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hey, dear. i would like to enjoy your free reading.
as a child, i considered myself spontaneous and outgoing. however, after certain events, i became the opposite, much more shy (sorry, english is not my first language).
what triggered this change and what do i still need to work on?
my initials are 'efa', i'm 19 years old, aries rising in the house one.
What triggered this change in EFA and what do they still need to work on?
When I did your spread, it caught my attention that everything started with a major arcana (judgment in reversed), which in my opinion is so blocked that it did not catch my attention, i don’t know how to explain it but the card was so… cloudy? Then when I was drawing the last card, another major arcana came out (the emperor); where he was sitting in control and relaxed. The energy of him was so strong that I could not focus on the other cards lmao.
The root of your problem is that you have a huge block on your own introspection. It really clouded my judgment, I can't imagine how hard it must be for you. But as I was saying, you are being so hard on yourself. Like an excessive anguish for the sake of not relying on others again. Maybe in that experience that marked you you were judged excessively to the point that you internalized it too. You were judged by emotionally unstable people, I can feel the heaviness of them from here. I think they drove you to hold back and put out that fire and spontaneity you had, maybe to fit in? No man, I better stop because I'm getting angry at them channeling this (ugh, I'm so sorry that happened to you). What's blocking your return to your spontaneous and outgoing self is your struggle to be clear about cultivating your emotions. To be a more compassionate and big-hearted person. You may overanalyze social situations from a place of emotional sensitivity (which is understandable), but in doing so you extinguish your flame. The negative criticisms and the attempt to turn off your flame was in vain, you have the queen of cups come out and she talks about learning to cultivate what you already have. It is interesting how after all this done to you, you still got the queen of all the suit of cups. This gives me to understand that you don't need to make a radical change lol, you just need to re-cultivate daily routines in order to reconnect with this side of you that went dormant. You must let it flow naturally again. An effective way to make it flow naturally again is to take control of what you allow and what you don't allow. You must develop a solid foundation of self-confidence. Because once you do is when you can be your spontaneous and outgoing self. Avoiding and not being direct is not setting boundaries, EFA. The last letter made me dizzy! lmao your boundaries are confusing. Or maybe this situation that happened to you was deeper than I can imagine. But since it's a free game let's not get off track. Anyway, as I was saying: you should practice saying no, you should trust your intuition more about which people give you a bad feeling and which others do not. In particular, let go of that excessive judgment that you carry in you for not being the same person you were before. Others made you pay for it, don't do it yourself. You are free of it when you decide not to do it to yourself. Don't please anyone. Become like the emperor, sitting in your chair, in control, direct and unafraid to look straight ahead with your head held high. I recommend the sandwich technique, oh and this video to create boundaries is very good. Start at your own pace and remember that you are not selfish in setting boundaries, it is simply self-care.
hi! i’m p.p 18 pisces rising! i have no placements in aries. my question is why am I struggling to find love? i have never dated anyone before but i have had crushes and heartbreaks. the ppl i catch feelings for often take advantage of that fact and i have reached a point where i am incredibly jaded about love due to the unhealthy disappointing and unlucky experiences i have had,, ty lots 💓
Why is PP struggling to find love?
What stops you is that you are very guarded. It's as if you shut yourself off and remain quite distrustful of others. You may also have high standards. Which I understand, because I do the same thing lmao (twin where have you been~ /jk). Never lower your standards though! And as I was saying, that distrust forms an emotional distance from others. The high priestess appeared reversed, and based on the context of your reading, maybe that distrust comes as a defense mechanism from bad experiences and is blocking your intuition. You need to learn how to stop them from having an influence in you to the point they no longer block you from connecting with others in a more healthy way. You may have inadvertently built a wall without realizing it. The reversed star in your spread seemed very saddening to me, the disappointments have been difficult for you. It is not bad to have high standards or to be careful with others, in your case it seems that your disappointments have tinted something that may be innocent, and instead of having standards and just being careful, you turned distant and distrustful. You need to open up without lowering your expectations. Imagine yourself as if you were someone using a brush to dust off a painting—it is not a bad thing! You're just removing the dust to take advantage of the use that beautiful paint can have in a room. The best way to do this would be if you become more emotionally independent and learn to be more compassionate with yourself and also with others (but this comes second lmao). Without lowering your standards. Just between us, your cards have a lot of color so there’s a hopeful future for you, there was just one gray card and it was a good one. You have a really softer side deep inside, don't let it get all dust up!
Hi, how are you? ♡
My initials are EL and I'm 19 years old, Leo ♌️
• How can I improve my skills to connect with new people and build genuine relationships? Please.
How can EL improve their skills to connect with new people and build genuine relationships?
In your current situation your only problem is that you are very misaligned, specifically you give more than you receive. You try too hard to "give" in your relationships disregarding your own needs and values. You need to change that focus: What do you value most in a connection? That they are honest with you? That they have integrity and don't bend their will? For example: That they are honest people or do you value people who connect with spirituality? What we value is not carved in stone—it changes. But it is important for you to know what your core values are. It is also important for you to know what your needs are and whether the connections you have align with them. A simple "I feel..." or "I need..." makes a big difference. Let’s say you value “supportiveness” in friends and when you have an important event you want them to be there for you or even show up (if their calendar isn’t full that day). Like a friend that couldn’t make it to you receiving an achievement and finds a way to “attend” during their lunch break by watching the livestream and leaving comments. Communicating an "I need you to support me in this, because I don't feel valued" or “I need you to support me on this, because I value ‘supportiveness’ (your core value) a lot” will cause you to stop being the only person in charge of giving more than you receive. If others don't listen to your needs despite communicating them or don't align with your values (or both because everything is interchangeable!), you need to let them go.
