Family Problems - Blog Posts
Life I guess?
I fucking hate my family rn, my grandma is a bitch who destroys everyone’s life. My aunt is an alcohol addict and doesn’t care about anyone, my brother has a aggression problem and hurt my mom really bad, and my stepfather is a mix between my mom and my grandma.
Also we’re not talking about my biological father cuz just nope.
And to top this, my mom has depressions and is having a bad week taking all out on me.
How do I cope with it? Well guys, I grew some balls (imaginary ones cuz I’m a girl) and just don’t bitch about it, sure I have bad days too but it’s 2018 bitch we deal with our problems.
My brother just posted on his socials that he asked our parents if they were happy with their lives and that they said yes, which is crazy because every time I'm the one asking they always deflate and say no, that they wished it had been different, that they're tired but they're too old to try and change anything so they're just going to wait it out until death. So either they're lying to one of us, or a secret second thing I can’t conceive of.
*14 Yr old me going through what might be depression and my parents just think I'm lazy and unappreciative.*
Me: I must be overreacting.
I don’t want to be a disappointment anymore
My dad loves screaming at me because of things that aren’t my fault </3
I normally don't post stuff like this on my page, but my family really needs help. My Dad put up this page on Go Fund Me to help with bills and everything with our family, since our grandfather is not long for this world. If anyone could help donate or spread this around, that would be super helpful. Thank you so much for reading this page.
https://gofund.me/fafec389
this is what it’s like when they treat you like you’re still a little girl and an adult at the same time
Some more things that frustrate me
My father basically tells me all the time that I have no rights that my generation didn’t go through the hardships of their generation, full of violence and abuse and fear of that abuse meaning that we don’t go to school eat, broccoli, or do anything correctly and go on murderous rampage to stab pizza delivery guy
Right, believe everything you hear in the news and second of the news tells you things that sounds like they’re happening every day but they’re not they’re just bad things that seem to happening every day because it’s the news it’s meant to make you feel terrible
Bad things happen all the time and isn’t because of parents, taking a lax way of taking care of their children
Hurting your children abusing them in anyway, mess them up, and then you expect them to know things or do things a certain way that you never taught them
Say that you want them to be better than you? Oh wow and how are they meant to be better than you when you don’t better yourself at all you don’t even try you just want the next generation to be better for no reason except your stupid pride, because in the end we never will be to you you just like, saying that you’re better than us and use anything to just bully us
It’s honestly stupid
I feel like we have grown up this society and become better
But at the same time I feel like we keep getting worse in some areas
Maybe it’s just me and my family dynamic
I’m just tired of hearing my father say that I have no right that everything that belongs to me isn’t mine and everything I am my existence. My body isn’t mine
That all my issues and troubles are my own fault and people who are rude to me, bully me or harass me it’s because of my fault
I never asked for any of that. I usually just accept it and try to move on.
But that’s not how things work they’ll pile a lot then pin you down and make you feel like you should just give up on everything or just have a breakdown
In the end, I think my father’s wrong
People aren’t going on ramp, murder spree, because you don’t beat them or hurt them enough to think otherwise, and the same goes for eating or for school
I just don’t understand what he thinks when he says that children are stupid and they should know better. That’s the whole point of children they’re idiots. They don’t know better because they’re still learning and if you don’t teach them how the world works or how to take care of themselves, they won’t .
Sometimes I think I’m losing hope for humanity, but I have to remember he’s just one of Many and there are many good people out there
Anyway, I feel better. Writing my issues on the Internet about a arguments I have with my father now I didn’t know that could make me feel better
Just to write about my issues