Latest Posts by faelovesthings - Page 3
Do any other people LOVE gifs way to much but are WAY to embarrassed to use them. Ever.
Like I love gifs but I am way too scared to use them because I don’t know when it’s ok to!
When a change goes from making you anxious to just making you pissed at the person who caused it
Ok. Question time:
As someone who is neurodivergent I love labels for myself. I love labelling every part of my life. This sometimes causes stress as to which labels I fit into.
Now I have realized that at this point in my life I identify with the labels;
Aroflux (fluctuating between apothiromantic and Aegoromantic usually falling closer to Aegoromantic)
Bellusexual (enjoying the aspects around sex but not sex itself)
And many others that don’t apply
Now my question is, does the aro ace label apply to me or does the aroallo label apply?
NICK KROLL IS IN WHAT WE DO IN THE SHADOWS!!!!
IM SO EXCITED TO START WATCHING IT!!!
My current list before I can watch it:
Finish glee (1 season left)
Finish big mouth watch through (5.5 seasons left)
Then I can watch it!!!
If you have any other suggestions for shows lmk bc I’m running out of new shows to watch
Anyone else get giddy when their friends call them their friend to other people or have I just instilled in my brain that everyone is lying and don’t actually like me
They blocked me 😂
In case anyone was wondering, @darling is not a good admin. If they ask to be an admin on your community I recommend you say no. They have banned many people in @grey-loves-dragons community and have made so many people mad, including myself. They have started removing their posts and banning ANYONE who disagrees with themselves. They are blaming grey for all the problems, when grey is the one who made the he community. If you want you community to stay in a usable state then do not even make them a moderator let alone an admin.
Please be careful and if you agree with darling side I hope you realize that the community was skk ok much happier before they decided to harass my best friend
In case anyone was wondering, @darling is not a good admin. If they ask to be an admin on your community I recommend you say no. They have banned many people in @grey-loves-dragons community and have made so many people mad, including myself. They have started removing their posts and banning ANYONE who disagrees with themselves. They are blaming grey for all the problems, when grey is the one who made the he community. If you want you community to stay in a usable state then do not even make them a moderator let alone an admin.
Please be careful and if you agree with darling side I hope you realize that the community was skk ok much happier before they decided to harass my best friend
Here’s a post by my best friend about what’s going on and if you want to help, report @darling for harrasment.
okay my side of the story
under the cut because i know most of you are sick of this (very understandably)
Darling messaged me a week or two ago and asked to help out in the community
after adding them as a mod they reiterated that they wanted to help as an admin so that they could edit guidelines. i was unsure about this but gave them my trust because they have experience modding.
i made a draft of a new pinned post and new rules in the autism mod community so that our mods could give their input. i was waiting for the original poll in the main community to be over before i posted it. in the mean time a they made their own draft of a pinned post. i liked some aspects of theirs but as the creator of the community assumed i would make the final say and pin the post. i made a new version of mine with some aspects of theirs (so that they would know their opinion was being listened to) and posted it in the mod community. they said they liked it.
the poll in the main community was over so i posted it. they got very mad at me for posting it and called me a tyrant. we started beefing in the autism mod community. i retaliated because from my perspective they were getting mad at me and attacking me for nothing. i didnt originally understand what they were upset about. after talking today it turns out the whole thing they were mad about was me “stealing” the post. i apologized and reiterated that i thought we had agreed to post it
i asked the mod community what they thought of all this and Darling banned every mod that disagreed with them
i then started to get rather upset because i felt they were power tripping and being uncooperative.
they banned my partner for sharing his opinion. and albeit i started to take it a little too personally
i made a poll asking the mods if they wanted darling to keep doing what they were doing. they deleted it and made their own. it’s at this point i removed the new mod because i didn’t want new mods brought into the middle of this
Darling and i talked it out in dms and came to a tentative stalemate after i heard their side of the story and i calmed down
then comes this after noon
Darling made a post asking people to consider blazing their post about their charity community
i acknowledged that it was a good community but that it went against guideline number 7
they proceeded to say that no one cares about the guidlines and that they don’t have to follow them
i disagreed
they got mad at me for suggesting that they’re post was against the guidelines
i, being very tired of this asked them to step down.
this didn’t go well and they started being hostile and threatening the community
as we are both admins i have no power to remove them to the community
i took the the Autism page because i thought if anyone could do anything it would be the wider community seeing what’s happened and making their own opinions. Darling has deleted every post i’ve made on the situation and banned every member who has spoken out in support of me
we have both reported the other for harassment. i suppose now we wait and see what happens
I cut my own hair for the first time and sensory issues went on vacation!!!
