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Has. Everyone. Lost. Logic.?

Dead and cold city, not asking for handouts of pity.

A witty idea, but not logical to direct it to us.

Hate written on a vanilla cake, taking our faith down where the ground surrounded by brown.

Brown lunch, cold lunch I'm hunching over to cover a forbidden lover's tears made by heteronormative fears.

When everyone turns on us, it's hell.

Lost in their Logic to put me down where my true-self never will be found.

All around an idea to be a free world of restriction while having strict friction of where the world slides.

As some keep their pride, they're in hide, lied by the people they used to confide into.

Lost in who and where they will be people, where they'll lose the feel of needles in their hearts.

It's not hard to come into logical reason, only if they would listen.

Missing the point of the world outside of old paper scripts.

Everyone is every one of them.

Every one of them who won't care to listen to new logic, not feeling apologetic.

I don't plan to let it stay, but I sure do hope that sometime on a hell-hot day, we can let children not be scared to let out their gay.

And to tell people to not always follow old scripts and to improv of who they love.

and then...

Everyone can enjoy.

dirty jenga prompts

send a number + a pairing = get a fic! 

just a peck

kiss for 60 seconds

makeout

give a hickey

trade shirts with another player

truth or dare

drunk stories

do a bodyshot

bite someone’s lip

give a lapdance

lick someone’s neck

slap someone’s ass

7 minutes in heaven

give a mouth and ice massage until it’s molten

lick whipped cream off body part of their choice

eat chips off someone’s lap

remove one article of clothing

undress someone (one article of clothing of their choice)

take one article of someone’s clothing off with your mouth

get your lips close without touching, hold for 30 seconds

sit in someone’s lap

tie a cherry stem with you tongue

eat a banana without breaking eye contact

suck on someone’s fingers for 30 seconds

whisper something sexy into someone’s ear

never have I ever

go commando

reveal your biggest turn on

twerk for 30 seconds

act out a sex position with someone

talk dirty to them

2 truths 1 lie

french kiss

kiss their neck

cop a feel

dry hump

do a striptease

fake an orgasm

kiss down their spine

give a hickey to their inner thigh

do what they want, to them

they do what you want, to you

blindfold them, draw again

give a massage

tie their hands together, draw again

reveal your biggest sexual fantasy

perform an activity on someone of another player’s choice

take a shot of tequila off someone

feed someone something with your mouth

make a sex noise

send someone a sexy selfie

pinch someone’s butt

go into the shower together for 5 minutes (clothes optional)

blindfolded, let someone tie you up and give you a lapdance

Sexual Questions ;)

