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‪I think beautiful things are about to happen.

I trust that.‬

reblog and make a wish! this was removed from tumbrl due to “violating one or more of Tumblr’s Community Guidelines”, but since my wish came true the first time, I’m putting it back. :)

there are people you haven’t met yet who will love you

Κάθε φορά που τον κοιτάω

Τον φαντάζομαι να μου κάνει πράγματα

Που ντρέπομαι να πω

Κάθε φορά που τον κοιτάω

Νομίζω ότι είναι έτοιμος να με φιλήσει

Να με ρουφήξει όλο σαν νερό, από τη δίψα του

Τα χείλη μου να μην έχουν χώρο,

να ανταποδόσουν την επαφή

Να νιώθω ανίκανος να αντιδράσω

Γιατί με ελέγχει με το υγρό του φιλί

Τόσο υγρό, τόσο νερό

Που έχει γεύση κεράσι και φράουλα

Κόκκινο

Να με ελέγχει

Κάθε φορά που τον κοιτάω

Ίσως να είναι η δική μου αχόρταγη επιθυμία

Η επιθυμία να φιλήσω το στόμα του

Τα ροζ μάγουλα του, ένδειξη ότι μέσα του

Καίγεται

Και μαζί καίγομαι και εγώ

Αχ, να τον φιλήσω

Να του φιλήσω τη γλώσσα

Γιατί αυτό είναι ένα φιλί

Η προσπάθεια να μπεις περισσότερο μέσα

Στο σώμα του άλλου

Ειδικά αν αυτός ο άλλος

Μυρίζει καθαρότητα και οικείο

Κάτι που γνώριζες αλλά μετά έφυγε στο παλιά

Να με κατεβάσει

Χαμηλά, χαμηλά

Στο σημείο του κεραυνού

Να μυρίσω τον κεραυνό, αν αυτό γίνεται

Να τον αφουγκραστώ από κάθε χρώμα

Να τον αγκαλιάσω ως δικό μου

Τόσο δικό μου, που θα τον φιλήσω

Για να γίνει μέρος και του δικού μου σώματος

Ήδη νιώθω τα φωτεινά δεσμά να μας ενώνουν

Γύρω-γύρω από τα γυμνά μας σώματα

Μόνο αυτά είναι αληθινά

Γιατί μόνο με αυτά γεννηθήκαμε

Μόνο αυτά είναι αγνά

Μην σκέφτεσαι κάτι αντίθετο

Αχ, να με φιλήσει

Να πέσει πάνω μου

Όπως ο Ουρανός στη Γη

Γιατί αυτό είναι έρωτας

Να κοιτάς κατάματα τον άλλο

Αλλά να του δίνεις χώρο να αναπνεύσει

Θέλω και επιθυμώ με κάθε θυμό

Να με κάνει να δακρύσω με ένα βλέμμα

Η επιθυμία του να είναι τόσο οργισμένη

Που να μπορεί με δύο κινήσεις,

προς τα μπροστά

Να σπάσει πέτρα και σώμα

Δύο άνθρωποι

Συγχρονισμένοι σε δύο κινήσεις ο καθένας

Συγκλονισμένοι

Ορμή, δόνηση, χτύπημα, χάος, φωτιά

Να με ζαλίζει το άρωμα του ιδρώτα του

Να με κάνει να ηδονίζομαι

Να με αγγίζει

Και να με παίζει στα δάκτυλα, με τα δάχτυλα

Να είμαι ανίσχυρος μπροστά του

Έτσι να νομίζει δηλαδή

Μέχρι να μην αντέχει άλλο τη δύναμη

Και να με θέλει πλάι του

Να θέλει να μοιραστούμε τον πόνο

Να ιδρώσω τον ιδρώτα του

Να στάξω τη στάχτη απ'τη φωτιά του

Να συνυπάρξουμε σε καμμένη γη

Τόσο πανίσχυρα είναι τα πνεύματα

Που σχεδόν ξέχασα ότι είχαμε σώματα

Τα πουλιά μας

Δεν είναι πια αυγά

Ξύπνησαν, μεγάλωσαν

Άγγιξαν το ένα το άλλο απαλά

Και σκληρά

Και επώδυνα

Ο αετός

Αρπακτικό απέναντι στο γεράκι

Κυριαρχία, υπακοή

Να με ελέγχει το πάθος του

Ξέρω τι θέλω

Είμαι διαμάντι, και λειτουργώ καλύτερα

Κάτω από πίεση

Δημιουργούμαι

Δεν υποτάσσομαι

Δεν εξαναγκάζομαι

Αλλά αφήνομαι

Πετάω στον έρωτα του

Κολυμπάω στη θάλασσα των υγρών του

Και εκείνος κάνει το ίδιο

Δεν σταματάει να με φιλά με το χαμόγελο του

