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"A notification! Is it from my gf?!" I say, happily.

No. Its from fuckING PINTEREST

LIKE IDC ABT EYE DOODLES RN I WANT TO KNOW IF THE GODDESS OF A WOMAN I'M DATING LIKED THE TICTOK I ENT HER OR NOT

I KISSED HER

lesbians that use neos and aren’t entirely sure of their gender are super duper valid and i would even give them a little kiss on the check

”If you’re not happy single then you won’t be happy in a relationship” WRONG if I don’t take a nap on someone’s chest RIGHT THE FUCK NOW it will cause loss of function in my liver

https://www.tumblr.com/squaloropera/749207242108256256/hey-ask-me-about-the-inherent-heteronormativity-of?source=share

Okay explain because I'm interested

Oh thank god. You will regret this.

Now, the first thing to do here is to explain exactly what I mean by ‘top/bottom’ discourse. What I’m referring to, specifically, is people arguing over fictional characters (usually) and their preferred positions in penetrative sex. These characters being gay, almost exclusively. Pretty fucked up, but now that we have that point of reference, I can explain better. Now, there is no inherent heteronormativity in thinking a character prefers to bottom or top, but the discourse here is usually where the problem lies. First of all, roles of ‘top’ and ‘bottom’ aren’t exclusive. A top can bottom, a bottom can top, there is no set rule. Thinking anything otherwise dangerously borders on ‘____ is the girl of the relationship cause he only ever takes’ territory. This is the heart of this heteronormativity claim. In general, this discourse will be in the comments of any fanart or fanfiction of a gay fictional pairing that happens to be sexual. Usually, you’ll find at least a few comments of ‘Nooooooooo, ____ totally tops!’ and with the expectation that said character should always be the more sexually dominant one, even if there’s no penetrative sex being displayed and the word ‘top’ is being used to refer to sexual dominance. The core of this discourse is never actually about the actual meaning of ‘top’ and ‘bottom’, but in fact the words are being used in place of ‘the girl’ and ‘the guy’. If you replace ‘____ is the bottom!’ with ‘____ Is the girl in the relationship!’ it suddenly makes the comment make sense, and also reveals the sinister nature of top/bottom discourse.

I hope this was coherent, lol.

Hey ask me about the inherent heteronormativity of top/bottom discourse in fandom

Sometimes I can spend hours thinking about how a lot of gay stereotypes (fast walking, weird sitting, struggling with numbers, weird fashion, etc.) are just symptoms of neurodivergence, because neurodivergent people are more likely to be open about their sexualities due to not giving a fuck about social norms and have accidentally shaped straight people’s perception of gay people by just being rad as fuck.

Happy international lesbian day! Here’s your reminder that we exist the world over and have since forever.

“I’m an evil, mean lesbian” says the very fragile, sensitive lesbian

Waiting for the day ‘good night’s aren’t said with words, but rather by cuddling into each other and letting go of every worry from the day, knowing you’re safe in their arms and that they’re safe in yours.

idk if i want to be a lover girl anymore yall

that one homoerotic girl friendship that ended horribly is always like, i hate her more than anyone, i will never stop loving her. she made me who i am, i hate the parts of me she helped create. i miss her more than anything, i can't even look her in the eye. i dream about her most nights, i'll cut off my arm before i even consider reaching out to her again. i want us back, i never want to feel that way again.

omg the weather is getting colder would be such a shame if a girl wanted to hold hands to keep them warm haha imagine that

things i would like to do with my girlfriend (if I ever find one)

-falling asleep together while cuddling

-pressing our foreheads together

-waking up while my gf is still asleep and surprising her with pancakes

-lying on the grass together and looking into each other's eyes or at the clouds

-having picnics together

-reading together in bed before sleep

-my gf doing my makeup (bc I suck at it)

-watching She-Ra together under a shared blanket

That feel when you’re Bi and your school has a lot of attractive people and you’re just like

I want a girlfriend…..

Purple is the gayest color, this is proof.

Five pairs of girls being absolutely precious and adorable together.

I made Luz & Amity on Picrew, and I’m honestly not disappointed with how I made them!

(The Sexualities & Genders are just my headcanons.)

Hey, I just did some Amphibia Calamity Trio redesigns!

I actually love the way they look in the show, I don’t actually see anything wrong in the way they look! But I thought this could be fun! And I’m pretty happy with how they turned out!

(These redesigns involve some of my headcanons for them-)

I hope you like them!

(Sorry about how messy Marcy’s skirt is made-)

Nonbinary gay - moodboard

totally should get my gf into classic rock and beatles more TRUE . best band ever got to indoctrinate the masses xx

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The Immortal Beloved

From @creativepromptsforwriting Drabble List

“Let’s kiss and see where it takes us.”

"Pardon?"

A pair of ivory-coloured eyes flutter shut before opening once more.

"I'm positive you heard me."

"I infact did, but I'm not comprehending."

Her fingers find the collar of my shirt, pulling me down to her level only slightly. "Comprehend this."

Our lips make the most exquisite connection...Coming together in the most beautiful of ways. Breaths are exchanged between two lips. Minds unite to form one. This is what Sappho used to write about in her poems. When the two come into contact, fireworks erupt. For the first time, for the second and the third.

My Immortal Beloved.