One evening, I was at the LGBTQIA center for a trans committee and I was the only trans man in attendance. One trans woman told me she never understood how I could want to be a "disgusting man".
Later that evening, she told me she'd love to swap bodies with me (I was pre T, pre op and didn't bind). I told her I didn't understand why she'd want to have the body of a "disgusting man".
She called me transmisogynistic.
Oh, the irony.
tme? what does that mean?
just means female at birth lol
jenny holzer, truisms
People: Yeah being outed can be really dangerous and no one should ever be outed against their will
Also people: If youre a trans dude who passes you should always out yourself so that other people know you arent a big scary man but also out yourself so if you dont pass we know you are a scary man
— fatima aamer bilal, from being unwanted is a language
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hot take apparently, maybe let's not make a word to demean a group of people. like, ever. when has that ever gone well. let's stop now please, no more words. we're done now
the English language is over
if you still fucking talk about "transfems are more visible than transmascs and that's unfair and means transmascs have it worse" just think for one second about what kind of visibility transfems are getting and shut the fuck up maybe
i do feel like TMA and TME can be useful terms in specific conversations but the way people treat them like a binary and as basically the progressive versions of AMAB and AFAB makes me have a knee-jerk reaction whenever i see them used and it makes me have to ask "is this person fucking weird about transmascs" and a lot of the time, they are, which is unfortunate because like i said i feel like they could be useful terms in certain discussions
Maybe you expect trans guys to be misogynistic because you think they'll reject femininity and femaleness in the same way you reject masculinity and maleness. But for all the "testosterone is a poison, masculinity is toxic, being a man is disgusting and being a woman is better in every way" rhetoric I see coming from certain trans women and transfems, I absolutely do not see anything similar coming from trans men and transmascs about estrogen and femininity being disgusting and horrible and corruptive even though we had those things pushed on us just as much.
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