Τυφώνας, τρικυμία, έκρηξη, σεισμός

Όλα τα στοιχεία της φύσης είναι σε οργασμό

Με ακούνε, μας ακούνε, μας νιώθουν

Η ένταση ακόμα με ζαλίζει

Αλλά μ'αρέσει

Το απολαμβάνω, δίνω και λαμβάνω

Δεν είμαστε πια στη Γη, είμαστε στο διάστημα

Και ανάμεσα μας κανένα διάστημα

Τα αστέρια, οι πλανόμενοι πλανήτες

Και τα ενωμένα μας σώματα, τόσο δεμένα

Που τώρα είναι ένα

Κάθε φορά που τον κοιτάω

Τον φαντάζομαι να μου κάνει πράγματα

Που δεν ντρέπομαι πια να πω...

me after every dream: honestly? what kind of symbolism. 

“Looks like he made a new friend”

(Source)

may people with pure intentions find people with pure intentions

What should you put in your bath?

black tea: soothes sunburns [1] [2] and is antimicrobial [3] contains some essential polyphenols and tannin, reduces puffiness/inflammation [4] 

green tea: antioxidant and detoxifier [1] soothes rashes, increases healing rate, softens skin [2] heals sores and wounds, rejuvenates skin cells, improve psoriasis and dandruff [3] anti-aging, mood stabilizing [4]

apple cider vinegar: anti inflammatory and softens skin [1]

ground ginger: increases circulation, promotes sweating, opens pores, relieves pain [1]

lemon: antioxidant (brightens skin) [1] 

olive oil: moisturizes skin [1]

calendula flowers: soothes burns, inflammation, rashes, insect bites, skin disorders [1] useful for small children [2]

elder-flowers: anti-inflammatory and heals rashes cuts and wounds [1]

Himalayan salt: soothes insect bites, heals blisters, relieves arthritis pain [1] softens skin [2]

oatmeal: soothes, anti-inflammatory, calms angry skin [1]

rose petals: relax mind, relieve sleepiness, soothe headaches and stress [1] promote positive feelings [2]

valerian root: relax the mind, relieve sleepiness, soothe headaches and stress [1]

lavender: relax the mind, relieve sleepiness, soothe headaches and stress [1] [2]

mugwort: relax the mind, relieve sleepiness, soothe and headaches and stress [1]

chammomile: soothes nerves [1] good for dry skin [2]

passion flower: soothes nerves [1]

hops: soothes nerves [1]

rosemary: pain relief, soothes headaches and fatigue [1] relaxing, increases alertness and clarity of mind [2] soothes sore throat[3]

thyme: pain relief, soothes headaches and fatigue [1]

devils claw: eases joint pain [1]

juniperberries: soothes muscle aches [1]

peppermint: increase blood flow, relieve congestion [1]

eucalyptus: increase blood flow, relieve congestion [1] increases energy [2]

thyme: increase blood flow, relieve congestion [1]

jasmine: emollient and antiseptic, soothes skin [1] 

organic coconut flakes: nourish the skin [1]

sage: uplifting, good for oily skin and back acne [1] stimulating [2]

marjoram: decongestant, soothes muscle pain [1]

whole cow’s milk: hydrates and mildly exfoliates skin [1]

cow’s buttermilk: hydrates and thoroughly exfoliates skin [1]

goat’s milk: thoroughly hydrates and exfoliates skin, provides nutrients [1]

