spitting facts👌👌
There are two basic arguments for shutting the fuck up about cishets at Pride.
First: What if a trans kid asks their parents to show their support by attending Pride with them? What if a lesbian can only attend pride if she gets a ride from someone and the only person willing and able to drive her is her straight brother? What if a bi disabled person can't attend a large outdoor event without hands-on assistance from their straight partner? What if someone just wants to bring their fucking friends? What if, contrary to popular tumblr discourse, most queers don't inhabit perfectly pure social bubbles populated only by other queers? What if it's none of your business?
Second and perhaps more important: If you think you can tell that someone is CIS, let alone HET, by LOOKING at them, you are a cop and an idiot.
No, wait, because why is this literally me……
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Some @'s for reach: @our-aroace-experience @gray-ace-space @aroaceculture @acespec-ed @acexualien @cordwaner @asexualadvice @aromantic-diaries @aroacespecsafeplace @arospec-daybook
Harry Potter y el queerbating
Hoy hablaremos de si la representante lgbt+, en Harry Potter es buena
Primero, hay que entender que no es lo mismo escribir en el siglo pasado que en este, según en que época escribas vas a tener la libertad de hablar de otros temas, de cierta forma ,o no podrás tocar los temas que quieres , a si que no se sorprendan que sea más fácil para rick, poner personajes lgbt
No es lo mismo poner un personaje gay hoy a el siglo pasado, es por eso que la falta representación en los libros de harry Potter no es de extrañar, es cierto que hay personas que pueden estar codificadas , pero de eso hablaremos después, por el momento hablaremos de un tema conocido como queerbating
En resumidas cuentas, el queerbating es dar una representación de la comunicación lgbt+, pero sin dar mucho trasfondo a estos personajes, o esconderlo de cierta forma , esto se puede dra de diversas maneras, poner un personaje lgbt+ de fondo como patoaventuras, dar un contexto romántico a 2 personas del mismo género, pero al final no llega a nada, como en the owl house y su doblaje (después se hablará de estos temas)
Pero el que nos importa en este momento es donde, un personaje se confirma como LGBT+, pero jamás se profundizó en esto, pero si en otras parejas heterosexuales, este es el caso que hablaremos hoy, el de dumbledore
En la serie original jamás se dijo que era gay, lo cual ya dije, es hasta cierto punto entendible por la época, pero no quita que jk pudo explorarlo en cualquier momento previo, para ser más específicos , en las películas de animales fantásticos
Donde solo dan un poco de contexto romántico, más al final no se llega a nada, nunca vemos su relación más que de un modo ambiguo , al punto en que e conocido personas que creían eran solo amigos
Nunca se le da la importancia que tenían otras relaciones románticas en la historia, aun si no llegaban a nada, como newt y leta , o cho y Harry,que no llegaron a nada , y aún a si recibieron más atención
Además de seguir el tropo lgbt+ de que a fuerzas tiene que sufrir, con dumbledore nunca superando del todo a gellert , en ves de mostrar como dumbledore sale de una relación toxica, se vuelve a enamorar y a creer en la gente ,y aunque en Harry Potter no tuviera pareja, sabríamos que no todo fue tragedia en su vida amorosa, que hubo esperanza para el
Porque si, dumbledore y gellert eran tóxicos el uno con el otro, eran manipuladores el uno con el otro, no les importaba que sus vidas fueran en rumbos súper diferentes, ellos seguían amandose, lo cual si bien a primera vista es lindo, no quita que es en realidad una idea tóxica del amor, además de que esto solo suma a la idea de que fue forzada
En ellos se vio más una rivalidad, y hasta un odio mutó, que amor verdadero, no fue más que una táctica barata de marketing, solo para atraer más lectores , en ves de crear nuevos personajes con diferentes preferencias sexuales, todo se quedó en un parde ecenas, un tuit y una idea súper tóxica del amor
Lo que me lleva a hablar de otra clase de queerbating, que jk no desconoce ,como dije antes,también esta dar contexto romántico,solo para que termine en nada, el primero sería la relación de sirius y remus
