How do I feel when I spend time with this person? What emotions or sensations come up for me when Iβm around them?
After being with this person, do I feel more like myselfβor less? What does my energy or mood say about the effect they have on me?
Do I feel heard and valued in our conversations, or do I often feel dismissed, interrupted, or overlooked?
When Iβm with this person, do I feel genuinely understoodβor do I feel the need to explain, justify, or hide parts of myself?
Do they do most of the talking in our conversations? How do I feel about it?
What role does this person play in my life, and what role do I play in theirs? Do these roles feel balanced? If not, how does that imbalance affect me?
In what ways do our goals and motivations align or differ, and how does that impact our connection?
Do I notice them putting me downβsubtly or directlyβto elevate themselves? Do they often try to position themselves as morally superior in our conversations? If yes, how do I respond to it when it happens?
Do I see myself sticking with them in the future? Or do I feel that I would be better without them in my life and why?
When I imagine my future, does this person fit into that vision in a healthy, supportive way? Or do I feel I would grow more freely without their presenceβand what makes me feel that?
Am I holding on to this relationship out of love, habit, fear, or hope? What would it mean for meβemotionally and practicallyβif I chose to move forward without them?
Managing relationships with people can be difficult when they aren't a right fit for you, and taking the decision to cut them out of your life or not is a hard thing to do. Hopefully these prompts can help you see things clearer when it comes to that <3
xoxo, Hannah
What am I looking forward to in March?
What do I wish I did more/less in February and how can I achieve that in March?
How do I see myself being at the end of March? (physically, mentally, spiritually, etc)
How did I improve in the month of February?
What changes to my mindset can I make in March?
xoxo, Hannah