Astro Notes V ☆

Those are just my observations and I can sure be wrong :)

Pisces and Gemini get easily distracted and there are times they do not want to take real action or make a decision. Libra IS indecisive but they are also a cardinal sign, which means that they'll always have a picture in mind of what they want, they are just not sure. Pisces and Gemini do NOT have even the picture in their minds

Many people misunderstand Scorpio because Scorpio is not expressive enough to show what they really meant

Saturn in harmonious aspects with Neptune indicates a balanced view of reality and phantasy. Maybe the person knows how to make dreams a reality

You make really nice friends with people that are the sign of your ascendant. For example Taurus rising makes easily friends with Taurus sun or moon etc

If somebody's mercury sign is opposite to your sun or moon sign, may mean that you cannot communicate well. For example you may have sun or moon in Sagittarius and the other person may have mercury Gemini etc etc.

Sometimes your moon or mercury sign has stronger energy than your sun sign. Especially the moon sign in women

Your moon sign shows the way you perceive your mother and your sun sign, may show the way you see your father

Moon's house shows ways you can express your feelings easier. For example moon in 3rd is through communication, 5th through fun and art, 8th through risk etc.

Venus has NOTHING to do with sex (at least when it comes to male charts). Mars, has nothing to do with friendships and flirting (at least when it comes to male charts again)

The planet that is strong to you, affects the way people look at you. You may be an annoyed by people and stressed Virgo but with Venus in Libra as your strongest aspect so people will perceive you as flirting, sweet, social butterfly and not as a Virgo etc.

Earth and Air signs love searching for the root of problems and not the problem itself

Water and Fire signs may give the vibe of deep and wise people, especially Scorpio, Pisces, Leo and Sagittarius

Sagittarius sun and mercury finds it hard to be evil or mean to somebody

Cancer, Taurus, Scorpio and Capricorn suns/moons make the most thoughts of wanting to hurt people they don't like. I don't say that they will kill you, but at some points they seriously have these thoughts and no I'm not kidding (:P)

I've never met a Leo that doesn't LOVE receiving compliments non stop

Sagittarius avoids accepting compliments

Sun and rising combos of Leo, Aries, Capricorn and Aquarius will make an absolute and maybe dictator-like personality. Taurus Suns can also be great dictators if they want to :P

Cancer loves food

Saturn in 8th gives the person a constant fear of losing people they love, and that they will stay alive watching loved ones dying

It is very common to listen to Pisces Moon/Mercury/Saturn and maybe Sun, people saying that they have to find a way out or to escape from something they are caged in

Capricorn Suns/Mercuries/Mars have extremely strong sex drive. Maybe just like Aries, Sags, and Scorpio

Aquarius people in groups may actually hate each other more than any other sign does

Hope you like it 😊

Have a wonderful and interesting day no matter where you live and don't forget to protect yourself ♡

Things To Listen To When You’re Working

– A lot of you frequently ask for links to what I listen to when I write or work or whatever, so I decided to make a big list of them for you to access whenever you please! This list include themed playlists, white noise, ASMR (i guess you could call it that), and even a website for you to make your own background noise tracks. Enjoy!

White Noise

Waves

Waves + Rain

Rain In Woods + Tibetan Bowls

Waterfall

Rain Downpour On Tin Roof

Coffee House

Rain

Ocean

Whale Sounds

Thunderstorm

Rainforest

Country Garden

MyNoise.net

CalmRadio

Classical Relaxation Stream

ASoftMurmur.com

General Noises

Make Your Own ASMR Track Here

Music

My Playlists // Request One Here

Peaceful Piano

Love, Sex, & Water

Chill Tracks

chill.out.brain

Break Up Blues

Spotify’s Writer Playlist

Piano Bar

Evening Chill

Intense Studying

Creativity Boost

Acoustic Café International

A Poem A Day

Classical

Winter Classical

Spring Classical

Cello

Viola

Violin

Double Bass

Classical X

100 Classical Songs

100 Opera Songs

Space Themed Classical Music

Classical Romance

Themed ASMR

Harry Potter

Gryffindor Common Room

Slytherin Common Room

Hufflepuff Common Room

Ravenclaw Common Room

Great Hall At Halloween ( Christmas )