Su relación era totalmente opuesta a la de gellert y albus,en primera no trataban de matarse a cada rato, eran buenos el uno con el otro, y sus vidas iban más o menos en la misma dirección
Y ustedes dirán "que 2 hombres no pueden ser amigos? ", y tienen razón, 2 hombres pueden ser amigos, pero hubiera tenido más sentido de albus y gellert fueran solo amigos, mientras daba vuelta a un estereotipo homofóbico con remus y sirius
El estereotipo en cuestión es que toda la gente homosexual o bisexual gustara de sus amigos, esto a llevado a que mucha gente hetero se aleje de estas personas, por pensar que a fuerza les van a gustar, ignorando que estas personas son humanos, y que quieren tener amigos , no solo una pareja
Y esto se hubiera visto con James Potter, sirius amaba a James cono su hermano, su vida se vino abajo cuando el murió,no solo porque lo quería mucho ,si no porque sabe que hasta cierto punto tuvo la culpa , fue el quien propuso a peter , a si que me imagino a el sintiendo culpa por todo,por no confíar en remus, por no segui el plan de james y lily, por confiar en peter , y condenar a Harry a ser huérfano
Estaba claro que sirius amaba a james como su hermano, pudo romper muchos estereotipos que sirius fuera gay, estuviera en una relación romance con remus, y aún a si tuviera relaciones no románticas con otros hombres, como con Harry y su relación padre hijo, y como ya dije mil y un veces,con james y su relación de mejores amigos
De remus solo queda decir que, si, nynphadora era muy joven, era una mujer súper joven, con ganas de divertirse , cumplir metas y provarse a si misma, remus era un hombre cuyo mayor sueño era solo asentarse, un sueño curiosamente muy parecido al de sirius,donde su sueño era asentarse,ser libre y cuidar a Harry
Esto nos lleva a la siguiente pareja , albus Potter y scorpius malfoy, empezaré diciendo que el enamoramiento de scorpius con rose, y albus con delphiny son...entendibles ?
Estos enamoramiento son parecidos a los de Harry con cho, en el caos de scorpius y rose, donde por las hormonas ,la admiración se confunde con amor, realmente no conviven mucho que digamos, se siente más como un crush pasajero
Luego esta albus con delfín, que vendría siendo la misma ruta,ella se presenta como esta chica cool y genial, albus obviamente se sentía atraído, pero por razones pareciadas a las que no me gusta el ship de dumbledore y gellert, dire que obviamente no puede ser
Entonces dirán, si sus enamoramientos con chicas son lógicos, porque demonios estarían juntos ?, porque en primera instancia tiene más lógica, tienen metas que no necesariamente van en contra de las del otro, tiene problemas similares, y más química romántica que la de gellert y dumbledore, y ellos si son canon
Además de que la gente bisexual existe, mucho se usa el argumento de que porque x personaje ,tenía cierta quimica romántica con y personaje , del género opuesto, no puede estar con z personaje
El ejemplo claro de esto, ya saliendo un poco de Harry Potter, serían finn,la dulce princesa y marceline , ignorando que finn es menor de edad en casi toda la serie,por ejemplo
Albus y scorpius tenían todo para ser una verdadera representación, tenían edades similares, tenían la convivencia y la química, cosas en común, metas que no necesariamente afectaban al otro, hasta problemas similares tenían, pudieron recordarle al mundo que la gente bi existe, pero no , todo se quedó en un forzado no homo
I love being aroace :3 /pos
Damn right I exist, and I’m gonna look hot doing it
In regards of the Trump government scraping all trans inclusion in its queer information portion of its websites I have made this thing. Spread the word. Don't let them pretend we never existed.
P.S: Don't like! Reblog! <3
EDIT: Well this got a lot of attention! I got a few users asking to print or repost my art and I am unimaginably grateful to everyone's interest, especially since it's a really simple drawing I made on a whim haha! Anyone who is looking to print these out to hang or hand out or repost on another platform is free to do so, although I ask you to credit me and let people know it's from my Tumblr profile! If anyone wishes to do anything else with my art or post and wants to clarify what I consent to then they can message me privately and I'll explain! <333 all my love to my queer siblings
Pridodos!
