Latest Posts by i-am-a-learner-with-a-passion - Page 5

Your soul knows. It will always tell you when it's time to distance yourself from those who no longer align with you mentally, emotionally, physically, or energetically.

How can I get my wife to want to be with other men?

First… just start talking about how much you want to make her the most pleasured woman alive. Constantly tell her that you LOVE it when she loses her mind, and how important HER PLEASURE is to YOU feeling satisfied.

Next… talk about HER FANTASIES. ALL OF THEM… THE ones she's never told you, or maybe anyone about. Make sure she knows there is NOTHING she could think about that would make you feel anything but HAPPY that she had thoughts that excite her… or even scare her. Tell her not to be afraid. Tell her to WANT what it is that makes her hot… EVERYTHING that makes her hot. No exceptions. And, make sure she knows that if something makes her hot, it makes you hot, and that YOU WANT FOR HER, WHATEVER HER WILDEST FANTASY IS… In fact, you want ALL of her fantasies to be made real… ALL OF THEM.

Read her stories about hot wives being shared in many scenarios. Start with the wife being shared with men of the same race. Use stories about the other guy being a friend of the husband, or wife, or a co-worker… gauge her responses, because she may already know someone in any of these categories that she would LOVE to fuck or suck, if she wasn't afraid that you would be upset. When you read and she responds, be sure to SHOW HER how upset you are NOT, and how much YOU WANT HER TO HAVE EVERYTHING that makes her wet.

Progress to stories about the other guy being a different race… a different age, who speaks a different language… who has a GIANT cock, a fat cock… Any kind of cock different than yours. Depending on how she reacts to all of these, keep introducing new elements… Add a bit of domination, maybe a smattering of bisexuality where you, her husband and permanent life partner, ceremonially “deliver” her to the other guy by either holding her legs wide open while he enters her; you taking hold of the guys cock and inserting it into her; maybe even stroking or sucking the other cock to get it hard for her, or tasting her on the other cock after it has unloaded inside of her, and ALWAYS, “reclaiming her,” by licking her cum-filled pussy until she cums again.

Then, proceed to watching movies reflecting ALL of these stories you've been reading to her.

Lastly… consider going to a swing club “JUST TO WATCH,” where she can see how unbelievably pleasured hot wives get IN REAL LIFE… AND… how hot their husbands get by both watching AND participating.

If she is as hot as most women are when they stop being afraid of what their husbands will think of them… you'll be doing 3-ways, 4-ways, and more- ways, before you've watched a single video.

The KEY is making her know that there is NOTHING you would ever deny her in the realm of pleasure- seeking, or pleasure-realization. Not only will you not be mad if she wants strange dick (and/or pussy) but that YOU WANT IT FOR HER… AND… YOU WANT IT FOR YOU, TOO, BECAUSE WHEN YOU THINK ABOUT HER pushing back on a cock, raising her ass off the bed to meet his thrusts, hearing her scream shit she's never screamed with you, or forgetting even that he's in the room with you… that you CAN'T WAIT to find a place to beat your dick like you've never beat it before.

EVERY GOOD GIRL WANTS TO BE A BAD GIRL. They're just afraid of the potential consequences, because all of their life they've been told NOT to want things that WOMEN NATURALLY WANT EVERY BIT AS MUCH AS MEN.

Put her mind at ease. Tell her to let her body take over and ship her mind off to Jamaica. Let her know that sharing these things will bring you closer together, not farther apart. Help her to know that EVERY FEELING she has is normal, natural, NOT “BAD”… and that YOU ARE GIVING HER THE FREEDOM TO “BE” THE BADDEST GIRL SHE CAN BE, so long as everything you do… YOU DO TOGETHER. Other than that… there are no rules EXCEPT that HER PLEASURE IS ALL THAT MATTERS… to you, as well as to her.

You are doing nothing more than separating your love from your lust. You will love her MORE, when you see her become THE MOST PLEASURED WOMAN ALIVE… knowing that the two of you are FOREVER… and that any man (woman, or both) that she USES FOR HER PLEASURE is nothing more than a vibrator with a heartbeat.

Follow these instructions and I assure you, you will know pleasure you could not previously have imagined.

Good luck, and have incredible fun.

*The Part of Your Body You Wash First In A Bath Shows A Lot About Your Personality*

In this article show

If you are a morally upright and decent human being, then you would consider hygiene to be a very important aspect of your daily routine. And that might mean you taking a bath every morning as you get ready to face the day that’s in front of you. You might even have a solid routine already locked down with regard to your bathing habits.