Great Lake

Snape’s Potions Classroom

Hogwarts Library

The Burrow (Weasley’s House)

Diagon Alley

Forbidden Forest At Night

Malfoy Manor

Doctor Who

TARDIS Library

TARDIS Console

Falling Asleep In The TARDIS

Tea With Madam Vastra and Jenny

Torchwood

Gallifrey

TARDIS Gardens

Inside The TARDIS With Amy Pond

Supernatural

In The Car With The Winchesters

Research With Sam

Crowley’s Office

Hunting

Inside The Bunker

Research With The Winchesters

Rainy Day In The Bunker

Sherlock

221B Baker Street

Mind Palace

Victorian Era

Sherrinford

Working With Sherlock & John

Irene’s Theme

Sherlock’s Chemistry Lab

Disney

Belle’s Library

Rapunzel’s Forest

Atlantis

Davy Jones’s Lullaby

Neverland Forest

Elsa’s Castle

Tea Time In Wonderland

The Black Pearl

The Beast’s Castle

Aladdin - Streets of Agrabah

Gusteau’s Kitchen

Sleeping Beauty’s Tower

Quasimodo’s Tower

Forest In Narnia

The Snuggly Duckling

Wonderland

Maleficent’s Castle

Ariel’s Home

I hope this is useful to you and helps you relax while being productive! x

2019 is the year i get my shit together or i finally kill myself so stay tuned

Reblog or your mom will die in 928 seconds.

I love my mom.

I am risking nothing

I AM SORRY FOLLOWERS, I LOVE MY MOMMY

Will not risk.

sorry followers :(

Astro Notes IV ☆

Pisces holds some of the wisdome from all the previous 11 signs, which makes it the most wise sign but also the most confused one

Sagittarius people can be pretty bad liars

Ascendant is more about aura and energy than physical appearance

There's not a reason for this, but women Gemini Sun have a bad reputation

Taurus in 5th loves luxurious things

Possible Stelliums can be as important as your Sun, Moon and Mercury sign

Aquarius is the most realistic air sign

Pisces Sun/Moon/Mercury talks in a weird way and it's like they're living inside their own reality

Combinations of Cancer and Libra or 4th and 7th indicate marriage at a young age or pleasure when thinking about marriage

At their worse, Capricorns symbolize the love under conditions. Loving someone because they have hidden reasons behind it

Gemini, Leo, Virgo, Libra, Scorpio, Capricorn, Aquarius in 3rd, 5th, 7th, 10th and 11th, may indicate love for the city

Venus in Taurus is earthly, steady, loving, compassionate, predictable, slow, romantic and loves sensual pleasure, while Venus in Libra is fairy like, light, romantic, sensitive, diplomatic, charming and enjoys pleasing others

Libra is known as the most fair but also indecisive sign

Planets in 9th and 11th will make an open person that supports difference and small groups (black people, LGBTQ+, feminists etc.)

Cancer is talented at getting what they want in really quick ways

Virgo Sun/Venus/Mars will be very private and uncomfortable when taking about sex

This is not a fact, but all Virgos I know, love technology and tattoos. The technology thing maybe is connected to Mercury, Virgo's planet that symbolizes communication and media etc. I don't really know about the tattoos

When Saturn comes into our Sun sign, it's a period in our lives to reflect and heal. When Saturn returns to our birth's Saturn sign, we feel mostly blue but also responsible and mature

All Sagittarius people like travelling

Scorpio Sun/Mercury/Mars is extremely patient and dominant personalities

Planets in 1st show areas of our lives where we have leadership abilities on

Water signs except Scorpio (who is fixed), tend to change and adapt their behaviour depending on the situations. A Pisces Sun/Moon for example can change personalities just in seconds and from pure quiet they go to loud sexy etc

Never tell a Taurus or Pisces Sun/Moon/Ascedant/Mercury/Mars to hurry up

The common core of the polarity of Virgo and Pisces is that they are both about service. Virgo services people in practical, realistic and physical ways while Pisces wants to serve by emotions, wisdom and spiritual healing

