. It’s always a good idea to be informed. You don’t need to know everything but at least know some of the highlights of the festival and who won the grand prix last year.

I don’t know if this will be your first time attending either event/location but if it is, visit with reasonable expectations. There are some girls that visit these places and think that they’re going to end up on the arm of Leo while walking the red carpet by the next day….

Now, I will say that usually the ones that end up disappointed are the sugar babies/jet set girls because they put their focus on the wrong thing. Their focus should be on networking and making contacts so they can begin forming relationships with affluent men, potential whales and like minded ladies.  

Escorts and their expectations are a bit different. I personally don’t know anyone who didn’t make back their money plus some when they went (unless they had some insane expectations - which has happened) but that’s because the escort’s goal is usually “I need/want to make X amount of dollars by the end of this week”. A sugar’s goal should be “I want to meet potential sponsors and begin relationships with them”.

Some girls get caught up in the glitz and fanfare and lose sight of the bigger picture. 

And this post has already gotten so long and I’m not done. Stay tuned for part 2 lol. 

Keep your goals and news to yourself no matter how little or big. You speak too soon and it’ll all go downhill. Trust me on this. People are out there waiting to give you the evil eye. Manifest your success in silence, let your results speak for themselves. No one can touch you once you’ve accomplished what you desired.

Where are all the hoes at? 🤣

I just had my first virtual session tonight.

I was legit looking up shit on google to talk about with this man 😂