Self Confidence - Blog Posts
finally worked up the self confidence to post this! :D
why do you need other people to validate you and your desires? why do you need the 3d to validate who you are? you are in control, validate yourself. self-validation will save you.
mwah<3
my favourite law of assumption affirmations
note: there aren't all mine, i found some of them online and other in books, i'm sorry if i don't give credit but i just cannot remember where i got all of them from. xox
✿ i have decided that all my desires are mine
✿ i embody the state of having my desires
✿ i am always doing everything right
✿ i am the God of my reality
✿ there is only one option : me getting what i desire
✿ i am unbothered by the 3D
✿ i am the confirmation
✿ creation is done, therefore i do not need to wait
✿ the creation is done, it is already mine
✿ the 3D has no choice but to conform
✿ everything that the 3D shows me is a lie
✿ the 3D is not real if it doesn't portray what i desire
✿ the 3D is lying if it is not physically showing me my desires
✿ the 4D is my only truth
✿ i remember when i didn't have all my desires
✿ my imagination is my reality
✿ i want it, i got it
✿ i get everything i want cause i am attractive
✿ it's so fun and easy to live in the end
xoxo,
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☑️Change your mindset (so whatever you set your mind and focus on is what your life and emotions will follow)
☑️Cut off some negative friends (For you to occupy your focus with positivity, negative friends have to go.
☑️Set goals for yourself (One of the most important ways you can forget about the negative things that had happened in the past is by setting goals for your future)
☑️Learn to forgive (if you forgive that person, then you're releasing yourself in from a cage you have locked yourself in)
☑️Stop trying to impress others (For example, if your friend can't understand you in that situation, don't get emotional about it)
❤️Stop caring /listening to rumors❗️
❤️Your hater are your fans ✌🏾
❤️Let them talk, they not doing nothing for you
❤️Do you, and what makes you happy
❤️Keep your moves silent
❤️The best revenge is success, and glowing up
❤️Stay focused on you
💙Always think about number 1: you!
💙Be kind to people. To be a bad bitch don't use that nasty attitude on random people.
💙Use your voice and get your opinions out there
💙Confidence is key!
💙Keep your priorities straight
💙Always keep up with your hygiene
💙Boys shouldn't be your top priority
💙Wear what you feel confident in
💙Keep your grades up
💙One or two main friends are all you need
💙Don't listen to anyone's opinion about you
💙Have a goal in life! but remember it's normal and completely okay to change your goal in life
💕Having a bad attitude doesn't make you a baddie, it's ugly.
💕Being a baddie is a mentality then in becomes a lifestyle.
💕Real baddies are supportive and nice.
💕Don't only take care of yourself externally, but also internally.
💕Build your confidence & self love <3
💕Don't let stereotypes or expectations define you
💕You don't need to follow trends, make your own.
💕Don't put yourself or others down.
💕Always try to look your best!
💕Improve your confidence
💕Keep your vibrations high ✨
💜 Never talk down on yourself, and dont allow people to talk down on you. Negativity does nothing but tear you self-esteem down. Instead, say positive things about yourself.
💜 Invest in yourself. Self care is so important I'm feeling confident: Feeling down? Put on a face mask and feel like a baddie when you're glowing
💜 Step outside your comort zone sometimes. When you do something you've never thought of doing, you feel good about it (only if it's something positive)
💜 Show confidence in your actions. Speak up, walk with your head held high, look good, everything. Your actions should speak for you
💜 STOP COMPARING YOURSELF. Drowning yourself to uplift someone is a terrible thing for your self-esteem
💖DON'T FIGHT OVER BOYS!
💖ALWAYS LOOK OUT FOR EACH OTHER!
💖DON'T LINK THEIR SECRETS.
💖DON’T DATE THEIR EX UNLESS SHE'S OKAY WITH IT.
💖YOUR GIRLS ALWAYS COME BEFORE YOUR BOYS.
💖BE HONEST WITH EACH OTHER.
💖SUPPORT EACH OTHER ALWAYS.
💖DON'T TALK SHIT ABOUT A PERSON AND THEN GO AND BESTIES WITH THEM.
💖NEVER LIE TO EACH OTHER.
💖DON'T LEAVE ANYBODY BEHIND.
💖ALWAYS BE HONEST WITH YOUR OPINION.
💖DON'T LEAVE ANYONE OUT.
💖NEVER SEE YOUR GIRLS AS A COMPETITION / THREAT.