Aquatius more than any other sign, can be addicted to sports' teams

Mars in a fire sign or in a fire house, indicates a strong body

Jupiter in Cancer will be lazy and will love good food

Taurus Sun/Ascendant may have big necks and short hair

Capricorn Sun/Ascendant may have eye or bone problems

Pisces likes water more than the other water signs, and probably more than any sign

Leo Sun is very confident and feel like they run their environment

Capricorns can have big ears

Gemini Ascendant is always curious, has really opened eyes that look everywhere

Cancer Sun/Moon/Venus/Ascendant/Mars attracts bullies

Cancer is really good at controlling money

Cancer is more sentimental and Pisces is more mystical

Capricorn in 9th will love flights that are connected to their job

Scorpio Ascendant/Sun has deep eyes that are hard to be read

Aries is stubborn but after some minutes they change decisions and then becomes stubborn again etc

Leo people may like having really long hair

Scorpio, Gemini and Aquarius are the ones to experiment with their hair more than the other signs

Your Moon shows how you see your mother

Your Sun can show how you see your father

It is not very possible, but your 3rd house may indicate the sign of your sibling(s)

Astro Notes III ☆

Libra Ascendant people may be either overweight or underweight

Venus in the 6th, 8th, and 12th can be attracted to sexually ambiguous people, that are generally really private about their sexuality

Pisces and Cancer Moon is somehow able to forgive anything and anyone (the time it takes, depends on the Mars sign too) and Pisces Moon is the most likely to believe that criminals should not be punished, but healed, no matter what they did

Capricorn in 4th will enjoy a work they can do from home

Mercury/Sun/Jupiter in 3rd will prefer online courses and Mercury/Sun/Jupiter in 9th will prefer to travel abroad in order to study (that really depends on your Jupiter sign too)

Placements of Sagittarius or 9th house show that the person will avoid negative people no matter what

Moon in 5th/12th will attract dramatic people and will have a hard time escaping from toxic relationships, especially if the Moon's sign is Leo or Pisces

Basically, Capricorns are attracted to sensitive, kind-hearted people but they also want you to be serious and responsible for your mistakes

10th can show insecurities you have when your are around people

All possible combinations of Gemini, Pisces, Virgo,3rd, 12th and 6th, create an active mind that never stops over-thinking and analyzing things

Pluto in the house of your Ascendant will make it hard for someone to express themselves the way they want to

Sun, Moon, or Mars in 6th or 10th makes the most realistic people

Libra Mercury has a lovely voice and may like flirting, while Taurus Mercury has a calming and trusting voice

When Mars or Saturn touch water signs, they become lazy, unmotivated and apathetic, but Mars in Scorpio can be pretty strategic and aggressive

Moon/Mercury in Scorpio and Sun/Moon/Mercury/Neptune/Pluto in the 8th house children, will hide most of their personal stuff from their family and may face problems with lying on purpose

Aries and Sagittarius Moon or Mercury people, are brutally honest, direct and always have an answer for everything in an argument

It's probable that someone's Moon or Mercury signs/houses may influence them more than their Sun's

Virgo is extremely private when it comes to sexuality, while Pisces and Gemini are mostly confused about it

Mercury in 5th indicates a good singing voice

Negative aspects between Moon and Pluto indicate eating disorders

Pisces in 20° is very lazy and likes giving orders

Venus shows your taste in fashion, but the 2nd house is more important when it comes to how you dress

It's hard to hear the heartbeat of someone with many planets in water signs or houses

Moon and Mars in fire houses, indicate warm hands and generally warm bodies

Aquarius Moon/Mercury can be much more self-centered than Leo in these planets

Libra Moon seeks more harmony in social relationships than Libra Sun

Uranus, Neptune and Pluto affect whole generations of people

Planets in their exaltation sings have more potential for development, than in their natural signs

People with Mars in Aries, Taurus, Leo, Capricorn or in 1st, 2nd and 5th, hide an animalistic side, especially in sex