However, you have to know that the way in which you take a bath can say a lot about your personality. The way that one person might take a bath isn’t necessarily going to be the same as how other people do it.

You might not really have noticed, but typically, when you take a bath, you’re going to go straight to a specific body part. And on a subconscious level, the body part that you choose to wash first can say a lot about what kind of personality you have.

And if you’re curious as to what kind of implications your bathing habits can have on your personality, then just continue to read on until the end of this article. Check which personality traits and characteristics come with what body part you choose to wash first.

1. *Face*

If you are the type of person who proceeds to wash your face right away when you take a bath, then this is what that says about you. You are someone who likes to tend to your 5 basic senses – taste, smell, touch, sight, and hearing. It means that you care a lot about how other people see you and how you are perceived by those around you.

That’s why you want to make sure that you are always taking care of your face. You know that this is the first thing people see when they look at you. You often find yourself feeling anxious about thinking of how other people perceive you.

2. *Arms, Legs & Feet*

When you go straight for the limbs when you take a bath, then it’s likely that you are a very humble, simple, and down-to-earth human being. Your limbs are symbols of your strength and resilience. But it also shows that you are very grounded and you don’t get lost in the flash of it all.

You are very vocal, and you always like to express yourself freely – whether it be through physical gestures or verbal declarations. You are an animated soul, and your energy is seemingly boundless.

3. *Private Organs*

It’s very interesting when you wash your private parts first because it’s not really what most people would think of when they picture you in the shower. You are someone who has a very shy and reserved personality. In fact, you might be so shy to the point that you might even have a few self-esteem issues.

You are someone who has a difficult time standing up for yourself. But you are also someone who is very capable of making the people around you feel comfortable with your company.

4. *Chest*

It’s all about confidence for you when you find yourself gravitating towards your chest immediately when you step into the shower. It’s likely that you are very much comfortable in your own skin whenever you start scrubbing your chest when you are taking a bath. You are someone who likes to be very straightforward about your thoughts and opinions. You also have a very pragmatic personality.

You are very independent, and people are often inspired by your self-sufficient personality. You are a go-getter who always works hard for what you want.

5. *Hair*

If you are someone who immediately washes your hair the moment you step into the shower, then you are definitely someone who is obsessed with order, structure, and discipline. You take a top-to-bottom approach in bathing. And you carry that kind of structure with you into your daily life as well.

You are also very practical. You have a very strong opinion on things, and you firmly believe that your mind is one of your greatest assets. You do a lot to take care of your brain. And you are never one who is shy about sharing an opinion with other people.

6. *Shoulders and Neck*

You are probably one of the most hardworking people you are ever going to know in your life. The reason you go to your neck and shoulders first is that these are often the most stressful parts of your body. You are stressed because you always find yourself hustling and working hard.

You are also incredibly competitive, and you always like to be staying ahead of the pack. You always want to have a leg-up on the competition.

7. *Back*

You are someone who watches your back… "literally. You find it very hard to be trusting of other people. You don’t typically like to let other people into your life so quickly or so easily. This is probably because of the traumatic experience of betrayal that you have had in the past.

Group sex can provide healing and pleasure to all individuals involved. It can even keep intimacy exciting and unique. This is because the group could be strictly females or males or one that consists of males and females making love to each other.

Why is sex with married women more fun?

Fucking taken women:-

There is nothing - NOTHING - that gets men off harder than fucking taken women. Girlfriends, wives, fiancées, mother's. As long as she is in a relationship, it makes guys extra hard.

What a feeling of power to claim what should be his; that smug, gloating feeling of victory as they hold her ankles by their ears and plow into her “committed” pussy.

Nothing like it. Heightened when he Fucks the married lady on his pillow on her Marital bed.

There are many reasons but few main reasons as below

One it’s the voluptuousness of the MILF younger lot is very skinny which doesn’t fit into their definition of hot. Second it’s safe bet they don’t insist for longer relationship . Third they themselves try to keep it secret.

Fourth they can spend money and can take care of financial aspect of the relationship.

Of course they are more experienced and willing to try new things. Lastly and most important is their hunger to get satisfied

Her unavailability is the most attractive thing. She is adorable yet not available. The fact that this amazing woman belongs to somebody else. No matter how hard he tries to win her, he knows that the game is already won by someone else even before this guy participated in it.

Hence the curiousity of playing it yet again!

The other factor is that she will not really ask for commitment and there are hardly any responsibilities attached to such a relationship. In case she too falls for it, it's a great opportunity to have a blissful carefree relationship free of responsibilities!