💚Get rid of toxic people
💚Throw things away you dont need
💚Clean your room
💚Delete people you dont talk to anymore
💚Buy new things
💚Start a writing journal and write about your mood and how u feel
💚Meditate
💚Change your diet
💚Start drinking water
💚Exercise 3x a day /week
💚If u gotta take time of from everyone do it and dont hesitate
💚Learn to love yourself
💚Don’t be negative towards others
💚Find new hobbies
💚Take care of your skin
💚Work on your confidence
💚Remember positivity is key
WELCOME !!- hi lovelies i'm ari! My blog will consist of random tips, self love/improvement , academic tips/advice, beauty, glow up tips, workout tips, loa (maybe), manifestations/affirmations (maybe), and lifestyle !! I hope this can be a place where everyone can be comfortable and open !
feel free to send me any messages + ask anything
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Before you read this, I want you to know that this message might be hard to hear, but it could also be the beginning of the change you’ve been seeking.
Many of us, myself included, spend our lives searching for a savior, an epiphany, or something external to rescue us: a book, a speech, a mentor, a sign. We think that this one thing will open the doors to a better life. We cling desperately to small details, convincing ourselves they’re the confirmation we need to keep going: mirror numbers on a clock, a fallen feather, a butterfly crossing our path. We say, “It’s a sign from the universe, I’m on the right track”—all while staying trapped in a cycle we hate but find so hard to escape.
We often become slaves to the material world. We buy talismans, books, or listen to subliminal audios on repeat, seeking immediate results: “Why isn’t this audio working?”, “How many times do I need to listen to it to see a change?” We even sleep with headphones on, hoping it will speed up the process, yet the change never seems to come.
I understand you because I’ve been there.
It took me years to escape that cycle. Years of feeling lost, stuck, tied to my own thoughts and patterns. I spent months not knowing what to do, always ending up back at the same point. I turned to religions where I never felt truly at home. I prayed in churches, temples, and altars, waiting for miracles that never came. I lived believing that something external would change my destiny, but each attempt only led to disappointment. The reality? Nothing changed—or worse, things got even harder.
Then I realized: the only salvation comes from within.
We are the architects of our lives. Our minds are the most powerful tool we have. There are no limits beyond the ones we impose on ourselves. Imagine something unimaginable—a dream, a reality that seems impossible—and yet, you have the power to manifest it! But here’s the challenge: you must truly believe it. You must understand that you are in complete control.
If you want to be wealthy, you can achieve it. If you desire perfect health, unconditional love, travel, or anything else, it’s within your reach. Nothing is too big or too small for your creative power. But first, you must let go of limiting ideas like, “I wasn’t born rich” or “My life would have been different if I had better advantages.” These thoughts are just chains you’ve placed on yourself.
The first step to change is to take full responsibility for everything that has happened in your life. Yes, everything. It’s difficult, but that’s the key: accepting that you created your current reality, which means you also have the power to transform it.
If you’re tired of living the same way, PUT AN END TO IT.
Dare to change. Break free from everything that limits you. Rebuild your story from scratch. One of my favorite phrases always reminds me:
"When you see no way out, remember: the end is the beginning of everything."
Did you know there are scientific experiments that prove the incredible power of our minds? The CIA has documented studies on practices like remote viewing, where individuals can perceive things beyond space and time. These studies are not theories or pseudoscience—they are real evidence of our infinite potential.
There are also studies about how our thoughts impact matter. Researchers like Masaru Emoto demonstrated how our emotions and words can alter the molecular structure of water. If our words can affect something as tangible as water, imagine what they can do to your life, your cells, and your entire reality.
The limits don’t exist, except in your mind.
Life is as malleable as clay in the hands of a sculptor. And you are the sculptor. The question is no longer “What can I achieve?” but “What can’t I create?”
The time you have is precious. Use it to build the life you truly want, because the only obstacle standing between you and your dreams is you. The key is to believe and to act from that powerful force within you.
Remember: nothing is impossible. The moment to transform your life begins now.
Some bodies
Some bodies are big,
Some are small.
Some are littered with scars or stretch marks,
And some have freckles.
Some bodies are plump,
And some are thin.
Some have knobby knees,
And some have back rolls.
Some have extra arm flab
And others big thighs.
Some have flat tummies,
And some have tummy rolls.
Some fingers are crooked,
So are some noses.
Some are dark
Some are light,
And some are in the middle
Some have oily skin,
And some with dry.
Some have wrinkles and smile lines,
And some are as smooth as porcelain.
But every body is unique and charming.
Every body is perfect.
Everybody has a tummy and thigh.
And everybody has scars or stretch marks or moles or pimples or freckles.
If we didn’t,
Then no body would be as extraordinary and beautiful as you are.
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Every body is beautiful and unique. If you can’t see how beautiful you are now I wish that you can in the future!!
- Angel 😇 ❤️
Although I don't have supporters, I will be the first to support myself.
