Worthiness - Blog Posts

Divine Love (love of self)

Our incompatibility is in no way a reflection of your worthiness.

If you could just understand that a NO, a rejection is more "we're just not compatible" more than it's a measure of your worth--

I've always wondered why we take it so poorly when someone rejects us but I'm realizing it's because most of the time we're attaching our worth to it. 'The fact that they don't wanna be with me must mean I'm unworthy, I'm not enough, I could have done more, could have done better' and a myriad more excuses of us trying to come to terms with it.

This is not to mean that we can't save some of our connections by doing better, or being better. It's just that there are times we put our whole being on the line, do the best we can but at some point we have to accept that maybe we just aren't compatible. We're not in alignment. And in no way is it a reflection of your worth.

Self Concept in Daily Life

hi lovelies ✰

Today I wanna talk about little ways you can incorporate self concept into your daily life. But first…

What is self concept?

self concept is the concept you have of yourself (wow nice). It is essentially how you think of yourself, as well as yourself in relation to other people or things. It is a large part of manifestation as it explains who you are and what you think you are worthy of. Self concept is how you enter the state / embody the version of yourself that has whatever you desire.

Like you know the common phrase of having someone or something on a pedestal? you viewing something or someone as unattainable or too good for you like that is part of your self concept. In turn, putting yourself on the pedestal is also self concept - a good very good self concept! Since your subconscious/ dominant thoughts is what manifests self concept is pivotal to your manifestations, both in being able to manifest and maintain your manifestations.

For example if you believe you are a master manifester but also believe relationships never work out for you, you may be able to manifest your SP into your life and even a relationship, but struggle to maintain it/them. Now maintenance may sound scary and like a lot of work - it isn’t, it is just having the inner belief that you are worthy of whatever you want/ wish. Remember manifestation isn’t hard!!

Now that we know what self concept is, how can we work on it?

A large part of self concept is affirmations, perhaps listening to music that makes you feel like that bitch/ royalty. Just doing the things that make you feel good and reminding yourself that this is how you deserve to feel all the time.

When focusing on self concept in relation to specific manifestations it may help to do certain techniques to rewrite the neural pathways you have previously in your life created via thoughts and experiences that were negative - such as that relationships never work out for you, you need to work hard for money etc.

techniques such as robotic affirming, scripting, vision/mood boards, mirror work, sleep tapes, even drawing your manifestations etc…

remember, manifesting should not feel difficult or inconvenient, its about feeling good and worthy!

Self concept in daily life?

As someone who has suffered with depression for a long time, working on my self concept was hard but oh my god has it helped so much. One little way i helped my self concept without even realising it was in relation to chores - specifically cleaning. I came across a tiktok - not to do with manifestation at all - which explained that one way to help you do chores is to not look at them as annoying tasks that need to get done, but rather as sort of a gift to yourself. I know it sounds silly but listen:

I clean my room because i deserve to live in a clean environment.

I buy my groceries because i deserve to eat well.

I take care of my skin because i deserve to look good

Try some out on some things you “have to” do.

I worked with these as little affirmations (usually just the parts in pink), and it not only helped me do my chores but bettered my self concept. it was a start to understanding that i am worth good things and a good life.

And you are too.

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So to conclude/TLDR:

the way you perceive yourself and what you are worthy is your self concept.

Your self concept is a large part of your dominant thoughts.

Dominant thoughts manifest in 3D.

You can change and improve your self concept with a variety of techniques, focusing on making you feel good and worthy, also using affirmations to rewire your dominant thoughts.

boom bam bingo my little star, now you know your wildest dreams aren’t wild at all. they are all yours with a snap of your fingers. Because you babe, are absolutely worth them.

mwah and feel free to ask me anything regarding manifestation <3