If you want to improve your ability to connect with new people and build genuine relationships, your main obstacle is in finding a balance between letting things go and starting over. You experience anxiety in doing so. It's like a fear of the unknown. You may overthink how to approach people, afraid of being taken advantage of again. You have so much to give, but you don't receive what you are looking for, what fulfills you emotionally and makes you feel valued. You end up in a state of discouragement, perhaps even anguish to see the circumstances in a more optimistic way and without fear—of starting over. The best thing you can do is to realize that the happiness and emotional satisfaction you seek in your connections was simply misguided. You need to improve on three things: one, balance how much you give and how much you receive; two, let go of the bad experiences you had by being more optimistic, cutting off the ones that are currently not working for you and letting go of discouragement; three, rethink your focus, communicate your values and needs and prioritize yourself. First you must know that the emotional connections you form with others are not your only way to make you feel full and complete, you have so much love to give and to spare—you can fill yourself without any problem. Don't expect others to fill your cup when you can do it too, and never betray yourself (your values and your needs) to connect with people. You will never lose by prioritizing yourself.
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My initials: SG
I'm a saggitarius rising
My age : 18
I do not have any aries placements
My question: What are my shadow aspects which I need to work on in terms of romantic relationships
Thank you so much 💓
Aspects you need to work on in terms of romantic relationships
I'm inclined to believe that you are someone new to romantic relationships. Perhaps you've recently had one or were in the process of getting into one, avoided the inevitable and it was too complicated. You tend to have a desire to start a relationship but have a hard time taking the initiative to connect emotionally with people. There are vulnerability issues stemming from a lack of self-confidence. You think you are not capable of initiating something and being vulnerable, but the irony is that you are. There were times and occasions when you could have used that ability to connect, but you resisted. The potential was there, but in the past you had a hard time sustaining a relationship because of that inability to open up on an emotional level. Your insecurity clouds your ability to make a deep emotional connection. Subconsciously, by letting yourself get carried away by these insecurities you prevent your personal growth. You don't want to look in the mirror and see your most vulnerable and insecure areas. But in doing so, you're left not knowing what areas on you need a trim, a new dye job, a little touch up, etc. You're stunting your growth. When you enter a romantic relationship, it's important to collaborate with your partner-open up, communicate, set boundaries, and recognize when it's time to let go if things aren't working. In your case, you are having a hard time with this process. What things did you like about the relationship? What abilities could you have explore that your insecurity prevented you from doing? What things were part of your immaturity as a person and not the other person's fault? You need to let go of that control. You have to recognize what you can control and what you can't. If things don't have a solid foundation, you have to let it go. Don't hold on to something that is going to bring you down and only cause you more pain in the long run. It is when you begin to see it from this perspective that you will finally be able to free yourself from those weaknesses that hold you back in your romantic relationships. Currently that blockage to your potential in being vulnerable makes you resistant to change and keeps you stuck. That is what you need to work on. These patterns are built and if they continue they can be reinforced. When you set boundaries, and accept that certain conflicts and processes are necessary in romantic relationships (and must happen no matter how reluctant you are to let it happen), you will finally break free from this stagnation. Studying about emotional intelligence, and communication as a couple will help you get out of this stagnation! I highly recommend Steph Anya's videos, CinemaTherapy and other YouTube channels of licensed professionals who offer help in these areas.
Welcome to my SECOND TAROT GAME ! I will be answering free questions to the first ones that meet the requirements. If you want to participate read the rules, requirements and fill out the form! You have until this Friday, November 8th, at 6:00pm EST to participate. I will be answering the first 10 asks on a first come, first served basis.
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Have you been going through constant problems in a specific area of your life? these problems have left you lonely or feeling overwhelmed? You're not alone! Let's find out about this specific area and how to survive it in the best way possible.
This time you need to formulate a specific question based on the themes of personal growth (it can be romance, studies, your relationships/connections with others, etc.). The themes need to be based on the true node rx in aries we are experiencing currently. To be more specific, if you want to ask a question about romance it can’t be how someone feels for you, it must be on theme with personal growth like: where is this relationship headed, why am I struggling to find romance... For this game, I will use 3 cards for the spread instead of 2. You need to give me information to understand a little bit about the current true node in aries in your birth chart, before you send a question. What I need is in the form.
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Initials
Age
Rising sign
Do you have Aries placements on the earliest degrees? (those from 0-10) If yes, then tell me. If not, don't worry it's not required.
Your question based on a theme of personal growth. Some question ideas: How can I support women better? How can I be a better friend? How am I as a friend (strengths and weaknesses)? What strengths and weaknesses do I have when dealing with problems?
★ Oh it has been a minute! Hello everyonee, I'm back with the pac that was promised! Sorry for the delay, oh it's just, I've been hearing some thunder (literally). Now, let's get straight into it. This pac is focused on first timers and who will be their first romantic partners. Take a deep breath, ask yourself the question and pick the pile that calls to you the most!
DISCLAIMER: this is a general reading it will be as close as possible to your situation but it will not be accurate. take only what resonates. if you want a more accurate reading you can book a reading!
PILE ONE
Personality wise? Intuitive, loving, good-natured person with whom you'll click with instantly, even though they'll have a hard time expressing their deepest feelings for you. They're going to be somewhat unstable in how they express them - one day super passionate, next day distant. They tend to just avoid addressing emotional issues directly. This is because they’ll carry emotional baggage from previous relationships that will make them struggle to open up to you.
What you’ll like about them is their ability to stay calm, even when things get challenging. For example, if you’re overwhelmed or dealing with stress, they’ll be the type to quietly sit with you, not needing to say much but making you feel supported just by being there. They’re ambitious and hardworking, and though they may struggle to express deep emotions sometimes, they'll be really comforting and stable to you. They’re the type who, after facing a setback, will dust themselves off and keep pushing forward without complaining, which you can find inspiring. Their calm nature will help you feel at ease, (somewhat like some INFJs where their mere presence can calm people down) and while they may not be super expressive or the most touchy-feely, their presence will have a comforting, almost healing effect on you, especially when you need it the most.
