They will never know—
the weight you carry
in a body that feels like a fragile house
with storms at every window.
Yet here you are,
standing in the ruin,
patching what you can,
finding beauty in cracks
only you can see.
Your pain does not speak for you,
though it roars in silence.
It does not define you,
though it shadows your steps.
What defines you is this:
The way you rise when no one is watching.
The way you find a smile
in the rubble of the hardest days.
The way your heart holds love
when your body holds ache.
Some days, survival is a whisper.
Some days, it’s a battle cry.
And both are triumphs.
You are not weak because you rest.
You are not broken because you hurt.
You are a masterpiece in progress,
proof that the soul
is stronger than any pain.
So when the world feels too heavy,
when the night stretches endless,
remember this:
You are not alone in this fight.
And even now,
you are winning.
- DK
1. Life doesn't change, but people do, learn to accept that not everybody is who you thought you knew.
2. Crying is good for your health, it flushes unhealthy bacteria from your body, strengthening the immune system and relieving stress.
3. You can't see your reflection in boiling water, similarly, you can't see the truth in your life in a state of anger.
4. Some people are genetically more susceptible to perceiving negative events with more intensity and severity than others.
5. People who hide their feelings usually care the most.
6. Never give up on something you really want, it's difficult to wait but worse to regret.
7. The happier you are, the less sleep you require to function every day life. Sadness increases the urge to sleep more.
8. Your brain treats rejection like physical pain.
9. If you don't dream you most likely have some sort of personality disorder.
10. The people who give the best advice are usually the ones with the most problems.
11. Being alone for a long time is as bad for your health as smoking 15 cigarettes a day.
12. If saliva can't dissolve something, you can't taste it.
13. People who blush easily, are more generous and trustworthy than those who don't.
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14. People blink faster when they are lying or are under stress.
15. When you hold the hand of the one you love, it reduces both mental and physical pain.
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Intimacy is not just about sex. It's having heart-to-hearts, staying up all night talking, sharing childhood memories, thoughts, fears, dreams & hopes for the future. It's uncontrollable laughter, direct eye contact and feeling each other without touching - it's exchanging energy
WHAT'S YOUR SIGN?
PISCES - THE SEX ADDICT(2/19-3/20) EXTREMELY adorable. Intelligent. Loves to joke. Very Good sense of humor Energetic. Predict future. BEST kisser. Always get what they want. Very Attractive Easy going. RARE Find. GOOD when found. Loves being in long relationship Talkative. Romantic. Caring. NOT one to give up. 16 years of luck if you repost.
GEMINI- CRAVES A LOT OF SEX (5/21-6/20) Outgoing. Lovable. Extremely energetic. Spontaneous. Not one to mess with. Funny. Excellent kisser. EXTREMELY adorable. Good personalities. Loves relationships.Addictive. Loud. 16 years of luck if you repost.
TAURUS- THE ONE U CAN’T TOUCH & SEX ADDICT (4/20-5/20) Coldest motha fucka on earth. Outgoing, Loveable, the best in bed, strong, artistic, caring person, The MOST Irresistible of all, popular, Unpredictable, STUBBORNN, 16 years of luck if you repost.
ARIES - THE PLAYER (3/21-4/19) Nice. Love is one of a kind. Great listeners ... Lover not a fighter, but will still knock you out. Always happy. Loud. Talkative. Outgoing. VERY FORGIVING. Loves to make out. Has a beautiful smile. Generous. Strong. THE MOST IRRESISTIBLE. 9 years of luck if you repost.
AQUARIUS - THAT NIGGA (1/20-2/18) Very high appeal. Love is one of a kind. Very romantic. Very caring person ! Entirely creative. Extremely random and proud of it. Freak. Spontaneous. Great at telling Stories. Not a Fighter, But will Knock your lights out if it comes down to it. Someone you should hold on to. 12 years of luck if you repost.
CANCER - HARD LOVER (6/22-7/22) Trustworthy. Attractive. Great kisser. One of a kind. Loves being In long-term relationships. Extremely energetic. Unpredictable. Will exceed your expectations. Normally not a Fighter, but will if neccessary. Someone loves them right now. 2 years of luck if you repost.
LEO - THE SEX MANIAC (7/23-8/22) Very talkative, outgoing and popular. Nice to everyone they meet. Wild and ravenous in the bed and everywhere else. Beautiful smile and personality. Strong intuition. Their Love is one of a kind. Silly, Fun and SEXY. Have own unique appeal. Irresistible lover. Most caring person you’ll ever meet! However not the kind of person you wanna mess with...they will kick your ass... u might end up crying... 10 years of luck if you repost.
