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“yall never criticize men like this” says radfem… here’s the thing. women DO criticize men for their behavior, men don’t listen, why waste time on men? when a woman is catering to men (i.e the female singers that are very much catering to men and the patriarchy chappell roan and sabrina carpenter and sooo many more), as a woman, im not gonna sit back and allow them to make us all look like doormats. SORRY. im not gonna sit back and watch them reinforce stupid stereotypes onto little girls and women. it’s not in my nature, it’s not who i am. that weak bullshit is why we’re always gonna be where we’re at. we need to address problems , just because it’s a woman doesn’t mean that it’s feminist to just shut up and call her a victim. some of u need to go back to ur little libfem spaces and stfu.
“Not every person has the right to be a parent” is a sentiment I feel is widely accepted in leftist circles, referring largely to abusive households. But this doesn’t get taken to condemn surrogacy and egg-donating industries. Like Jesus Christ why do most leftists not care about this flavor of stuff when it financially exploits women, and subjects them to unnecessary harm? All just because it means infertile women and homosexual couples can have a different way to have children to raise? What happened to “having children isn’t a guaranteed right” Of course I know it’s because of misogyny, but good grief.
I believe the myth that anger turns you into the people/person that abused you was created to keep women placated and in a position where we are never fully able to take ownership of their own rage because, according to that myth, that makes you just as bad as your abusers. Please be a hater and angry till the day you die. WHAT THEY DID WAS NEVER OKAY AND IT NEVER WILL BE.
Women need to stop sleeping with men and creating more males because they are not the ones who have to go to work and deal with those men. I have to go there, only to get shat all over with those men's sexism. After dishing out all that abuse, the men get to go home to their dumb ass handmaiden wives who will feed them and fuck them for free. Then the handmaidens have the audacity to turn around and ask me to make room for them in my feminism, as though they are not quite literally the reason that men exist in the first instance.
adults disciplining children: i think i will communicate with this brand new human in the loudest, rudest, most obnoxious and socially off-putting way possible
‘I’m convinced that Bianca Censori has a humiliation kink’ imagine being so porn-rotted that you see a woman clearly being abused and isolated by a rich, unstable man, and coming to the conclusion that maybe she finds the abuse sexy. Imagine being so stupid.
Not to be a hater but this is why jury trials are simply not fit for purpose in a misogynistic society. How is any woman supposed to receive justice for male violence, when a jury of her peers are so likely to be idiots? When their ‘reasonable doubts’ are based on a fictional, unreal view of society shaped by pornography.
The older I get the more I can clearly see that pretty much most of the mothers in the west caused all their own problems themselves. If you weren't trafficked into marriage or sexual slavery as a destitute citizen of some undeveloped or even a developing country, then you have no excuse to be making the choice - and it is a choice, no one forced you do it - to partner with a man and have his children who then ends up treating you and your children like shit. I am not saying that I don't sympathise with these women, but I am saying that they are intellectually inferior and that they should be designated as such as a warning to the rest of us. I will never choose a man even over the biggest handmaiden alive, but that doesn't mean that I will close ranks with that handmaiden. I will simply cut her off and leave her to deal with the oppression of womanhood on her own. The lack of gratitide and accountability from western and westernised women especially cannot continue to be rewarded by feminists. Our foremothers did not sacrifice everything just for their pickme progeny to make the active decision to enable their own oppression at the hands of men and the state. You can complain all you want but that didn't compel the big banks to fix the economy after the Great Recession either. Men will not solve the problems that they contributed to, and I sure as hell am not going to step in on their behalf.
There are people who constantly make excuses for maIe identified women especially as they screw over other women and let me just say I do not give a single flying fuck. I dont care for their excuses or sob stories. I will not push them to do anything against their interest but I'm under no obligation to care about or help them when shit blows up in their face especially when they will be ruthless towards women like me. If they get fucked over & need assistance I'm not playing shero, they can go ask the moids they worship for help.
"But they're just trying to survive and protect themselves" so the fuck am I.
Types of women/red flags to avoid in friendships.
Women who always complain about everything
Women who seek to embarass you in front of others.
Women who dont acknowledge you in front of others.
Women who often -subtly- put you down.
Women who constantly tell you when other people say something bad about you
Yes-gyns. Women who always blindly agree with everything you say.
Women who always make excuses
MaIe-crazy women.
Women who dont respect boundaries.
If you're thinking of someone as you're reading all of this or the moment you saw "friendship red flags" - it's a sign to start moving on from them especially if they're draining you more than fulfilling you.
Will update this with link to longer post later.
These feel-good feminist and their drivel are just as harmful as any other religious figurehead.
Preaching about mother yoniverse and her fertile womb raining down abundance on women is the same as the pastor telling his followers how god will reward them for doing nothing.
