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Happiness comes from inside you,no one in this world can make you happy ,we all are dependent on someone to make us happy,either it's a partner or a a trip to LA

A lover can do anything for that one person happiness either it's detaching himself intentionally from her or loving them back because the only thing matter for them is their happiness.

Love is like an art. It's fascinating. It's imaginative. It's colourful and just like art, It requires patience and time and struggle.

Just like how an artist shows his sensitivities, his beliefs and himself through his masterpiece and just like how he let people behold who he really is just like that when people are in love they allow themselves to be seen. They allow the other person to recognize who they really are and like any art, it consumes them.

You'll feel so much passion just like how an artist feels, your hands will get dirty when you'll put those hands into the mud to create something beautiful. It comes with great suffering and pain. Sometimes you won't be appeased with it, you'll feel like maybe these colors aren't good enough or is this all even worth it?

Just like art, not everyone is capable of love because loving someone isn't easy.

Both eyes met but one for desperate other was looking like strangers

“Love is when other person’s happiness is more important to you than your own.”

—

“You can’t be strong all the time. Sometimes you just need to be alone and let your tears out.”

— Unknown (via thoughtkick)

Why no body see the efforts ?

Why everybody see the errors?

You did one thing wrong !

You messed up everything !

But why people don't see the

Consistent efforts which u are making to make things back to normal !

Even a coin has also got

Two options it would be a head

Or tails..

When there's a breakup, people always advise you to move on, forget the other person and distract yourself. No doubt that that's the right thing to do, but why doesn't no one talks about the times when you can't distract yourself anymore? When it's late and you're all alone, who else were you going to think besides the person you love? No one talks about the fact we don't want to forget them, we want them to stay forever, even when they left us.

Here's a playlist for when you still want to think about them, because you still can, even if it's over.

“If you want to choose the pleasure of growth, prepare yourself for some pain.”

— Irvin D. Yalom

I want to be over you

like you’re over me.

I want to think

about the fights

and arguments

that left us both unsure

of what the other was thinking.

I want to focus on the pain I felt

when you left me that April day.

I need to remember the lessons

I learned through

the beginning and the end

of you and me.

But I can’t stop thinking of that first time

I brought you home to my family

and my friends.

I’ve never seen my smile

as sincere as it

always was with you.

I couldn’t help but to smile

whenever I felt you near.

I remember the way you wrapped your arms tight around my body

and how we laid together on the couch

watching any show

that would allow me to hear

your beautiful laughter

echo from your chest.

I remember the way I felt

when your eyes rested on me—

like I finally had found the home

I had been searching for my whole life.

I want to feel your eyes on me again,

and I need to trust

that your arms will surround my

small frame and

never release me

into the world that has caused me so much pain.

I want to focus on the hurt,

and maybe that way

I can finally get over you,

but my heart still remembers

only the good.

I loved everything about

you and me.

Abhay was lost

When ridhi left her..!

Abhay have never expierenced although he had read thousands of quotes and book on the most intrested and heated topic that is "love"

Abhay always get curious that how did people would feel after an intense breakup?

What would be going on in their mind,what t would be perspective did they wanna kill themself or others?

They would be happy or sad?

Why after breakup a person like kabir turned into an alchoholic and drug addict?

These kinds of questions crumbled in his mind everytime he read love stories..

Why is hard to digest seperation

Believe me now a days everybody wants to come in relationships,fall in love,but they don't know how to deal with it if something miserable happened..

Government and scientist should do survey in this topic as it's the most trending and heated one,the one who never reads the columns of TOI would even read it with patiently,as it contains powerful word "love"

It gives u butterfly everytime u talk to someone u forget everything,time,place,condition health u just want to flow in the shores happily.

Love is hard to get now a days as people have much more faces then the ravan had,and all the faces are hidden you can't get what's going on their mind..

To fall in love is dangerous people should paste in their bio as caution be careful " danger ahead" !

Why did breakup hurt's ?

I again waisted my whole day in waiting and thinking about her, how did she can do with me man i was so loyal and trust worthy with her,i have never asked from any thing from her than two people chaet,why it's so hard to digest this thing?