VIRGO - THE BEST SEXUAL PARTNER (8/23-9/22) Love to bust. Nice. Sassy. Intelligent. EXTREMELY SEXY. Predict future. Loves being in long relationships. Has lots of friends. Great talker. Always gets what he or she wants. Also not a fighter, but if they have to, they will also knock the lights out of you if it comes down to it.Cool. Loves to own Geminis’ in sports. Extremely fun. Loves to joke. Smart. 24 years of luck if you repost.
LIBRA - THE PIMP (9/23-10/22) Caring and kind. Smart. Center of attention. High appeal. Has the last word. Good to find, hard to keep. Fun to be around. Extremely weird but in a good way. Good Sense of Humor. Thoughtful. Always gets what he or she wants. Loves to joke. Very popular. Silly, fun and sweet. 5 years of luck if you repost.
SCORPIO - THE VIRGIN (10/23-11/21) Loves being in long relationships. Likes to give a good fight for what they want. Extremely outgoing. Loves to help people in times of need. Best kisser. Good personality. Stubborn. A caring person. ONE OF A KIND.Gorgeous Smile.Not one to mess with. The best sexual partners in the zodiac. Are the most attractive people on earth! 15 years of luck if you repost.
SAGITTARIUS - THE ONE (11/22-12/21) Spontaneous. High appeal. Rare to find. Great when found. Loves being in long relationships. So much love to give. Not one to mess with. Very pretty. Very romantic. Nice to everyone they meet. Their Love is one of a kind. Silly, fun and sweet. Have own unique appeal. Most caring person you will ever meet! Amazing in the you know where..!!! Not the kind of person you wanna mess with- you might end up crying! Caring and kind. Smart. Loyal. Center of attention. High appeal. Has the last word. Good to find, hard to keep. Fun to be around. Extremely weird but in a good way. Good Sense of Humor. Thoughtful. Always gets what he or she wants. Loves to joke. Very popular. Silly, fun and sweet. 5 years of luck if you repost.
CAPRICORN - THE SEXY ONE (12/22-1/19) Dominant in relationships. Someone loves them right now. Always Wants the last word. Caring. Smart. Sweet. Loud. Loyal. Beautiful. Goofy. Easy to talk to. Everything you ever wanted. Easy to please. Loves to smile. Beautiful laugh. Patient. Cautious. Bit of naughty.The one and only. 7 Years of luck if you repost
💫CHARMING AWAKENING 💫
How do I know if I am a bisexual man??
Anonymous because still in the closet.
Here’s how I finally accepted my bisexuality.
Now I have had hints of it for years in my life from unwitting attraction and responses from close interaction with other males and unwanted fantasies.
This somewhat spiraled into dabbling in gay erotica which threw a spanner int he works of my sexual identity in a heap of ways even to where i questioned my gender but i suppressed it focused on some other things in life and dated and had sex with exclusively women.
Then HE came into my life: Picture this.
● Snarky, hyper intelligent and sweet natured.
● A flat out 10/10 better looking than any celeb i can think of and pretty well built with the most charming demeanour and a smile that could explode someones heart from a mile away .
● For some insane reason attracted to me.
● Forward and quite domineering but gentle and easygoing.
So you can imagine what happened to the big grouchy reserved guy with a complete lack of confidence in his sexuality.
I fell head over heels .
We had a lot of interactions escapades and so on and were a great match.
My heart damn near exploded seeing his gorgeous smile and feeling him touch and hug me while i was the bigger guy he had all the confidence and allowed me to come out of my shell.
I could happily listen to him talk about anything and the quiet moments were tender though i had to keep it a secret , it actually added a little layer of electricity.
But these little foibles dont last.
And the rest is a bit much to put on here but you know.
were separated by life we both went off to the world in opposite directions and we knew it was just a temp thing : I moved on to a wonderful relationship with a woman again who was as amazing as the guy before she was kind sweet tender and we had a wonderful relationship though we split in the end amicably.
I never found the guy again.
In the end I resolved that no matter what male or female if i get that spark of attraction that both this girl and guy gave me and the happiness it lead to no matter how long or short im going for it.
And that falls under the word bisexual,
I learned from my mother how to love
the living, to have plenty of vases on hand
in case you have to rush to the hospital
with peonies cut from the lawn, black ants
still stuck to the buds. I learned to save jars
large enough to hold fruit salad for a whole
grieving household, to cube home-canned pears and peaches, to slice through maroon grape skins, and flick out the sexual seeds with a knife point.
I learned to attend viewings even if I didn’t know the deceased, to press the moist hands of the living, to look in their eyes and offer sympathy, as though I understood loss even then.
I learned that whatever we say means nothing, what anyone will remember is that we came. I learned to believe I had the power to ease awful pains materially like an angel.
