something about substances so strong they can only be cut by that same substance (like diamond) gets to me. the self-fulfilling prophecy of it. you can armor yourself against any and all outside threats, but you're still beholden to your own nature.
The world is less scary and chaotic if you lie down on the floor
Noticing different kinds of light (stars, candles, sunshine or city lights) can bring back the feeling of wonder and hope
If you can’t shower, washing your hands and face will help you feel better and cleaner
If you can’t clean anything else, changing and/or washing your bedsheets can do wonders
Fresh air and being outside in general can help with depersonalisation
Spending time around animals can help you recognise what’s important and calm anxious thought cycles
Techniques for emotional regulation in children can really help adults too
Putting random asortment of food on a plate without creating an actual dish still counts as a meal
Drink something warm
Delete that app
Treat yourself as if you were a kid. Buy yourself a toy, play around, learn about cool new things
Fast paced life isn’t morally better and it’s not good for everyone
There is no good reason to keep yourself hungry
Singing to your full lung capacity can be a great way to let out built up emotion
Tension in the face can cause headaches. Try to massage your face regularly
Nothing is as important as your health
You are a whole person on your own, you don’t need someone else to be there to deserve love and attention. Your life can be full as long as you are present
You should cry things out whenever you feel like it
Slow walks are still movement and they do count
It’s never as bad as you imagine it
Try changing your toothpaste flavor if you hate brushing your teeth
Anything can be a stim toy - one of my favourites is a heavy dragon necklace that has a complicated surfice. It’s fun to touch and hold and it’s not even “actual” stim toy
Procrastinating and feeling bad about it is true waste of time. Learn to truly rest. It takes the same amount of time but it is useful
Sometimes you have to force yourself to do the things that make you feel better
Don’t trust the thoughts you have after not sleeping for a while
Friendships don’t have to be forever to mean something
"Though my soul may set in darkness, it will rise in perfect light; I have loved the stars too fondly to be fearful of the night"
Sarah Williams
idk why im reblogging this lmao.
1. Sharing shy smiles and blushes as they pass each other in the crowded hallways, their hearts fluttering with anticipation.
2. Writing secret love letters in the margins of textbooks, passing them discreetly in class.
3. Sneaking glances at each other during a captivating lecture, their eyes meeting briefly before looking away, a silent connection forged.
4. Meeting by chance in the library, discovering a shared love for a particular book or author, and engaging in deep conversations about literature.
5. Leaving small notes hidden in each other's lockers or textbooks, conveying sweet messages or inside jokes.
6. Studying together in a quiet corner of the library, their heads bent over books, occasionally stealing longing glances.
7. Sharing a secret rendezvous in an empty classroom after school, their whispers and stolen kisses echoing in the quiet space.
8. Passing each other handwritten notes during a boring lecture, filled with doodles, song lyrics, and love-struck confessions.
9. Working on a group project together, finding solace in late-night study sessions filled with laughter, teasing, and shared cups of coffee.
10. Taking turns leaving surprise gifts, like a single rose or a favorite snack, in each other's lockers to brighten their day.
11. Sharing a stolen moment under a blooming cherry blossom tree on campus, petals falling around them like confetti as they exchange a tender kiss.
12. Collaborating on a school event or performance, their talents and passions intertwining to create something beautiful together.
13. Passing notes during a particularly boring class, filled with doodles and funny anecdotes, their laughter hidden behind cupped hands.
14. Supporting each other during nerve-wracking presentations or exams, offering encouraging smiles and reassuring touches.
15. Graduating together, their hearts brimming with pride and excitement for the future, knowing they have someone special by their side.
1. Blue eyes
2. Light blue eyes
3. Deep blue eyes
4. Sapphire blue eyes
5. Ice blue eyes
6. Steel blue eyes
7. Aqua blue eyes
8. Teal eyes
9. Turquoise eyes
10. Green eyes
11. Emerald green eyes
12. Moss green eyes
13. Olive green eyes
14. Hazel eyes
15. Light brown eyes
16. Dark brown eyes
17. Amber eyes
18. Golden brown eyes
19. Honey brown eyes
20. Chocolate brown eyes
21. Gray eyes
22. Stormy gray eyes
23. Silver gray eyes
24. Steel gray eyes
25. Smoky gray eyes
26. Violet eyes
27. Lavender eyes
28. Amethyst eyes
29. Lilac eyes
30. Black eyes
31. Jet black eyes
32. Onyx black eyes
33. Charcoal black eyes
34. Ruby red eyes
35. Wine red eyes
36. Mahogany eyes
37. Topaz eyes
38. Copper eyes
39. Caramel eyes
40. Walnut eyes
41. Pink eyes
42. Almond eyes
43. Sienna eyes
44. Maroon eyes
45. Peridot green eyes
46. Chartreuse eyes
47. Jade green eyes
48. Pine green eyes
49. Cornflower blue eyes
50. Indigo eyes
i hate people sometimes and not HATE HATE but love hate kinda hate. soft hate, not like i dont like u, but like im too tired to not like u so ill just let it be as it is. guess stuff happens and we keep moving in that cycle again and again and at this point i dont feel real me anymore, ive a lot of covers on now and i dont give a piece of me to people. been having a lot of events where my "heart beats fast as hell". "i cry", "feeling very very useless", "distant", "getting a closure". its okay now, i hope i turn into a decent adult, the kind of adult i want to be and i also feel like theres a time period of infinity between right now and what i want to become - the person, not about career.
p.s. my heart is beating fast as hell while im typing all this. more power to me!
Provence Hairstreak / Tomares ballus
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