Why i can't sleep in nights which was so peacefull after her messages ,it would felt like i was in heaven?

No stress,no anxiety a happy sleep

Why i am getting anxious to talk,to know ,what's the reason behind it,does it was just an attachment or love,somebody please tell me what it was man i am completely fucked up in this kinds of thought..

What if she leave you, will you able to live?

When things are not going right in ur life,u see everything which u never thought too that one day u will think about that..

I was not able to sleep from last 48 hour's the thought of seperation has made me distorted completely from head to toe my whole body was as boiling as like my pressure cooker,i don't know the reason why it was happening i haven't eaten from last 3 days just sitting in the corner of the room and thinking about something which is hard to explain in words,hope words are made to explain that penetrating feeling which i was going with it.

It was not the first time that i was feeling that loneliness it has happened in past too but that was just a childish one ,when u don't know what u are doing,u don't have any idea that school times loves..

Now a days people say just baby "i will not be able to live without u'' there is no life without you please don't leave me,it's like requesting water to flow against the shore..

Why do we get so attached to a person ?

Why does it all happens at the just age from 20's to 30's?

Why we are not able to live without that person?

It's all emotions like,anger,sadness,love,compassion and joy, we can't control that but we can manage it with our thought's..

Emotions are the part of life..

See ur parents they are the same guy who were so pampered in childhood so attached to their parent's they also use to say without maa i will not be able to live but they are managing you and your family..

That's how we live in family

Everything is made to happen..

Be grateful for each thing

Nothing is permanent ,everything is temprory..

Love

Ankit

8 Uncomfortable Truths that We All Need to Accept

Happiness is where you are now, or nowhere at all.

It’s not a new relationship, it’s not a new job. It’s not a completed goal, and it’s not a new car.

Until you give up on the idea that happiness is somewhere else, it will never be where you are.

2. Quitting is for winners.

Contrary to popular opinion, quitting is for winners. Knowing when to quit, change direction, leave a toxic situation, demand more from life, give up on something that isn’t working and move on, is a very important skill that people who win at life all seem to have.

But don’t quit because it’s hard.

Quit because it sucks.

3. If they really wanted to, they would.

If you apply pressure, they’ll do what you want them to.

If you take the pressure off, you’ll see what they’d rather do.

Never waste your life fighting what someone would rather do.

Let them go. Move on. Do better.

4. Taking no risk is the biggest risk.

You have to risk failure to succeed.

You have to risk rejection to be accepted.

You have to risk heartbreak to love.

If you’re always avoiding risk, you’re risking missing out on life.

5. Call yourself out.

The most common reason why people keep making the same mistakes is because their insecure ego prevents them from taking responsibility for their ‍

own bullshit, their own toxic traits and their own mistakes.

6. Closure is your choice.

Closure isn’t an apology, or justice, or answers.

That’s insecurity.

If the situation made you feel awful, seeking closure by reopening it is insanity.

Closure isn’t something htye can give you.

Closure is moving on. Closure is your choice.

‍7. If you’re happy alone, you’ll be happier together.

There is no type of affection that can fill the void of a person who doesn’t love themselves already.

There is no independence  in dependency.

There is no personal security in attaching yourself to a secure person.

Until you have a healthy relationship with yourself, you won’t make healthy decisions about someone else

8. It’s not your job to fix damaged people.

Your responsibility to hep someone will never outweigh their responsibility to help themselves.

But, it’s worth asking yourself why you resonated so strongly with someone that so desperately needed “fixing” in the first place.

Often, our own toxic romantic and non-romantic attachments tell a story about an issue we have within ourselves.

Don't look for magic or to get some kind of momentum in your life some days u would be like a ferrari ,somedays u might feel like maruti 800 it's life adjust ,learn and adapt stop complaining about merits and demerits of others..

Dear love,

I don't know

Weather i love you

Or not

But i don't want to

Loose you..

Feel this

Tag ur loved ones

An unconditional love

Not with the body

It's between two soul

Who don't want to loose

each other..

Addiction,

It’s an ugly thing.

But it’s what happens when

us addicts don’t know how

to heal in a healthy way,

don’t know how to feel

in a healthy way.

