MOST ATTITUDES THAT DESTROY MARRIAGES YOU NEED TO STOP.

How do I know if I am a bisexual man??

Anonymous because still in the closet.

Here’s how I finally accepted my bisexuality.

Now I have had hints of it for years in my life from unwitting attraction and responses from close interaction with other males and unwanted fantasies.

This somewhat spiraled into dabbling in gay erotica which threw a spanner int he works of my sexual identity in a heap of ways even to where i questioned my gender but i suppressed it focused on some other things in life and dated and had sex with exclusively women.

Then HE came into my life: Picture this.

● Snarky, hyper intelligent and sweet natured.

● A flat out 10/10 better looking than any celeb i can think of and pretty well built with the most charming demeanour and a smile that could explode someones heart from a mile away .

● For some insane reason attracted to me.

● Forward and quite domineering but gentle and easygoing.

So you can imagine what happened to the big grouchy reserved guy with a complete lack of confidence in his sexuality.

I fell head over heels .

We had a lot of interactions escapades and so on and were a great match.

My heart damn near exploded seeing his gorgeous smile and feeling him touch and hug me while i was the bigger guy he had all the confidence and allowed me to come out of my shell.

I could happily listen to him talk about anything and the quiet moments were tender though i had to keep it a secret , it actually added a little layer of electricity.

But these little foibles dont last.

And the rest is a bit much to put on here but you know.

were separated by life we both went off to the world in opposite directions and we knew it was just a temp thing : I moved on to a wonderful relationship with a woman again who was as amazing as the guy before she was kind sweet tender and we had a wonderful relationship though we split in the end amicably.

I never found the guy again.

In the end I resolved that no matter what male or female if i get that spark of attraction that both this girl and guy gave me and the happiness it lead to no matter how long or short im going for it.

And that falls under the word bisexual,

13 Powerful Secrets on How to Turn On Women every man MUST know.

1. Display confidence in yourself and your actions.

2. Pay attention to what she says and show interest in her thoughts.

3. Compliment her focusing on both physical and personal attributes.

4. Communicate openly and honestly.

5. Make her laugh with your sense of humor.

6. Surprise her with romantic gestures.

7. Take the lead in initiating physical intimacy, and show your manly desire.

8. Always be aware of her boundaries.

9. Be empathetic towards her feelings and experiences.

10. Use gentle touches to convey your attraction.

11. Maintain Personal Hygiene.

12. Dress in a way that makes you feel confident and attractive.

13. Share and explore new experiences together.

Moon Behind Big Sur, Doorway to the Universe

Is life all about money

Everyday millions of people get up early in the morning, dress up and rush off to work - for what?

Billions of people around the world work for a boss they don’t like, go to a company that they do not like, work for a job they do not like and deal with customers they do not enjoy serving - why?

There are individuals, politicians, businessmen, con-men, fraudsters, company’s, organizations and even countries who lie, cheat, steal, fight and even kill each other - for what?

Even if you want to eat food, have a simple internet connection or even a decent pair of clothes - what do you need?

After children are born - why do you think parents put them in school to get a good education pass out of schools, universities and get a good career to do what?

No matter how romantically anyone puts it - end of the day - everyone on this planet and I mean EVERY SINGLE PERSON on this planet works, lives and exists for earning MONEY.

If you have loads of it - your life gets better. And if you do not have it - your life is absolutely useless.

So is life all about money?

100%. Better believe it.

And if you have any doubts - remember this much - even the religious folks and ALL religions ask you for one thing and one thing alone in exchange for prayers, favors and celestial blessings - and that one thing is……

What Women Wish You Knew about Dating:

A Single Guy'S Guide To Romantic Relationships

If the difference between guys and men is still unclear.

Here are a few examples that apply to dating:

○ A guy uses women to build his self-esteem.

● A man already has it.

○ A guy likes to "hang out" with a woman he's interested in.

● A man asks her out.

○ A guy doesn't make a move until he's sure there's no risk.

● A man is bold and clear with his intentions.

○ A guy plays games with a woman.

● A man has no time for games because they keep him from getting to know the woman.

○ A guy will become bitter and angry with a woman when she denies him.

● A man accepts that dating involves risk.

○ A guy fears and worships women.

● A man respects and adores them but fears and worships only God.

☆ Guys are cool and indifferent

BUT

● Men are hot and passionate.

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The narcissist will refuse to discuss…

The narcissist will refuse to discuss what triggered you, but they'll gladly demonize how you reacted. They'll twist the narrative to shift the focus away from their own harmful behavior and onto your emotional response. They'll gaslight you into believing that your feelings are the problem, that you're the one who's too sensitive, too emotional, too crazy.

They'll use your reaction as evidence of your supposed flaws, as proof that you're the one who's broken, who's defective. They'll tell you that you're overreacting, that you're being too dramatic, that you're making a big deal out of nothing.

But they'll never, ever take responsibility for their own actions. They'll never acknowledge the hurt they've caused, the pain they've inflicted. They'll never validate your feelings or apologize for their own behavior.

Instead, they'll continue to manipulate and control, using your emotional response as a weapon against you. They'll use it to silence you, to shame you, to keep you in line.

But don't fall for it. Don't let them convince you that your feelings are the problem. Don't let them gaslight you into believing that you're the one who's crazy.

You are not crazy. Your feelings are valid. And the narcissist's behaviour is not your fault.