The house our Pluto is in, shows ways we can transform ourselves

Our 11th house, shows things we are innovative about

Our future job is connected to our MC and Part of Fortune while Saturn and Jupiter show what we need from our job. For example MC in Gemini indicates a career in communication, media, writing etc and a Jupiter in Taurus indicates that what we need from our career is security and stability

Astro Notes II ☆

10th house Stellium indicates interest in career and social status

Scorpio Mars and Venus make really jealous partners

Scorpio Mars is a sign of a strong sexual aura and an intense personality

Capricorns with personal planets in Gemini/3rd house, have more commons with Virgos than with Taurus people

Charts with many Libra/Gemini/Aries signs or a combination of those, create people that like gossiping or making others' problems their own business

Our Jupiter sign indicates parts of our lives we get luck from

Libra Suns may have problems teamworking with Aries and Leo Suns

Libra Sun/Ascedant/Mercury/Moon people can be liked by all signs at some point

The sign we have our 1st house (Ascendant) at, is an indicator of the things we like to start. For example 1st house in Cancer would like to start a family first etc

Cancers can be as good managers, business people etc., as Capricorns, and Capricorns can be as caring parents as Cancers. They just have different priorities

Where we have our Uranus house at, shows life unexpected changes

It is possible that if we meet someone who their Sun sign is our Saturn's sign, we are going to have a hard relationship

Jupiter/Sun in Libra people are the best diplomats

Scorpio, Sagittarius and Capricorn are the three signs with the highest libido, especially in Mars

The most misunderstood signs are Gemini, Scorpio and Capricorn

Scorpio Moon/Mercury people are extremely private and careful with what they say. Scorpio Suns can be mysterious but it's easier for them to open up after some time

Astro Notes ☆

Capricorn's ruling planet is Saturn, the planet of restriction, so it's possible that capricorns may feel more restricted in many thing of their lives, in comparison to other signs

Pisces Sun, Moon, Mars and Neptune may be addicted to alcohol, drugs, people, substances etc

Sun conjunctions with Moon/Venus give more feminine characteristics to the person and create a balance with their feminine side

Venus in 3rd gives people talent at complimenting or saying sweet words to others

Aquarius Mercury can be just as dogmatic as a Capricorn Mercury

Neptune in 4th indicates pleasure with living close to water

Sun in 3rd has many ideas while Moon in 3rd has a vivid imagination

Mars in Taurus is much more aggressive than Mars in Pisces. Mars in Taurus PREFERS not to react, whereas Mars in Pisces feels unable to react

Venus in Virgo people may like spending time with animals

Saturn indicates hidden talents we have but also obstacles that have a connection with our talents. For example, Saturn in Gemini is good at organising its thoughts but it may feels very anxious about a public speech

Possible Stelliums in signs or houses are extremely important

Your Descendant is more important than your Venus, when it comes to the ideal partner

Pisces Sun/Ascendant and possibly Moon, gives big and sweet eyes

Libra/Taurus/7th house in personal planets or Ascendant, creates a good taste in fashion, decoration, design and makes the person really observant about the outside world

Scorpio is talented at observing the inner world of people

Generally water signs are better psychologists and fire signs are better life coaches/therapists

Aries is the friendliest fire sign, followed by Sagittarius and Leo

Personal planets in Gemini or 3rd house make bored students who are never focused but still remember the classes and are easily passing at exams

It's possible that personal planets in 12th house may not be spotted at someone's personality

Pluto in 4th is a sign of a bad relationship with the family or the mother

Except from sex, the 8th house is also about money, anger, secrets and dangerous risks

Positive aspects between Sun, Mars, Jupiter and Uranus give high adrenaline and a love for motion, adventure and fun

Sun in 11th is a sign of good friends and success

Sun in 10th is a sign of restrictions and failure, but also practicality and inner strength

At the age of 30, we may feel like our Saturn's sign

Mercury in a water sign shows that the person's emotions are connected to their mind

Pisces Mercury finds it hard to explain its thoughts to others and Chiron/Saturn in Gemini/3rd house believe that others cannot understand them anyway

Leo/Aquarius/Gemini/Libra/Pisces and 5th/11th/3rd/12th in personal planets are indicators of artistic abilities