Same mind fuck, different language and audience.
If it's not actually changing the conditions of your life you need to throw the shit away. It's useless. You'll end up impoverished with a big ego, what good is that?
"Female empowerment" is useless if it isn't actually giving you the tools to gain economic success and power. You're lying if you think that shit isn't important.
i don't understand it when radfems/leans reblog or post content of super femmed-up women, usually celebs, like ... this is all the stuff radfems are criticizing and against because it harms women, do you really still find it aesthetically pleasing?? am i the crazy one for being confused?? i don't want to just straight up accuse so many people of being hypocrites but i really do not get it
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Virginity is a controversial topic among people especially feminism. I think virginity and the separation from is a female liberated as it can get, let’s be real. When I think of women separating them self form to extreme form is “virginity” and abstaining form men in general both sexually and non-sexually. In many ancient civilizations, virginity signaled a woman's independence and strength, they were literally seen psychically and mentally stronger than most women, Virgins were free women," not subject to the will of a man."
Which reminds me of “Artemis” and other female divine figures who are virgin. Virginity have a tons of ties to women who are connected to archery, wilderness and wildlife in some way or form I learned. These days virgin' became even more embarrassing thing to do be towards sex centered and patriarchal centered people especially with the rise of pornographic, prostitution and patriarchal culture; unfortunately.
This will sound really harsh, but I have a hard time empathising with people who are mentally ill and are also actively planning to have children. "I can control my mental illness," is simply wild, because if you truly could, you wouldn't be mentally ill. Children are far more observant than parents give credit for. Logging on will give you innumerable examples of teens-to-adults who are talking about how their parents had unresolved traumas and mental illnesses that they unintentionally exposed their children to. "I'm sure they tried their best, but growing up was rough," is the best case scenario I hear from these children when they've grown up.
Call me a puritan or a label me a misogynist, but I don't care about a woman's "human need" to sleep with multiple strange men. To me, it's just as selfish and reckless as men hopping from woman to woman creating children that will end up unloved or abandoned. I'm first and foremost an antinatalist at heart and the "sexual liberation" movement is a major detriment to society and the children that spawn from it. Especially when these men are literally telling you, "I don't care about you or any baby that results from this exchange; I just want to use your body for my pleasure".
the worst person you've ever met: the most revolutionary thing you can do is hang out with your friends. if you can't hang out with me you're denying me the sense of community i need to survive and yes i know went on a pseudo-political rant about how you're a terrible person last time i saw you because i felt rejected by you not wanting to take responsibility for my basic needs (which you don't want to do because you've been brainwashed by capitalism) but sometimes human relationships are messy and if you can't stand by me through good and bad you're literally an oppressor with an avoidant attachment style who doesn't understand that you being needed by me is a profound gift borne out of my gracious superhuman vulnerability. i took accountability. now you 🫵
some of y'all are strong, brave and invincible feminist women until a woman on tumblr.com implies that separatism is a good idea and that women should try to stop dating men for feminism and safety reasons, then there's no strength or bravery left it's literally too much to handle and you're all crying and shaking in your boots. grow a fucking spine
the only thing females can talk about is "love" and relationships and wanting to have sex? I have never been friends with men or have any male familiar so i dont know if mrn are the same. I feel exhausted of listening about their obsession with bodies and "relationships" its sickening. Are people something else? Knowing theyre empty vs seeing their emptiness so up close its bizarre.
I continue to observe how they create their own problems, when theyre finally free from their dramas they get even more desperate, its like they cant stand it, they run and jump right into the closest thing that can cause problems to them, they start destroying everything around lookimg for comfort looking for a new thing to complain and suffer about. They dont desire happiness. Or do they? If their happiness is suffering then thats their happiness.
Fascism thrives on ignorance and anti-intellectualism. Here are some ways you can combat it:
There is an ongoing literacy crisis. Teach kids how to read phonetically (other methods produce poor literacy) and introduce them to fun books, both fiction and educational non-fiction.
Teach kids about critical thinking and the scientific method.
You can also introduce kids to edutainment like Sesame Street, Reading Rainbow, The Magic Schoolbus, Bill Nye The Science Guy, Beakman's World, etc.
Help kids develop media literacy skills by asking them literary analysis questions about the media they engage with. Even very young children can begin learning literary analysis if the questions are phrased in words they can understand.
Learn and help other people learn information literacy, ie, how to locate and evaluate information.
Learn the red flags of pseudoscience, and educate other people about them.
Educate people and share media on real science and real history, because fascist narratives are full of pseudoscience and pseudohistory. (Miniminuteman, Gutsick Gibbon and Bart D. Ehrman's YouTube channel are great, by the way!)
Make learning a joyful experience, and show people the beauty and wonder of what's real. Being a discouraging killjoy will spoil your efforts.