Before
After
My mom keeps trying to convince me that smut isn’t porn
When you get banned from a community because you were standing up for your best friend and THE CREATOR OF THE COMMUNITY
😘🤳
It is taking everything in me not to tag the person that banned me from my best friends community 😂
Tw: suicide
Does anyone else start to feel suicidal when they can’t tell what’s wrong. Am I just super depressed. Is this neurodivergency.
Whenever I can’t tell what I’m feeling it’s like it all just becomes negative thoughts and suicidal thinking.
Any advice
What’s a qpr, you ask?
Idk
Aren’t you in a qpr, you ask?
Yes, I still don’t know…
(@grey-loves-dragons)
For any other trans people (or people who can’t shower some days for any other reason) here is my “if I take of these underwear/clothes I will literally have a meltdown” hygiene routine
1- wet hair completely with spray bottle: I have very curly hair so it’s easiest to style when wet. I wet my hair using a spray bottle and brush it out
2- style hair: once my hair is wet I like to put my product in. On days like this it’s not feasible for me to wash my hair so I go straight to styling
3- wash body: I use a two face cloth method. One with soap which is to clean any sweat producing areas (armpits, underboob, behind knees, etc.) then one with cold water to wipe off the soap and clean the rest of my body
4- deodorant: I already use deodorant at night and in the morning but when I don’t shower it’s extremely important. Try to find one that says like “72 hour protection” our “long lasting” for at night.
5- wash feet: I tend to walk bear foot as often as possible so my feet get pretty dirty so I like to wash them as well with soap
6- moisturizer: I use various moisturizers in order to help my skin and body after such rough treatment. Vaseline anywhere that was already dry before and lips, Nivea cream on hands (and my knees if they feel dry), a facial moisturizer on my face, hand lotion on any other part of my body that I feel needs it
7- dental hygiene: I have worked my dental hygiene into my routine with my showers so I do it after I’m done cleaning my body.
Brain be like:
Oh, someone didn’t answer you after 5 minutes so obviously they hate me
Like no they don’t🙄
I SHOULD NOT HAVE TO UNFOLLOW THE TRANS TAG TO NOT SEE PENIS AND BOOBS.
It’s fucked up
I’m not as far on the ace spectrum as I thought I was…
I need someone to kiss me but I swear to god the thought of someone kissing me makes me feel sick.
Like, what?
How do I need to be kissed but also the thought repulses me
I need to kiss someone but also magically make it so I can’t be kissed back but not in a rejection way
I need someone to kiss me but without the kiss
Like wtf does my brain want right now?
Am I going insane?
Is this a neurodivergent thing? An aromantic thing? An ace spectrum thing?
WTF IS THIS?!?!?!?
I made it through Christmas and only cried once!!!!!
Now I will lie in bed and look at my gifts and use every gift I can immediately.
Anyone want to hear about the stuff I got? /hj
Of to Walmart. Must listen to my sounds. No breakdown today
My moms party is later and me and bestie stopped to get some food at the local brewery and they are playing live music and I’m so confused
I need to clean my room and organize and cleane my bathroom tonight. Every time I get a note on this post I will do one of the following
Pick up, and fold 15 pieces of clothes
Organize a cubby/drawer/shelf
Make bed
Traditional cleaning (sweep, mop, scrub walls and windows, etc)
Pick up 20 items off floor
My school does this find Santa thing were they blast music on the intercom and you have to find Santa. It is horrible I hate it so much
In one of my fav teachers class she has posters up.
They are fake movie posters for tell tale heart
Her students made them
One of them has danny de Vito on it and it’s so funny
I need someone to kiss me but I swear to god the thought of someone kissing me makes me feel sick.
Like, what?
How do I need to be kissed but also the thought repulses me
I need to kiss someone but also magically make it so I can’t be kissed back but not in a rejection way
I need someone to kiss me but without the kiss
Like wtf does my brain want right now?
Am I going insane?
Is this a neurodivergent thing? An aromantic thing? An ace spectrum thing?
WTF IS THIS?!?!?!?
New fav Christmas movie just dropped y’all
(Red one)
(It actually is not great but has Nick kroll in it so…….)
(Is actually in love with Nick kroll)
(I’m aro and I’m not in love here is just so fucking funny)
This is from a couple weeks ago but me and my bestie learnt to waltz!!!
We are basically married /j
@grey-loves-dragons
I SHAVED MY UPPER LIP A WHILE AGO TO GET RID OF MY BLOND ASS BABY HAIRS AND THEY ARE GROWING IN DARKER!!!!!!!
TESTOSTERON
I didn’t expect it to start working this fast