9th house in signs may show things we are dogmatic about

Sun/Mars/Saturn in 6th make a stressed person

Negative aspects of Sun/Venus/Ascendant with Neptune indicate a person that cannot accept themselves the way they are

Negative aspects between Moon and Venus show difficulties with personal and romantic relationships

Negative aspects between Sun and Moon indicate a person that hides their real feelings from the surface and are generally hard to open to others

Inferior functions as emotions

When I'm overwhelmed and many negative thoughts and feelings come on the surface, the emotion that controls me the most, is:

Inferior Ni: Confusion about what is really happening, misunderstanding of people's actions, difficulty to see the effects of a present action to the future

Inferior Ne: Fear of possible changes and new information, trying to multitask because of insecurity but without success, difficulty accepting difference

Inferior Si: Anxiety over things of minor importance, double checking everything and difficulty to recall past experiences in order to achieve something

Inferior Se: Boredom and reduction of physical energy, analyzing every plan without getting to actual work, difficulty in using insights in practical ways

Inferior Ti: Contempt of peoples' mannerisms and behavior, overly critical on others' choices and logic, difficulty seeing people's opinions and reasons

Inferior Te: Anger about people being too incompetent, acting like a mean dictator in order to prove self-worth, difficulty believing in self and others

Inferior Fi: Vulnerability and emotional weakness, crisis about morals, feelings of powerlessness, difficulty accepting faults and emotions

Inferior Fe: Embarrassment about personal feelings, clueless about how others feel, social awkwardness and difficulty adapting in groups and restricted norms

Μια μέρα από το πουθενά..

Θα τα καταφέρω ρε μαλάκες.

me, a sensitive and very emotional person who cries easily and can’t take any criticism: i wanna fight someone

“Xτύπα ένα reblog αν το μυαλό σoυ είναι χιλιόμετρα μακριά από εκει που είναι το σώμα σου..”

—

Hit Reblog if your mind is far away from the place your body is..

..and you do nothin’ for that.

INFJ vs INFP: 5 Ways To Distinguish Them

So guys most of the people who are interested in MBTI and Types are often confused about the differences between INFJ and INFP. Those two are the most easy to be mistyped. Personally I’ve been mistyped as an INFJ but now it’s clear I’m an INFP.

In this post I’ll write some important differences to tell them apart.

1. Judging and Percieving

These types may seem to be the same, but that last letter changes everything. The INFJ uses Judging which means they are more methodical, they need some restrictions, orders, rules. They work with a plan and maybe they tend to make a to-do list.INFP however, uses Percieving which means they work in a more playful way. They don’t see the importance of so many rules and they want to express themselves, so orders and plans are not their thing. 

2. Cognitive Functions

INFJ = Ni > Fe > Ti > Se                                                                            

INFP = Fi > Ne > Si > Te

The INFJ might be a Judging type, but they are driven by a Perceiving function which is called Ni (Introverted iNtuition). Ni is their dominant function and it is about understanding the big picture, the why of everything. They take in information first and judge or form conclusions second. They perceive information from symbols, patterns, behavior etc. After that, they sum everything up and conclude to the one most suitable truth and stick to it. INFJ sees the world for what it means and they fill the gaps. On the other hand, the INFP uses Perceiving but they are driven by a Judging function, called Fi (Introverted Feeling). Fi is like a personal compass of right and wrong. It judges first and perceives ideas second. Fi wants to decide based on strong, personal values and it has a powerful ethical code to follow. INFP wants to decide first if something is right or wrong for them and take information later. That may sounds weird for INFPs because Fi is the slowest and for me one of the most complex judging functions compared with Fe or Ts but that’s okay. They see everything in a more of a personal way (Fi). 

What is more, INFJ’s auxiliary function is a judging fuction, called Fe (Extraverted Feeling). Fe wants to create harmony and maintain balance in social norms and relationships. It won’t be happy until everyone else is happy. However, INFP’s auxiliary function is Ne (Extraverted iNtuition), a percieving function. Ne wants to brainstorm. It sees all possible outcomes and all the options. It jumps from idea to idea, without considering if those ideas have something in common. 

