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Just watched girl interrupted for the first time and it was actually as good as the people say, but the scene of Valerie throwing Susanna in the bathtub caught me off guardā¦ never seen people talk about the racism Susie throws at Valerie and feels like people skipped past that too quicklyā¦.
Just finished girl interruptedš
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HEY YOU!
Yeah, you! Are you trans? Do you like reading books? Or watching movies?
Do you like media about trans men/transmasculine characters but don't know where to find it?
That's sooo crazy because I have this little spreadsheet I'm working on where I'm trying to document all media with protagonists/major characters who are FTM or transmasculine.
The spreadsheet currently has 300+ entries spread across the following categories:
Books
Manga
Memoirs and non-fiction
Movies
TV Shows
Graphic novels / Comics
Webcomics
Audio dramas
Books and movies are also sorted by:
Which character is trans (MC, love interest, antagonist, etc)
If the trans character is POC
The trans character's sexuality (Because I saw lots of transhet guys sad about only being able to find gay romances)
If the author/actor is also trans (if we know for sure)
It's free to use, and free to add to as well! Editing permissions are on, and I check on the spreadsheet every now and then to make sure everything is in order and to clean up.
If you know something that isn't on the list, please add it! You don't have to fill in every single column, but fill it to the best of your abilities.
If you don't want to use the big ass long link below, you can also use: bit.ly/FTM-protags
I made this because I want it to be a community resource. So even if you're not a trans guy or transmasculine person, please reblog!
You are allowed to be flawed. You are allowed to be vulnerable. You are allowed to be a complex individual with many layers beneath the surface. You are allowed to have opinions that don't agree with the status quo. You are allowed to live & take up space however you need to. You are allowed to speak your mind. You are allowed to keep your peace of mind protected. You are allowed to cultivate a definition of life you can agree with.
at what point will *things* get better? asking for a friend
I think Iām learning to become comfortable in my loneliness, which I guess I was going to have to learn to do sooner or later. I would complain about the lack of social interaction I can say that it feels better than overextending myself to talk to the people I consider friends when they take so long to respond or donāt respond at all and then rarely take the initiative to reach out to me and with me already feeling a sense of stress that I donāt even know why Iām feeling it just wasnāt sustainable and yes it does hurt but so did being ignored and disregarded.
Are teen years just supposed to be a shit show? Is my mindset supposed to change every 10 minutes? Am I supposed to go back and forth between the want to ruin my whole life and the want to build on and take care of myself? Am I supposed to feel this hostile towards my family? Am I supposed to feel like no one likes me? Is this what I shouldāve expected?
It stresses me out that I donāt know who I am, who I want to be, what I want to do with my life, or who I want to surround myself with and when I do try to think about any of those things I have a crisis of some sort or just resort to the thought that nothing matters and life isnāt worth the suffering to stick around long enough to find out.
It's like we all collectively forgot as a society that friendship and just connection in general takes effort. Even if you meet someone you immediately click with, it takes hanging out about 20 times (!) to become friends. And guess what, some of those 20 meetings might be awkward or unimpressive.
We all want to reap the benefits (having a friend circle, having a partner, getting married) without doing the work (going to events, interacting with people, learning to handle conflict maturely, dating). Myself included. If I could, I'd never leave the house or go on another mediocre date again... except, that's part of the process.
I guess what I'm trying to say is, the cure to the loneliness epidemic is touching some grass and building tolerance for tedious in-person interactions.
āSometimes you have to forget what you feel, and remember what you deserve.ā
ā Unknown
Hey, it's okay. You've been through a lot, your mind focusing on surviving, not leaving room for much else. You haven't lost yourself, not at all.
āThe bravest thing I ever did was continuing my life when I wanted to die.ā
ā Juliette Lewis
Hello Tumblr community I am here to bring you this meme which is totally not based on myself
From The brink of suicide to Getting help, We Stan a Mental Health King
~ Whitney Hanson
hi! atomiclovedestiny is a documented scammer profiting off of the genocide that stole their story from this legitimate gofundme https://gofund.me/522a0090 and are instead linking to their private PayPal account with the name Mercy Jerop
would you mind deleting their scam from your blog, or clearly labeling it as a scam so it doesn't spread to others?Ā in the future, please remember to search the username/paypal account name/text used by the people asking for money in your inbox
please familiarize yourself with the posts of some current scammers while they are still under these usernames:Ā taheeeramohamed, stevmwita, lucymkiraa, thoughtfulfestivallove, keenladysussymerrriine, lucymkiraa, swagprincessfire, nashonimudaki, marryum-aljabill, quoradigestere, atomiclovedestiny
Thank you so much! knew it was a bit suspicious but on the off chance it was real wanted to post, but everyone else be aware of the scammers impersonating Palestinians and be cautious who your donating toā¼ļøā¼ļøā¼ļø
Also I updated the old post to let others know it was a scam as wellš«”
reblog if you think these are all valid reasons for a student or an employee to take a day off from their school or their job without their grades or paycheck being affected in any way:
- period cramps
- exhaustion, be it mental or physical
- depression, anxiety, and other mental health related issues
My family is still staying in half of the church that wasnāt affected by the bombing because there is nowhere else to stay other than tents. They are limited to one small meal a day and one shower a week. They are sleeping on the floors, but no one can sleep since there is bombing everywhere around them. Even when there is no bombing, they can still hear the loud buzzing sound of the military planes above them, which would keep anyone who hears it awake. Along with everything, My grandma has diabetes and osteoporosis, so she canāt walk. She has to take her insulin medication along with many others; however, she has run out of many of her medications.ā Am on my knees requesting for donation. Target $450
Be aware of scammers stealing REAL Palestinian stories guys atomiclovedestiny happens to be one of manyā¼ļø
I just found out myself šš
Reblog is this is a safe space for the identities theses flags represent pls follow too
Hehehe Iām a demiboy <3
ANTI-CAPITALIST AFFIRMATIONS
i am allowed to spend my time creating things, even if they are not beautiful.
there is no such thing as a "real job." all forms of work are real and valid.
there is nothing that i need to accomplish to be worthy. i am already worthy.
doing nothing is good for my soul.
i am not defined by what i produce.
my worth cannot be measured by my paycheck, my job title, or a list of professional or academic achievements.
i do not need to monetize my hobbies, it is enough to spend time doing something i love.
i will not let society decide what success looks like. i can define what successful life looks like for me.
Daily existential crisis really are just so draining and with depression itās like I want to get better but if I have no purpose, If their is no point in living, then why should I?
I feel like as a teen it is incredibly hard to change and better yourself especially when you live in a household that isnāt the healing type, as instead of healing the trauma sticks in each and every situation and because of their trauma theyāll feel the need to make you feel guilty because you expressed yourself by, for forbid, crying!
Dear kids: sometimes, self-care is ridiculously unsexy. It's cleaning your filthy bathroom after weeks of ignoring it. It's washing your bedsheets and vacuuming your floors. It's forcing yourself to take a shower and brush your teeth. When that temporary motivation strikes, RIDE THAT WAVE as far as you possibly can. It's the kindest thing you can do for yourself sometimes.