(there are so many)
Facing the Struggle as a Queer Transgender Refugees. We Need Your Help. 🌈
Hi there,
I'm AshleymilesPhil, a transgender queer refugee, and today I’m sorry this might feel random, and I didn’t mean to come to you like this but I'm reaching out with an urgent plea. Life in the refugee camp is incredibly harsh for our LGBTIQ community. We’re facing extreme shortages of food, clean water, medicine, and safe shelter. Each day is a fight for survival, and without basic necessities, it’s getting harder to hold on.
It’s difficult to ask for help, but we have no choice. We’re in a dire situation, and we need your support to make it through. Your donation, no matter the size, can provide life-saving essentials like food, clean water, and medical care for our community. Without your kindness, we are left vulnerable, struggling to survive.
If you’re able, please consider contributing to our GoFundMe⬇️🙏
https://gofund.me/4d80b32c
Your generosity could truly make the difference between life and death.
I also ask you to visit my blog, reblog my post, and share our story to help us spread awareness. The more people know about our struggle, the more help we can get. You can be part of amplifying our voices when we have been silenced for so long.
I know it’s hard to ask for money, but we are in desperate need. We can’t survive this alone, and we rely on the compassion of those who can offer even a small bit of help.
Thank you for your time, for caring, and for sharing this journey with us. Your support is everything.
With deep gratitude,
AshleymilesPhil
I don’t have money I can donate, but I will answer this to spread the message so hopefully someone who can donate will see this. Being queer is already hard in America, I can’t begin to imagine how hard it must be for you. Stay strong, you’ve made it this far, so keep on fighting! (╹◡╹)♡
Concept idea (other people can use this too):
A group of fae that are queer affirming (some are actually queer too) and the imitation fae (name stealing) of the group can take your dead name from you.
Taking your dead name makes them stronger without causing any harm to you, so it’s a win-win.
One of the younger fae isn’t an imitation fae, but rather a guardian fae who has an online shop with a bunch of pride jewelry (that can also be enchanted if the customer wishes). They’re Non binary and gave their dead name to their friends.
THIS IDEA GIVES ME SO MUCH DOPAMINE
I’m already fleshing out the character ideas >:}
Happy Pride Month to everyone!!! ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🤎🖤🤍
ATTENTION ALL AMERICANS
If you enjoy or have possession of “woke” media, remember that if a republican wins this year then all of that great media will be considered child porn, isn’t that great?
One. If you enjoy things repubs consider “woke”, I would vote blue so you don’t get executed
Two. Just incase one WOULD win,
TREAT “WOKE” MEDIA LIKE GOLD
If you find some buy it, If you are in possession of it hide it. Use a flash drive for digital stuff. I swear to GOD please.
This includes queer, poc, and anything that republicans won’t like.
(ps, for queers it won’t matter if you have this stuff, you’ll probably get arrested anyway)
You read that right! Removing WHAT terms???? WHAT will be considered child pornography?????
This is NOT just transgender people in trouble, this is every person who would be considered woke, aka ANY GAY PERSON, so STOP infighting because we are BOTH going down. They may use trans people as a cover up, but if you ACTUALLY read it its all of us.
SPREAD THIS
Title: 93 Diagon Alley
AO3 Name: Schmem_14
Tumblr Name (if applicable): @schmem14
Prompt: Moving in together
Pairing: Harry Potter/George Weasley
Rating: Explicit
Word Count: 30204
Archive Warnings: No Archive Warnings Apply
Tags: Fluff and Angst, Depression, Grief/Mourning, Healing, Comfort, Moving In Together, there was one bed, Bisexual Harry Potter, Gay George Weasley, Slow Burn, Explicit Language, Explicit Sexual Content, Kissing, Treacle Tarts (Harry Potter), Eating Disorders, Friends to Lovers, Weasleys' Wizard Wheezes, Rimming, Oral Sex, Masturbation, Amortentia Potion (Harry Potter), Amortentia has a fourth scent, Potions Master Harry Potter, George is built, Happy Ending, Minor Hermione Granger/Draco Malfoy, Dramione is my HC, Reconciliation, Jealousy, Harry Potter Epilogue What Epilogue | EWE, POV Harry Potter, Waltzing, Harry is a Good Cook, George works out a lot, Harry is rich af, Mutual Pining, George eats but doesn't sleep, Harry sleeps but doesn't eat
Summary: The war has been hard on everyone, especially Harry and George. Harry is depressed, and needs to be taken care of for once. George is always hungry, and definitely doesn't want to talk about Fred. So, they make the only reasonable decisions available in such a situation; move in together, and fall in love, but not necessarily in that order.