In the relationship, their emotional baggage and hesitancy with expressing those deep feelings might make them seem a bit reserved or even detached at first. For example, they’ll take time observing and analyzing, almost like they’re “studying” how things are going instead of going “all in” with romantic gestures. They could be juggling a lot, maybe between work and personal stuff, and sometimes they’ll struggle to keep everything steady. They’re straightforward but can focus on their own needs first if they feel overwhelmed… They’ll be resilient and loyal once committed but will need reassurance that the relationship is worth their energy. They won’t rush or make bold actions. Because of past experiences, they’ll hold back on fully opening up right away, needing to feel truly secure before they can trust deeply. If you push them too fast, they may pull back, but when they finally commit. Once they’re “all in,” you’ll see a different side of them—you know the saying: “Once bitten, twice shy”.
Will you marry them? It’s unlikely this person will be your future spouse. This relationship will be meaningful and bring personal growth for both of you, but eventually, you’ll find that your paths don’t fully align. They’ll be an important part of your journey tho, teaching you a lot about yourself and what you want, but it looks like you’ll each move on to pursue different futures.
PILE TWO
TRIGGER WARNING: Mentions of abusive behavior. Ooh, to be honest I don’t like the magician reversed. This is going to be the longest reading out of all the piles. Your first romantic partner will be pretty charming, their energy will be contagious and they’ll be really smart. But I believe this person to be really immature when you meet them. For some of you they won’t be a good person. I know you entered here to have your hopes up but sometimes things like this can happen. I sense both of you are avoiding growth and when that happens, the universe brings you closer to certain types of people as a wake up call. Maybe a few of you are still quite young and are more susceptible. With that said let’s get into it:
Personality-wise? Again, charming, smart and energetic/fun. Although I believe sly is the real term here, not so much smart lmao. But they're the type who might have big dreams but when it comes to taking real, consistent action, they lose interest or get distracted. They often rush to conclusions without getting all the facts. They tend to avoid taking real accountability when things go wrong. They can be sneaky about getting their way. For example, if they make a mistake at work or in school, they might cover it up or pass the blame to avoid the fallout. If there’s something they want, they might subtly manipulate situations to make it happen. For instance, instead of directly asking you to skip plans, they might plant seeds of doubt, hoping you’ll change your mind on your own. They might brush off conflicts, hoping they’ll just go away instead of addressing them directly. Again, really charming and sly. They have amazing intuition and quick decision-making skills, but doesn't always use this gift wisely: like catching on quickly when someone isn’t being truthful. But instead of using this insight positively, they might turn it into a way to win conversations or prove themselves right, rather than genuinely helping or connecting.
What will you like about them? Well, to explain this it correlates to your lack of growth. You tend to let your guard down too easily, often sacrificing your own happiness and emotional well-being for the sake of keeping the peace. You're still avoiding some necessary growth and maturity in your life. Even when you feel drained emotionally, you might push those feelings aside rather than setting boundaries or confronting them. So because of this, despite seeing the flaws in their personality, you’re still likely to feel a strong pull toward them. They may frequently talk about personal struggles, past issues, or dramatic events in their life. This could be anything from ongoing issues with friends or family to frustrations at work. You find yourself wanting to understand these layers, even if they never quite resolve them. After peeling those layers, you might find they have an inner resilience in them that will impress you, even if it sometimes comes across as stubborn. Their imaginative way of seeing the world, their charm, their intelligence and their dreams will make you feel like life with them could be exciting and filled with possibilities. Their practicality will fly right above your head (sorry for the drag 😭).
In the relationship? In the beginning, this person may be all about the grand gestures—like planning elaborate date nights, surprising you with meaningful gifts, or saying all the right things that make you feel special. That's why you always gotta be suspicious of the grand gestures, specially if they are too soon in the meeting stages (be careful with love bombing). But as time goes on, they struggle with consistency. Maybe they’re super romantic one week, but the next, they’re distant and non-communicative, leaving you wondering where you stand. They’ll make you feel amazing on a fun night out, but if you need someone to talk to about stress or personal challenges, they might shut down or avoid the topic altogether. Remember the part I mentioned of them avoiding conflicts? Well here it is.
When it comes to routines like regularly checking in about your day or planning a future together, they might become disengaged. They might say things like “Let’s just see where things go”, you know, brushing it off, which is a no-no if you’re looking for stability. If you try to bring up your feelings about the relationship or where things are heading, they might change the subject, become defensive, or pull away rather than engaging with your concerns.
This person is likely to be quite manipulative and somewhat fake in their approach to life. They put up strong barriers and tend to be overly protective of their resources - whether that's time, money, or emotions. To put it simply: they may make you feel like you’re asking for too much even when you want basic attention or support. While they might act tough and logical, they actually struggle with emotional immaturity. Like when their own emotions flare up, they’re likely to overreact or act impulsively, revealing that they actually don’t have good control over their emotions. They tend to be manipulative, using tactics like guilt-tripping, withholding affection, or even silent treatment to get what they want or to keep you feeling off-balance. This person keeps parts of their life hidden or vague, making it hard for you to feel close to them. They might dodge questions about their feelings, where they’ve been, or their plans for the future, giving you a sense that they’re always holding back or hiding something.
Regarding marriage potential - absolutely not. You'll likely feel confused about where you stand with them, and while things might feel dreamy and wish-fulfilling at first, there's a lack of real foundation for something long-term. It might seem picture perfect at first, but when you get closer to it, it looks unstable.
PILE THREE
Personality-wise? Charming and smart. They stand out, unlike pile 2 while they are also charming and intelligent, this traits are not overtly malicious or as badly channeled. Now, for the raw traits: When it comes to commitment, they might seem enthusiastic at first, the will express genuine interest and will make you feel like you’re their main priority. But then, when things get more serious, they could pull back or start questioning the relationship. They will be the type to avoid talking about future plans or shy away from labels, leaving you feeling unsure of where you stand. Also, they tend to overthink. Even small decisions might become a source of stress, as they’re often their own biggest critic. They will be someone grounded and quite stubborn, but they could be highly practical and reliable.