Its the fact its Taboo, and amazingly HOT to bed a married woman. She belongs to another guy and is supposed to be committed to him. But due to him either working long hours and neglecting her needs or a bad performer in bed; she has elected to seek out a new Alpha Male somewhere else. I know this sounds bad but, from a Man’s POV, there is nothing more sexually arousing then to sleep with another man’s wife, taking forbidden fruit. Even worse when the woman allows you to go bare back and you are inseminating's another man’s woman. SO TABOO!

A thing which is taboo actually gives more adventure and a man wished this to happen sometime.

Stop letting people consume you. they didn’t call? go to sleep. they didn’t message you? put your phone down and have a better day. they left you on read? delete the conversation. they didn’t make an effort? match their energy. never let your happiness depend on anyone

Why do sometimes really weird & unexplainable things kind of happen?

Looking at the Theoretical Intersection between Anatomy & Physiology & Electronics

***This is coming from the perspective of attempting to explain (in the most simple ways possible) how foreign advanced technology possibly “hacks” the foundations of organic life. ***

Our bodies are composed of nerves. When electricity goes from one nerve and travels to another nerve then an action occurs. When something in our environment is sensed (like hearing a noise) our organs are able to sense the information & produce electricity to carry that information back to the brain to be processed.

Anatomically we have the brain, the spinal cord, our sensory organs, cranial nerves, and “all the other individually named nerves” that branch off of those.

(There is further differentiation between central nervous system, peripheral nervous system, & autonomic, and other ways to differentiate in anatomy and physiology, but for simplicity this is how I will refer to it).

Cranial nerves are differentiated out on the list in comparison to “other nerves” because they are a specific list of major nerves that do very important & essential functions in the body.

So, nerves act as a path for electricity to follow. This electricity can produce voluntary action or involuntary actions.

Choosing to raise your hand we consider voluntary action produced by the nervous system. When something occurs without your conscious choice & occurs automatically, it is considered an involuntary action of the nervous system. For example, your heart beating would be an involuntary action.

Nerves have gaps between them & in this space neurotransmitters are released. Neurotransmitters are chemicals with the ability to cause another nerve to have an action. Neurotransmitters have different actions at different places in the body. After neurotransmitters are released they stay in this space until they are broken down by the body. The body breaks down the neurotransmitters and attempts to recycle the components to be used to make other things in the body.

Our bodies are able to use electricity because of many processes, but one major one is because we store electrolytes. Our organs and tissues use electrolytes like Sodium and Potassium to create electrical charge. This “electrical spark” causes electricity to generate so that it can be conducted through the nerves.

The human body is very complex & requires more than just electricity to function due to many components of its design, but each neuron as an individual unit is incredibly similar functionally to wires bundled into computer cables.

How does this process intersect with technology?

If someone were to attempt to hurt you with insidiously with technology it could create A LOT of very weird experiences.

If you know how to electrically stimulate parts of the body, like if you put an electrical stimulator/microchip/or another component that alters electricity in someone’s nervous system you could do a lot of weird things that people with no medical background would struggle to explain.

Machinery causing electrical impulses or “shocks” to be sent to certain part of the brain can produce many effects.

If someone sent electrical impulses down the cranial nerves it would produce a wide range of effects.

If certain cranial nerves were stimulated by someone controlling a technological component then someone could cause your body to involuntarily do the following by stimulating one of the 12 cranial nerves with electricity:

Involuntarily, as if your body moved on its own, you could feel the following:

> Your eyes to move in a certain direction, like your eyes are “locking on” to an object. Similar to how a computer program is able to “lock on” to a target

> Cause your vocal cords to move even when your mouth isn’t open

>Jaw movement & other motions of the face

>cause vertigo/dizziness/altered proprioception or your sense of orientation in space. So a lot of the symptoms of being inebriated

>control of your tongue muscles

> ***Vagus nerve or cranial nerve 10 does a lot, tampering with it could do a lot of weird things *** Possibly weird respiratory and/or internal organ symptoms like shortness of breath, changes in swallowing like dysphagia, vocal hoarseness, & many other possible and serious side effects

> Specific neck movements & turns of the head

You could also produce the sensations in someone of:

>hearing voices that aren’t there or altered processing, they talk but it’s like you can’t understand

>hearing sounds that aren’t there or altered hearing

>seeing images that aren’t there or altered sight

>smelling things that aren’t there or altered smell

>feeling things that aren’t there or altered feeling

>tasting things that aren’t there or altered taste

All of these actions and the degree to which you could “control it” would vary. Some of these are more technically complex to do, but at the most basic level “micromovements” from even just these few nerves are highly likely.