Link: 93 Diagon Alley
The Premium Package: Bonus Round
Bloodwork came back positive for GAD65 antibodies. So now my rheumatologist is assuming not just neuropsychiatric lupus, but also Stiff Person Syndrome and GAD65 autoimmune encephalitis, based on my imaging and other test results.
I guess we’re just collecting neuroimmune disorders like trading cards now. Got brain fog? Muscle spasms? Random hallucinations? Congratulations, you might qualify for the rare holographic edition.
At this point, it feels less like getting answers and more like unlocking increasingly cursed DLC. The collector’s set is not supposed to be this complete.
The Premium Package: Hospital Edition
So, remember how I said I got the premium autoimmune package? Turns out that includes an extended trial of Hospital™. Two visits in 30 days. No points earned, no free sandwich. Just new diagnoses, more needles than I can count, and a very weird moment where a nurse said, “You’re too young for this,” as if my immune system just missed the memo.
Here’s what we’ve unlocked on this adventure:
Neuropsychiatric lupus (NPSLE). Yep, my brain is inflamed. There are lesions, optic nerve swelling, and elevated spinal pressure just for fun. My CSF basically came back with a sticky note that said, “System under attack.”
Ground-glass lesions in my lungs. Which I’m told are not a fog machine in my chest but actually another marker of inflammation.
I also found out my spine is a bit dramatic. Turns out I have a healing fracture in my S1 vertebra that no one expected. I just thought that pain was part of my normal joint chaos. Apparently not.
I’m already on maximum-dose CellCept, doing Simponi Aria infusions, and plot twist, it’s still not enough. I can’t take steroids (they turn me into a medical emergency), so we’re moving to IVIG and Rituximab. A port is being discussed, and neurosurgery wants to chat about a brain shunt like it’s a normal Tuesday.
Right now, I’m in that in-between place. Grateful to have answers, overwhelmed by what they mean, and just trying to exist without my body throwing another plot twist. It’s like playing Autoimmune Jumanji, and I just rolled for “spinal tap.”
So if you’re still here, thanks. Thanks for caring, for checking in, and for not saying “but you don’t look sick.” If you’re on this ride too, I see you. And if you’ve got Rituximab experience, port tips, or just memes to throw at this mess, my inbox is open.
Still here. Still fighting. Still sarcastic.
I don't believe being queer is a lifestyle or a way of life, I believe it is a moral. Being queer isn't just being gay or trans or ace/aro. Being queer is being brave, having pride (pun intended), it's being loud, it's being unafraid to stand up to others no matter the situation. It's understanding that you don't have to live a certain way, you don't have to live the apple pie life. you don't have to want kids, you don't have to marry someone, and you don't have to have a simple boring job. It's rejecting society's standards and stereotypes. It's allowing you to express emotion, it's taking up space and showing the world who you are. It's being kind and passionate. It's knowing it's okay to be a virgin, it's okay to have a low body count, it's okay to be a little messed up, and it's okay to get help. It's knowing that everyone is different and not giving a fuck what people do or think (as long as they aren't hurting anyone or themselves) because it's their life. Being queer is being proud.
I'm passionate about my queerness because I want to live in a world where nobody has to be. I want people to be able to come home to their parents with their partners and it is not any different if they were straight. I want to live in a world where nobody has to come out because loving someone is normal, but we don't have that yet so I will continue to proudly state I'm pan and queer. I'm passionate about my queerness because I want people to see me and know they can be open to me, that I am safe and I care about their experience, and I want them to know that they are loved and normal and are allowed to make stupid gay jokes and shout about their queerness. I'm passionate about my queerness because if I'm not then I know we will be locked away and buried in history again. I'm passionate about my queerness because I want my fucking rights, I want to be respected, and I want to be allowed to live my life the way I want.
Add onto this if you feel like it. Or don't your choice.