You'll be drawn to their unique mix of maturity and playfulness. You'll admire how they can switch from being super focused on their goals (they are quite ambitious tho) to being spontaneously fun (they’re the type to surprise you with random outings or last-minute plans). They keep things interesting to even the simplest of dates. And if they mess up a dinner they cooked or accidentally get lost while driving, they are the type to laugh it off and turn it into a fun moment rather than stressing about it. Their different perspective on life will intrigue you - they might introduce you to new experiences, hobbies, or ways of thinking that you hadn't considered before. Probably related to their ambitions. While they might not be the most organized or conventionally successful person, you'll find their determination and drive quite attractive. This person will make life feel more exciting and vibrant for you.
In the relationship, they'll show a mix of behaviors. While they can be quite romantic and charming (surprise date nights and buying you your favorite album, cooking your favorite dish or buying you a bouquet of flowers), they also have a tendency to be passive-aggressive when dealing with conflicts. Don't get me wrong, they'll genuinely enjoy making you feel special. But when disagreements arise, they might avoid direct confrontation. Leaving you guessing at what’s really bothering them. They will keep certain feelings or vulnerabilities tucked away, and their career or personal ambitions often take center stage, sometimes at the expense of your relationship. This can lead to moments where you feel like you’re not getting their full attention, or even that they’re not completely transparent about their priorities.
You'll likely meet this person through mutual friends or they can be a childhood friend. A classmate or even a coworker for some of you. However, they can be quite rebellious and threw that with that stubbornness of theirs, they will prefer doing things on their own terms most of the time. Overall, someone set on their ways.
Oh, and whether they're your future spouse - while there's potential for a significant relationship that teaches you a lot about love and yourself, this person is likely not your future spouse. This seems more like a stepping stone that prepares you for your future spouse.
PILE FOUR
Personality-wise? Will be someone who appears strong and protective on the surface, but deep down they will have a sensitive side. They’re resilient and can be emotionally supportive. They are thoughtful, so when life gets tough, they’ll often retreat, not wanting to share their pain or burden anyone else. Ig they’re having a rough week, they might go quiet and pull back from social interactions, choosing to process things alone instead of reaching out.
What you’ll appreciate most about them is their vulnerability and honesty. They’re not perfect and have been through their own heartbreaks, but they’re working to make peace with their past and be open with you. They’ll show you that even with scars, love can grow. Despite sometimes doubting themselves, they’re committed to building something real and meaningful with you, and their willingness to be raw and imperfect is something that will resonate with you deeply.
In the relationship, they'll be quite attentive and nostalgic, often reminiscing about your shared memories - like saving ticket stubs from your first date or recreating special moments. They love celebrating small, meaningful memories and might even keep a box of shared mementos. Think of the type of partner that remembers the anniversaries with a cute meaningful gift (how cute). Will make you feel valued and celebrated. However, they might struggle with expressing vulnerability, sometimes acting controlling due to their own insecurities. They might ask for frequent updates on where you are or get uneasy when you’re spending time with others. Despite this, they'll be emotionally intelligent and caring, even if they may occasionally get lost in their own fears and even anxieties. They’re generally good at reading your feelings and are caring, but they sometimes get lost in their own worries. Like, they might overthink something you said or get stuck in anxious thoughts about the relationship, which can occasionally affect their mood. But I do believe you can easily bring them out of it with communication.
Your first romantic partner will be an adventurous and passionate person. While they sometimes feel stuck in their own mental barriers (like overthinking everything before making a move), they're actually quite successful and satisfied with their life when you meet them. Professionally or in their personal achievements, they’re doing well—maybe they’ve landed a good job, run a successful business, or already reached their dreams. But despite this confidence in other areas, they’ll often hesitate when it comes to romance. They might double-check a message before hitting send or worry too much about saying the “right” thing to you. They probably had some traumatic experiences tho, I sense a difficult upbringing or maybe they were victims of cheating. This makes them careful, sometimes overly so.
Will you marry them? It's not set in stone. So this will likely be a very important and impactful connection to you. A very few of you will get marry to them. The other majority of you will not. You'll both feel a strong pull toward each other, and with patience and dedication, this could lead to something lasting. While there's potential, there are those trust issues to work through first, so it is not going to be a smooth sailing. For a majority of you this can actually be the problem that will pull you apart: the trust issues and unresolved past heartbreaks.
PILE FIVE
Personality-wise? They're emotionally mature and logical, someone who's broken free from toxic patterns in their past (yay! finally!). In emotional situations, they’re likely to stay calm and look for practical solutions. Say you have a disagreement—they won’t get caught up in the heat of the moment but will try to address it diplomatically and with logic. Your first romantic partner seems to be someone who approaches relationships with a level-headed mindset, someone known to keep their emotions under control (not hiding them though nor in a controlling way). They value independence and will not be hesitant to leave what doesn't work for them (love this). Previous experiences have taught them to put their own well-being first. If something feels strange, they don't hesitate to speak out or take a break to evaluate things for a moment. This could be a person who has dealt with some unhealthy partners in their past, and they’re now committed to keep their peace intact and avoid a relationship that could become possessive (controlling) or too emotionally draining. They’ll avoid possessiveness and try not to cling, wanting a partnership that’s healthy and balanced. Someone that knows when to step back if things aren’t working and isn’t easily swayed by sentimentality (while still remaining caring and responsible).
In your relationship, they might struggle with long-term planning at first, but they're genuinely invested in building something stable with you. For example, if you mention planning a big trip together in the distant future, they might say, “Let’s see where we’re at when the time comes.” This isn’t necessarily a lack of interest but reflects their cautious approach to long-term planning until they feel completely sure. They'll be direct in their communication - sometimes almost too direct! (lmao) - and while they take their time processing things (like that awkward pause when you ask about meeting their family), once they make up their mind, they move forward with conviction. Like imagine you ask them: Hey what are we? and they reply with something straightforward like, “I really like you, but I’m figuring out how we fit into each other’s lives.” They won’t sugarcoat or hold back to please you, they will prefer to be honest and clear about their intentions (I mean, sounds great tho). Because once they are in, they will BE fully in.