Our bodies have more than just electricity that contribute to our ability to do voluntary control as a defensive system to prevent these types of tampering events from occurring, but I think on a basic level it would still be possible to do some of these micromovements.

Without a lot of technological advancement required, the most worrying to me is a combination of seizures (which can occur when you just overload something with electricity) and/or lots of trauma producing something similar to disassociation & making people hear voices. It unfortunately often produces a mind control like feeling where other people attempt to control and/or influence your behavior.

I think in the quest for mind control, some very bad people use these types of things to hurt other people & technological advancements in subliminal messaging have greatly hurt the world through our time.

In order to fix things I think we must first understand them.

10 Clear Signs Your Wife Hates You

It’s a sad reality that love could degenerate into hatred.

When lovers are starting, they never anticipate a day will come when they will start to loathe each other.

That spouse you can’t live without may gradually become your worst nightmare.

Getting to this point is usually gradual.

This is why marriage is hard work.

It’s for two adults, a man and his wife, who would keep choosing each other each new day.

A woman who loved you passionately from the beginning won’t just start hating for no reason.

Something must trigger it.

It starts with anger, and then resentment builds,

Over time, it becomes a full-blown hatred.

Many women have moved the level of deep affection for their husbands to nursing feelings of hatred for them.

As a matter of fact, getting to this point means the marriage is almost over, except steps are taken to address the issues that brought about this.

Have you seen some behaviours in your wife lately that were absent from the beginning?

You can’t stop wondering what happened to your ever-sweet wife.

It has gotten so bad that she doesn’t care if anything happens to you.

And amid arguments, she won’t stop telling you how much she hates you.

I’m afraid to tell you that you don’t need to take that as mere words.

The following are signs your wife hates you.

1. *She stops caring about you.*

When a woman who once cared about every detail about you stops showing she cares, it’s a red signal.

And it would help if you didn’t take it lightly.

Naturally, women are nurturing beings.

When they are in love, everyone knows.

They put in so much effort, and one of the ways they express this love is to show care.

From constant verbal expressions of their love to showering their husband’s gifts,

They want the men in their lives happy.

They are always ready to go the extra mile to make their husband happy.

If your wife has been doing this but suddenly stops, it’s a clear indication that there’s fire on the mountain, and if you still treasure what you both share, you may need to take deliberate steps to salvage your home.

2. *She stops being intimate with you.*

Whenever you try to make sexual advances to her, and she rejects it constantly, it’s a pointer to the fact that she hates you.

No matter how much you try to catch her attention through your gestures, she’d have none of it.

And no, there’s no way you can force her to do what she’s not willing to do.

Women usually attach emotions to sex, making giving themselves to someone they don’t love difficult.

But she will readily give herself to you when she’s happy and in love.

3. *She stops showing interest in your affairs*

One of the ways couples express love to each other is through the interest they show in their spouse’s endeavors.

If she’s ever-present in every aspect of your life,

She’s always available to support and encourage you at all times.

But she stops showing interest, and she sounds so indifferent when you fill her in on some crucial steps you’re taking,

It shows she has lost her love for you.

And at this time, she’s only putting up with you.

4. *She starts criticizing and belittling you*

Sharp criticisms from people we love hit deeper than from people who know little or nothing about us.

When your wife, who used to believe so much in you and gave herself to ensuring that you become the best version of yourself, starts criticizing and belittling your efforts,

It’s a sign that she has developed a hatred for you.

Everything you do nauseates her.

She makes you feel you’re not good enough.

She taunts you with her words.

To her, nothing you do makes sense.

5. *She starts making decisions on her own*

Before now, you both made decisions together as a couple.

You both consider many factors before you pick the most logical one.

Even to the minutest details, she carries you along.

Of course, this is how a healthy marriage should be.

But now, she makes decisions independently without running them by you.

Sometimes, you get to know when she mentions it in passing or don’t even hear of it.

She starts saying, *“I don’t owe you an explanation.”*

And she is unbothered about your feelings.

She deliberately makes these moves to spite you, and she doesn’t give a damn.

*This is a sign that she hates you.*

6. *She stonewalls*

From constantly arguing with you, she could start stonewalling.

She gives a silent treatment.

When she notices your presence, she leaves the room.

She avoids having conversations with you.

Her response to your questions is always a one-word answer or silence.

She treats you as if you don’t exist.

It’s an obvious sign that your presence disgusts her.

7. *She starts doing the exact thing you hate*

Being with you for some time, she knows what you like and hate.

Once she starts doing those things you hate and she refuses to budge no matter how you talk to her about it,

It’s an indication that she has lost her love for you.