1. First kiss? 2. First time masturbating? 3. First sex toy? 4. First kink tried? 5. First time doing oral? 6. First time having sex?
 -Turn Ons 7. Biggest turn on? 8. Biggest turn off? 9. Quickest way to get horny? 10. Weirdest thing that ever turned you on? 11. Top 3 places to be touched? 12. Ultimate fantasy? 13. Do you like the idea of a three or moresome? 14. Do you send nudes? Do you like receiving them?
 -Preferences 15. Sex or masturbation? 16. Spit or swallow? 17. Cut or uncut dicks? 18. Rough or sensual sex? 19. Oldest person you’d sleep with? 20. Loud or quiet partners? 21. How much foreplay do you like? 22. How much teasing do you like? 23. What is too big for you to take? 24. Do you do hookups or only sleep with a partner? 25. How much kissing do you like during sex? 26. What’s the most attractive part of the body?
 -Location 27. Would you have sex in public? 28. Last place you had sex? 29. Where would you most like to have sex? 30. Do you like spontaneous sex, or do you need to be in the mood? 31. Could you go through with a hookup at a strangers house?
 -Kinks 32. What’s your biggest kink? 33. Are you okay with name calling in bed? 34. Would you do any BDSM? 35. Do you prefer to tie somebody up or be tied up? 36. Do you like orgasm denial/forced orgasm? 37. Do you like overstimulation? 38. Do you like having pain involved? 39. Do you like biting/being bitten? 40. Have you ever been made to/made somebody beg for it? 41. Do you have any strange or extreme kinks? 42. Have any roleplaying preferences? 
-Masturbation 43. Do you own sex toys? How many? 44. What do you masturbate to? 45. How often do you masturbate? 46. How often do you use sex toys to masturbate? 47. Do you masturbate with penetration? 48. Do you go for multiple rounds or settle at one or no orgasms?
 -Oral 49. Do you enjoy giving oral? 50. Do you prefer giving or receiving oral? 51. What makes you orgasm the fastest when receiving oral? 53. Can you deepthroat? 
54. Do you like playing with your clit? If so how do you prefer to do it? 55. What’s your breast size? 56. How often do you go braless? 57. Do you finger yourself? 58. How familiar are you with your g-spot? 59. Do you squirt?
 -Sex 60. How often do you do unprotected sex? 61. How loud are you in bed? 62. Do you enjoy having nipples played with? 63. Do you like/dislike cum? 64. How good are you at dirty talk? 65. Do you get sleepy after an orgasm? 
66. Do you trim, shave or leave pubic hair untouched? 67. How do you prefer partners pubic hair? 68. How many orgasms can you have in a day? 69. How many other people know your bra size? 70. What do you wear to bed? 71. Any funny sex stories? 72. What food if any would you use during sex? 73. Would you give somebody a sex toy as a gift? 74. What’s the weirdest porn you’ve ever seen? 75. Do you often get horny in public? 76. Ever used something that isn’t made for sex in the bedroom? 77. Have you ever walked in on somebody or been walked in on? 78. Do you have any friends you’d sleep with?

“I want you under me. On your back.

I'm sorry. You deserve more respect than that. But I can't stop thinking of it. Your arms and leg's around me. Your mouth, open for my kisses. I need too much of you. A lifetime of nights spent between your thighs wouldn't be enough.

I want to talk with you forever. I remember every word you've ever said to me.

If only I could visit you as a foreigner goes into a new country, learn the language of you, wander past all borders into every private and secret place, I would stay forever. I would become a citizen of you.”

— Lisa Kleypas, A Wallflower Christmas

*Narcissistic Personality Disorder* (NDP) is a mental health condition in which people have an unreasonably high sense of their own importance.

○ They need and seek too much attention and want people to admire them.

○ People with this disorder may lack the ability to understand or care about the feelings of others.

*How do narcissists act?*

*Narcissistic Personality Disorder* (NDP) involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and ones behaviour, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration

Others often describe people with NPD as *cocky,*

*manipulative,*

*selfish,*

*patronizing,*

and *demanding.*

*How does a narcissist apologize?*

*If* they do apologize, it's often insincere and accompanied by excuses or justifications for their behaviour, says Dr. Michael Kane, chief medical officer at Indiana Centre for Recovery.

*“They often & seldom shift the blame onto someone else or make empty promises to change in order to appease the situation,”* Kane notes

Here are some signs of *Narcissistic Personality Disorder Narcissism* vs. *Narcissistic Personality Disorder*

● Having narcissistic tendencies -- like bragging or making themself the centre of attention -- are normal when they occur occasionally.

Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) is different.

● Symptoms are more severe, occur across different situations and environments, and make relationships with others challenging, if not impossible.

Here, Zachary Rosenthal PhD, a clinical psychologist at Duke Health, answers questions about NPD and what you can do if you suspect that you or a loved one has the condition.

Dr. Zach Rosenthal discusses the symptoms of NPD, how it is diagnosed, and the individualized approach he takes for treating the disorder.

*What are the symptoms of narcissistic personality disorder?*

Use the acronym *“SPECIAL ME”* to remember the signs of NPD.