Like a doctor, I learned to create from another’s suffering my own usefulness, and once you know how to do this, you can never refuse.
To every house you enter, you must offer healing: a chocolate cake you baked yourself, the blessing of your voice, your chaste touch.
13 BEST WAYS TO DO WHEN YOUR WIFE REFUSES TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU
1. PREPARE HER
Sometimes it is not that she does not want to make love to you but that all you have to do is prepare her with foreplay to get her in the mood
2. DO NOT FORCE HER
Do not force yourself on her in the name of demanding for your conjugal rights. Forcing an adult to have sex is demeaning and disrespectful
3. CHECK IF YOU HAVE BEEN HURTING HER EMOTIONS
If you have been hurting or ignoring her emotions, she will struggle to be sexually attracted to you. Women make love with their heart. If her heart is bruised, she will struggle to give you her body
4. CHECK IF LAST TIME YOU WERE TOO ROUGH ON HER
If last time you were too rough on her leaving her vagina, clitoris or nipples sore; she might be uncomfortable about letting you have her. Learn to be gentle
5. CHECK IF YOU HAVE UNADDRESSED ISSUES
If there are matters in your marriage that are not being concluded, intimacy will suffer. Stop ignoring the issues. The sooner you solve them the better
6. CHECK IF SHE SUSPECTS YOU OF CHEATING
If she knows of or suspects you are cheating, it will be a barrier between you two. If you have been cheating, stop it and win back her trust. If she suspects but it is not true, allay her fears and make her secure
7. CUDDLE HER
Sometimes this means more to her than love making. This goes a long way to show her she is not a sex object. This secures her and in doing so, she will enjoy making love with you
8. GAUGE HER MENSTRUATION CYCLE
Know your wife's monthly period cycle. Not every wife lies they are on their periods
9. FIND OUT IF SOMETHING IS STRESSING HER
Maybe there is something outside of your marriage that is disturbing her, maybe it is work issues, financial issues, her health, the children, her parents, a past trauma. Hear her out and show her that you are on her side
10. DON'T CHEAT ON HER
Just because she is not in the mood today, doesn't mean you cheat. She might come around tomorrow depending on how you two treat each other, but if you cheat on her you might lose her for good
11. BE PATIENT WITH HER
Life is fluid, with ups and downs. Sometimes she may not be in the mood just as you are also sometimes not in the mood. Understand her
12. PUT HER ABOVE YOUR PENIS
Show her that she is more important to you than sexual pleasure. There is more to marriage than an orgasm. Once you make her a priority, intimacy will be richer
13. GENTLY ASK HER WHAT IS WRONG
Don't assume or get furious that she is denying you sex. Simply ask her if she is OK, she will open up and you two will grow closer
Remember: Sex is the gift of marriage from our Creator. So, these are the best tips to all marriages to eliminate misunderstanding on the sex issues for a healthy and happy relationship.
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year.
God bless us all.
*"A Woman......."*
A woman becomes so sweet and delicious when she is in bed with a man who she senses loves and enjoys her, that the pleasure she brings excels all delight.
A woman becomes truly radiant when she is with a man who appreciates her for who she is. His genuine admiration and affection bring out the best in her, making her feel confident and cherished.
A woman becomes more open and vulnerable when she feels completely safe and loved by her partner. This vulnerability is not a sign of weakness but a testament to the strength of their bond. It allows her to express her true desires and emotions, knowing she will be met with understanding and compassion.
A woman becomes empowered when she is with a man who respects and values her autonomy. He encourages her to pursue her passions and supports her ambitions, creating a partnership built on mutual respect and admiration.
A woman becomes a source of endless delight when she is with a man who continuously nurtures their relationship. His consistent efforts to show love and appreciation strengthen their bond, making every moment together special.
A woman blossoms into her full potential when she is with a man who believes in her capabilities. His unwavering support and confidence in her abilities inspire her to reach new heights, fostering a sense of self-assurance that permeates every aspect of her life.
A woman becomes more adventurous and willing to explore new experiences when she feels her partner's excitement and enthusiasm. His encouragement to step out of her comfort zone allows her to discover new passions and create lasting memories, enriching their shared journey.
A woman becomes deeply connected to her partner when she senses his emotional availability and vulnerability. His openness to share his feelings and experiences creates a safe space for her to do the same, deepening their emotional intimacy and trust.
A woman becomes a beacon of joy and positivity when she is with a man who consistently brings laughter and light into her life. His sense of humour and playful spirit uplift her, making their time together filled with happiness and delight.
A woman becomes resilient and strong when she is with a man who stands by her during challenging times. His unwavering support and belief in her ability to overcome obstacles empower her to face difficulties with courage and determination.
*Yes, A Woman....*