When a woman loves her husband, she does everything to please him. One of which is doing what he likes and avoiding what he hates.

8. *She stops confiding in you*

When she stops discussing essential matters about her with you,

She now seems to you like a stranger and not a wife.

And you observe that her friends and family have become her confidant, which means she has lost her love for you.

When love is lost, trust will surely be missing as well.

9. *She tells you, The female gender is an interesting and mostly emotional bunch.*

When in love, they invest their words, time, and resources, including their emotions.

Most women won’t hesitate to express their love verbally.

However, when your once-loving wife looks you in the eye and tells you she hates you.

Please just know that there is fire on the mountain!

Her words are an indication of how she truly feels.

10. *She starts being unfaithful*

This seems to be the height of it all.

A woman who loves you will do everything to see that the marriage works.

She makes every effort to ensure that her love for you is sustained.

However, when you observe that she starts getting emotionally attached to someone else without giving a damn about how you feel,

It’s a clear indication that you’ve lost her.

Some women whose husbands cheated on them sometimes do this to pay back.

*_Conclusion_*

For many reasons, a woman who once loved you starts developing hatred toward you.

When there’s a misunderstanding in the home, it’s essential to resolve it.

If you allow it to linger, you already give room for resentment.

Once hatred sets in, it’s almost impossible to save that marriage, yet, it’s not impossible to resolve it.

Especially if you both still want the marriage.

*A prostitute died, and on the same day, the old sanyasi who lived opposite her also died. It is a matter of coincidence.*

The Gods who had come to take her started taking the sanyasi to hell and the prostitute to heaven.

The sanyasi immediately stood up, throwing his stick. What kind of injustice are you doing?

You are taking me to hell and the prostitute to heaven, you must have made some mistake, there must have been some official mistake, investigate… the message of heaven must have come in my name and the message of hell in her name.

Let me face God, let us have a few words, my whole life was spent in reading scriptures – and this is the result.

God unnecessarily deceived me.

She was taken to God, God said there is a deep reason behind this, the prostitute used to drink alcohol, lived in pleasures, but when you used to sit in the temple and sing bhajans, light incense sticks, ring the bells, then she used to think when will I get this good fortune in my life, will I be able to sit in the temple and sing bhajans or not, she She used to cry a lot, and when the fragrance of your incense reached her house, she considered herself fortunate, she used to get ecstatic on hearing the sound of bells.

But even while praying, your mind used to think that the prostitute is beautiful, but how to reach there?

You could not muster courage. Your reputation came in the way - the people of the whole village considered you a sanyasi.

When the prostitute used to dance, liquor used to be distributed, lust used to arise in your mind, you were interested, you kept considering yourself unfortunate.. that is why the prostitute was brought to heaven and you to hell.

The conscience of the prostitute used to call you lust. She used to pray, and you had a desire for lust.

She was in the mud but kept rising like a lotus, and you came as a lotus, remained stuck in the mud.

The real question is not what you are from outside. The real question is, what are you from inside?

The deciding factor is within.

How do I know if I am a bisexual man??

Anonymous because still in the closet.

Here’s how I finally accepted my bisexuality.

Now I have had hints of it for years in my life from unwitting attraction and responses from close interaction with other males and unwanted fantasies.

This somewhat spiraled into dabbling in gay erotica which threw a spanner int he works of my sexual identity in a heap of ways even to where i questioned my gender but i suppressed it focused on some other things in life and dated and had sex with exclusively women.

Then HE came into my life: Picture this.

● Snarky, hyper intelligent and sweet natured.

● A flat out 10/10 better looking than any celeb i can think of and pretty well built with the most charming demeanour and a smile that could explode someones heart from a mile away .

● For some insane reason attracted to me.

● Forward and quite domineering but gentle and easygoing.

So you can imagine what happened to the big grouchy reserved guy with a complete lack of confidence in his sexuality.

I fell head over heels .

We had a lot of interactions escapades and so on and were a great match.

My heart damn near exploded seeing his gorgeous smile and feeling him touch and hug me while i was the bigger guy he had all the confidence and allowed me to come out of my shell.

I could happily listen to him talk about anything and the quiet moments were tender though i had to keep it a secret , it actually added a little layer of electricity.

But these little foibles dont last.

And the rest is a bit much to put on here but you know.

were separated by life we both went off to the world in opposite directions and we knew it was just a temp thing : I moved on to a wonderful relationship with a woman again who was as amazing as the guy before she was kind sweet tender and we had a wonderful relationship though we split in the end amicably.

I never found the guy again.