We pop pills,

shoot up,

smoke up,

drink up,

just to feel anything other than

what we’re feeling.

We rely on our dealers

as if they’re giving us the

breath of life we need in

order to survive.

It comes to a point where

it isn’t fun anymore,

but becomes a way of survival.

Addiction is repeatedly calling

anyone and everyone who can

get you drugs.

Doesn’t matter if it’s 3

I’m the afternoon or 3

in the morning.

Addiction is doing things

you swore you’d never do,

it’s doing things that you

never imagined or saw

yourself doing.

Then you get so disgusted

with yourself,

so you use more and more

and more.

You get caught up in the

the chaos.

Addiction is wanting to quit,

but not wanting to be sick.

Addiction is using just to

function.

You think you have it all

figured out.

You think you have everyone

fooled.

But sooner or later the party

has to come to an end.

Either by getting clean.

Going to jail.

Or ultimately, death.

Living clean is hard.

Staying away from drugs

is easy.

It’s learning how to come

back into the fold of

society that’s hard.

Every day a battle to stay

clean.

But a clean lifestyle

is better than numbing

the pain.

Have faith!

The sun will shine again..

Hy i know you are stressed up,fucked up.The beautiful life has become a mess now.

I know i can't feel ur pain,the suffering which you all are going through,some are waiting for their job,some of u would be waiting for that day to go out with ur friends and have some chill in life.life has become a chaos,everywhere there is darkness,either it's the running for oxygen or for hospitals,we have seen everything which the government was hiding from us in the form " Ache din".

Hy believe me!

You have'nt done anything wrong in your life ,it's not your fault this time stop ,stop cursing your soul ,it's not written in ur destiny..

I know half of u people would be saying that we are the unluckiest people,but what if u change ur perception,in this all tragedy,pandamic ,going on from past one year we are still living with our loved one's,with our families.

Yes we all are lucky,not to say but thousand's of people are dying everyday,everywhere we could see a family is loosing his prince,princess and queen.

Have patience!

The sun rise again,what if we are dealing with darkness today !

Have faith tomorrow is going to shine much more brighter than yesterday!

Have faith !

Ankit❤

We get bored with habits because they stop delighting us.

The outcomes becomes expected.And our habits become ordinary,we start

Derailing our progress to seak novelty.

Perhaps this is why we get caught up in a never ending cycle,jumping from one workout to the next,one diet to the next,one bussiness idea to the next.

As soon as we expeirence the slightest dip in motivation,we begin to seeking a new strategy-even if the old one was still working.❤

Sometimes we feel pain,sometimes we are in pain❤..

मेरी सांसें चल रही है

तुम हो नहीं,

फिर भी

देखो ना सनम

मन में कितनी

बातें चल रही है

तुमको देखे बरसो हो गया

पर सनम

अब तुम ही बताओ

इन यादों का क्या करे ?

रूह तो मेरी है

पर कमबख्त सांसें

तो तुम्हारी चल रहीं हैं

What if i need

Somebody to love?

Please tell

Will u will be

there at my worst?

What if i need

Somebody to love..❤

I know my baby

The whole world,

Even the destiny is

Going to against us..

I just need somebody

Like u to love❤

What if i need

Somebody to love?

Just answe me

Will u will be

There at my worst?

To give me

One more hug?

I just need somebody

Like u to love❤

I promise

That would not

Be the last

Although i know

I hurt you,

That was just

My fault..

Will u will.

Be forgiving

That thought ?

I just need somebody

Like u to love❤

Please tell

My baby

I know at that

Time the whole

World,will be

Against us..

But at last

I need somebody

Like u to love?❤

Control ur mind before heart start's controlling it..

It's hard

But it's not

Too late to

Do that..

Often we say ,

We haer that

I am very strong

I don't care

I can handle any

Situatins,any condition

Not physically

But mentally

But deepdown inside

We all are weak in

Controlling our feeling

We think from mind,

But it become dangerous

When heart start's controlling

It.

It's difficult to control

Ur thought's ,but it's three

Time more difficult to control

Ur feeling..

So it's never to

Late to get a new start

Forget about yesterday

Think about tomorrow..❤

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