Little late but HAPPY PRIDE MONTH YALL!!!
💖💛💙
said it once and i'll say it many more times, HELL YA!
Can you please reblog if your blog is a safe place for lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, asexual, aromantic, pansexual, non binary, demisexual or any other kind of queer or questioning people? Because mine is.
Trans ftm are valid
Trans mtf are valid
Enby peeps are valid
Intersex peeps are valid
Feminine enbys are valid
Masculine enbys are valid
Androgynous enbys are valid
Feminine trans men are valid
Feminine trans women are valid
Masculine trans men are valid
Masculine trans women are valid
Lesbians are valid
Gay people are valid
Bisexuals are valid
Trans people are valid
Queer people are valid
Asexual people are valid
Aromantic people are valid
Aroace people are valid
Pansexuals are valid
Omni peeps are valid
Genderfluid peeps are valid
Agender peeps are valid
Genderqueer peeps are valid
Demisexuals are valid
Demi boys are valid
Demigirl are valid
Aceflux are valid
Aroflux are valid
Acchileans are valid
Neptunic peeps are valid
Bigender peeps are valid
Designer peeps are valid
Enbian peeps are valid
Fluid flux peeps are valid
Hypersexual peeps are valid
Peeps with autism are valid
Peeps with ADD/ADHD are valid
Neurodivergent peeps in general are valid
LGBT folks are valid
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Please correct me on any wrong information or any flags you’d like to see in there
PLS GIVE ME FEEDBACK
yeeees.... YESSSSSSSSS
LET THRE SEXUALITY-GUESSING CHAOS BEGIN
WELCOME TO MNY WORLD LITTLE QUEER >:)))
l hate Neil Gaiman, please sign the petition
Please reblog
Drawing Scott the way God intended
l hate Neil Gaiman, please sign the petition
Please reblog
Kai and their partners Coral (the whale shark) and Dylan (the nurse Shark)
new OC just dropped (they are based off of a Lemon Shark)
Howdy, my name is Critter. Have y'all heard of this lil thing called Craftivism? Here are 5 types of Punk/DIY Crafts I think we need to embrace, sooner rather than later!
Crochet/Knitting
Yarn and crochet/knitting supplies are relatively easy and inexpensive to get your hands on, and learning to crochet/knit is relatively easy with video tutorials. Once you learn the basics, you can create patches and clothing items that support certain causes. You can also do yarn-bombing (essentially graffiti using crochet/knitting) as a way to spread awareness about certain issues. Here are the patterns I listed above:
LGBTQ Pride Keychains
BLM Patch
Palestine Flag Heart
LGBTQ Pole Wrap
Womens March Hat
Pins
All you need is something hard and sturdy to act as the base for your pin (bottle caps work best), soda tabs + a safety pin, and some glue to secure everything. Paint or decorate them however you please. Let people know who you are and what you stand for.
Kandi
While Kandi can be a way to express yourself and your identities, it is also a way to make community. Kandi-trading is huge in the EDM scene, and it is a huge part of why that community is so tight. You don’t need to make anything elaborate, especially to start out - just get some cheap pony beads from the dollar store, some letters, make some pretty bracelets. Keep them, trade them, give them away.
Embroidery
Embroidery is a very fun and useful skill to develop, as you can basically put whatever you like wherever you want. Mend your socks, personalize your jacket, make some patches. Stop buying those shitty embroidered clothes from temu or shein and make your own one-of-a-kind pieces. Learning embroidery is pretty easy, just get some fabric, some thread, a needle, and go ham.
Zines
Zines are not only a way to spread awareness about certain issues, but they are a way to express yourself and talk about your personal experiences. I’ve included instructions on how to fold a zine, as well as some examples of zines. If you would like to learn more about zines & their history, I recommend @/decolonizationcoven on Tiktok. If you would like more examples of zines, check about any social media platform, but especially Pinterest. Lastly, if you would like inspiration for zines, Canva has lots of templates of zine layouts that are easy to replicate.