In the end I resolved that no matter what male or female if i get that spark of attraction that both this girl and guy gave me and the happiness it lead to no matter how long or short im going for it.

And that falls under the word bisexual,

BEWARE OF "ONE DAY"

1. ONE DAY you will lock your door, but you will not be the one to open it.

2. ONE DAY you will wash those best clothes of yours and you will not be able to wear it.

3. ONE DAY your favourite food will be prepared, and you will not be there to eat it anymore.

4. ONE DAY you will eat and drink what you will never excrete.

5. ONE DAY your curriculum vitae and all your years of experience will not matter to anyone anymore.

6. ONE DAY the person who seems to love you most will never dare to move closer to you.

7. ONE DAY you will think of what you can never accomplish.

8. ONE DAY you will be regarded as "a corpse"

9. ONE DAY you will be isolated in a place called "grave"

10. ONE DAY those things and people you love most will come your way, but you will not be able to give any attention to it/them.

11. ONE DAY you will hold your breath and never be able to release it.

12. ONE DAY you will become a defendant before The Chief Judge (GOD).

13. ONE DAY housefly/ termites will come your way, and you will be unable to chase them.

14. ONE DAY you will receive a call that you can never decline.

15. ONE DAY your name will be called, but no one will answer.

16. ONE DAY the assets you cherished most will be taken by another person.

17. ONE DAY your deed on Earth will be presented to you like a CD.

18. ONE DAY a title will be added to your name "The Late"

19. ONE DAY the Great Allocator will allocate you to an appropriate place.

20. ONE DAY that your beautiful skin will turn to its original nature-sand/dust.

21. ONE DAY your entire body will cease operation. The verb will change from he is a good man to he was a good man.

22. ONE DAY you will be given an eternal apartment, either Paradise or hell.

23. ONE DAY you will not be able to hold or type anything on this phone anymore.

Take LIFE easy, DO GOOD, and run from EVIL. Be at peace with everyone, and love your neighbour as yourself.

May God Almighty have Marcy on us 🙏🙏

I realized I'll always be in love with you because it was never about looks or what you could give me. I fell in love with your soul, so your mistakes never changed the depth of my love for you. I love you.

What Women Wish You Knew about Dating:

A Single Guy'S Guide To Romantic Relationships

If the difference between guys and men is still unclear.

Here are a few examples that apply to dating:

○ A guy uses women to build his self-esteem.

● A man already has it.

○ A guy likes to "hang out" with a woman he's interested in.

● A man asks her out.

○ A guy doesn't make a move until he's sure there's no risk.

● A man is bold and clear with his intentions.

○ A guy plays games with a woman.

● A man has no time for games because they keep him from getting to know the woman.

○ A guy will become bitter and angry with a woman when she denies him.

● A man accepts that dating involves risk.

○ A guy fears and worships women.

● A man respects and adores them but fears and worships only God.

☆ Guys are cool and indifferent

BUT

● Men are hot and passionate.

*"A Woman......."*

A woman becomes so sweet and delicious when she is in bed with a man who she senses loves and enjoys her, that the pleasure she brings excels all delight.

A woman becomes truly radiant when she is with a man who appreciates her for who she is. His genuine admiration and affection bring out the best in her, making her feel confident and cherished.

A woman becomes more open and vulnerable when she feels completely safe and loved by her partner. This vulnerability is not a sign of weakness but a testament to the strength of their bond. It allows her to express her true desires and emotions, knowing she will be met with understanding and compassion.

A woman becomes empowered when she is with a man who respects and values her autonomy. He encourages her to pursue her passions and supports her ambitions, creating a partnership built on mutual respect and admiration.

A woman becomes a source of endless delight when she is with a man who continuously nurtures their relationship. His consistent efforts to show love and appreciation strengthen their bond, making every moment together special.

A woman blossoms into her full potential when she is with a man who believes in her capabilities. His unwavering support and confidence in her abilities inspire her to reach new heights, fostering a sense of self-assurance that permeates every aspect of her life.

A woman becomes more adventurous and willing to explore new experiences when she feels her partner's excitement and enthusiasm. His encouragement to step out of her comfort zone allows her to discover new passions and create lasting memories, enriching their shared journey.

A woman becomes deeply connected to her partner when she senses his emotional availability and vulnerability. His openness to share his feelings and experiences creates a safe space for her to do the same, deepening their emotional intimacy and trust.

A woman becomes a beacon of joy and positivity when she is with a man who consistently brings laughter and light into her life. His sense of humour and playful spirit uplift her, making their time together filled with happiness and delight.