You'll like that they are passionate, driven and willing. But when it comes to personal matters, especially about themselves, they might downplay their own accomplishments lmao (yk, humble). And at the same time someone that completely changes your perspective on love. They build trust slowly. You may find that they take small steps over time to reveal personal details, like sharing a meaningful childhood memory after several months together. They’re careful about building trust, so their reserved side isn’t disinterest—it’s simply their way of ensuring stability and safety in relationships. So if you ask them what’s wrong they'll be pretty honest with you and won’t play any games unlike previous piles. They're also determined to overcome their challenges and aren't afraid to go after what they want. They’re not the type to give up on a goal or dream, whether that’s in work, personal growth, or the relationship itself. You’ll likely notice that they’re committed to improving themselves and won’t let insecurities hold them back for long.
Will you marry them? As for whether they’re your future spouse, the potential is definitely there. Higher than the other piles.
Next PAC
For the people who were not able to participate, I will be taking the repeated questions that were sent to me to do my next pac readings based on them. Here are 6 possible themes for the readings, but only the 2 most voted will be the future readings on this blog!
Welcome to my FIRST TAROT GAME! I will be answering free questions to the first ones that meet the requirements. If you want to participate read the rules and fill out the form! You have until this Saturday at 2:00pm EST to participate. I will be answering the first questions on a first come, first served basis.
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RULES
You must be at least 18 years old.
No death or health questions accepted. I would accept celebrity questions on first impression and what would they think of you.
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You must reblog this post.
Your question must contain your initials.
I will not accept direct message questions, they must be by ask.
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FORM
Initials, & your question here! Please be respectful and don't be weird.
★ Hello! :D This reading is a surprise and we will be focusing on your future spouse's personality. I'm a sucker for romance so I'm up for 4 piles (which is a lot for me considering I've only started doing free general readings a few weeks ago lmao it can be quite draining). But will this stop me? absolutely not. This is about your future spouse's personality so it is likely that your spouse is not quite there at the moment (yk, we all mature or are in the process of it). I will also associate CHARACTERS most similar to the description of your future spouse. Take a deep breath, ask yourself the question and pick the pile that calls to you the most!
DISCLAIMER: this is a general reading it will be as close as possible to your situation but it will not be accurate. take only what resonates. if you want a more accurate reading you can book a reading!
PILE ONE
Your future spouse has a very clear and mature personality. Someone who has undergone significant change. Definitely someone that matured a lot. They have freed themselves from many restrictions and seem to have everything in order when you meet them, both emotionally and financially. They are stable, dependable and again, mature. They don't allow themselves to be crushed by anyone and are resilient. For some of you they will look like they have it all, really. They will be someone who knows how to focus on what really matters without losing sight of their goals. Financial security is something they will have. Your future spouse may have had a crazy, even exciting, past. For a few of you a playboy even. They've matured a lot since then, but still carry that spark of excitement in them only with people they trust. Once you get to know them, they will make you laugh and will be exciting and fun.
You will meet your person when you make an important decision in your life that you struggled to make for a long time. It's as if you finally pluck up the courage to go for something after letting yourself get carried away by doubts or uncertainties. It is when you connect with this version of yourself that you will meet your future life partner. Best of all, new opportunities will surround you and you may meet them abroad (some of you, not all of you!), or when you start a new stage of your life. I feel a sense of freedom, of freshness. And I got really happy reading the cards. You will both be ready to meet one another.
At first the process of getting to know each other may be slow and, dare I say it, there may be misunderstandings. But nothing serious. It sounds like your future spouse is someone who struggles with opening up at all or feeling completely vulnerable. But nothing toxic or dramatic. Will not be someone who is going to play minds games with you. It just won't be a quick process of getting to know each other. You will take things slowly. Or even you, too, may even be cautious about getting to know them. For a few of you, your future spouse might be an introvert. There will be a mutual tension and curiosity in the air. The most extreme thing I see for some is misunderstandings over personal boundaries. For example: one may be too direct or forward and cause the other's personal space to feel threatened. It's nothing that can't be cleared up, though!
For the characters most similar or similar to the energy of your future spouse I have: Howl Pendragon, he's a man who seems to have it all under control, but is actually struggling with an existential crisis and leaving his past behind. They even give a nod to his past as a womanizer. From anime I don't know much, but I think of Itachi Uchiha, again, someone who seems strong, composed, competent and deeply mature, having grown through hardships while maintaining focus on what matters. Mr. Darcy even for the struggle to open up at first lmao. Really hard for me to remember a romantic comedy as close to this person as possible, sorry.
Signs: ISTP, INFJ, ENTJ and INTJ for a few of you. Fire, like Aries, Leo and even Sagittarius in Venus, Moon and Mars is very likely. Scorpio for the transformation. Leo Sun for a few of you. They might have a lot of Earth placements: Taurus definitely higher up there. I know it is a stereotype but that financial stability is something I've seen in people with some strong taurean placements (like a sun, venus or even mars in taurus in the 2nd house). Capricorn is up there too. Saturn trine Moon or Venus.
PILE TWO
I have no other way to describe them than as an interesting book that won't be easy to read, but will keep you hooked, curious and even seduced. I can't help but see that they will be secretive, calm and even aloof but mysterious. They may see romantic relationships in an unconventional way, but this is what will give them an authentic touch. For a few of you, they won't want a traditional marriage. They are, however, a very intelligent person. Very introspective. They are able to read between the lines and notice things that others might not normally notice. For some of you, a person that reads people well before they can even speak. A rich inner world despite being reserved. They are making it so hard to describe them lmao. I believe they are very private and reserved, but they are very seductive once you get to know them. The type who prefers deep conversations to superficial ones. Talk about everything a little bit and have a rich conversation. The type to remember details of the deepest things you have talked to them about or even things that you consider not so important that you have shared with them.