1. SPECIAL ME

1. Sense of self-importance

Preoccupation with power, beauty, or success

Entitled

Can only be around people who are important or special

Interpersonally exploitative for their own gain

Arrogant

Lack empathy

Must be admired

Envious of others or believe that others are envious of them

2. How is NPD diagnosed?

○ Trained mental health professionals conduct a structured interview to learn more about an individual’s typical behaviour patterns. If someone consistently displays at least five of the SPECIAL ME traits, they meet the diagnostic criteria for the condition.

*Is NPD genetic?*

*No, there is no gene for NPD, and people are not born with it.* Like other mental health conditions, the environment is a major factor. Children who are encouraged to believe they are extraordinary and always deserve the best - sometimes at the expense of others - could later develop NPD. In these children, traits like confidence are rewarded, while qualities like empathy are not.

○ *Are narcissists bad people?*

Narcissists are not bad people; *it’s their behaviour that’s problematic.* They have been conditioned to believe that they are special and deserve to be treated better than others and approach the world accordingly.

*Can I have a relationship with someone with NPD?*

It depends. If your romantic partner, family member, or boss has NPD, they can make your life challenging. Because they put themselves first, you may feel belittled, and your mental health could suffer. Coping strategies include setting personal boundaries and gently walking away if they are breached. However, this is not always easy to do. Calling your partner a narcissist won't help either. Instead, you should focus on your well-being and decide what you are willing to tolerate.

*Can people recover from NPD?*

Yes, but changing a learned behaviour takes time and effort. People with NPD do not generally seek help on their own, and if they do, it is often because of a co-existing problem, like anxiety. Because there is no proven medication or therapy to treat NPD, providers take an individualized approach. Getting to know the patient and establishing a trusting relationship are key components of treatment. If a person is willing to change and their therapist can help them bridge the gap between their current and desired behaviors, there is hope for recovery.

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— nipuna (via @nipsyyy)

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How does it feel to share your wife?

Open relationships and non-monogamous arrangements involve consensually and ethically engaging in romantic or sexual relationships with multiple partners. Here are some dos and don'ts to consider:

Dos:

Communication: Open and honest communication is crucial. Discuss your desires, boundaries, and expectations with your partner(s) openly and regularly.

Consent: All parties involved should provide informed and enthusiastic consent to ensure that everyone is comfortable with the arrangement.

Set Boundaries: Establish clear boundaries and rules that everyone agrees upon. These boundaries may include rules about safe sex, emotional involvement, or time management.

Respect: Treat all partners with respect and kindness. Respect their feelings and emotions, and be considerate of their needs.

Safe Sex: Practicing safe sex is essential to protect everyone's health. Discuss and agree on safe sex practices with all partners.

Regular Check-Ins: Continue to communicate and check in with your partner(s) and yourself to ensure that the arrangement is working for everyone involved.

Seek Support: Consider seeking support or guidance from a therapist or counselor experienced in non-monogamous relationships if you encounter challenges.

Don'ts:

Don't Cheat: Non-monogamy should always be consensual. Cheating or breaking established rules can lead to trust issues and harm in the relationship.

Don't Assume: Never assume that your partner(s) are comfortable with a particular situation or arrangement. Always ask and discuss.

Don't Neglect Existing Relationships: If you're in a primary or existing relationship, make sure to prioritize and nurture it. Non-monogamy should enhance, not replace, your current relationship(s).

Don't Ignore Emotions: Emotions like jealousy, insecurity, and fear can arise in non-monogamous relationships. Don't ignore these feelings; address them with open communication.

Don't Rush: Take your time in exploring non-monogamy. Rushing into it without proper communication and preparation can lead to problems.

Remember that non-monogamy isn't for everyone, and it's essential to find a relationship structure that works best for you and your partner(s). What's most important is that all parties involved feel comfortable, respected, and fulfilled within the agreed-upon arrangement.

"I'd rather focus on my hot, hot, hot wife." (7x09)