A woman becomes resilient and strong when she is with a man who stands by her during challenging times. His unwavering support and belief in her ability to overcome obstacles empower her to face difficulties with courage and determination.

*Yes, A Woman....*

*What are some of the signs that you are falling in love with someone*

1. If you're falling in love with someone, you might find yourself feeling physically attracted to them and wanting to be close to them.

2. When you're falling in love, you might find that you miss the other person when they're not around. You feel lonely when they're not there.

3. When you're falling in love, you might find that you're constantly thinking about the person and wondering what they're doing, how they're feeling, and when you'll see them again.

4. Falling in love often involves a strong emotional connection to the other person. You may feel a sense of deep caring and compassion for them.

5. When you're falling in love, you probably enjoy spending time with the person and love his/her company.

6. When you're falling in love, you may feel a strong desire to make the other person happy and to do things that will bring a smile to their face.

7. You’re comfortable with making little sacrifices for them.

8. When you're falling in love, you might want to spend as much time with the other person as possible.

9. When you're falling in love, you might find that you want to do things to make the other person happy. You might go out of your way to do things that make them feel loved and appreciated.

10. When they’re sad, you’re genuinely sad too.

*Take Note:*

It's important to note that everyone experiences love differently, and these signs may vary from person to person.

How do I give in to my husband's wife sharing fantasy?

My husband wanted to share me with his best friend. I was very much against it on moral grounds. He was nice enough and treated me well when he was over at our house. He had flirted with me a few times but always restrained and subtle, more like pleasant flattery about my hair or how I was dressed than anything sexual. My husband asked me once if I thought I would hate having sex with his friend. I told that I most likely wouldn’t hate it actually doing it but I would hate how I felt about myself for doing it.

I’m not a religious girl but I am spiritual and having sex outside my marriage didn’t sit well with me spiritually. He told me several times that I had his permission to cheat and therefore it wouldn’t be cheating, perhaps that’s true, but for me it would still feel like cheating. Sometime after that, he asked me if there was anything I wanted to do that I hadn’t been doing where his friend could accompany me.

I knew he was trying to find something that I’d find acceptable to go somewhere or do something that would have me spending time with his friend in hopes it would lead to something. I really did miss cultural activities like art museums, theater, symphony concerts, it was really a long list. He’d never refused to got with me but over the 8 years of our marriage, his lack of interest and enthusiasm meant I went less often with him. I did do those kinds of things by myself or with a girlfriend but gradually went less and less often.

So I told him that yes, if his friend wanted to go to an art museum with me, I would go. His friend wasn’t all that knowledgeable about art but he was curious and most importantly, he listened to me. He was genuinely attentive to my thoughts and feelings. That’s how it began and we did things like that more often and before too long, we were dating. What I mean my dating is that he took me places, we talked and laughed and I let him kiss me.

After a few dates where he kissed me, I found myself getting sexually aroused when we kissed and at some point I came to the realization that I wanted him to seduce me. I wanted to get myself into a compromising situation and just let things proceed gently but inevitably into letting him take complete advantage of me. I didn’t want to have to take responsibility for actually making a decision to allow him to have sex with me.

He must have known what it would take. He took me to an opera performance out of town. The only part of it I really planned was I bought a new nightgown, tastefully but alluring. That’s how I gave in to my husband’s wife sharing fantasy. One small step at a time. I feel something like that might work for you, assuming it’s something you really want to do.

MEN ARE LETTING DOWN WOMEN

Men are easily disposable,

Women are indisposable,

During a crisis, a war, or a violent uprisal, the tyrannical opponent targets the man because men are easily disposable.

That is why it is easier for a despot to shoot and kill a man in cold blood and behave ignorant and unremorseful.

But women are indisposable, and for this reason, they easily become the engine of any uprisal.

It is difficult to contain a protest where women are at the forefront providing a buffer for men to escalate the combat.

Women are the most vocal and the most animated.

They stoke the fire, escalate the push , and accelerate the combat.

Why is this so?

Because women want men to step up and fight for them.

Because women want a life where their offspring can easily access food and other essential resources.

Because women have the daunting role of nurturing offspring into the next generation.

Therefore , they are the first to raise the alarm, and thereby, men have to come out of their armoury and attack the villain.

Women feed the warriors. They nurse the injured. They covertly collect intelligence information from the opponent.

They even choose to sleep with the enemy.

This is to ensure their men rise up and advance with the combat.

History has all this written in our Afrikan books of literature.

From The Abushiri revolt to the Chimurenga war to the Maji Maji rebellion to the Mau Mau revolt to the Dahomey revolution.

This is how nature made it.