୨୧ dear diary #1: glow up introduction ୨୧
I haven’t posted on this blog for too long, and it’s time that I pick this hobby back up. I want to start making this more personal and share my journey to becoming the best version of myself with you. So with that, this post is an introduction to my glow up journey as a Muslimah. Let me start off with introducing myself properly. So, I am Farah, I was born and raised in Belgium, but I have…
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A spark that ignite change
We all have those moments. When you see someone with your dream body, someone living the dream life of yours. There's a clenching in your heart. Use that to your advantage. Change envy and jealousy to inspiration. How beautiful that is.
My dear,
What they said is exactly what you heard. What they did is exactly what you saw. Do not look for further confirmation of their actions - or lack of action.
God and the Universe will reveal us the truth, and it is often difficult to digest. But that is the simple reality of the matter. Swift away, cut them off and do not allow any further access to you and your precious time.
Pain is temporary, but self preservation and recovery are forever.
HIGH VALUE WOMAN
In order to become HVW we need to understand what that term stands for. I have noticed that it’s very fluid concept and every single woman defined it for herself and adopted it to her own lifestyle. So what does it mean to me to be high value woman?
She is a woman that defines herself and lives her life on her own terms. She represent some type of value which is defined by her value system, standards and vision of preferred lifestyle. There are some common standards for this type of woman like:
Respect
Effort
Class
Ethic
Self confidence
But the set of her own values is defined only by her. There are woman who choose to be stay at home mothers and career oriented females who want to become the CEO of international corporation, woman who wants hypergamous relationship and the ones that prefer 50/50 dynamic between them and their partner – and all of them can be High Value Woman.
So HVW is a woman who chooses her own values, creates vision of her lifestyle and commits to it. She has goals and ambitions and fiercely executes them by planning and strategizing. She is a woman that is aware of what she wants and knows that she deserves it. She knows that she can have it all. She does not settle for less. She masters the balance between feminine and masculine energies. She provides high quality for people in her life and expects the same level of quality in return.
INTRODUCTION
My name is Aida and I wanted to welcome you on my blog. I’m 22 years old student from Europe. In 2020 I have graduated with bachelor degree from Finance and Investment program. Now I’m starting last year of masters degree on Management program. Outside of University I also work in corporation [finances] since 2019. The content of this blog will revolve around:
Being High Value Woman
Level up journey
Creating desired lifestyle
Self branding
Balancing masculine and feminine energies
My background.
Since I was a little girl I was surrounded by ambitious individuals with their minds set on specific goals. People with sharp focus, discipline and high standards. Watching them made me feel so inspired to achieve everything that I have ever dreamed about. The older I got the more I have noticed that the amount of this type of people is radically decreasing – young people were loosing the sight of their extraordinary goals and plans for their future becoming content with bare minimum and mediocrity. When I have started my first job in corporation I was shocked by the amount of colleagues in their 30s or 40s being completely unhappy and bitter about their life. It was the moment that I have made a decision to do everything I can in order not to end up this way. I want to create the most extraordinary lifestyle for myself and people that I value in my life. This blog will be the space for me to share my experience and knowledge and it also will be a journal for my level up / high value woman journey. I can not envision a better platform for this type of content since here on Tumblr we have an amazing community of young woman striving for similar things in life as I do.
The blogs that inspired me to create my own platform:
@2pretty
@misshyperglam
@babyphat05
Day of Fate.
Be natural Be plain Be comfortable Be all out.
Permanent Holes.
Mirrors lie, outlining shapes that mean nothing.
Mirrors horrify, penetrating into brains and forming unrealistic images.
Mirrors, they influence us into beings that burden us to be and after the energies put into the transformation
a deeper hole is drilled in us instead realizing that it needs not a mirror to clearly see our portraits leaving us as nothings and as people of no belonging.
@lifepath25
The heart goes cold. The heart grows old. The repetition of moments be it trembling or joyous. The heart loses it all in the end.
To stay alive is to decide to decide is to lose to lose is to gain to gain is to dance when what you have to casually do attacks and darling not many pursue life with such, guts
-lifepath
[TW: Very brief mention of death]
To anyone that may read this;
If you ever find yourself feeling insecure about the way that you look and, much like myself, compare yourself to anyone that you might think looks more attractive; I'm about to tell you something that my mom told me once.
She told me that it didn't matter how I looked, someone in the world was bound to be attracted to me someday.
She told me that I shouldn't make myself feel less attractive than anyone because when we all die our skin and flesh will rot away and we're all going to look exactly the same "just a heaping, old, dusty pile of bones".
She told me that she would remind herself about that whenever she was feeling unattractive and it made her more confident about herself over the years.
I hope this helps someone the way it's helping me today.