You are going to meet your person when both of you, or just them, are going through a stage where you feel stuck and are looking for a change. They may know that where they are currently gives them stability. Perhaps the job or where they are gives them that security, but they know deep down they needs to let it go and move on. Some of you will meet at a formal meeting, or a business related event. At first it will be a little tense or even uncertain. It is likely that the external situation will not let you two connect immediately. For example: perhaps one of you is looking for a new job, or is starting a business.
You will have palpable chemistry, and for some of you it may not be a marriage as such. You and your future spouse may be slow to make decisions or deal with certain issues. The lack of clarity and perhaps the reserved nature of your future spouse will make things so slow as to create frustration. A feeling that things are not moving forward as you would like them to. The key between the two of you will be learning to work together on communication and whether you both have the same values and vision for life. For some of you this may be a challenging connection. And for a very few of you, I don't see you getting married but this is as close as you will get.
For the characters most similar or similar to the energy of your future spouse I have: Megumi Fushiguro comes in the back of my mind and fits very well. Edward Cullen. Oh! and Giyuu! Miguel O'Hara (mostly because of how methodical, secretive and respected and even intimidating he became to others, not on an antagonistic energy tho).
Signs: Straight up textbook ISTJ for many of you. ISFP, INFJ and for others of you an INTJ. ESTJ for a very veeery few. Definitely a Capricorn/SCORPIO Moon or Capricorn/Scorpio Venus. Taurus Mercury for some. The competitive streak might be explained by a fire sign, maybe an Aries Mars or a Scorpio Mars (scared of y'all).
PILE THREE
A quick thinker. Speaks even faster. A remarkable capacity for analysis and strategy. Quick-witted and intelligent. One of those people who, if you tell them a clever joke, will respond with one that is just as good or even better. Somewhat restless but competitive. Will not tolerate mediocrity in their life. Their mental agility may make them come across a bit cold or cerebral at first. But they are simply very focused and guarded.
Whatever betrayals or hardships they’ve been through have created someone independent. Maybe even too independent, and when they meet you, things might move slowly before they let you in. This future spouse has experienced a lot of pain and sadness in the past, possibly facing betrayals or disappointments. This has led them to be more reserved and emotionally guarded—a gentle soul. They are quite rational, and for a few of you even leaning toward being pessimistic.
When you both meet, you will be looking for balance in your lives. I couldn't help but see the scales in the tarot cards. In short, balance/justice, whether professional or personal. You are likely to meet in a legal proceeding, a shared project, or simply evaluating what deserves to be in your lives that will bring balance or fairness to you. Your future life partner will be at a stage where they recognize that it is important to give and receive in a balanced way (I'm suspecting if either of you has any Libra in you), i.e., evaluating your priorities. Perhaps you will meet in a mediation service, volunteering, or a situation where the key is give and take.
The connection between you will be full of possibilities. You need to remember to set foot on the ground. You won't struggle to see a sky full of possibilities together, your only struggle is to get lost in it. Structure is key! The sky is the limit. It will be a stimulating connection. You will have shared dreams. Your future spouse may be more impetuous in pursuing their ambitions, while you are more likely to be more of a good judge of what steps to take. In short words, you complement each other.
For the characters most similar or similar to the energy of your future spouse I have: Satoru Gojo, he is quick-witted, competitive and even impulsive at times but deeply layered Definitely Flynn Rider. For Ghibli male leads, I could only think of Seiji Amasawa from “Whisper of the Heart,” seems distant but opens up emotionally as he becomes more secure in his relationship with Shizuku.
Signs: Yeah, they scream ENTJ, ESTP and ENTP to me. Air signs a lot too. Gemini is the one that I can definitely see in them, like an Gemini Venus/Mercury/Sun is definitely up here. Sagittarius sun definitely up there. Mars in Aries or Aries anything, really lmao.
PILE FOUR
Your future spouse will exude an aura of happiness! I see a relaxed, optimistic, and self-assured person. A very hardworking person too. Who does not let the bad things in life destroy their spirit. It makes me think of someone who lights up the room with their presence, someone you would not suspect them to have been through so much. They are satisfied with themselves, though they’ve come from difficult times that made them question their emotional stability. A charismatic person, who becomes the center of attention—or even artistic for some of you—who makes you feel like you’re the most special person in the world.
You will meet each other at a time of healing, when you are both leaving difficult situations behind. Situations where you have carried a burden that has left you exhausted.
Your future spouse will be quite committed, and will avoid falling into controlling and possessive dynamics with you. You will have a strong connection because you will have shared values and principles. You will grow emotionally together. Commitment will not feel like an obligation, but will feel natural and by having shared values and principles you will respect each other (wow). For a few of you, you may have to let go of old patterns, because you will be able to find stability without needing to be too dependent on each other.
For the characters most similar or similar to the energy of your future spouse I have: For this pile: Naruto Uzumaki, Yuuji Itadori (sweet, charismatic, unbreakable spirit and green flags). Elle Woods for the infectious energy, values she has (how she never broke her client's trust) and again, the charisma she has. Hashirama Senju (like full, this one a lot for his hardworking and charismatic spirit paired with his strong principles and values).
Signs: This person makes me think a lot about ENFP, ESFJ and ENFJ. From zodiac signs: pisces or water signs. Leo or even Sagittarius. Definitely Libra or even Aquarius. Moon trine Mars: emotional strength paired with action and positivity. They may have only one aspect in a sign and the most likely I can think of is Leo (their childlike ways can be similar to an Aries but Aries turns on as fast as it turns off, this person struggles lmao).
★ And here it is! drum roll The suggested pac. Yaaay! In this reading you will discover what your academic strengths are and how to take advantage of them. Take a deep breath and choose the one that draws you in the most. Thank you so much for the support on my previous first pac! My suggestions are always open so don't be shy to make a request.
DISCLAIMER: this is a general reading it will be as close as possible to your situation but it will not be accurate. take only what resonates. if you want a more accurate reading you can book a reading!