When thieves raid a village, it is women who have been gifted with the role of alerting the men using their high-pitched screams.

However, in a society where men are effeminate, and women are becoming masculine, such combat will suffer fatigue in the early phase of escalation.

Women will get tired because men will have lost the drive to push forward.

— and effeminate men will betray the combat, they will be traitors and betrayers of the combat, this is why in ancient times, when a warrior was captured by the opponent, he was deported, excommunicated or terminated.

Because once captured, he will throw the combat under the bus, and the entire dream will fizzle. To be rekindled again by another generation of agitated women.

Therefore, men must rise up, and we must continue fixing our frames and mindsets. We must resist any attempts by the enemy to enrol us in the Roman circus to numb the fire in our bellies.

Resist any attempts to corrupt your character for thirty pieces of silver.

This corruption will leave an ugly indelible mark in your soul that will devour you forever.

Therefore, men, before you lose hope, remember why your woman raised the alarm.

Don't bury her voice in your digestive organs.

👌👌👌👌

Awesome psychological facts

1. Life doesn't change, but people do, learn to accept that not everybody is who you thought you knew.

2. Crying is good for your health, it flushes unhealthy bacteria from your body, strengthening the immune system and relieving stress.

3. You can't see your reflection in boiling water, similarly, you can't see the truth in your life in a state of anger.

4. Some people are genetically more susceptible to perceiving negative events with more intensity and severity than others.

5. People who hide their feelings usually care the most.

6. Never give up on something you really want, it's difficult to wait but worse to regret.

7. The happier you are, the less sleep you require to function every day life. Sadness increases the urge to sleep more.

8. Your brain treats rejection like physical pain.

9. If you don't dream you most likely have some sort of personality disorder.

10. The people who give the best advice are usually the ones with the most problems.

11. Being alone for a long time is as bad for your health as smoking 15 cigarettes a day.

12. If saliva can't dissolve something, you can't taste it.

13. People who blush easily, are more generous and trustworthy than those who don't.

Do upvote and follow for more

14. People blink faster when they are lying or are under stress.

15. When you hold the hand of the one you love, it reduces both mental and physical pain.

Thank you for reading 😊

Is life all about money

Everyday millions of people get up early in the morning, dress up and rush off to work - for what?

Billions of people around the world work for a boss they don’t like, go to a company that they do not like, work for a job they do not like and deal with customers they do not enjoy serving - why?

There are individuals, politicians, businessmen, con-men, fraudsters, company’s, organizations and even countries who lie, cheat, steal, fight and even kill each other - for what?

Even if you want to eat food, have a simple internet connection or even a decent pair of clothes - what do you need?

After children are born - why do you think parents put them in school to get a good education pass out of schools, universities and get a good career to do what?

No matter how romantically anyone puts it - end of the day - everyone on this planet and I mean EVERY SINGLE PERSON on this planet works, lives and exists for earning MONEY.

If you have loads of it - your life gets better. And if you do not have it - your life is absolutely useless.

So is life all about money?

100%. Better believe it.

And if you have any doubts - remember this much - even the religious folks and ALL religions ask you for one thing and one thing alone in exchange for prayers, favors and celestial blessings - and that one thing is……

The narcissist will refuse to discuss…

The narcissist will refuse to discuss what triggered you, but they'll gladly demonize how you reacted. They'll twist the narrative to shift the focus away from their own harmful behavior and onto your emotional response. They'll gaslight you into believing that your feelings are the problem, that you're the one who's too sensitive, too emotional, too crazy.

They'll use your reaction as evidence of your supposed flaws, as proof that you're the one who's broken, who's defective. They'll tell you that you're overreacting, that you're being too dramatic, that you're making a big deal out of nothing.

But they'll never, ever take responsibility for their own actions. They'll never acknowledge the hurt they've caused, the pain they've inflicted. They'll never validate your feelings or apologize for their own behavior.

Instead, they'll continue to manipulate and control, using your emotional response as a weapon against you. They'll use it to silence you, to shame you, to keep you in line.

But don't fall for it. Don't let them convince you that your feelings are the problem. Don't let them gaslight you into believing that you're the one who's crazy.

You are not crazy. Your feelings are valid. And the narcissist's behaviour is not your fault.

Be with someone who will take care of you. Not materialistically, but take care of your soul, your well-being, your heart.

i’ll wait like a dog for you

crawling at your feet

begging for scraps from the dinner table

but i’m happier here

because you told me i should be

looking up at you from my shallow grave

my body grows cold as i wait for the next time you’ll want me

you’re the one who haunts me at night

watching as i call your name when i cum