Waxingwitch - 🌒🌓 Maisie Muffin 🌔🌕

literally cannot comprehend how society succeeded in making people feel insecure about stretch marks. in my humble and correct dyke opinion stretch marks are one of the fucking hottest features someone could possibly have on their body. have you ever traced your fingers along a gorgeous row of stretch marks, taking in the exquisite sight and lovely texture, enjoying the wonderful little noises the other person makes as a delicate touch graces such a sensitive area of skin? literally don't know if i'd ever truly lived before getting to have this experience for the first time.

stretch marks should be touched and kissed and shown nothing but the greatest admiration and love at all times. i am correct about this.

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just some lolz

By the way, I know some of you get off on the whole getting fat will give you diabetes thing and that's fine but make sure you understand that it's not true and don't drag it into real life please. If you need more explanation and help interpreting the evidence have a look at Dr Asher's work here. Perpetuating the myth outside of your fantasies directly leads to worse health outcomes for the people affected.

The Fat Doctor

Home - The Fat Doctor

Part-time GP who is challenging the stereotypes surrounding weight loss, physical well-being and mental health. Very much a work in progress

Vanilla Blueberry Layer Cake with Blueberry Cardamom Curd

if you could give only one piece of for beginner feedees, what would it be?

I’m assuming you want one piece of advice! Here’s my response:

You have to be okay with being fat on your own.

I think some feedees get caught up in the fantasy of having a partner that is a feeder that will stay with them forever and never leave them. While that is the case for quite a few people, you still have to keep your relationships grounded in reality. People break up, people die, people move on and grow apart. A feeder is not bound to you just because they helped make you fat. A feedist relationship is still a relationship. That’s why, if you decide to enter a feedist relationship, you need to seriously consider what will happen if your relationship doesnt work out. Will you be okay with being significantly fatter without a partner in the picture? Will you be okay existing as a fat person without the validation of a partner reassuring you how attractive you are? Will your mental health remain stable?

Unfortunately, no matter how hot you think it is, there are real life social/health/political/familial/daily consequences to voluntarily becoming obese and/or gaining significant amounts of weight. You need to be prepared to face those consequences with or without someone at your side.

If you feel unprepared you either need to do some serious self reflection and research, or keep your feedist fantasies as strictly fantasy only.

🧁Fat Liberation 102🧁

Join Feedists for Fat Liberation for a Zoom workshop, “Feedism & Fat Liberation 102: Growing Together in Liberation.” Saturday, May 20, 11AM PT/2PM ET/7PM BST. This is a great opportunity to learn more about feedism, fat lib, and how different forms of oppression intersect with each other and with anti-fat bias. Talk to community members and explore liberation for all within the feedist community and in the world.

Registration required: https://bit.ly/FFLgrowing

Jiji ♡

life goals

Craving the feel of a soft round belly in my hands, or in the groove of my back🥹

spooky squishy season approaches!!