I wanna share with y'all my version of the lesbian masterdoc. we know the og is a bit problematic, but it helped me sm, so I revisited it. if you don't have a lot of points you aren't necessarily a lesbian. notice that a lot of points also have cons (maybe you're bi and you prefer women, you have orientation OCD, you're aroace, that's your taste in men, you are emotionally unavailable, etc). so here we go...
you believe women are objectively pretty and men are objectively ugly
you believe love is just friendship with kisses
you see having sex with men as a burden
if you're a virgin, you wanna have your first time with a man in a long time
using religion as an excuse (subconsciously) to have sex after marriage
in your sexual fantasies the man is not very detailed/the more there are details the more you're bored or disinterested/you're the observer of the scene and you focus on the woman
you constantly doubt you're into men, but you don't do that with women
you find interesting men that you can't have (taken/married men, gay men, aroace men, fictional men, celebrities, much older men, men who clearly don't give a shit about you)
you prefer having long-distance relationships with men
in series and movies you focus on female characters and don't care about the male ones
having sex with men as a form of self-harm subconsciously
you prefer feminine men
when you think you have a crush on a guy, your fantasies are never actually romantic (ex. you imagine yourselves simply hanging out and enjoying each other's company, with no kisses or stuff like that)
you think you're not attracted to men cuz you still have to find the one
you have very high standards with men, but not with women
you run away as soon as the boy likes you back
finding absurd other girls lose their minds over men
not getting what's so special about certain men (ex. Leonardo DiCaprio)
you have never noticed him, but when other girls start to like him you start to crush on him, too
crushing on the guy that is liked by the girl you're super close with
believing that being attracted to men means simply finding them "nice"
choosing a boy as a crush just because someone asked you if you liked somebody or they pressured you
wishing you were a lesbian
believing you can't be a lesbian because you would've already known
believing you gotta have sex with your man just to show him you care for him, not because you enjoy it
basing your attraction for men on their personality only
finding boring future with a man
being scared of being a lesbian and asking yourself if you're one at the same time
having an intense friendship with a woman, especially if she's sapphic
always imagining yourself with a man in the future, knowing you'd rather be with a woman
thinking you'd be 100% with a woman in a world with no homophobia
changing a lot of labels, but never considering the lesbian one. you'd rather go directly for aroace
believing you're into men, but you don't care about making male friends or you have never found them interesting, not even in a platonic way
when a straight fantasy isn't making you horny, you change the story many and many times to try to turn you on on purpose to prove your heterosexuality/bisexuality
you go out with any man that likes you
you want men to want you, but when it works it makes you feel uncomfortable
getting into a straight relationship just for material convenience or to feel cool or not to let the world think you could be sapphic
wishing your boyfriend wasn't that into romantic stuff and sex
you get over men very fast
wishing for a relationship, not really for a boyfriend
wanting sex with men for validation
you need to be drunk or high to have hetero sex
wanting straight sex only if you're subdued
wanting to kiss a girl friend "to know how to kiss boys"
touching a girl by mistake and feeling weird after it (it could be simply an arm touch)
feeling awkward in a changing room
"if she were a boy, I'd be with her"/"if I were a boy, I'd be with her"
"if I were him, I'd never treat her like that"
being obsessed with queer culture as an "ally"
"everyone is a little bit gay"
everyone thinks you are
wanting to kiss a female friend as a sign of "big friendship"
some girls kiss each other to turn men on, so you take subconsciously this opportunity to kiss one because you actually desire to
kissing girls when you're drunk/high
you constantly find ways not to believe you're a lesbian
you find more sensible gay men's attraction than straight girl's attraction to men
not having "enough time for men and relationships"
if your friend uses other pronouns too, you use them a lot, more than the feminine ones to subconsciously bypass your attraction
treating bad out of nowhere the girl you were so attached to
every time you find a man funny you automatically think you're into him
you try to like men to feel more feminine (for trans girls)
joking many times about not being attracted to men or their genitals
btw if you're sure you don't like men in a sexual way, but you still don't know if you like them emotionally I recommend to research on limerence. that's how I realised I was a lesbian<3
I hope all of this helps you girlies. you're always valid♡
Perhaps it will be a bitter pill to swallow for most people but something needs to be said:
let’s get zesty together
YEP!!!!!! 😤😤😤😤😤😤😤😤(I only get zesty with sawyer)
😭😭