As for the tertiary functions, INFJ uses Ti (Introverted Thinking) and INFP uses Si (Introverted Sensing). Ti is about understanding how and why the world works that way. It is very logical, systematic and seeks consistency and accuracy. Tert. Si is about recalling past experiences and comparing them with the present. It seeks nostalgia and comfort. 

Last but not least, the INFJ uses Se (Extraverted Sensing) as their inferior function which means that under stress the INFJ avoids external stimulation because they are in their heads and lose touch with the world around them. Also, INFJs might overdo sensory pleasures (food, alcohol, addictions, sex) when under stress and they hate intense things such us weird smells, tastes, many colours, noises etc. The INFP uses Te (Extraverted Thinking) as their inferior function. Inferior Te wants to think things through a lot, but without doing anything to make it happen. INFP under stress can also be extremely critical, harsh with self and others, overly directive, sarcastic and may be obsessed with fixing errors, correcting others, mispellings, giving orders, grammatical or vocabulary mistakes etc.

3. Absorbing and Mirroring emotions

The INFJ tends to absorb emotions. This means that when someone has a problem, the INFJ won’t just listen, but they will absorb other’s emotions into their heart… They focus on other peoples’ emotions. They actually feel (almost) exactly the way you feel. Like their mood depends on the group’s mood. You are sad, I’m sad. Due to their aux Fe, they know what you feel. They see your feelings more objectively. So they don’t need much time to reflect about how you may feel.

The INFP tends to mirror emotions. This means that when someone has a problem, the INFP won’t fully feel the way you do. They do imagine your pain though and they really understand your feelings, but due to their dom Fi, they feel things in a personal level only. They see your feelings more subjectively, and so they need more time to reflect about what did you exactly meant when you said x and y.

4. Social chameleon or different snowflake?

Yes, both INFJs and INFPs seek interpersonal harmony. Yes, they both avoid conflict. Yes, they both are complex and think in a different way. However…

INFJs are social chameleons. They keep everything balanced and they try to maintain harmony, even by sacrifing personal convenience. Moreover, INFJs seem a lot more like extraverts because they need a little socializing and people (Fe). Many times, when in a conversation, they prefer to change their bodies’ language, tone of voice etc., in order to feel more “bonded” and comfortable with others. They may also change the way they talk (but NOT what they believe in) and generally they look like people who modify their behaviour ONLY (and not their true self) depending on who they talk with.

INFPs are different snowflakes. They do care about harmony but they will never sacrifice their individuality and internal values just to fit in. They will not be as they must, just for the sake of the greater good. INFPs advocate for staying true to yourself, even if that means ruining the atmosphere. And it’s not about being selfish, but about being real and following your heart and your personal ethics only (Fi). When they love something, they’ll talk passionately about it, even if their opinions don’t suit with others’ and even if they feel awkward and insecure about themselves. They want to help people become their most authentic and true self, and even though they are really self conscious, they say that the only way they can help others, is to help themselves first (and no, no they are not egoistic). .

5. Desire to be Understood or Validated?

Although both types feel misunderstood, they feel it in a different way.

INFJs feel marginalized. They fear that they don’t fit in and that others don’t get them in a suitable way. This is happening because while they fully understand other people well, others rarely truly understand them, due to the complexity of their characters. INFJs do not want to change your opinion or to convince you for something. They just want you to understand what they say, what they think. They don’t ask you to adopt their beliefs, they just want to be understood. 

INFPs feel similar. They fear that no one could possibly ever get them, but what they fear even more, is that someone may fully understands them. They don’t really want to be understood, because if someone understands them, it means they lost some of their unique individuality and now they are the same with others. Please, don’t misunderstand me and say that they are stupid or anything. Personally I think it’s okay not wanting to be 100% understood. No one wants that. INFPs want to be validated from others that their motives and intentions are good when it comes to their actions and ideas.

To sum up, both types are highly emotionally intelligent, complex, sensitive, caring, true, altruistic and have a lot of things to offer to the world. Hope now you can type yourself better and understand the things that tell them apart, in order to be a better person. Much love ♡