Hpd - Blog Posts
SERIOUS TALK . CENSORSHIP
the amount of censorship and ignorance regarding anything that isn't remotely 'normal' or seems 'realistic' to the average eye is absolutely disgusting and genuinely ableist. see someone who's visibly disabled? oh, no, you can never go up to them! come on! avoid them! they're too different from you. you would never be able to understand them. they would never be able to understand you. have a friend who has a stigmatized mental health condition? oh! they must be faking! nobody *actually* has that! it's too rare! we should stop being friends with them! they must be a monster! have someone tell you that you have an invisible disability? that doesn't exist! if i cant see it, then you don't have it! i know your body better than you do! prove you have your disability, then! and the funny thing is, these types of things are completely censored- viewed as 'wrong' or 'not something to be talked about'. when really, it's just an excuse to not talk about, spread awareness, or allow those who are troubled by these conditions to speak up. TALK ABOUT YOUR ILLNESS. TALK ABOUT YOUR DISABILITY. TALK ABOUT YOUR 'ABNORMALCY'. show the world that **you aren't weird or crazy or monstrous for not fitting the norm.**
HPD Adjacent!
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HPD adjacent flag! This is left vague so anyone who has, is questioning, or displays traits of the disorder may use it! This was made with people who have trouble pinpointing neurodivergencies and is NOT for transid supporters.
[ID: A flag with nine equal horizontal stripes. In descending order, the stripes are dusty purple, grape purple, dark grape purple, dark purple brown, dark magenta, bright pink, watermelon pink, bright orange, and bright yellow. End ID.]
[ID: A divider that consists of a thin white line with three stars on each side. End ID.]
Flag by me, using sampled colors. Requested by @shatterine. Tagging @radiomogai.
HPD + BPD adjacent flag! This is left vague so anyone who has, is questioning, or displays traits of the disorder(s) may use it! These were made with people who have trouble pinpointing neurodivergencies and are NOT for transid supporters.
[ID: A flag with ten equal horizontal stripes. In descending order, the stripes are purple black, plum purple, dark magenta, berry pink, bright orange, sunny yellow, off white, cloudy blue, light purple blue, and dark stormy blue. End ID.]
Flag by me using sampled colors. Requested by @gillipopmoji.
histrionic soul trait
a term under the "x soul trait" umbrella for when being histrionic is your soul trait. the first is for humans, the second for monsters
HPD Flags
for lgbts who have histrionic personality disorder ! in order: lesbian, gay, bi, trans, pansexual, nonbinary, asexual, aromantic, genderfluid
DO NOT INTERACT if you are bigoted, ace/aro/pan exclusionist, support mspec lesbians/gays, or support endogenic/non-traumagenic systems.
messages for those with NPD, BPD, ASPD, or HPD
you are loved, valued, and important.
the people in your life care about you, even if sometimes it doesn't feel that way.
i'm glad you're here today.
your needs matter. your feelings matter. your limits matter.
It's very common for people to push those with demonised personality disorders to the end of their tether via manipulation, bullying, abuse, etc. and then get upset with them when they inevitably snap.
It happens a lot within the neurodivergent community, too! People spread lies about us, do things that purposely upset/trigger us and then when we start to get upset/stand up for ourselves/etc. it's "sEE??? we were right about them all along!!!!"
Quick reminder: regardless of what condition you have, you are allowed to have your own experiences.
You don't have to be like everyone stereotypes people with your condition to be and MUCH LESS be the exact opposite of said stereotypes.
Never feel like you're giving your community a "bad image" just by experiencing things.
It will never be your fault if some ableist asshole uses you to "prove" they were right about your condition.