PILE ONE
Your main strength is your ability to stay consistent and keep moving forward, even when others give up. You won’t back down. You are patient and perseverance is not something you lack. You may not be the fastest at finishing things, but when you deliver a job, it's well done! You don't like to take shortcuts, preferring to do things at your own pace and doing them well done. You're giving me the vibes of someone who is an ace at detailed analysis. Again, you have a strong ability to work for the long haul, even when the going gets tough. Although you may sometimes doubt your progress or feel that you are not moving fast, your tenacity and determination are your greatest strengths. You know when to stay on your own path and focus on your goals despite external obstacles or competition. You catch connections that others miss! Your energy is very grounded: slow but sure and with a solid, practical foundation.
In school or university, you might not be the quickest to finish assignments, but when you do, your work stands out. Because it is well done. You’d excel in long-term projects like research papers or presentations where thoroughness is an important factor (God has favorites smh). Focus on these, and you’ll leave an impression. 😏 Some of you may have Capricorn or Scorpio/Pluto in your birth chart. Taurus even, a moon or a Taurus Mars (love this mars btw, people think they are lazy but they are so perfectionistic and determined!). Your energy is very ISTJ, ISTP (Ti and Si) and even INTJ for a few of you.
HOW CAN YOU TAKE ADVANTAGE OF THIS
Trust more in what you know and your intuition. Organize your priorities and look for projects that really challenge you and test your analytical skills. Even if you sometimes feel like you are stuck in a rut that doesn't give you quick results, the important thing is to keep a clear routine and adjust it when necessary. Don't overload yourself with unnecessary things. You need to focus on a strategic direction and use your energy wisely. And if you feel you need an extra push, seeking someone to guide or mentor you can help you gain confidence and even improve your skills!.
PILE TWO
You are a born leader; you enjoy taking the initiative and solving problems quickly and efficiently. You have a talent for planning and organizing. You are energetic, forceful/assertive, and possess the quality of leadership. You are not scared to make difficult decisions and you could be great at leading others in group or class tasks. You have the drive to inspire others and succeed, even if you don’t notice it. Your primary strength is your vision for the future and ability to make plans (entj vibes). You are a person who sets ambitious targets and understands how to reach them. You succeed at circumstances that need quick thinking and action, like team presentations, debates, and academic competitions. In a university setting, you’d thrive in organizing group projects, taking the lead in presentations, or even planning events (idk if you have student clubs but you would do well there too). If you’re in school, think about leading or taking part in a debate team, club or a class project. Your ability to motivate and plan will make a huge impact!
However, you sometimes find it difficult to adapt to change or are overly perfectionistic. You are good when you can work in a stable environment, and your ability to maintain focus is a great asset for you to see the big picture even when there are obstacles in the way. Your energy is very fiery, some may have Leo in their charts or similar qualities. Remember Leo is fixed, some of you may find it a little difficult to be flexible or too perfectionistic like a Capricorn MC. Definitely according to functions, this screams Te (Extraverted Thinking) to me a lot, some of you may be ENTJ. Or have a Ti or Te as dominant or even auxiliary functions.
HOW CAN YOU TAKE ADVANTAGE OF THIS
You need to focus on projects that need organization and attention to detail. In teamwork or group projects, you may excel at leading. I think you are not good at following other's lead. Play to your strengths by trusting yourself and others more (especially if you have a hard time letting go of control). Even if you like to work alone, learning to delegate and collaborate will allow you to get better faster. Look for opportunities where you can put your planning skills to work, such as internships or real projects. Again, student clubs would be great for you. Also, relax a bit about perfectionism; not everything has to be perfect to work well.
PILE THREE
You have a creative and imaginative mind. While you may have difficulty articulating your ideas properly (you may appear disorganized or scattered), you've got the potential to come up with fresh approaches and ideas. You have a remarkable ability to think outside the box and discover solutions where others perceive problems. When you focus, you can do a lot! You don't like to follow conventional norms, so you can come up with creative solutions. This might be difficult to understand from others tho. You are tenacious even when things fail to go as planned, and you learn quick from your mistakes.
If you're in school, you'd thrive at creative assignments like preparing a presentation or developing an original solution for a competition. In university, you may excel at brainstorming or creative writing assignments that ask you to think outside the box. Even discovering different takes on the project or investigation you are doing.
Your energy is very airy, dare I say Aquarian and even Gemini. Some of you may have one of these in your charts. Lots of connections to Mercury or a good Mercury placement (Aquarius, Gemini, Virgo). Perhaps Saturn is making bad aspects to your Mercury or indirectly to your Jupiter (this may be what explains that agitated energy I felt). You may be: Ne (Extraverted Intuition) and even Ti (Introverted Thinking). I'm thinking: ENFP, ENTP & INTP.
HOW CAN YOU TAKE ADVANTAGE OF THIS
You must decide exactly what you want to achieve. You don't have a defined plan or strategy. You have the energy and capability but not the direction or structure. I don't know how to put it but because of your creativity, you might not always know where you're going, which could keep you from realizing your full potential. You need to work on communicating your ideas and giving them some aims. You can try working on projects or in fields where you can feel free to experiment but with some structure to guide your creativity. Like: Study plans, Notion, planners, etc. Try some classes or workshops in creative writing or communication. Seek for projects that provide you the freedom to think creatively and investigate more complex or abstract concepts. If things don't go as planned, don't feel scared about starting again (failing is okay!), because every try brings you closer to your goal. Collaborating with peers who have complementary skills could help you bring your innovative ideas to life. (While writing this I got reminded so much of ADHD—I only mention it briefly since I have ADHD not because of tarot. I suggest considering discussing it with a professional if you have the time or availability!)
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NEXT PAC TOPIC
heyy guys, it seems that the beginning of the week has caught up with many of you, this place is empty haha. i need a little help with my second tarot reading. i'm between three topics! i'm taking suggestions via ask and y'all are free to leave your comments down below!
