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For Our Sulli.
it goes without saying that kpop fans around the world have a heavy heart today. if you’re unaware, Choi JinRi or more commonly known as Sulli, one of five talented members from the former group f(x) has passed away, the cause of death was self inflicted.
due to the overwhelming amount of hate she’d get from time to time or the hurtful things they’d say to her, it really played with her mental health. from what has been plastered around on media from the amount of negativity by the people of the internet this had pushed the singer to end her life. of course we can’t just believe that, but this is a serious matter that must be addressed.
history has once again repeated itself, with the same situation that happened almost 2 years ago with the late-idol singer, Kim Jonghyun of SHINEE. the amount of pressure and negativity that idols endure from debut to now or even after they leave the industry is absolutely shocking, the amount of pressure on their shoulders is hefty, but we don’t understand that type of situation.
it’s honestly a real shame that some companies don’t take care of their idols mental health, mental well-being is one of the most important things in the world. this is like i said before, a sign of history repeating itself.
to all the fandoms around the world, please understand that pain, hurt and sadness aren’t experienced by a selected amount of people. it impacts everyone, famous or not. understand that words can hurt, words are also weapons and they can kill. slowly and silently.
i’m not saying any idols will see this, but hopefully they know that it’s okay to talk about things that are on their minds, that it’s okay to not feel okay, it’s okay to feel things. you’re not a robot, you’re not modified to feel okay all the time. please seek help, please don’t be afraid to reach out. there’s no us without you, look after yourself we’ll be okay.
idols are humans. yes they have the ability to sing and dance extremely well, but they also have emotions, they have boundaries, they have insecurities, they have fears and most importantly they are HUMAN. i cannot stress that enough.
to all of Sulli’s family, friends and fans and most importantly her former members. i on behalf of many other kpop fans around the world wish nothing but love, support and strength for you all. all fandoms, please put down your weapons and put a stop to your fanwars and just empathise with one another and look after each other, support each other and be kind. understand that some of your favourite idols are still here receiving your love and support.
For Sulli,
you were talented, you were valued and you were treasured. i’m sorry you didn’t feel that way. please feel at peace now, lay your head down one last time. rest.
you did well.