★ Hello! First pac! Let's find out what your crush/person of interest has to say about you to their friends. Take a deep breath, and choose the pile that draws you in the most. This include 2 sections: are they talking about you to their friends and what are they talking about.
disclaimer: this is a general reading it will be as close as possible to your situation but it will not be accurate. take only what resonates. if you want a more accurate reading you can book a reading!
PILE ONE
the sun, 3 of wands rx, the chariot
Oh, your crush is definitely talking about you to their friends, but maybe not in the way you're hoping. There is mixed energy here. On one hand, they say positive things, things that make them feel happy or hopeful. Or what things attract them to you: your style, vibe, that day you wore a certain color. Maybe some memory or experience that they have with you that they treasure.
But they’re unsure about the next steps or like what to do next. It may leave them feeling a bit let down or underwhelmed, because things haven't progressed as they expected. They're hesitating, maybe overthinking things, which is holding them back from taking action and are just stuck. It’s like they’re feeling things out, thinking about past moments with you, but they’re not ready to make any big moves. They’re holding back for now, so while they’re talking about you, it’s more them trying to understand their own feelings than taking real action.
WHAT ARE THEY TALKING ABOUT TO THEIR FRIENDS?
6 of swords rx, page of swords rx, 3 of pentacles rx
Your person is talking to their friends about feeling uncertain and stuck when it comes to you. They might not know how to move things forward and could be venting about things feeling off or disconnected between you two. I am inclined to think that it is the first one. They started to see you differently and it is being reflected in what they talk about with their friends.
For some of you, they say things they find attractive about you, but maybe with some reservations. They’re likely confused or unsure how to communicate their feelings, which is why they might be saying things that are unclear or even holding back. A few of you have trouble being expressive so they think you have a huge wall and it is making them have a hard time approaching you. They’re not sure if you’re both on the same page, or if things can really work long-term.
Elements & Signs: Aquarius. A lot of air and earth elements. Your crush might be very anxious, or an overthinker. Your crush has a hard time expressing themselves emotionally or dealing with their emotions. You two might be sending each other wrong signals and creating confusion and miscommunication.
PILE TWO
ace of cups, the wheel of fortune rx, 5 of cups
They’re definitely feeling something, but they’re super confused and conflicted. They like you, but their mind is all over the place—way too much overthinking and frustration about what to do. (uhmm, messy). Instead of talking to their friends, they’re keeping it to themselves and trying to sort it out alone without making any real moves.
For a few of you, they are even sad about it.. i felt their sadness through the cards. It’s like they’re emotionally stuck, and they’re not ready to open up or share what’s going on. If they mention something they're likely weighing the pros and cons, maybe asking their friends for advice. It's not all positive - there could be some doubts or concerns they're expressing. They're probably not head-over-heels for some of you, just curious and a bit conflicted.
WHAT ARE THEY NOT TALKING ABOUT TO THEIR FRIENDS?
the chariot rx, 2 of cups rx, 7 of wands (9 of cups rx)
Your crush isn’t telling their friends that they’re super stressed and confused about the whole situation. They are meeeessy. They feel stuck, like nothing’s going anywhere, and it’s making them frustrated. They’re holding back big time, possibly pretending they don’t care as much or acting like it’s not a big deal (Oh my god lmao), when deep down they’re feeling out of sync and unsure of where things are heading.
They’re also really unhappy with how things are right now, but they’re putting up walls, trying to protect themselves. It’s like they’re battling internally between wanting to fight for this and feeling like it’s not worth the effort (this might be the sad energy i was getting). They’re not seeing the results they want and are worried they’re wasting their time, but they’re not saying any of this out loud.
For a few of you: If they're really into you, they might downplay it to their friends. They're not likely to admit if they're feeling vulnerable or scared of getting hurt.
Elements & Signs: A lot of emotional blockage from this person. Water energy through the roof! There’s a lot of overthinking and frustration with this person. Your crush is very reserved and wants to act like they are not affected at all (side eye). For a few of you: Your crush is feeling really sensitive about you and is not a very emotionally stable person.
PILE THREE
2 of wands, 3 of cups rx, 3 of swords rx
Your crush isn’t talking about you to their friends. For some of you they are. But they are mentioning you casually, not making a huge deal out of it just yet (they are being mature about this). They’re thinking about it but are keeping things close to the chest, overanalyzing everything (geez). They’re not comfortable being open right now and are holding back, trying to stay in control of their emotions. They might have some unresolved feelings or past hurt they’re still dealing with, which is making them hesitate. For a few of you: they might be asking for opinions or subtle advice without revealing too much.
Instead of sharing or opening up about the situation, they’re keeping their distance and focusing on keeping all calm and collected. You know, not letting this agitate them too much bc they are not a child. Deep down, they’re not satisfied with how things are going emotionally, but they’re choosing to stay quiet rather than talk about it with friends. They’re just not ready to be vulnerable or let anyone in on what they’re feeling yet. For a few of you (how cute): they are hoping for a stable and happy relationship.
WHAT ARE THEY NOT TALKING ABOUT TO THEIR FRIENDS?
queen of wands (the lovers), 4 of wands, knight of wands
Your crush isn’t talking to their friends about just how drawn they are to you. They feel a strong attraction and connection (i pulled the queen of wands and the lovers, like, phew) but are keeping it all to themselves (boo!). They’re confused about what they want and are juggling their feelings, trying to figure out if they should make a move or just sit back and play it safe.
Why are they playing it safe? They’re worried about getting rejected or not having a solid foundation if they go for it, which is why they’re hesitant to share anything. They’ve got this mix of passion and doubt, but instead of being open, they’re keeping it all inside and trying to sort it out on their own.
Elements: Aries/Leo. Your crush is giving me fire sign energy! Or this might be just them feeling passionate about you. Or both lmao. I sense earth energy too. They are emotionally complex. Another overthinker, but i think they might just be rational about it. They struggle with vulnerability but are not as immature and out of it as pile 2 (not so sorry for the drag lmao). Again, they still struggle with emotional vulnerability.
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